Welcome to your Tuesday Lifers!
We're getting a little spicy today! A topic that SO many of us have such an intrigue about, a world that hardly any of us know about; the sex work industry!
On today's podcast we are joined by the wonderful Samantha X, Australia's most well known escort.
We speak about what the biggest misconceptions of the adult industry are, what kind of things clients request (spoiler alert, it is likely NOT what you expected), the ins and outs of the industry and who the kinds of people that use these services are.
Want to know what the average age of woman that her clients request?
What do you think the sex is like?
Why do you think a woman would get into the industry?
Samantha breaks down a lot of our preconceived ideas of the industry and we hope that you enjoy this chat as much as we did!
You can find her here: https://samanthax.com.au/
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Happy therapy Thursday Lifers and today Producer Keeshia is jumping in the hot seat.
We often have questions about being cheated on, but today we're jumping into the less common dilemma of a cheater.
"I've turned into the person I never thought I'd be. I'm getting married in 3 months. I love my partner and I want our life together. I've been sleeping with someone from work for 2 months. How do I end it? We have a crazy sexual connection and the best sex I've ever had in my life."
We also jump into how important having the same religious/political beliefs as your partner are, and how to tell a friend that you do not want to travel with them!
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We have a very special Bonus episode for you guys, its the warm hug we all need right now and we promise this episode will leave you in a better happier headspace than we found you.
We have collated the absolute best life advice from our Lifers and packaged up here in one delectable little bonus episode for you.
To celebrate The Iconic turning ten years old this episode is all themed around "another year older another year wiser" and hooley dooley the lifers are a wise bunch!
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Today we are joined by the wonderful behavioural scientist and author Logan Ury!
She's a dating guru and dating coach at Hinge and she's written a book titled "How to not die alone."
We think it's mostly there in the title!
In today's episode we unpack some of the most common problems that people experience in dating, including their dating blind spots. We unpack the 3 dating tendencies and how we can use the info of which one we fall into to better curate our dating lives and relationships.
PLUS something that we've been asked hundreds of times "what should I put on my dating app bio" is answered in dot point format so that y'all can go out and live your best right swiped/liked lives!
To kick things off in this episode, we speak about the Facebook Files and the daming information that the Wall St Journal has uncovered!
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It's your enthusiastically unqualified but passionate about helping a sister out therapy Thursday where we dive into your deepest questions!
First cab off the rank today is about whether you need to experience a couple of people before you settle on 'the one.' What happens if you're really young and you've found the person you want to marry but you're afraid of the judgement?
Secondly, well things get a little juicier here and this one isn't for the faint of heart...
I want my husband to go down there after we've finished having sex, but he thinks it's a bit gross and weird. Opinions?
Next up we're talking how to address that awkward AF sitch when your neighbours have obnoxiously loud sex; like, wake the dog up loud! How do you get them to shush it without making it hella awkward?
Lastly we dive into what to do when someone that you really liked and dated for 2 months completely ghosts you, and then resurrects themselves with an apology. Do you entertain it or throw it in the bin?
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Today we are talking about a very important relationship in your life, one that you probably think about at least 3 times per day and maybe without even realising it. It's your relationship with FOOD!
Britt's sister Sheri Hockley- nutritionist, PT, radiation scientist and all around great lass, joins us today and opens up the conversation of nutrition and diet culture.
Diet culture is so incredibly ingrained in us that many of us may not even be aware of how much it affects our daily life!
In this episode we discuss:
-Sheri's hearing loss
-How our relationship with food can affect our mental well being and why we have such a f*cked up mentality around diet culture
-How food affects our mood/how periods alter our cravings
-Whether food can be medicine
-Pre and pro biotics
& different types of diets.
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If you are new to the pod, welcome. We introduced a new segment today called "confessionals."
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Soaking, parking, floating, marinating, dock and park, jump and hump… never heard these terms in relation to sex before? Well fear not, neither had we! Until a teenage Mormon armed with Tik tok made our day and shed some light on this hush hush act.
Kinks. My newish boyfriend just told me he has a few different kinks and mentioned things like urinating during sex as one of them. I’m not sure I’m ready. Do I try or dump and run!?
My boyfriend of one year wants to move in together, I think he is my penguin but I low key want to live alone forever! Help!? How do I broach this and is this normal!?
My ex messaged out of the blue and wants to “catch up” to see how I’ve been.
I’m seeing someone now and very happy but also considering meeting my ex… is this ok? Should I meet him? Do I tell my bf? Do I blow him off? (Not literally, metaphorically of course, get your mind out of the gutter would ya)
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In today's episode, we jump into something a lot of y'all have been asking about; manifestation! The law of attraction is it the way to get what you want in life or is it a bit too woo woo to work?Well, today we are joined by the lovely, pragmatic, manifestation guru and journalist Jordanna Levin to talk all things manifestation and how it can affect your dating and love life.We speak about how manifestation has been a little misrepresented in the pop culture space and how rom coms from Hollywood have warped our perception of what to expect out of a 'soul mate.'Oh, and we also start off this episode by discussing the random household items you guys have used as lube... ya weirdos ;)You can find everything about Jordanna and her books, podcast and social media here: https://www.jordannalevin.com/If you know someone who is a bit stuck in a rut, or someone that might need a bit of help not continuously attracting narcissists into their lives, then share this ep with them & share the love because we love lovvvve x x
Happy therapy Thursday Lifers!
Today we're jumping into your questions with a toughy!
-I don't agree with my parent's morals. They're racist and I don't want my children growing up around those kinds of perspectives. Do I cut them off from seeing my children?
-I'm feeling really left out at work. My colleagues are all friendly with each other and do things outside of work...without me. How do I infiltrate 'the click' and become friends with them?
-I've made a new friend. We chat ALL the time. I have a boyfriend and I'm feeling a bit bad because I'm not sure if my new friend thinks that we are going somewhere romantically. Am I doing anything wrong? He doesn't know that I have a boyfriend!
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September has been given a new name - Soft launch September! We talk all things soft launching a partner, a baby, even soft launching yourself back in to singledom! Is it cute and exciting or just plain annoying!? Also, Britt's coming home! We hope!
We've been told our whole, Hollywood movie impacted, lives that when we meet our person, we will know! They will be everything! But what happens when we get slapped in the face with reality and someone ticks every one of our boxes, except that we don't necessarily want to rip their clothes off?
We are talking ATTRACTION
Does this mean that they're not 'our penguin?'
Does it mean that we should continue dating them in the hopes that those feelings develop?
Does it make us a bad person if we call it quits in search of the spark?
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It's therapy Thursday Lifers, and we have this weeks dilemmas to get to the bottom of!
Help, my bestie's Fiancé sent me a snapchat of him getting a blowy from a ummmm man,
My house mate won't stop with the PDA with his new partner
My boyfriend won't shag me because he has self esteem issues....
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Happy Tuesday Lifers! Today we opening things up, and we are talking non-monogamy and open relationships and by goodness WE HAVE SO MANY QUESTIONS!
We have the wonderful Bianka Ismailovski from Damsel In Distress podcast joining us, Bianka is in a non-monogamous relationship with her boyfriend and she is here to answer your questions.
How does it work?
What are the rules?
Don't you get jealous?!
Whether you've ever considered having an open relationship or you're just curious about how it all goes down, Bianka should be able to provide some insight into a world that not many of us have experienced.
You can find Bianka on instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/biankaismailovski/?hl=en
You can find her podcast here: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/damsel-undistressed/id1535867660
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Welcome to your therapy Thursday Lifers and we're diving into some biggies today!
Producer Keeshia joins Britt today and FINALLY shares her own accidentally unfiltered. The girls talk about friendship-dating before jumping into your deep, burning questions.
Today we look at:
-My housemate has been sleeping with a married guy for 2 years. She is convinced he will leave his wife for her. I can't handle it any more.
-I've been with my partner for 5 years and we aren't really in love any more. I've kind of just ended up here. I'm worried that we will just get married and I'll regret it.
-My friend is dating a new guy and he's showing a lot of red flags. My partner says that I should shut my mouth and let her work it out for herself. What do you think?
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Happy Tuesday Lifers!
Or maybe we should be wishing you a content Tuesday? Because in today's episode we are diving into the happiness trap and how our goal should possibly be one more of content-ness than happiness. We sat down and chatted mental health and mindfulness with Hugh Van Cuylenburg from The Resilience Project.
Hugh's story is interesting. It's thought provoking, and it's empowering. In times like how we are living right now, we couldn't think of a better time to talk to someone like him.
Hopefully after listening to this episode, you'll feel that little bit better and more ready to take on the week.
You can find everything about Hugh here: https://theresilienceproject.com.au/about/
Content warning: This episode touches on suicide, If this could be triggering for you in any way this episode may not be for you, x
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THIS IS IT! Our last Bach Uncut episode, we couldn't wrap the season until we sat down with Brooke to talk about her experience, her heartbreak and how she is doing now that filming has wrapped.
Brooke shares how often her and Jimmy were in contact when she left the mansion, why she was convicted it was going to be her and how she is coping with life and heartbreak after the Bachelor.
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Its the big kahuna, the big cheese, the chat of the century... the Bach Uncut episode we have all been waiting with baited breath for. On today's episode we are sitting down with Holly and Jimmy and having a good old yarn with Australia's newest bachie royals.
Holly shares the truth behind the mean girl drama, where things are at with Brooke and we also get our hands on a very saucy voice memo that Jimmy left for his new love, and well we don't call him the Kinky Captain for nothing.
A big thank you to Starbucks At Home for making this episode possible and keeping us all caffeinated during lockdown.
Goodness gracious me it’s the final week of Bach Uncut! Jimmy’s already clocked off for the season so he’s making the last three remaining girls organise their own dates. Holly clearly snagged the entire remaining budget and she picks Jimmy up in a pimping two-story boat. They talk about what life would be like after the show and even though Jimmy admits he’ll work so much that he’ll only be around 2 weeks of the year, Holly doesn’t care because she admits she’s fallen in love with him. Whaaaat, love bombs already and it’s not even the finale !? Jimmy replies by pushing her in the water because he loves to give her hyperthermia on their dates. Jay is up next and all she can afford is a leaking kayak in the harbour. They paddle around, listen to classical music (Jimmy hates it) and then he confronts her about the 83rd rumour he’s heard - Jay used to date the Bachelor New Zealand. It’s at this point we knew it was all over for Jay. Brooke is up next and she’s stolen a puppy to play with in the park. Just when you thought Brooke was all glitter and fairies, she throws Jimmy in a hot tub and girates him until Osher kicks them out.
Time for the finale and we’re all heading to Alice Springs to meet Jimmy’s family ! His mum, dad and sister are there and even his cousin.. Because we all know how invaluable dating advice is from your cousin (please explain Jimmy). Jimmy’s mum is team Holly and his dad is team Brooke and his sister is like.. just f*#king tell us who you’re going to pick already (the cousin literally doesn’t say a word). Brooke’s single date is very bloody adorable and she’s literally having the best time of her life as they enjoy a champagne sunrise in a hot air balloon. She’s so certain it’s going to be her at the end and oh god - our hearts are already breaking! Holly’s date is up next and they snag a cheap flight to Uluru but the only catch is that Jimmy’s parents paid for it so they’re coming along for the date (this actually kinda happened). The finale is as brutal as you can imagine but it’s not a total disaster because we’re gifted a beautiful love story with Holly and Jimmy, which makes it all worthwhile. WE LOVE LOVE !
Last night we said goodbye to Chess girl, our business class babe and Matty J's pick for the season Jay!
Jay debunks all the rumours from the season, how she felt about being thrown under the bus by Steph and the truth behind her past relationship with New Zealand's Bachelor.
Happy Thursday Lifers,
It's time to get into your deep, dark and burning questions but FIRST we simply must know how the heck Britt manifested this friendship with Rebel Wilson that we're seeing all over the gram!
Our deep dives for today are:
-Friendship/sibling work relationships. Do they work with work? How do you get them to work?
-I've been in a happy relationship for a long time and we have great sex. The catch is that I've been faking orgasms because getting to the big O has been tough and I have some factors like meds coming into it. Do I tell my partner that I've been faking it for 6 months or will that destroy him?
-I'm pregnant and I feel excited, sad and terrified all at the same time. Is this abnormal or is it business as usual to have doubts as high as the ceilings?
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Welcome to your Tuesday Lifers!
Today on the podcast we are diving into the history of racial injustice and inequality that so many Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples face every day in Australia.
We were lucky enough to be joined by Carly Stanley, the CEO and co founder of Deadly connections and Justice services limited, a proud Wiradjuri woman.
Carly featured on the NITV documentary titled "Incarceration Nation."
In this chat we speak to Carly about how her husband's life turned around after his experiences from juvenile detention & adult incarceration, to running an organisation that aims at healing First Nations people that have been impacted by the child protection and/or justice systems.
We talk about why so many Indigenous children are being locked up and how we need structural change and better solutions for these children.
Today's episode is not a light one, and we would like to add a warning that issues of violence, death and racism are addressed in this episode.
If you would like to check out the wonderful work that Carly does with Deadly Connections, you can do so here: https://deadlyconnections.org.au/
If you would like to view the documentary, Incarceration Nation can be found here: https://www.sbs.com.au/ondemand/video/1930938947662/incarceration-nation
The issues discussed in today's episode are heartbreaking and raw, but they are conversations that we think every Australian needs to have. Please share this episode with someone that you love.