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  • Chris chats with porn great Ana Foxxx, ForPlay Films’ Inka Winter, Paulita Pappel from Hardwerk and Lustery, and sociologist and author Kelsy Burke about efforts within the adult film industry to make pornography more beautiful, authentic and ethical. Films by Inka Winter discussed in this episode include Lust Cinema's Ashford Manor miniseries and ForPlay Films originals Jada and Adventures in Getting Dressed. Check out Ana Foxxx's OnlyFans. Purchase Kelsy Burke's books: The Pornography Wars and Christians Under Covers here. Learn more about the Adult Performer Advocacy Committee, and read the Rolling Stone article mentioned in this episode: Racism in Porn Industry Under Scrutiny Amid Nationwide Protests. Always feel free to email Chris about anything at [email protected]. You can also tweet at him: x.com/sexwithchris. Find him on Snapchat: ChrisSowa. Instagram: chrisinamerica and Fetlife: Chris Sowa. Visit sexwithstrangersshow.com if the links in these show notes are not compatible with your podcast platform. Thanks for listening!

  • Chris chats with a multinational cornucopia of listeners about a wide range of topics including everything from sex work, catfishing and 69ing itself to throwing a swingers party in your house, selling real estate through Fetlife, and navigating the intersection of kink and chronic illness. Check out Vane Ahne's Twitch and Twitter. Listen to Alaska Teen Query at therec.podbean.com. Shop for Power Bottoms for Jesus stickers (and other snarky merchandise) at NoFreeBoners.com and see more from their creator, 4'11” horny legend DJ Snarklepony, via her OnlyFans. Learn more about Adelyn Moore at AdelynMoore.com. Check out Dez's book recommendations: The Internet Escort's Handbook Series and Thriving in Sex Work. Find Little Kiwi on Twitter and ManyVids. Always feel free to email Chris about anything at [email protected]. You can also tweet at him: twitter.com/sexwithchris. Find him on Snapchat: ChrisSowa. Instagram: chrisinamerica and Fetlife: Chris Sowa. Visit sexwithstrangersshow.com if the links in these show notes are not compatible with your podcast platform. Please also remember to wash around your gym bag. Thanks for listening!

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  • Chris and listener Bindiya attend Tadpole X-rated Studio's 4th anniversary shoot, which was also Anastasia Rose's birthday GB featuring Lana Analise and 11 guys. This episode includes several interviews recorded while the interviewees were having sex on camera. Find all of Tadpole's sites and socials here: allmylinks.com/tadpolexxxstudio. Find Anastasia Rose at twitter.com/anastasiarosexx and onlyfans.com/anastasiarosexxx. Find Lana Analise's sites and socials here: linktr.ee/peachylanaxo. Purchase the main scene entitled Anastasia Birthday Party GB with Lana here. Purchase the VR POV version of the scene here. The free preview of it features Chris interviewing the POV male talent. More purchase options for both versions of the scene are available here: allmylinks.com/tadpolexxxstudio. Watch the first half of the male talent competition for free here. Check out svmrope.com for more Rope Daddy. Other male talent from the shoot can be found on twitter, including Sal Shooter The SuperSoaker and Aaron Stone. Always feel free to email Chris about anything at [email protected]. You can also tweet at him: twitter.com/sexwithchris. Find him on Snapchat: ChrisSowa. Instagram: chrisinamerica and Fetlife: Chris Sowa. Visit sexwithstrangersshow.com if the links in these show notes are not compatible with your podcast platform. Thanks for listening.

  • Chris is joined by Allie Wampler from the Iowa Abortion Access Fund, Marie Khan from the Midwest Access Coalition (MAC), Kat from the Carolina Abortion Fund (CAF), and May and Yahya from Tamtang Group, a Thai abortion-rights organization. Americans looking for their nearest legal abortion provider should check out Abortionfinder.org and Ineedana.com. To have medication abortion pills sent to you anywhere in the world regardless of local abortion restrictions, check out Aidaccess.org and plancpills.org. Please also make sure to read their extensive FAQ sections. If abortion is criminalized where you live please be aware that your online activity may be used against you criminally. This NPR article – Nebraska Cops Used Facebook Messages to Investigate an Alleged Illegal Abortion – is just one example of this. Check out How to Hide Your Abortion from Mic and Abortion and Digital Privacy: How to Protect Ourselves from Scarlet Teen for information about protecting yourself online. If you are in the US and need assistance financing an abortion or covering related costs, check out abortionfunds.org's list of funds, which is broken down by state and includes the three regional funds mentioned in this episode. You can also call the National Abortion Federation (NAF) hotline: 1-800-772-9100. The MAC hotline is 847-750-6224. The CAF hotline is 855-518-4603. Other links mentioned in the show include The American College of Obstetricians full statement about “medication abortion reversal”, episode 4 of the podcast Ordinary Equality, “Doctors with Borders”, and the NPR article, Abortion is Also About Racial Justice, Experts and Advocates Say. Also check out Maternal Mortality is Likely to Rise Post-Roe: The Reasons May Surprise You from Healthline, Pregnant at 16 and How Abortion Bans are Restricting Miscarriage Care from The Daily podcast, Confusion Post-Roe Spurs Delays, Denials for Some Lifesaving Pregnancy Care from the Washington Post, and This Isn't Just About Abortion: What the End of Roe Means for You From the Death, Sex & Money Podcast. Email Chris at [email protected]. Tweet him: twitter.com/sexwithchris. Snapchat: ChrisSowa. Instagram: chrisinamerica and Fetlife: Chris Sowa. Visit sexwithstrangersshow.com for more.

  • Chris Chats with porn star Reese Rideout and one of his biggest fans who recently took the opportunity to get banged by Reese on camera. Check out Reese's many links: OnlyFans (Gay), OnlyFans (Straight), Website, Mainstream Acting, Twitter, Instagram, TikTok, Strip-O-Gram, Sing-O-Gram, Stripping Santa. Check out the Guardian article mentioned on the show: How to Support Abortion Access in a Post-Roe America. AbortionFinder.org is an incredible resource for anyone in the US in need of abortion services. Support the show through our Amazon Wishlist, Paypal via the Donate icon at sexwithstrangersshow.com or Venmo Chris @chris-sowa-2. Always feel free to email Chris about anything at [email protected]. You can also tweet at him: twitter.com/sexwithchris. Find him on Snapchat: ChrisSowa. Instagram: chrisinamerica and Fetlife: Chris Sowa. Visit sexwithstrangersshow.com if the links in these show notes are not compatible with your podcast platform. Thanks for listening!

  • Chris Chats with two of the most popular couples in webcamming: Peppermint and Dusty and Honey and the Bear about the highs and lows of working in the adult entertainment industry. Find them all over the Internet:Chaturbate: Peppermint and Dusty Chaturbate: Honey and Bear OnlyFans: Peppermint and Dusty OnlyFans: Honey and Bear Twitter: Peppermint and Dusty Twitter: Honey and Bear Youtube: Peppermint and Dusty Youtube: Honey and Bear Tiktok: Honey and the Bear PeppermintDusty.com The promoted podcast in this episode is Hot Money. Listen here. Support the show through our Amazon Wishlist, Paypal via the Donate icon at sexwithstrangersshow.com or Venmo Chris @chris-sowa-2. Always feel free to email Chris about anything at [email protected]. You can also tweet at him: twitter.com/sexwithchris. Find him on Snapchat: ChrisSowa. Instagram: chrisinamerica and Fetlife: Chris Sowa. Visit sexwithstrangersshow.com if the links in these show notes are not compatible with your podcast platform. Thanks for listening!

  • Chris chats with pegging expert and professional dominatrix Pegstress Peggin Tha Stallion about all things pegging. Check out pegginthastallion.com and follow her on Instagram and Twitter. Check out Truffle Butter by Nicki Minaj featuring Drake and Lil Wayne and the Urban Dictionary page for truffle butter. Read the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom's Best practices for Consent to Kink and the Reddit thread mentioned in this episode simply titled “No Safeword?” Support the show through our Amazon Wishlist, Paypal via the Donate icon at sexwithstrangersshow.com or Venmo Chris @chris-sowa-2. Always feel free to email Chris about anything at [email protected]. You can also tweet at him: twitter.com/sexwithchris. Find him on Snapchat: ChrisSowa. Instagram: chrisinamerica and Fetlife: Chris Sowa. Visit sexwithstrangersshow.com if the links in these show notes are not compatible with your podcast platform. Thanks for listening!

  • Chris chats with a mix of listeners, comedians and fellow podcast hosts who have had sexual experiences with more than one gender. Guests include Rob Cohen from the Two Bi Guys podcast and comedians Cameron Escalante and Brooke Finegold from the Bisexual Diaries podcast. Other featured comedians include Carly Ballerini, Jamie Shriner, and Cameron Gillette. Listen to Chris' appearance on Campfire Sht Show here. Read the CDC factsheet titled 10 ways STDs Impact Women Differently from Men here. And learn more about BiRequest NYC at birequest.org. Support the show through our Amazon Wishlist, Paypal via the Donate icon at sexwithstrangersshow.com or Venmo Chris @chris-sowa-2. Always feel free to email Chris about anything at [email protected]. You can also tweet at him: twitter.com/sexwithchris. Find him on Snapchat: ChrisSowa. Instagram: chrisinamerica and Fetlife: Chris Sowa. Visit sexwithstrangersshow.com if the links in these show notes are not compatible with your podcast platform. Thanks for listening!

  • Chris Chats with an array of gangbang enthusiasts including porn performer and filmmaker Jamie Wolf and a female listener who had a spontaneous 15-man gangbang at Hawks PDX after hearing about their bi nights from episode 39 of this show. Other guests include a 66-year-old swinger who is having the best orgasms of his life, a female gangbang enthusiast with the goal of “playing” with someone from every country on Earth, and a bisexual crossdresser who has experienced gangbangs as a giver as well as a receiver. Check out all of Jamie Wolf's links here. For more Moneek Listen to the episode of Kinky Cocktail Hour mentioned on the show. And visit The Center for Sex Positive Culture the next time you are in Seattle. Shortly after this episode was completed Jamie Wolf clarified that he is okay going raw during a gangbang if and only if all other participants can provide proof of recent STI testing. In a previous episode Chris teased Debbie's upcoming appearance and said that her bathhouse romp featured 10 men instead of 15. Our sincerest apologies go out to Debbie, her family, and the fine people of Portland. Support the show through our Amazon Wishlist, Paypal via the Donate icon at sexwithstrangersshow.com or Venmo Chris @chris-sowa-2. You can also support the show by purchasing sex toys at kinkortoys.com Use promo code SWS for 20% off! Always feel free to email Chris about anything at [email protected]. You can also tweet at him: twitter.com/sexwithchris. Find him on Snapchat: ChrisSowa. Instagram: chrisinamerica and Fetlife: Chris Sowa. Visit sexwithstrangersshow.com if the links in these show notes are not compatible with your podcast platform. Thanks for listening!

  • In honor of Halloween, Chris chats with some kinksters who get off on giving and receiving fear. Guests include author and sex educator Devyn Stone and hypnotherapist and professional dominatrix Lady D Harrison. Find out more about the classes and other services offered by these two delightful monsters at devynstone.com and dandslifestyle.com. Additional kink resources are available at bound-together.net and kinklovers.com. Support the show through our Amazon Wishlist, Paypal via our website, or Venmo Chris @chris-sowa-2. You can also support the show by purchasing sex toys at kinkortoys.com (https://www.kinkortoys.com/) Use promo code SWS for 20% off! Always feel free to email Chris about anything at [email protected]. You can also tweet at him: twitter.com/sexwithchris. Find him on Snapchat: ChrisSowa. Instagram: chrisinamerica and Fetlife: Chris Sowa. Visit sexwithstrangersshow.com if the links in these show notes are not compatible with your podcast platform.

  • Chris chats with an array of masturbation enthusiasts spanning the gender and sexuality spectrum, including comedians, sex workers, writers, numerous listeners, and a number of previous guests. There’s even a brief cameo from XBIZ 2021 Sexpert of the Year Sunny Megatron. Other notable guests include, but are not limited to, comedian/storyteller Jonathan Euseppi, intersex author Maya Posch, and the three hosts of Marsha’s Plate Black Trans Podcast. Two representatives from online male masturbation community Bateworld.com, Tyler Dårlig Ulv and Anthony Ragonese, join to talk about that fascinating world as well as in-person jerk off clubs like the New York Jacks. This episode is sponsored by kinkortoys.com Use promo code SWS for 20% off! Support the show through our Amazon Wishlist, Paypal, or Venmo Chris @chris-sowa-2. Check out Jonathan Euseppi’s one-person show Cancer is Gorgeous for free in its entirety here or go to jonathaneuseppi.com for more about him. Check out Z’s Instagram, Mia Mix’s adult-oriented Twitter and DiamondStylz.com. Follow Anthony Ragonese on Twitter and check out his writing at thebatorblog.com. Tyler Dårlig Ulv’s writing is available at badwolf.blog. He can also be found on Twitter. Check out Maya Posch’s article, What Puberty is Like as an Intersex Person and mayaposch.com for more about her. Check out the Intersex society of North America's website for more about what it means to be intersex. Don’t forget to check out the Buzzfeed article, This Man Does Not Make Poppers, for a fascinating deep dive into all things poppers. The song featured in this episode is Truth by DeMeo. Go here to find it on your platform of choice. Listen to So Good by Big Sean and Metro Boomin featuring Kash Doll to see if it does as much for you as it did for Meeka. The two podcasts promoed in this episode are TAGS/Talk About Gay Sex Podcast and Slumber Party with Tim Murray. Email Chris at [email protected]. Tweet him: twitter.com/sexwithchris. Snapchat: ChrisSowa. Instagram: chrisinamerica and Fetlife: Chris Sowa. Visit sexwithstrangersshow.com for more.

  • In October of 2015, then Detroit-based stripper and waitress A'Ziah Zola King went viral with a 148-tweet saga about a hellish road trip to Tampa with another dancer that quickly spun out of control. Zola, the feature film inspired by the tweets, opened in US theaters on June 30th. Jessica Forgie’s real-life sex trafficking survival story begins right where the film ends. Always feel free to email Chris about anything at [email protected]. You can also tweet at him: twitter.com/sexwithchris. Find him on Snapchat: ChrisSowa. Instagram: chrisinamerica. And Fetlife: Chris Sowa. Go to sexwithstrangersshow.com if the links in these show notes are not compatible with your podcast platform.

  • Chris chats with a variety of gay porn performers: Skyy Knox twitter.com/knoxskyy, onlyfans.com/skyyknox, DeAngelo Jackson twitter.com/deangelojxxx, onlyfans.com/deangelojackson, Josh Brady twitter.com/joshbradyxxx, onlyfans.com/joshbradyxxx, Dante Colle twitter.com/dante_colle, dantecollexxx.com, onlyfans.com/dante_colle, Damian Dragon twitter.com/damianxxxdragon, damianxdragon.com, justfor.fans/damianxxxdragon, onlyfans.com/damianxxxdragon, Christopher Daniels twitter.com/ctopherdaniels, redlightleisures.com. Buy Christopher Daniels book here and DeAngelo Jackson's new Fleshjack toys here. Articles discussed in the show include, Owner of Rentboy.com Is Sentenced to 6 Months in Prison from the New York Times and the Rolling Stone piece, Asian Porn Performers Are Sick of Being Fetishized in Racist Roles. Music used in this episode is Truth by DeMeo. Check out his music here. Always feel free to email Chris about anything at [email protected]. You can also tweet at him: twitter.com/sexwithchris. Find him on Snapchat: ChrisSowa. Instagram: chrisinamerica. And Fetlife: Chris Sowa. Go to sexwithstrangersshow.com if the links in these show notes are not compatible with your podcast platform.

  • Chris chats with sex educator, sex coach, and author Stella Harris, whose brand new book is The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes. Check out StellaHarris.net for more information about her coaching and other services. This episode also features two listeners we are calling Jay and Kay, who have a lot of interesting and entertaining things to say about threesomes and their many adventures in this arena. You can support the show through our Amazon Wishlist, Paypal via the Donate icon at sexwithstrangersshow.com or Venmo Chris @chris-sowa-2. Always feel free to email Chris about anything at [email protected]. You can also tweet at him: twitter.com/sexwithchris. Find him on Snapchat: ChrisSowa. Instagram: chrisinamerica. And Fetlife: Chris Sowa. Go to sexwithstrangersshow.com if the links in these show notes are not compatible with your podcast platform.

  • Joanna Angel chats with Chris about making zombie porn, her possible future in stand-up comedy, and her new book Club 42: A Choose-Your-Own Erotic Fantasy. Follow Joanna everywhere: Instagram: instagram.com/joannaangel, Twitter: twitter.com/joannaangel, Free Only Fans: onlyfans.com/joannaangelfree, Premium Only Fans: onlyfans.com/joannaangel. Always feel free to email Chris about anything at [email protected]. You can also tweet at him: twitter.com/sexwithchris. Find him on Snapchat: ChrisSowa. Instagram: chrisinamerica. And Fetlife: Chris Sowa. Go to sexwithstrangersshow.com if the links in these show notes are not compatible with your podcast platform.

  • Amanda Blumenthal and Jean Franzblau are two of the world's very first intimacy coordinators. They joined Chris to discuss making Hollywood sex and nudity scenes more consensual, inclusive and authentic. Amanda's website is intimacycoordinator.com and her organization, the IPA, can be found at intimacyprofessionalsassociation.com. Jean's website is hollywoodintimacycoordinator.com. You can learn more about Cuddle Sanctuary at cuddlesanctuary.com and find out more about Jean's work as a sex educator at sexualesteemwithjean.com. Always feel free to email Chris about anything at [email protected]. You can also tweet at him: twitter.com/sexwithchris. Find him on Snapchat: ChrisSowa. Instagram: chrisinamerica. And Fetlife: Chris Sowa. Go to sexwithstrangersshow.com if the links in these show notes are not compatible with your podcast platform.

  • Chris chats with Diamond Stylz, Mia Mix, and Zee from Marsha's Plate Black Trans Talk podcast. Articles discussed on the show include Trump Administration Rolls Back Obama-Era Health Care Protections for Transgender People and During the Coronavirus Crisis, the Trump Administration's Environmental Rollbacks Continue. Always feel free to email Chris about anything at [email protected]. You can also tweet at him: twitter.com/sexwithchris. Find him on Snapchat: ChrisSowa. Instagram: chrisinamerica. And Fetlife: Chris Sowa. Go to sexwithstrangersshow.com if the links in these show notes are not compatible with your podcast platform.

  • Celeste and Rick met online in the middle of the COVID-19 pandemic. This is the story of them trying to in-person date while social distancing. Always feel free to email Chris about anything at [email protected]. You can also tweet at him: twitter.com/sexwithchris. Find him on Snapchat: ChrisSowa. Instagram: chrisinamerica. And Fetlife: Chris Sowa. Go to sexwithstrangersshow.com if the links in these show notes are not compatible with your podcast platform.

  • Miss Redline chats with Chris about being a cam girl, the challenges of growing up queer in the Bible Belt, and navigating the world as a trans woman. If you're looking for trans-affirming trans porn sites check out this 2013 list from Leatherati, this more recent one from Cosmopolitan, and this HuffPost article. Always feel free to email Chris about anything at [email protected]. You can also tweet at him: twitter.com/sexwithchris. Find him on Snapchat: ChrisSowa. Instagram: chrisinamerica. And Fetlife: Chris Sowa. Go to sexwithstrangersshow.com if the links in these show notes are not compatible with your podcast platform.

  • Chris Chats with cam performers LittleRedBunny, LiliMissArab, Maya Bum, Miss Lollipop, Angelica Vee, and one cam show viewer named David about the current state of the webcam industry. Check out LittleRedBunny Academy if you'd like to be coached by a camming legend. Current models and studio owners should go here to fill out her 2nd Annual State of the Webcam Industry survey. Always feel free to email Chris about anything at [email protected]. You can also tweet at him: twitter.com/sexwithchris. Find him on Snapchat: ChrisSowa. Instagram: chrisinamerica. And Fetlife: Chris Sowa. Go to sexwithstrangersshow.com if the links in these show notes are not compatible with your podcast platform.