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  • Remy and Charlotte close out the season by calling Cumpanions from around the globe to Cumgratulate them on their new accumplishments this year.

    Wow -- that's a lot of cum puns and it's only the first sentence! We chat with people from South Africa, to New Jersey, to L.A. and Michigan. First ever orgasms, first squirts, first partnered orgasms, anal orgasms, AND a cumpanion swipes her v-card.

    This episode, like this season was/is cumazing.

    Thanks for cumming & listening; we will miss you all!

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  • This week we are talking BDSM! Everything from being a Sub, Dom--to both, to catching a whip with your genitals and exploring your sexual fantasies. Remy welcomes NYC stand-up comedian Rachel Sennott to learn about BDSM and we are joined by Professional Dominatrix and sexpert Mistress Couple. She guides us through her initiation into the world of bondage and dominance and her first night moving into La Domaine Esemar, the oldest BDSM chateau in the world.

    We talk about the importance of consent within the BDSM community, and how it has changed over the years, the psychological aspect of behind being a Dom, and what your fantasies say about you. We also discuss how your senses can heighten sexual pleasure and how you can train to use them to your advantage – even through something as simple as eating a bowl of spaghetti or an egg-roll.

    Finally, we discuss different types of instruments and types of play; psychological, financial domination, tickling, and the importance of aftercare. We also discuss what a balloon fantasy is and which of our guests has one!

    Stay tuned for a sneak peek of our Live Podcast about Herpes at the end of the episode, and head on over to Patreon to listen to the full episode.

    Follow us: @TreaclyChild @MistressCouple @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir and @Charkasstic


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  • This week we are talking about a bodily function that effects our lives and helps to give life: our PERIODS! We are joined by two giants in the period space;

    Miki Agrawal, co-founder of THINX and Tushy and Nadya Okamoto, founder of Period. The Menstrual Movement, which aims to end period poverty and period stigma.

    We commiserate about how we have felt about our respective periods, from first periods to now. We talk about the various methods we’ve used for them; from tampons, to cups, to pads, period panties, and more. We discuss navigating sex with periods, how various religious practices contribute to period stigma, and how/why these two women started their companies. We talk about the meaning of feminism and how it isn’t women against men, it’s gender equality. And finally, we talk about pooping.

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  • We're discussing all things BOOBS this week: How we feel about them in society, how we've felt about our own, and every question you've ever wondered about yours, but were too afraid to ask!

    Remy is joined by Suzannah Weiss, a freelance sex writer for Glamour, Teen Vogue, Playboy, and New York Magazine, as well as Meshelle, the hilarious “Indie Mom of Comedy” and recipient of the prestigious Soros Fellowship award. We’re talking everything from nipple hair to nipple sensitivity (for men AND women), the shape and size of your boobs to instructions on how to properly play with them, breastfeeding, and breast cancer and the BRCA gene. Meshelle shares her experience with a less traditional, all-natural route for treating her breast cancer; and Suzannah tells us about how her recent experience in an Ayahuasca retreat in Europe helped her to appreciate her own boobs more.

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  • Trigger Warning: rape, suicide and abuse. We want you to enjoy our content, but please make sure to take care of yourself; some of the following material can be sensitive to some listeners.

    We talk to Syd Wilder, comedian, insta-model and host of the “Girl Instarupted” podcast. We’re talking everything from surviving suicide to growing up at the Playboy Mansion and everything in between. Syd opens up about her sexual assault, suicide attempts and previous sexual and family relationships; as well as her experience in a psych-ward. We discuss how she has turned her darkest moments into an empowering experience rather than a spiteful situation that controls her life. She shares stories of her first marriage, what it's like dating different “types” of guys, how she contracted HPV and Cervical Cancer and has triumphed over it all and learned how to love herself along the way. We also talk BDSM and *SPOILER ALERT* we have a new ASSIGNMENT!


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  • This week’s guest is Ev’Yan Whitney: sexuality doula™, sex educator & facilitator, and the host of the podcast The Sexually Liberated Woman. She has helped thousands of women and femme-identifying people step out of shame, fear, and trauma and into sexual liberation through her online courses, in-person workshops, and one-on-one sessions. In this episode she shares her story of how her personal traumas and struggles of enjoying sex with her husband led her to helping others-- and herself. We talk about her growth, what it means to be a queer person in a heteronormative seeming relationship, what being “ready” for sex really means, and how Ev’Yan and her husband took the steps to enter into an open relationship. We also discuss some of the assignments she gives HER clients, as well as her favorite success stories. We love her.

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  • OMG we could not be more excited for this guest!! Remy sits down with (and fan-girls over) the original Carrie Bradshaw, Candace Bushnell; icon, it-girl and critically acclaimed, international best-selling author of nine books, including the infamous Sex and the City.

    We discuss her new book, Is There Still Sex in the City?, how sex throughout life changes, and what life after divorce is like. Candace regales us with stories about sexually coming of age in the 70s and 80s, celebrity encounters, and dalliances with older and younger men. She defines new dating terms from her book like, "bicycle boys," "cubbing," and "super-middles." We also hear about her first orgasm and losing her virginity just to lose it. You do NOT want to miss this one!

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  • Sadly, Remy couldn’t be here to host this episode…BUT DON’T YOU WORRY because today, she is our GUEST. This week Charlotte interviews Remy about her biggest takeaways from the season and where she's at now, SEXUALLY. Also, the Cumpanions submitted amazing, important questions and they are ALL answered in this episode: from cumming tips & tricks, to how to tell a partner about your struggle to orgasm, to more personal questions about depression and the importance of vulnerability. There is ALSO a sneak peek into upcoming episodes, so hang on tight cause this one is a wild ride.

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  • Warning: This episode contains deep thoughts and SICK banter.

    In this VERY EXCITING How Cum/ We Really Love Island crossover event Remy, Charlotte, and Comedian Lili Michelle (Remy's WRLI Season 2 Co-host) interview Season 1 Love Island UK contestant,

    Chris Williamson!

    Chris calls in via Skype to talk love, sex and secrets behind the making of Love Island. We also chat about how to dump someone properly, the importance of honesty and external accountability, and his wild "first time" story.

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  • We're talking all things PENISES! Remy and Charlotte interview Dr. Eid, a board-certified urologist focusing on the treatment of advanced erectile dysfunction. He specializes in penile implant surgery, and also treats urinary incontinence after prostate cancer. He is one of New York's leading penis prosthesis surgeons and is here to answer YOUR questions! We are talking why E.D. occurs, how to treat it, and how sometimes it might be an indication of a larger medical problem. Dr. Eid also answers Cumpanion questions ranging from; "are there medical benefits to circumcision?", "do you need a boner to come?", "is “blue balls” really so bad?" and more!

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  • An unbelievable conversation with sex/ love writer and recent author, Maria Del Russo and Co-Founder of sex toy company Dame Products, Alexandra Fine.

    We discuss themes from Maria’s new book, “Simple Acts of Love;” relationships & singlehood, why you should treat single time as a destination instead of a layover, how your dating past actually does not mean anything for your dating future, and the age old question; "Did I bang enough people when I was single?” We also talk about gender discrepancies in advertising and why Dame is currently suing the MTA.

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  • ...is the name of one of our guest's new podcasts AND what we are doing on this episode! Remy and comedians/actors Emma Willmann (Crazy Ex Girlfriend/ Inside The Closet Podcast), Jade Catta-Preta (MTV's Ladylike and GirlCode), and Ashley Gavin (Gay Girl Straight Girl) chat girl on girl sex in this fun informative episode. Our hilarious guests answer all of your questions about strap-ons, STDs, and whether "lesbian sex is all just scissoring." (It's not!) It is such a treat to end pride month with these three talented humans; follow them and go see them live.

    ALSO: If you're in D.C. go see Remy perform at the Drafthouse Theater, July 10 7:30PM!

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  • We're taking you into the world of audio porn this week and it is SO GOOD. Remy and Charlotte talk to Jim; the orgasmic voice behind FeelGoodFilth.com, as he explains how he makes audio porn and why he started. Remy also invites CEO of Quinn and senior at Stanford University, Caroline Spiegel to talk her new audio erotica website which features everything from guided masturbations to ASMR. This episode has everything: phone sex, dirty talk, Daddy Dom/Little Girl role play, mental health, and one of our guests give us our FIRST fully clothed first-time-cumming story on the pod!

    Caution: This episode features some ACTUAL audio erotica and may get you extremely horny.

    Trigger warning: we also touch on abuse & eating disorders.

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  • We are in LA with wildly talented author and adult film star Logan Pierce! Logan tells Remy about the way he pursued a career in porn, how his “boy next door” look recently came into fashion in the porn industry, and what defines “porn for women.” We discuss scary firsts from his book, gang bang scenes, and surgically enhanced penises. Logan talks about confusing sexual chemistry for intimacy while on the job, the pros & cons of having relationships with people with the same job as you, and how often he gets tested for STIs. We also hear a cute story about Logan's attempt to have a sex dream as a child, and finally when he figured out that women could cum!

    --ALSO because we love you so much, we just released an amazing must-hear BONUS episode with former adult film star Chris Zeischegg (Danny Wylde) & current adult film star Tyler Nixon; the surfer boy with 1 BILLION downloads on Pornhub. Want to listen? It is CURRENTLY available on Patreon for a discounted price! We talk about why Chris quit, how Tyler got started, the homophobia around people who have done "crossover porn" (gay and straight), misogyny in the industry, and a scary Cialis-induced penis condition called "priapism."

    Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @charkasstic @who_is_logan @instalurk @chriszeischegg and read Logan's book, Between The Sheets: Rise of a Working Stiff

    as well as Chris's books : Body to Job, The Wolves that Live in Skin & Space, and Come To My Brother

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    We couldn't be more excited to be partnering with Helix Sleep and Sweet Vibrations this season!

    Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum

    Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!

    This episode has EXTRAS which will be available on Patreon.com/HowCum

    Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

    1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!

    2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!

    3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:

    Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast

    Website - www.RemyKassimir.com

  • In this week’s episode we have two brilliant doctors of physical medicine and rehabilitation, Dr. Tayyaba Ahmed and Dr. Allyson Shrikhande, who specialize in pelvic pain. They teach us about a very gender neutral organ; the pelvic floor, and many different causes of pelvic pain. We learn about endometriosis, the seriousness of pudendal nerve/ pudendal entrapment, and why kegels aren't always the answer. The doctors answer questions from the Cumpanions and talk thrush, anorgasmia, penis burn, clitoral adhesions, and more. Ahmed and Shrikhande also share their personal experiences as women, mothers, and students during medical school, as well as their first time stories!

    Learn more about their work at pelvicrehabilitation.com

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    Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @Charkasstic and follow the doctors @DrTayAhmed @pelvicrehabilitation @doctorallyson

    We couldn't be more excited to be partnering with Helix Sleep this season!

    Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum

    Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

    1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!

    2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!

    3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:

    Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast

    Website - www.RemyKassimir.com

  • This week Remy welcomes hilarious comedian, J-Train/U Up? podcaster, and naturally good advice-giver Jared Freid. Jared answers all of your dating questions and explains the difference between guys who neg and guys who flower, why people are watching your Instagram stories and why they stop, and why you can’t put your standard’s into someone else’s hands. Jared explains what is everyone doing wrong on dating apps, why kibbutzing is important for men and women, getting messy during sex, and why he (and Remy) LOVE reality shows. He also tells us about his sexual past; his first time cumming, getting rescued from “virgin island” and why he has dubbed himself the “Rosa Parks of Anal Play.” ALSO, THERE IS YELLING! (But it's fun yelling.) Wooo!

    This episode is also VERY special because Remy’s first cumming day was 2/22 and this episode is 2,22!

    Hip hip hooray. Everybody masturbate.

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    Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @Charkasstic and follow Jared @JaredFreid

    We couldn't be more excited to be partnering with Helix Sleep this season!

    Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum

    Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

    1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!

    2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!

    3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:

    Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast

    Website - www.RemyKassimir.com

  • Pardon this late-in-the-day post, we were celebrating Charlotte’s 26th BIRTHDAY but this one is amazing and worth the wait. Remy sits down with the amazing Buck Angel. This motivational speaker, film maker, human rights activist, adult film star, and the first transgender man to win AVN’s Performer of the Year award in 2007 has completely stolen our hearts.

    We discuss so many aspects of the trans male experience and dive into Buck’s past and personal experiences; undergoing top surgery at a time where it was not common, a messy divorce with a woman who challenged his gender identity, and Buck’s childhood relationship with his dad and how it has grown. We discuss if changes in gender affect changes in sexuality, what “binders” and “pack-and-pees” are and if they are safe to use, the safety of different medical sex-change procedures, how to hook up with a trans man, dealing with periods as a trans man, and so much more.

    Buck preaches loving yourself and has created an amazing brand of sex toys and a dating website buckangeldating.com, all with trans, non-binary, and gender non-conforming people in mind. We talk pussy power and a crazy story about Buck’s appearance on The Tyra Banks Show. And of course, Buck shares his first time cumming and squirting stories - it’s a blast.

    Trigger warning: mutilation, rape, and abuse are all mentioned during this episode

    Click to watch Buck’s films: Sexing the Trans Man, Conversations with Transmen, & Mr. Angel
    Click to see Buck’s TMZ appearances

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    Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @Charkasstic and follow Buck @BuckAngel

    We couldn't be more excited to be partnering with Helix Sleep this season!

    Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum

    This episode has 30 MINUTES of EXTRAS which will be available on Patreon.com/HowCum

    Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

    1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!

    2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!

    3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:

    Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast

    Website - www.RemyKassimir.com

  • Episode 20 of every season means Ben is here! Remy talks to her boyfriend and his ROOMMATES; brothers Volkan and Cenk, who she essentially lives with as well. We discuss sharing a living space (especially with siblings), everyone’s weird pooping habits, and having sex with other people in the apartment. We chat about what signs might mean that your roommate is fucking, losing your virginity in a foreign country, and who the messiest one in the apartment is!

    We also deep dive into Charlotte's research on the recent wave of abortion restrictions, decipher what they individually mean, and suggest ways in which you can donate your time and money to help. Remy opens up about her own abortion, the beginning of her relationship with Ben, and how Charlotte made Ben define the relationship with Remy.

    Also, coming soon: How Cum website and merchandise!

    ***FOR INFORMATION ON HOW TO HELP, SCROLL TO THE BOTTOM!

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    Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @charkasstic and follow Ben DeMarco @bennydnyc and his shows @fatbabylive

    We couldn't be more excited to be partnering with Helix Sleep and Sweet Vibrations this season!

    Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum

    Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!

    This episode has EXTRAS which will be available on Patreon.com/HowCum

    Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

    1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!

    2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!

    3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:

    Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast

    Website - www.RemyKassimir.com

    ***

    WHAT TO DO TO HELP RE ABORTION BAN:

    https://www.thecut.com/2019/05/how-to-help-alabama-6-week-abortion-ban-georgia.html

    ...Donate to local, grassroots organizations

    Niationwide organizations: Planned Parenthood, NARAL, and the ACLU help but it is more important to go local.

    Local Organizations:

    Access Reproductive Care - Southeast: ARC is a volunteer organization that helps families in 12 states across the southeast access reproductive care. National Network of Abortion Funds: NNAF is a network of more than 80 funds in at least 38 states that seeks to eliminate economic barriers for low-income individuals seeking an abortion. The Yellowhammer Fund: Based in Alabama, Yellowhammer not only provides funding for abortions at one of the city’s three clinics, but also helps with other barriers to access patients may face, such as travel or lodging. (Yellowhammer is part of NNAF.) Mississippi Reproductive Freedom Fund: Run entirely by volunteers, the Mississippi Reproductive Freedom Fund helps people access abortion, and provides both support and resources to parents. Women Have Options: This Ohio-based organization provides financial assistance and support to low-income patients seeking reproductive care, abortion included. National Asian Pacific American Women’s Forum: NAPAWF is a multi-issue community-organizing and policy-advocacy organization that fights for policy changes that would benefit women, transgender, and non-binary Asian Americans and Pacific Islanders.

    Volunteer as a clinic escort.

    If you live in a state with a restrictive abortion ban — or nearby one — one tangible way to support abortion rights is to become a clinic escort. Find out more here.

  • This week Remy sits down with her wildly talented, hilarious, and similarly named friend Ramy Youssef. This stand up/writer/actor has not only been on Late Night with Stephen Colbert, has a stand-up special coming out on HBO, but he also has a new Hulu TV series out (called Ramy) that the New York times has called a “revolutionary comedy.” Having grown up Egyptian-American in a Muslim family, Ramy tells Remy about grappling with his faith while being surrounded by the pressures and temptations of the average 20-something. We chat about everything from the anxieties of casual sex to how Ramy’s sense of self was affected after 9/11. He’s the best.

    ALSO Ramy tries Charlotte’s Helix mattress and loves it. Everyone should get one.

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    Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @charkasstic @ramy

    We are so excited to partner with Helix this season! Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum

    Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

    1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!

    2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!

    3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:

    Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast

    Website - www.RemyKassimir.com

  • Trigger Warning: rape and assault. We want you to enjoy our content, but please make sure to take care of yourself; some of the following material can be sensitive to some listeners.


    During this emotional, inspiring, (and still incredibly funny) episode, the incomparable Fran Drescher (The Nanny!) opens up about how she turns pain into purpose: surviving uterine cancer and the struggle of attempting to convince doctors of the pain she was feeling; managing herself and her emotions through two divorces, having a gay ex-husband, and living through the trauma of the sexual assault and violence she suffered throughout her life. We discuss how she has recently started/ and is crushing stand up comedy, the comedians who inspire her, and the extremely important work she is doing with CancerSchmancer.org. Fran shares her thoughts about sex toys, finding fantasies to get your mojo running, her mother catching her with her hands "down there" as a child and how much she loves penises, now and forever. We discuss how "Women of a Certain Age" DO still love sex, why it may be beneficial to have "a man for every chapter," and Fran gives us a life altering tip from her Shaman on self care.
    Also, Remy smokes a joint in Fran’s house!

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    Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @charkasstic @officialfrandrescher

    We are so excited to partner with Helix this season! Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum

    Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

    1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!

    2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!

    3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:

    Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast

    Website - www.RemyKassimir.com