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  • Welcome back! Today we're joined by a highly anticipated guest: Christine Lang, soul channel, intuitive, and energy healer.

    We're chatting all about common fears and blocks that are stopping us from finding our ideal partner, and Christine even made an exclusive free guided meditation for all listeners to uncover—and overcome—their own fears and blocks.

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    what we talk about:

    Why you keep attracting people who pull out your triggers
    ow to stop dating with the mindset of wanting to be "picked"

    How to let go of the scarcity mindset in dating How to communicate with partners who don’t express their feelings

    & (a lot) more!

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    Find Christine on Instagram @christinelang_intuitive.

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  • Welcome back! Today we're answering a few longer listener questions.

    what we talk about:

    What to do when your needs are not being met in a relationship What does it really mean when someone wants to “take things slow?” What to do when they finally change but it feels too late? Do ultimatums work in relationships? Exactly what to say when you’re stuck in a situationship

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  • Welcome back! Today we're answering rapid-fire listener questions.

    what we talk about:

    Ways to improve communication in a relationship What to do when the person you're dating forgets your birthday Am I the red flag for being underwhelmed by their birthday celebration? What to do when you're only attracted to people who aren't emotionally available Is it a red flag if they tell you they paused their dating apps?

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  • Welcome back! Today we're answering rapid-fire listener questions.

    what we talk about:

    7 steps to get over a breakup Is it a red flag if they call you their ex's name? How to handle different sex drives in a relationship + what to do when your partner never initiates Early signs someone is emotionally available Who should initiate early dates? What to do when you hit it off with someone while traveling but it fizzles when you get home?

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  • Welcome back! Today we're answering rapid-fire listener questions.

    what we talk about:

    My rant on how dating is actually a lot like finding a job How to let go of your partner's past Is it normal to want to break up with them because they are messy? Why you're having trouble getting beyond the first date What to do when there isn't physical attraction on early dates Getting back together with an ex who has changed How often to respond to someone's messages on an app When to stop dating other people

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  • Welcome back! Today we're talking about behaviors that damage your relationship, create distance, and ultimately cause breakups.

    what we talk about:

    the difference between the silent treatment and taking time to think/cool down how to stop assuming your partner's feelings/thoughts/needs & what to do when they assume yours what happens when arguments go unresolved my thoughts on "never go to bed angry" why you need to talk to your partner more about sex (& how to do it) what to do when actions don't match words (or vice versa) when comparison to past relationships is helpful (& when it's not)

    & more!

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  • Welcome back! Today's episode starts with a few listener questions and then we dive into some subtle and telltale signs someone is in love with you.

    what we talk about:

    Timelines for saying I love you Should you slide into someone's DMs if they didn't match you back on a dating app? My new favorite way to write a Bumble bio Questions to ask to see if someone is right for you Signs someone is falling in love with you

    & more!

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  • Welcome back! Today's episode dives into a few recent viral topics and wraps up with listener questions.

    what we talk about:

    Tips for introducing a partner to your family or friends (+ my own experience) Why it's important to have deep conversations in a relationship Deep conversation starters for dates How to bring up uncomfortable conversation topics in a relationship The differences between dating 30+ vs. dating in your 20s The best ways to start a conversation on a dating app

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    the posts I referenced:

    5 uncomfortable conversations to have before getting engaged 9 deep conversation starters for better dates

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  • Welcome back! Today we're answering rapid-fire listener questions.

    what we talk about:

    How to talk to your partner about something they do that's bothering you What to do when you feel "blank" or like you aren't good enough Why we need to stop using our dating lives as a measurement tool for how great we are. How to get over a crush on a married coworker

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  • Welcome back! Today we're talking about all things DTR.

    what we talk about:

    Things to do before defining the relationship Things you should know before defining the relationship Signs it's time to define the relationship How to get comfortable talking about sex with your partner

    & more!

    Other posts, episodes, & products referenced:

    Episode with Emily Morse (@sexwithemily) How to DTR Wonderlust Intimacy Deck (use MOSTLYBALANCED for a discount)

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  • Welcome back! Today we’re joined by Rachel Brotman, creator and founder of @thecarboholic. This episode is a little different, we're doing a deep dive into all the best dating spots in NYC.

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    what we talk about:

    How Rachel became a food content creator & eventually quit her full time job How to find out about all the best new restaurants & how to get the hard-to-get reservations Where to go for: a first date, second/third date, affordable date, non-drinking date, double date, group date, meeting the parents date, special occasion date, & more Our thoughts on who should pay & how to offer What to do when you don't like the date location they suggest How to approach someone IRL in a restaurant/bar setting

    & more!

    Find Rachel on Instagram or TikTok or head to her website where she has a ton of free guides and resources.

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  • Welcome back! Today we're chatting about staying healthy in a new relationship, encouraging your partner to be healthier, and answering more listener questions.

    what we talk about:

    My thoughts on "if they wanted to they would," "if you're confused they're not interested," and other common dating advice. (+ what to do instead) A listener question on how to make a relationship work with an avoidant and anxious attachment style combination How to get over a situationship

    & more!

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  • Welcome back! Today we're chatting about staying healthy in a new relationship, encouraging your partner to be healthier, and answering more listener questions.

    what we talk about:

    Staying in your health/fitness/wellness routine in a relationship How to motivate your partner to be healthier Who should pay for early dates? What to message someone who doesn't have good prompts Should you share feedback after a bad date? Breakups within a friend group Why I hate the phrase "men always come back"

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  • Welcome back! Today we're chatting about future tripping in early dating & answering a few listener questions.

    what we talk about:

    what is future tripping? how to avoid creating a false sense of intimacy early on how much messaging is too much before a date & in the early dating stages how to voice boundaries around texting early in dating how soon to sleep together what to do when you were clingy and then they ghosted is it a red flag if you rarely argue?

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  • Welcome back! Today we’re joined by Elizabeth Endres, creator and co-founder of @sweatsandthecity and host of The Wellness Process podcast.

    what we talk about:

    Elizabeth’s favorite wellness practices Dating in your 20s vs dating in your 30s+ How to get in a good mindset before a date Our thoughts on “dating is a numbers game” Being friends with exes How to manifest the right relationship (& what to do once you get it) Approaching someone IRL

    & more!

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  • Welcome back! Today we're chatting about imposter syndrome in relationships & answering listener questions.

    what we talk about:

    why imposter syndrome happens in relationships how to stop worrying things are "too good to be true" ways to be more confident balancing busy schedules in a relationship what to do if your needs aren't being met deciding if it's worthy trying long distance

    & more!

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  • Welcome back! Today we're diving into listener questions.

    what we talk about:

    is it a red flag if they say they don't like labels? getting from "exclusive" to DTR should you double text or consider it ghosting? is it a red flag if they don't wish you a happy birthday in early dating how to handle "awkward" silences on dates (& in relationships) what to do when you can't get past the 3 month mark in dating exchanging numbers on a dating app before going on a date

    & more!

    📝 Questions to ask about the future early on

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  • Welcome back! Today's episode starts with a step-by-step guide to creating the best possible dating app profile for better matches and better dates that will lead to a relationship. We end with three listener questions (starting at 30:40).

    what we talk about:

    How to pick the best photos for your app profile A specific breakdown of what photos to use Which prompts spark the most conversation How to write better prompt responses (with examples) A listener question on saying I love you What to do when they say they want to go out but keep putting off plans What to do when they keep bringing up past fights in new arguments

    & more!

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  • Welcome back! It's episode 200 (!!) of Mostly Balanced, and today we're joined by content creator and 2x TEDx speaker, Lucie Fink.

    what we talk about:

    a brief rundown of Lucie's career and why she recently decided to start her podcast, The Real Stuff Lucie's relationship with her now husband, dating back to high school, college, and moving to NYC maintaining independence and a sense of self in a relationship how we were both impacted by having a twin friends and family members with different dating timelines how sex changes when you move in together dividing responsibilities between parents balancing motherhood with working full time

    & more!

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  • Welcome back! Today we're answering listener questions...

    what we talk about:

    How to book a live 1:1 dating consultation with me before the prices increase! Should you try again with someone one year after a first date that never panned out? Is it weird for a dating app match to mention other dates they have planned? If you go on a great first date but the person says they aren’t looking for something serious at the moment, should you still try a few more dates to see where it might go? The biggest indicator that you’re about to end up in a situationship How to stop a relationship from moving too fast (and why you might want to slow down) Is it okay to date multiple people at once in the early dating stages?

    & more!

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