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  • Dr Kirk Honda reacts to Andrew Callaghan’s apology for assaulting several women.

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    00:00 Intro

    00:29 Who is Andrew Callaghan?

    03:33 What are the allegations?

    10:51 Why might people develop sadism?

    13:58 What does Andrew Callaghan's apology consist of?

    39:31 How does a fear response instill morality?

    46:46 What are Andrew Callaghan's next steps?



    February 8, 2023



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    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

    Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although, we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com

  • Dr Kirk and Humberto recap the pandemic.

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    00:00 Intro

    00:25 Why did the Love is Blind reaction videos blow up?

    26:13 How did Love is Blind change Dr. Kirk's life?

    51:14 Dr. Kirk's lockdown life

    58:24 Pandemic vocab

    59:51 When did Covid-19 peak in the US?

    1:08:07 Depression & irritability during lockdown

    1:13:11 Notable events 2020

    1:28:15 Are masks effective?

    1:29:11 More notable events

    1:34:23 Dr. Kirk vaccine

    1:54:31 When did the world start to feel 'normal' again?

    1:58:32 Notable covid deaths in 2021

    1:59:16 Alaskan cruise

    2:06:35 What are some of the lasting effects of covid?


    February 6, 2023

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    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

    Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although, we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com

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  • [Rerun] Dr. Kirk and Bob discuss the difference between good and bad therapists.

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    July 8, 2020


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    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

    Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although, we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com

  • [Rerun] Can we predict two people falling in love? Does online dating work? Does the TV show Married at First Sight use valid science? Dr. Kirk does a deep dive on the empirical research on scientific matchmaking.

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    May 29, 2020

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    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

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  • Dr Kirk and Humberto recap the pandemic.

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    00:00 Intro

    00:13 Lockdown changes

    14:52 How did the pandemic affect what we purchased?

    28:35 How did the pandemic change habits in our lives?

    48:07 Corporate abuse of employees


    February 3, 2023


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    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

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  • Dr Kirk and Humberto recap the pandemic.

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    00:00 Intro

    00:15 Work shutdowns

    18:32 Trump and fear

    25:45 Love Is Blind changed our lives

    28:54 How did we connect with others during the lockdown?

    31:33 Could the Trump administration have saved more lives?

    February 1, 2023


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    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

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  • Dr Kirk and Humberto recap the pandemic.

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    00:00 Intro00:24 How scared were people in March regarding Covid-19?
    07:13 What is the definition of a pandemic?
    13:53 Is the pandemic over?
    18:25 What were their predictions for the pandemic?
    32:34 When did Seattle shut down?
    54:56 What was the lasting effect of the shutdown in Seattle?
    1:36:56 Were restrictions effective?


    January 30, 2023


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    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

    Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although, we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com

  • [Rerun] Dr. Kirk answers questions on dating. (Part 3)

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    December 11, 2020

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    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

    Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although, we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com

  • [Rerun] Dr. Kirk answers questions on dating. (Part 2)

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    December 9, 2020

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    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

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  • Dr Kirk and Humberto recap the pandemic.

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    00:00 Intro01:31 What happened pre-lockdown in February?
    31:57 What happened in early March?
    1:00:16 When did Dr. Kirk start the transition to teaching online?
    1:04:59 What was it like having a young child during lockdown?


    January 27, 2023


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    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

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    Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although, we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com

  • Dr Kirk and Humberto recap the pandemic.

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    00:00 Intro
    03:13 Pandemic movie intro?22:47 When did covid begin?
    24:00 When did the covid lockdown begin?

    43:34 Would quicker action from the government have saved lives?
    58:28 What are the statistics?


    January 25, 2023


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    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

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    Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although, we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com

  • Dr Kirk and Bob answer your questions.

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    00:00 Intro00:15 How can I help my ex that might have BPD?
    04:23 What psychodynamic therapy books do Dr. Kirk & Bob recommend?
    07:20 How can the MMPI get things so wrong?
    14:42 Does Dr. Kirk have any recommendations for someone with Bipolar II & ADHD?
    17:03 Do Dr. Kirk & Bob have favorite & least favorite clients?
    23:16 How can I feel seen by my family?
    24:30 How do I stop being codependent & worrying about my partner's death?
    29:21 Does Bob ever feel pressured by Dr. Kirk to be publicly vulnerable?
    31:55 How do clinicians approach clients with previous therapy displacement?
    40:28 Is rupture and repair rolled in with corrective experiences?
    43:42 How is fearful/disorganized attachment style conceptualized?
    53:16 Do Dr. Kirk & Bob have advice on starting over after a devastating loss?
    57:22 How do I break a feeling of abandonment and emptiness?
    59:01 What do Dr. Kirk & Bob think about self-help books?
    1:01:54 Do you know any practicing clinicians with personality disorders?
    1:05:38 What is the most effective way to treat cluster B disorders?


    January 23, 2023



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    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

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  • [Rerun] Dr. Kirk answers questions on dating. (Intro)


    November 6, 2020

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    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

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  • [Rerun] What is the science behind believing in conspiracy theories? Is it a mental illness? Dr. Kirk and Humberto discuss the research.

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    May 25, 2020

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    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

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    Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although, we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com

  • Dr Kirk and Bob answer your questions.

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    00:00 Intro
    00:39 Should I talk to my therapist about their approach towards therapy?
    09:24 Why is it so hard to find relationally oriented therapists?
    16:45 Where was Bob going when he hit a student driver?
    44:57 Would clinicians suggest patients should break up?
    52:12 What are Dr. Kirk & Bob's favorite RomComs?
    1:01:00 How do I improve my relationship with someone that won't work on themselves?

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    January 20, 2023

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

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  • Dr Kirk chats with Dr Zain Shamoon about racism within therapy training programs.


    00:00 Intro

    00:58 Who is Zain?

    06:30 What is it like being a family therapist going through a divorce?

    12:40 What does Zain teach at Antioch University?

    25:15 How do you avoid tokenizing minority students & create a fulfilling educational environment?

    33:41 What is a minority fellow?

    37:49 How do you model for your students & clients?

    58:55 How do you not care if your students & colleagues like you?

    01:14:38 How is intersectionality weaponized in institutionalized academic settings?

    1:33:46 What has Zain's experience been as a professor the last few years & how has it changed?


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    January 18, 2023

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

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  • Dr Kirk and Bob answer your questions.


    00:00 Intro

    01:00 Why does Dr. Kirk like to podcast with other people?

    02:33 How should I console someone that lost a loved one?

    03:59 An Update on Phil Cushman & mental health funding

    13:44 What do Dr. Kirk & Bob think about dissociative identity disorder?

    16:40 How do Dr. Kirk & Bob feel about the growth of the podcast?

    19:41 How would Dr. Kirk & Bob like to be described as therapists?

    20:49 How did Dr. Kirk learn to cry again?

    23:56 Should a parent share their trauma with their child?

    28:20 How should I pursue an ADHD diagnosis?

    32:12 What's the effect on a child of an untreated mentally ill parent?

    34:46 How does Bob feel when thinking of his fathers abuse?

    46:02 Does Bob avoid redirecting his anger?



    Bob Victim Anger and Other Things

    January 16, 2023


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    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


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  • [Rerun] Dr Kirk Honda talks about the Amanda Knox case, the social forces present, and the research regarding false confessions.

    October 6, 2016

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    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

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  • [Rerun] What are the seven types of family annihilators? Why do these parents kill their family? Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the cases and the research.

    February 21, 2020

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    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

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  • Dr Kirk and Bob answer your questions.

    00:00 Bad Therapy Rules, Toxic Masculinity, and Homophobia02:23 Why do some therapists write in third person?
    19:36 OPP
    21:48 What avenues are there for entering the mental health field without post-baccalaureate education?
    24:42 Should I bring up past sexual abuse with my father?
    28:09 When did Dr. Kirk & Bob first recognize toxic masculinity?


    January 13, 2023

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    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


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