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  • On Today's episode, Chesko and Regan discuss the drama that can come along when a work wife starts interfering with your marriage.

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  • Chesko and Regan dive deep on an AITA about the ways that we shame women for simply wanting to feed their children.

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  • This week Regan and Chesko discuss a young woman (monstra0.3) who took to social media to find the man who groped her at a concert without her consent, only for it to somehow get even worse once he was found and decided to respond.

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  • Chesko and Regan discuss a fairly short AITA this week and proceed to talk for an hour about parenting, unsupportive spouses, and what to talk about with your partner before having a baby together.

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  • This week's topic: Chappell Roan.

    A quick backstory on this episode for anyone who may not have discovered the amazing music of Chappell Roan. Chappell is a new(ish) artist whose debut album has catapulted her into superstar status (and with good reason. She really is THAT good).
    She posted some videos referencing how weird some of the fan behavior has been and received backlash from people who believe that she knew what she was getting into by becoming a musician.


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  • This week, Chesko and Regan discuss breakdown as much of the Olympics controversy as we could fit into an hour...there was a lot.

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  • Mrs. Frazzled joins Chesko and Regan this week to discuss gender politics, intersectional feminism, and the (dangerous) backlash Frazz received from conservative media after making an appearance on the "White Women for Kamala Harris" call that broke Zoom.

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  • This week, Chesko and Regan discuss a fascinating "man on the street" interview that begins with the question that nobody was asking, "Did you know that 70% of women in downtown Riverside are single moms?" and only goes downhill from there.

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  • On today's show, Chesko and Regan delve into kittys, surprise mountain climbing, and assorted other a**holes on the internet.

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  • In this week's episode, Chesko and Regan touch on a somewhat sensitive subject of religion and misogyny. As we note in the episode, this topic and our discussion is not meant as an attack on religion, but rather to have discourse on the men (and women) who use religion to try and justify infidelity and the mistreatment of women.

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  • We begin by discussing the "Raw-Dogging Flights" trend sweeping across social media and move into an honest discussion about the rituals of violence and tests of manhood that are so prevalent in our society.

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  • On this week's episode, Chesko and Regan discuss the varied toxic reactions to the "Hawk Tuah Girl" video and subsequent memes took over the internet this week.

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  • Regan is sick this week, but we still have an awesome show for you this week as Jamyle Cannon joins Chesko to talk about his work founding the The Bloc in Chicago and all that they are doing to help enrich the lives of the next generation of youth.

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  • On this week's episode, Chesko and Regan discuss:
    "AITA for no longer walking my friend home to her dorm after she rejected me?"

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  • On this week's episode, Chesko and Regan discuss a video that claims "these are 5 things a man should never have to do if he is married, in a relationship, OR dating."

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  • Chesko and Regan discuss something they never imagined when this podcast started. Apparently grown men, with no underlying health conditions, are shitting themselves...frequently. We apologize for this episode.

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  • Chesko, Regan, and special guest Misha Brown (known better as social media superstar "DontCrossAGayMan") discuss the question that has been posed as a response to the "Man or Bear" discourse that has been all over social media in recent weeks: "Men, would you rather tell your feelings to a woman or a tree?"

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  • In this episode, Chesko and Regan discuss weaponized incompetence through the lens of Luciana Grandi Lourencao's half-marathon win, an AITA, and a man making the case for why he thinks the best case scenario for a woman is to be able to mommy her partner into the man she wants him to be.

    (Note: Chesko might also accidentally be a fourth example)

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  • In this episode, Chesko and Regan discuss the “diabolical lies” told by Dr. Elizabeth Butker’s son to the 2024 graduating class of Benedictine College.

    Alternative episode titles: “Small Kick Energy” and, my personal favorite, “The Smallest Kicker That Ever Lived.”

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  • In this week's episode, Regan and Chesko breakdown a truly unhinged interaction that Sydney Mulvaney (@Sydneytattoos) shared on TikTok about a voicemail her mother received after a single phone call with a man. If anyone was wondering why so many women chose the bear...show them this episode.

    Note: Chesko's microphone doesn't normally sound this bad, but we ran into a technical issue this week. Back to normal going forward!

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