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Buckle up: Today’s show is one you’ve all been waiting for…and spoiler alert, it’s all about me! I sat down with my good friend Falguni to flip the script and spill the tea on what sex with Emily is actually like (pun intended)! Tune in to hear me get up close and personal about my sexual journey, why I faked my orgasms until my 30s, and sex trends that I see making a comeback in the near future.
In this episode you’ll learn:
How I stopped having performative sex
How to push past the pleasure thieves for fulfilling sex
My go-to positions and products for the best orgasms
Show Notes:
Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE!
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In today’s gut-busting episode I dive deep into the tango between your belly's bacteria and your sexual wellness. And who better to guide us through this intestinal intrigue than Tina Anderson, the gut guru and CEO of Just Thrive, the brand whose mission is to reboot your microbiome. Prepare to have your life changed as Tina spills the beans on how bacteria in your gut really calls the shots, influencing everything from your mood swings to your mojo.
Buckle up, lovers and health hackers, as we explore the steamy science that'll have you rethinking your next date night dinner.
In this episode you’ll learn:
What low libido, keeping the spark alive, erectile challenges, and gut issues all have in common
How hormones and the gut biome each affect each other in a bi-directional system
Why the 3 pleasure thieves (stress, trauma, and shame) also impact our general health and wellness
Show Notes:
Just Thrive (use this link to automatically get 20% off sitewide at checkout!)
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It’s 2024, and there’s no denying that everybody has sexual needs. However, it can be really difficult to articulate them and share them with your partner. On today’s throwback Ask Emily show, I’m here to help you take that vital next step and get your needs fulfilled. From those who’ve never had an orgasm before to those who just want to communicate with their partners better, I’ve got you!
Just remember: for every sex problem, there is a path forward.
In this episode you’ll learn:
How to communicate your sexual needs (even if your partner shuts down sex convos)
Techniques to give your partner a crazy orgasm
What to do if your partner desires things you might not be sure about like swinging
Show Notes:
Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE!
Promescent.com/Emily (Use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout!)
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The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Today I revisit my conversation with Dolly Josette, the PleasureMuse who turned the world of breathwork into the ultimate erotic adventure! Imagine unlocking a treasure chest of sensations and full-body orgasms you never knew you had with the work of meditation.. Dolly isn't just any guide on this journey; she's the Gandalf of sexual enlightenment, hailed by the high councils of Cosmopolitan and Hustler Magazines as a pioneering Sexological Bodyworker. But what truly sets her apart isn't the accolades; it's her magical ability to awaken the dormant erotic energy within women and couples, guiding them from numbness to dizzying heights of orgasmic bliss. So, if the idea of exploring the vast, uncharted territories of pleasure sounds good to you, Dolly Josette is ready to lead the way!
In this episode you’ll learn:
How to hack your nervous system for better sex
Why so many vulva owners are trained to numb from the waist down (and how to fix it!)
How to become a great masturbator
Show Notes:
Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE!
More Dolly Josette - The Pleasure Muse
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The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Mental health and sexual desire – do you have to choose between one or the other? It's a conundrum that's more common than you think, and it's a topic that's sure to get you thinking! Antidepressants like Lexapro can be lifesavers for many, but they can also leave you feeling a little, well, deflated in the bedroom department. On the other hand, if your depression goes untreated, it can be tough to get in the mood. So, how do you navigate this predicament?
Today, we're diving into the nitty-gritty of this struggle, and you'll hear from some of our listeners who've been there.
In this episode you’ll learn:
How to understand the effects your mental health has on your sex drive
Sexy strategies to manage the side effects of antidepressants
Alternative treatments and lifestyle changes to maximize your pleasure
Show Notes:
Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE!
The Experimental Generation of Interpersonal Closeness (36 Questions)
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The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
LELO (use code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all other products)
LELO DOT Travel
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It's commonly said that the brain is the most significant sexual organ in the human body. But is it possible to manipulate our brains to enhance happiness or even improve our sexual experiences? Dr. Daniel Amen, a psychiatrist and acclaimed author, has compiled the most extensive collection of brain scans globally. Through analyzing this data, he has uncovered intriguing insights: by adopting habits grounded in neuroscience, we can significantly enhance our mental well-being, elevate our mood, and indeed – enrich our sexual lives. Tune in now to discover how to take control of your mind and enjoy the benefits.
In this episode you’ll learn:
The way stress hormones can interfere with our sexual hormones
Techniques to shield yourself from mental "noise"
The reasons why individuals who are happier generally enjoy longer lives, maintain healthier relationships, achieve greater success professionally, and experience more fulfilling sex lives
Show Notes:
Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE!
Order Dr. Daniel Amen's New Book, Raising Mentally Strong Kids
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The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Sexting: it’s basically the foreplay of the 21st century - a steamy, sultry way to turn up the heat without even being in the same room. But let's be real, sending a bunch of suggestive emojis out of the blue might leave your partner scratching their head. That's why you need to master the art of sexting, and I'm here to help you do just that. In this show, I'll give you the inside scoop on how to craft the perfect sext, from the right tone to the perfect use of emojis. With my pro tips, you'll be able to turn up the heat and leave your partner begging for more. So buckle up, because we're about to take your sexting game to a whole new level!
In this episode you’ll learn:
How emotional intelligence influences your sexting skills
How to manage your devices so messages don’t end up in the wrong place
How to have good phone sex in a long distance relationship
Show Notes:
Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE!
Sexting Guide
Yes, No, Maybe List
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The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
LELO (use code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products)
LELO Sona 2 Travel
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Looking to connect with your partner on a whole new level? Lucky for you, today’s episode with human connection specialist Mark Groves will give you the tools to do just that. Mark uses his emotional translation skills to give accessible relationship and wellness advice to others and shares his relatable ways to be your most authentic self. From discussing a Thanksgiving dinner that changed his life to examining past toxic behavior, Mark and I dive deep into ways to become wiser in love. Get ready to get vulnerable, today’s show gets DEEP!
In this episode you’ll learn:
How to break free from codependent relationships
Why reflecting on past experiences is the key to better relationships
Why we should all be using the word “boner again
Show Notes:
Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE!
Pre-order Mark’s new book: LIBERATED LOVE
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The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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WARNING, WARNING: Your climax has exited the premises. Ever wondered why achieving orgasm can feel effortless with one partner but challenging with another? Or why squirting might occur without reaching climax? On today's throwback episode of Hotline Calls, we're delving into the topic of orgasm and its hidden secrets. Tune in for an orgasmic time.
Got a burning question? Feel free to reach out and leave a voicemail anytime at 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739).
In this episode you’ll learn:
The difference between squirting and orgasming
How to orgasm for the first time, if you never have
How to create masturbation routines that support the orgasms you deserve
Show Notes:
Buy tickets to my San Diego, CA Show on April 10, 2024 HERE!
Buy tickets to my Phoenix, AZ Show on April 18, 2024 HERE!
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The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
OhMiBod Sphinx
OhMiBod Foxy
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Weddings: They're like a beautiful blend of tradition and flowers, but let's be real – Is married sex worth all the hype? Let's face it, folks. Married sex often gets stuck in this rut of tired old cliches. But guess what? It doesn't have to be that way!
We're so over settling for dull or non-existent intimacy as we journey through life with our partners. So, buckle up because on today's show, I'm all about shaking things up to make sex with your spouse hot again. From crafting your own set of sex vows before you take that stroll down the aisle to pleasure planning with your long-time partner, we're rewriting the playbook on honeymoon passion. Oh, and we're diving into the cultural landscape of love, sex, and relationships because times are definitely changing!
In this episode you’ll learn:
How to navigate bisexuality in a straight marriage
What it means if you find yourself jealous at your friend’s wedding
How to bring back the spark…even when the spark was a little dim in the first place
Show Notes:
Buy tickets to my San Diego, CA Show on April 10, 2024 HERE!
Buy tickets to my Phoenix, AZ Show on April 18, 2024 HERE!
Yes, No, Maybe Guide
Pleasure Planner
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Today I’m joined by Liz Moody, the best-selling author and podcast host who shares insightful tips to help transform your life in all different aspects in her new book, 100 Ways to Change Your Life: The Science of Leveling Up Health, Happiness, Relationships & Success. We discuss her personal strategies for prioritizing wellness, ways to run your home like a CEO, and how to make your ideal Sex Bill of Rights. Tune in for so many amazing tips and tricks to upgrade your life!
In this episode you’ll learn:
How planning your funeral helps you live a fulfilling present life
Why it's important to run your home like you’re the CEO
My new term "micro intimacy” and why that will be a game changer
Show Notes:
Check out Liz’ New Book HERE
LELO F1S V3 (use code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products)
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Listen up, assholes! Relationships and sex dynamics can be pleasure-filled and intimate, and also complicated and messy. Today, Producer Erica and I are reading your AITA questions and letting you know if you’re being an asshole in your sex life and relationships. We answer questions like: AITA for wanting more sexual tension and intimacy in our relationship? AITA for re-evaluating a new relationship after they told me they have an STI? AITA for breaking up with my partner because they won’t go down on me? And more.
In this episode you’ll learn:
How to communicate your sexual needs effectively with your partner
What to do if your partner tells you they have an STI
How to heighten sexual tension
Show Notes:
Promescent.com/Emily (Use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout!)
Episode: Hot Sex with STIs w/ Dr. Ina Park
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Today, I had a candid conversation with Chelsey Goodan, also known as the Teenage Girl Whisperer, about empowering teenage girls in today's society. Chelsey shares her insights from working with teenage girls for over a decade and discusses the challenges they face regarding sexuality, self-expression, and societal expectations. Join us as we explore the power of communication, empowerment, and authenticity in supporting teenage girls on their journey to self-discovery and empowerment.
In this episode you’ll also learn:
Effective communication strategies
The power of radical honesty and authenticity in building relationships
How to break cycles of criticism, self-doubt, and judgment
Show Notes:
Chelsey’s Book: Underestimated
Promescent.com/Emily (15% off your order!)
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Ever wondered if there's a way to spice things up in the bedroom AND reignite the spark between you and your partner? Well, today I'm about to help you crack the code of the 5 Love Languages and supercharge your relationship. I'll also tackle your burning questions like what to do when you and your partner speak different love languages (more common than you’d think), how to keep the love alive in a long-distance relationship, and sex hacks based on your unique love language combo.
And if that wasn't enough, I also discuss some awkward situations like accidentally critiquing your partner's penis or navigating that awkward phase when you and your partner feel like the spark is gone.
In today’s episode, you’ll learn:
All about the 5 Love Languages
How to keep the flame burning in a long-distance relationship
How to best express your desires with your partner (even if your love languages are different!)
Show Notes:
Je Joue Mimi Soft
Talk Dirty to Me w/ Joanna Angel
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Today I teamed up with the brilliant developmental psychologist and host of the Raising Good Humans podcast, Dr. Aliza Pressman, for a rollercoaster ride through the wild world of parenting, sexuality, and relationships. From decoding the mysteries of "the talk" with kids to unraveling the enigma of why millennials and Gen-Zers might be having sex less often, we left no stone unturned. Join us as we dive headfirst into understanding and embracing children's gender identities and sexual orientations, all while figuring on how to be the best humans we can be.
Get ready, because this episode isn't just about parenting—it's about living your best life and loving fiercely along the way!
Show Notes:
5 Principles of Parenting OUT NOW!
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When you think of BDSM and kink, I’m sure leather and whips come to mind. But what if I told you that there’s much more to kink than that? Today, I’m here to sprinkle some spice and shed light on the art of BDSM and kink. First up, we'll define key terms and provide a comprehensive understanding of BDSM because let's face it, who really knows what "BDSM" stands for anyway? Then, we'll explore the psychology behind power dynamics and the core desires behind kinky practices. And last but certainly not least, we'll serve up some tantalizing tips for bringing a bit of kink into your bedroom – whether you're flying solo or have a partner in crime.
So, buckle up (or should I say, buckle down?), because we're about to embark on a journey into the wild and wonderful world of kink!
In this episode, you’ll learn:
What BDSM and Kink are really about
The psychology behind dom/sub dynamics
How to fearlessly bring kink into the bedroom
Show Notes:
What NOT to Say to Your Partner When Talking About Sex
How to Squirt (For Real)
Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides
LELO Tiani Duo
We-Vibe Melt
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5 BDSM Games To Spice Up Your Sex Life Tonight
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In today's episode, I had the pleasure of speaking with #1 NYT Bestselling author Gabby Bernstein. As a spiritual leader and motivational speaker, Gabby shares how you can manifest the sex life you want but through a practical, less woo, lens and how to work through sexual trauma and change your core beliefs around sex. We also get into Internal Family Systems therapy and how young women today speak about sex differently than our generation.
In today’s episode, you’ll learn:
How spirituality can enhance your sexuality
How to boost your confidence (in and out of the bedroom)
Tools for working through trauma
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Show Notes:
My appearance on the Dear Gabby podcast!
More Gabby Bernstein: Website | Instagram
Happy Days
The Universe Has Your Back
Self Help (coming 2/31/24)
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We all want to grow and become better versions of ourselves. And no where is that more true than our sex lives. That’s the mission of today’s call-in show. I answer your questions all about picking up new sex skills. From a fun-loving couple who wants to incorporate others into their play but can’t find the right candidates, to a twenty-something who wants to learn how to squirt on her own - these brave callers’ questions offer something for everyone to learn from.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
How to find solid friends with benefits
Masturbation techniques
The anatomy of the vulva!
See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
Show Notes:
The Psychology of Your Kink
How to Squirt (For Real)
Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)
Playground Lube
Je Joue Mimi
Je Joue Hera
Magic Wand
Insertion Toys
Dual Stimulation Toys
#Open
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It’s the season of love - self love! That’s right, this Valentine’s Day, I’ve got all of you singles covered. In today’s Best Of episode, you’ll learn the health benefits of self-pleasure and how it helps you not only reduce stress but elevate your mood. It's also a gateway to understanding your body, boosting your self-esteem, and giving you some serious pleasure.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
How often you should masturbate in a relationship
How to try masturbation when you never have
The magic of mutual masturbation
See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
Show Notes:
The Psychology of Your Kink
How to Squirt (For Real)
Your February Solo Sex Challenge
LELO DOT (up to 50% off until the end of February, code EMILY10 for an additional 10% off)
We-Vibe Touch
Je Joue Mimi
We-Vibe Rave
We-Vibe Nova
Pjur Water-Based Lube
Aneros Prostate Massager
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Ever wondered: Am I the asshole for watching porn without my partner knowing? Am I the asshole for feeling a little misled about our sex life before we walked down the aisle? Or how about: Am I the asshole for just feeling plain bored with our sex life? You’re not alone. Today, Producer Erica and I read your AITA questions and let you know if you’re approaching asshole territory.
In today’s episode, you’ll learn:
How to be a supportive partner to someone with sexual trauma
How to get clearer on your sexual desires
About the experiences of sex workers
See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
Show Notes:
How to Give a Prostate Massage
15 Sex Toys That Make Amazing Valentine's Day Gifts
VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)
Erika Lust porn
Vice Series: Sex Before the Internet
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