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  • Dr Kirk Honda discusses borderline personality and partner abuse while reacting to the reality TV show, Love Is Blind.

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    00:00 Introducing Love is Blind work
    16:35 Chapter 1 - Patterns of escalation
    54:12 Chapter 2 - Exerting control
    1:32:11 Chapter 3 - Abusive cycle
    2:17:27 Chapter 4 - Absolute thinking & respect
    2:34:47 Chapter 5 - Abandonment & betrayal
    3:09:00 Chapter 6 - Rejection & countertransference


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    April 22, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

    Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although, we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com

  • [Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda analyzes Tyrion Lannister from Game of Thrones.

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    June 3, 2027

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

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  • [Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda analyzes Theon Greyjoy from Game of Thrones.

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    June 3, 2027

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

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  • Humberto and Dr Kirk discuss the difference between abuse and exploration in childhood.

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    00:00 Where is the line between sexual exploration and abuse?
    45:44 Is the omission of infidelity harmful?

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    April 19, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

    Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although, we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com

  • Humberto and Dr Kirk discuss what grooming is exactly.

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    00:00 Power imbalance in management/abuse of the power dynamic
    16:29 How do I know if I'm being groomed as an adult?
    22:36 What is the definition of grooming?
    49:10 Am I having my needs met or being abused?
    1:02:15 Are these red flags of grooming?
    1:13:22 How can I recognize grooming from my childhood?

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    April 17, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

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  • Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails and takes random psychological tests.

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    00:00 How do we identify our needs?
    04:10 Where does the pleasure for sadists come from?
    08:57 Is it possible to treat sadists?
    14:07 OPP
    18:10 Can my therapist also be my supervisor?
    21:52 Is it weird to not experience existential anxiety?
    28:42 How can I prepare for grad school?
    34:37 OPP2
    35:49 Developing narcissism
    46:03 Completist listening of PiS
    49:09 Why do people self-diagnose?
    56:41 On the fence about having children
    59:00 How can I navigate therapy when my therapist has cancer?
    1:01:23 Am I creating a communication barrier?
    1:12:32 Dr. Kirk takes psychology scales

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    April 15, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

    Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although, we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com

  • [Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks analyzes Sandor Clegane (The Hound) from Game of Thrones.

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    April 26, 2017

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

    Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although, we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com

  • [Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda analyzing Cersei Lannister from Game of Thrones.

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    April 24, 2017

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

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  • Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails and takes random psychological tests.

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    00:00 How does recognizing our attachment style influence us?
    07:23 Is BPD only treatable through psychiatry & medication?
    14:00 Is the Hero Journey Club therapy?
    27:34 OPP 30:05 How can I support a friend with delusions?
    41:35 Has Dr. Kirk experienced the loss of a mentor relationship?
    55:30 OPP2
    58:24 What could cause a personality change?

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    April 12, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

    Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although, we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com

  • Dr Kirk Honda interviews Dan Koch (from the You Have Permission Podcast) about his new psychometric survey that measures religious abuse.

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    00:00 Introducing Dan Koch & liberal christianity
    12:51 How do some fall victim to the culture war?
    25:10 What is spiritual abuse?
    29:14 Koch's Spiritual Harm & Abuse Scale criteria
    49:24 Upholding the status quo & masculinity
    1:11:13 Christianity & choice
    1:23:36 Where to find Dan
    1:26:09 Christian YouTube discourse


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    April 10, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

    Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although, we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com

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    00:00 Is the DSM sponsored by big pharma?
    33:02 OPP
    35:32 How can I support someone in a DV situation?
    48:36 OPP2
    53:30 Is love bombing only associated with NPD?
    1:02:43 Recommending Blue-eyed Samurai
    1:03:12 Possibilities for living with chronic pain & fatigue

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    April 8, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

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  • [Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks for hours about Ramsay Bolton.

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    April 19, 2016

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

    Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although, we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com

  • [Rerun] Dr. Kirk analyzes Joffrey Baratheon from Game of Thrones.

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    September 17, 2014

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

    Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although, we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com

  • Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails.

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    00:00 Where should I look to work with NOMAPs?
    01:54 Debunking birth order & understanding sadism
    15:30 OPP
    16:25 Can IFS therapy be helpful with borderline?
    25:40 Using children in content creation
    37:43 Parentification & attuning to multiple children
    39:52 Do parents use their children to fill attachment needs?
    41:23 OPP2
    41:53 Will there be a deep dive on limerence?
    50:43 Why am I unable to sit in the quiet now?
    58:16 How are listener emails prioritized?

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    April 5, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


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  • Bob and Kirk answer patron emails.

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    00:00 Self-esteem & nudity anxiety
    39:26 OPP41:45 54321 grounding & relaxation anxiety
    54:56 OPP255:38 If diseases went to therapy, which one is emotionally healthy?
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    1:15:23 Tricking your brain to accept your needs

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    April 3, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


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  • Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails.

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    00:00 Is there a connection between childhood sexual abuse and obesity?
    04:15 How was the ACE test developed?
    28:42 The original ACE test questions
    43:17 What is correlated with ACE?
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    April 1, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


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  • [Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto talk about the mental syndromes within particular cultures.

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    March 2, 2020

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


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  • [Rerun] How can we get our cuddling needs met? Dr. Kirk interviews Erez Benari about his cuddling club, Spoonz. They also talk about polyamory and the sex positive culture movement in Seattle.

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    March 2, 2020

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

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  • Rebecca-sode! We talk about Love Is Blind Season 6.

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    00:00 How far in Love is Blind did Rebecca get?
    07:06 Has Rebecca watched any other shows like this?
    26:41 OPP
    31:42 Did Jimmy choose wrong?
    35:53 What did Rebecca think of Matthew?
    43:37 Why would Sarah DM Jeremy?
    50:12 Does Rebecca love Amy & Johnny too?
    53:41 How does Rebecca feel about the other cast members?
    1:03:39 Why do people get mad when women don't conform?
    1:16:48 Is Chelsea abusive?
    1:24:28 Will Rebecca watch more Love is Blind?



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    March 29, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


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  • Humberto and Dr Kirk talk about the podcast.

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    00:00 Reading Anna's poem
    01:48 Ideas for Humberto's merch
    18:08 OPP
    20:38 Dreams about Dr. Kirk & Humberto
    24:36 Does Dr. Kirk meet fans?
    41:37 OPP2
    43:11 Has the podcast always been influenced by listeners?
    1:20:46 How has the podcast evolved?


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    March 27, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


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