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This week I spoke with Madeleine Gottlieb ā an award-winning director, producer, screenwriter, and one of my oldest friends.
I met Mads when I was five. She was the smartest person Iād ever met, with the bluest eyes and the most commanding presence.
We were a couple of drama kids. And listening back to this conversation on a walk this week, I realised, we still are.
We talk about morning rituals, meditation, ADHD, therapy, why Madsā word for 2025 scares her, and how cutting off all her hair at a roadside barber in Hobart turned out to be the best thing she ever did.
I loved this chat. Itās messy and raw and it made me smile. It also made me want to be braver. To be more myself.
Because over the last decade, Mads has stopped hiding. Sheās learning to live, fully and honestly, as who she truly is.
I hope you enjoy this chat as much as I did.
JYK š¤
Episode Links:
Learn more about Madeleine Gottlieb: https://www.madeleinegottlieb.comSign up to Between The Lines: https://jessicayolandakaye.substack.comRead the letter by Sol LeWitt and Eva Hesse: Letters of notePick your one word for 2025: www.myword.is -
When Matteo and I spent two months in Puglia at the end of last year, living in a sleepy seaside town, we had a weekend ritual: a long walk by the sea, swimming and reading at Lo Scalo, spaghetti vongole and a spritz, a gelato along the promenade, and a movie on the couch.
Off our phones, away from the rest of the world, we could switch off. It was incredible.
Iāve been thinking about it a lot latelyāless about Puglia, more about the presence we were able to cultivate there. Il dolce far nienteāthe sweetness of doing nothingāand how hard that is to access in the real world. A world that keeps getting faster and noisier, constantly telling us we should do more.
Should we?
More and more, I think definitely not.
This week on the pod, we talk about that. About going analogue, content fatigue, the tyranny of should, and why I forgotāthen rememberedāthat Iām an artist.
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Thereās a scene in A Complete Unknown I canāt stop thinking about.
Bob Dylan steps on stage at the Newport Folk Festival in ā65. Thousands and thousands of people chant his name. They came to hear the songs they know. To see the Dylan they know.
But Dylan has moved on.
He picks up his electric guitar and plays his new music. The crowd boos. They throw things. Festival organisers try to cut the sound.
Itās uncomfortable to watch. I caught myself thinking, Just give them what they want.
But he doesnāt.
He stands there and keeps playing. Looking forward, not back.
And sitting in that dark cinema on a quiet Sunday afternoon, I realised ā
I want to be brave like Dylan.
Lately, Iāve felt tornābetween what I think I should do and what feels true.
We talk about that on the pod this week.
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After seven years at luxury fashion house Zegna, Nimisha Gupta walked away from the safety of a big role to rediscover herselfāand her joy.
In this weekās episode of Between the Lines, we talk about making bold career leaps, finding your way back to creativity, and building a life that feels like yours.
We also dive into the rituals that help Nimisha stay inspiredāincluding why she takes a bath at 2pm every day (iconic).
And, of course, her word for 2025.
I loved this conversation with Nimisha. I hope you do too.
š Find Nimisha on Substack, instagram, and Nimisha Inc.
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š Find my art and instagram.
JYK š¤
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My earliest memories are anxious ones.
Clinging to my mumās legs as a child. Hiding under a laundry basket when people popped in. Waking up at 5 AM, putting on my school uniform, and sitting there for three hoursābecause I was terrified of being late.
For most of my life, anxiety was my default state.
And then last year, driving from Milan to Umbria, Matteo and I were listening to a podcast about anxiety when he paused it and askedāHow is your anxiety?
To my surprise, I said, Good. I hadnāt felt anxious in ages.
We both sat in silence, a little stunned.
Where did my anxiety go?
Iāve been sitting with that question for months. And recently, as I felt anxiety creeping back in, I realisedāthereās one thing that helps me most.
This week, Matteo and I talk about:
The unexpected weight of moving homeMy life with anxietyThe turning point that forced me to make a changeAnd the ritual thatās helping me feel more at ease (and could help you, too)The One Word Journal: https://www.myword.is/book
Between The Lines Newsletter: https://jessicayolandakaye.substack.com/
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Not long ago, I sat down with Grace OāNeill in her Kitchen in London, and we recorded a chat. Grace is a writer. The former editor of Elle Australia. The co-host of After Work Drinks. And one of the most important people in my life.
We met during lockdownāGrace and Zach in Apartment B, Matteo and I in Apartment D. The pandemic turned us, and our neighbour Lena (Apartment C), from strangers into family.
Grace and I have spent hours walking through Holland Park, talking about the messy reality of being an artistāfantasising about a life where we simply make art, go to bed early, and occasionally go somewhere fabulous.
Now, Grace is stepping into a new chapter, launching her Substack, embracing motherhood, and writing her first novel.
In our chat, we talk about the vulnerability of making things and sharing them. The temptation to jump ahead, to seek validation, to chase the third thing. And why, really, we should all just move to Paris.
We also talk about Rick Rubināa lot. The Creative Act is, to us, the bible. We discuss how there was life before that book and life after, and why weāre so obsessed with it.
Every time I speak to G, I feel seen, inspired, and so grateful.
I loved this chat. I hope you do too.
Links:
Grace's Substack 'So Darling': https://graceoneill.substack.com
The One Word Journal: https://www.myword.is/book
Between The Lines Newsletter: https://jessicayolandakaye.substack.com/
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Matteo and I sat down to talk about redesigning our life in Sydneyāfinding new rituals, navigating productivity shame, starting therapy, and having the courage to be ourselves. We share the Big Little Things weāre learning and why, in the end, it all comes down to one question: Does it charm you?
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Our One Word Journals here: https://www.myword.is/book
And my IG here: https://www.instagram.com/jessicayolandakaye
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Dr Aditi x The Mel Robbins Show (Horizonless)
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For as long as I can remember, Iāve woken up early. I used to resist it. But lately, Iāve realised itās a secret part of the dayāa time to catch ideas.
In this weekās pod, I talk about protecting your creative flow, the art of deep work, and the biggest thing I learnt from David Lynchās 2.5-hour masterclass.
Would love to hear what resonates.
JYK š¤
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Our One Word Journals here: https://www.myword.is/book
And my IG here: https://www.instagram.com/jessicayolandakaye
Episode Links:David Lynch's Masterclass: https://www.masterclass.com/classes/david-lynch-teaches-creativity-and-film
Matters Of The Art: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2SVBZY2u6rmR7Sj4nzWMXc?si=ca0ff7ed7f644c9a -
A few weeks ago, I took my brother for breakfast and traded coffee and eggs for advice. I told him everythingāmy podcast vision, the name, the look and feel. I talked for 40 minutes. And then I asked him for a strategy.
Then he looked at me and said:
"You love the planning. The mood boarding, the strategy, the world-building. But while youāre doing all that, youāre not making the podcast. Stop planning. Start the podcast."
Annoying, because he was right.
I thought I was moving forward, but really, I was hiding behind the planning.
So what does it take to actually do the work? To stop circling the idea and step into it fully?
Thatās what I explore in this weekās podcastāthrough the wisdom of Liz Gilbert, Nick Cave, Lucian Freud, Steven Pressfield, Rick Rubin, and my brother.
Would love to hear what resonates.
JYK š¤
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Our One Word Journals here: https://www.myword.is/book
And my IG here: https://www.instagram.com/jessicayolandakaye
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I love January, but I found this one hard. Not because of No Plans Janāthat gets easier every year. But because itās been a period of transition. Matteo and I are back in Sydney. Weāre staying in Sydney. And that still feels difficult to say out loud, even though it feels true.
This month, Iāve been thinking a lot about place. The place you live, and how you live within it. How to make space for what matters. How to find flow. How to cultivate resonance (my new favourite word). And how to practice patience along the way. I share about my experience in this episode.
You can find my newsletter here: https://jessicayolandakaye.substack.com/
Our One Word Journals here: https://www.myword.is/book
And my IG here: https://www.instagram.com/jessicayolandakaye
Episode Links:
Ezra Klein: Sabbath & The Art of Rest
Mel Robbins: If you Struggle With Stress & Anxiety, This Will Change Your Life
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On January 1st, Matteo and I each took out our One Word Journals and started writing. Guided by the book, we reflected on 2024, reconnected with whatās important, and set an intention for the year ahead.
In this chat, we talk about our words for 2025, why Matteo changed his word, and why I stuck to mine. Along the way, Matteo also drops a bomb I wasnāt quite ready to share.
I hope you enjoy listening!
And Iād love to know: what is your word for 2025?
JYK š¤
One Word Journal: https://www.myword.is/book
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This week, Matteo and I sat down to reflect on 2024.
It was a year that began with an eviction from our Notting Hill flat and ended by the seaside in Puglia, Italy. In between, there was a whirlwind of change ā a āmoveā to Milan, a retreat to the forests of Sweden, and an unexpected chapter living in the green heart of Umbria. Along the way, we wrote a book that weāre so proud of.
It was a year of unknowns and constant pivots. And yet, itās been one of the most transformative and beautiful years of our lives. A real lesson in letting go and discovering new ways of being and living.
In this episode of Between The Lines, we talk about the highs, the lows, the messy middle, and the quiet moments of clarity that came through it all.
December feels like the perfect time to take stock of it all and ask:
What will you leave behind in 2024? And what will you embrace in 2025?
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At the beginning of last year, I was in a creative rut. I knew I wanted to evolve my art but had no idea where to begin. I was terrified Iād never create anything worthwhile again and felt paralysed by indecision.
In this episode, I share how āplayā (my One Word for 2023) taught me to trust myself, and reconnect with the joy of expression, creativity, and life.
JYK š¤
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For years, I was living on autopilot, completely unaware of how disconnected I had become.
One simple question changed everything and fundamentally changed the course of my career and life. It led me to quit my job, rediscover painting, and set me on a path toward meaning rather than validation.
This episode is just six minutes long, but the truth is, it took me days!
JYK š¤
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The concept of journalling was always confusing to me; it felt elusive, awkward, and just another thing to do. So I resisted it for years. But the noise in my head kept getting louder. Matteo kept nudging me to try āpositive affirmationsā, and then my sister sent me a podcast that gave me the final push I needed.
Now, itās something I do every single day. Not because I āshould,ā but because itās a simple, quick practice that enriches my life in so many ways. Itās helped my confidence, self-esteem, and sense of peace.
Like all rituals, it took time and started small. Today, Iām sharing the simple prompt that got me started and the one word I remind myself of every day, in the hopes it helps you too.
JYK š¤
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How do we stay focused when our attention is pulled in a thousand directions?
This week, Iām sharing my frustrations with my phone, exploring the hidden cost of distraction on our energy and creativity, and discussing the simple practices that are helping me make space for the things that matter most to me right now.
If, like me, you often feel scattered or overwhelmed, this might be for you.
Thereās so much to unpack when it comes to attention, and I worry that weāre so addicted to tech, weāre not talking about it enough. Iād love to knowādoes it affect you too? And is it something youād like to explore further?
JYK š¤
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This week, I stepped out of my comfort zone and sat down to record this video.
Iām currently in Umbria, working on a podcast, which is pushing me to face my fears and navigate the unknown. Itās been both exciting and scary.
In this video, I share what it feels like to confront resistance, the discomfort of starting something new, and the book thatās helping me break through self-sabotage.
If youāve ever felt held back by perfectionism or fear, this might resonate with you. Sometimes, just showing up, no matter how messy, makes all the difference.
JYK š¤
ps. filming this was terrifying
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Over the last few months I wiped my Instagram, launched my new collection, and transformed my art studio into an exhibition space with almost 200 metres of drapery. In this 20-minute conversation, we touch on stepping into the unknown, finding the courage to lean into what excites you, and why everything is different this year. I hope you enjoy listening!
This conversation was recorded a few days before hosting my first open day, which was surreal. I absolutely loved meeting everyone and seeing their faces as they stepped into the space.
So much so, that Iāve decided to host another open day on Saturday, May 11th, and would love to see you there.
You can register here.
JYK x
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This week, I sat down with Matteo (aka Dory) to discuss why starting something new is so incredibly hard (and how to get started anyway). You can listen to our first recording above!
Recently, I had lunch with a friend who started a brand-new job in a completely new industry.
"Howās it going?" I asked.
"Good," she said. "Though, thereās a LOT to learn. Iām excited for six months from now when Iām actually good at my job."
Interesting, I thought. I felt the same way when I was pushing my art in a new direction; I felt like a beginner again, and that was very unsettling.
Our conversation made me reflect on how uncomfortable it feels to not be good at something. All we want is to reach that beautiful end state where things feel effortless.
And yet, true growth is found in the challenges along the way.
My sister shared an insightful perspective with me. After years of wanting to play the guitar but never taking the first step, she reached a point of frustration. So, she said to herself, "This year, I am going to be bad at guitar." And every time she picked up her guitar and played poorly (almost giving up), she reminded herself, thatās the point!
So often, we donāt start something new because we fear we will be bad at it. We donāt journal, draw or skip because we donāt know how. But when we confine ourselves to what we know and excel at, there is little room for discovery.
What if the goal IS to be bad? To forget the outcome and find joy in the process?
For years, I have wanted to try podcasting. And for years, I have avoided it.
Well, this year, Iām going to be bad at podcasting.*
And Matteo is going to be bad at Italian.
What are you going to be bad at?
As always, Iād love to hear from you.
JYK x
*evidence above!
Things we mentioned in our chat above š:
* Ira Glass on bridging the gap
* Casey Neistat on patience
* The War Of Art by Steven Pressfied
* BrenƩ Brown on FFTs
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A few days ago, Camille Liu Nock visited me at home in Sydney, and we spoke about our words for the new year. My word for 2024 is āease,ā and in this two-minute video, I share why!
Whatās your word for 2024?
JYK x
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