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Join John and Jackie in this blast from the past episode as they discuss what to do when you have a bad experience inside a lifestyle club or swinger party!
If you have ever had a bad experience, you are not alone! Through out the years, many of our followers have reached out with their own stories and asking for advice when the night does not go as planned. So be sure to listen or watch this episode and see what you can do if you find yourself in a similar situation!
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John and Jackie dive into the important topic of body image within the lifestyle community.
They share insights on how everyone, regardless of their appearance, can find a place and feel accepted in lifestyle clubs, parties, and events. John and Jackie discuss common concerns from those new to the lifestyle, emphasizing that attraction is diverse and subjective.
They highlight the inclusivity and acceptance found in lifestyle spaces, contrasting it with the often judgmental atmosphere of mainstream nightclubs. This episode is a must-listen for anyone feeling apprehensive about their appearance and considering joining the lifestyle community.
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Can swinging be a solution to marriage issues? Today we talk about a married couple who are having some challenges in their relationship and decided to try something different to see if it could help.
The husband suggested they open up their relationship and see other people, which is something completely new and different for them. But what about the fears and concerns that come from that as they explore this new option?
Things like insecurity, managing communication, and the importance of focusing on the positives and not just the negatives.
Let's dive deeper into this couple's situation and talk about it!
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In this episode, we sit down with the dynamic duo from The Swing Nation, Dan and Lacy, to hear about their incredible journey within the lifestyle. We kick things off with a fun chat about how they first met as a unicorn and a bull. Dan and Lacy share the story of their relationship’s evolution from casual encounters to a deep, loving connection, all while navigating the complexities of non-monogamy.
We discuss the challenges and triumphs of maintaining an open relationship, including how they dealt with jealousy, set boundaries, and eventually found a balance that works for them.
We also touch on their unexpected rise to fame on TikTok and how their openness about their lifestyle has impacted not just their lives but also the wider community.
This episode is packed with insights on love, communication, and the importance of being true to yourself in any relationship.
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In today's blast from the past episode, John and Jackie discuss different types of Open Relationships.
From Swinging Relationships to Myths to Emotional Attachments! This short podcast is the perfect introduction to the different types of Open Relationships!
Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)
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In today's episode, we dive into the exhilarating yet sometimes challenging topic of New Relationship Energy (NRE).
We discuss the powerful emotions that arise when you meet someone new and how it can impact you and your partner.
Whether you're new to open relationships or a seasoned pro, NRE can catch you off guard. We share personal experiences and practical tips to help you understand, embrace, and navigate these feelings with your partner.
Join us as we explore how NRE can be a positive experience, offering joy and excitement, while also addressing the insecurities and fears that might arise. This episode is all about turning NRE into an opportunity for growth and deeper connection.
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John and Jackie answer a follower submitted question in today's episode!
"Have You Ever Faced Discrimination in the Swingers Lifestyle?"
In today's episode, they discuss their experience with people judging their relationship and how they deal with the stigma that comes from being in a "non-traditional" relationship.
Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)
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John and Jackie explore the transformative power of setting boundaries in relationships from a positive perspective. Instead of focusing on what we don't want, we discuss how emphasizing what we are comfortable with can foster a more supportive and exciting partnership.
Join us as we share practical tips and personal experiences on creating positive boundaries that enhance intimacy and connection.
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John and Jackie sit down in this blast from the past episode and talk about Swinging in the Lifestyle and a few questions they received regarding swinging alone.
They share about their journey navigating through the lifestyle and how they have grown as a couple.
Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)
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As owners of lifestyle clubs, we hear all the common complaints from members about single guys, so we figured we make a video and share some things NOT to do as a single male at swingers clubs.
AVOID these at all costs if you want to connect and play well with others!
Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)
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In this episode, John and Jackie tackle various aspects of navigating the swinging lifestyle based on questions from their audience.
"How do I deal with the emotional challenges in witnessing my partner's satisfaction with someone else outside group scenarios?"
Listen in for practical advice on handling attraction dilemmas, emphasizing communication and individual comfort levels in play situations.
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We went to an incredible open relationship workshop in Austin, Texas called "True Sex and Wild Love" and here is recap in case you missed it! (And yes we talk about the pink thing.)
The event was hosted by Aubrey Marcus, CEO of Onnit, a company that makes and markets nutritional supplements, fitness equipment, and more in the spirit of optimizing human performance, and his fiance Whitney Miller, who is a relationship coach. (And they both happen to be in an open relationship.)
The guest speaker at their event was Dr. Wednesday Martin, author of the award-winning book "Untrue: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Infidelity Is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free".
It was incredible to hear Dr. Martin talk about the benefits of open relationships from her scientific perspective and the research about the critical time period when monogamous couples seek variety (is it the man or woman?!).And finally of course, we talk about this mysterious pink thing.
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In this episode, John and Jackie dive into a conversation about the positive impact of the lifestyle on women.
Jackie reflects on the acceptance and camaraderie among women in the lifestyle, where competition is replaced by celebration.
They explore how consensual non-monogamy can empower women, providing a platform for sexual growth, independence, and breaking free from societal constraints.
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Want to have your cake and eat it too?
Well, it takes two to tango.
But, you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink.
And, that's enough old proverbs (for now) :)
Being in a swinging or poly relationship DOES take consent and understanding from all parties involved, but how do you do that? Well, we've got the video for you because that's the question we address today!
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In today's episode, John and Jackie discuss the common experience of handling rejection and dealing with canceled dates.
They explore the emotional impact of these situations, sharing personal anecdotes and insights on how to navigate the complexities of dating in both single and married life. The discussion emphasizes the importance of not jumping to conclusions, maintaining open communication, and learning from rejection experiences.
John and Jackie offer practical advice for those new to the lifestyle, encouraging a positive outlook and resilience in the face of canceled plans.
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When it comes to consent, what's usually discussed is getting consent from the person with whom you would like to have a physical interaction.
What's not talked about as much is giving consent to your partner on what you're comfortable with them doing with others so that they don't cross any boundaries you may have.
The tricky part to this whole thing is doing it without being too controlling or possessive. After all, shouldn't each person have the right to their own body and actions? (You're not the boss of me!)
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You know what they say, "The only thing constant is change."
And that includes playing with couples in our open marriage. How it started is not how it is today.
How we go about it. What we do while we're playing. The things we think about. The things we do with our partner. What's ok and what's not.
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In this episode, John and Jackie explore the concept of transforming negative experiences in the lifestyle into valuable learning opportunities.
The conversation revolves around handling discomfort, setting boundaries, and fostering positive communication within the swinging community.
Reflecting on past experiences, Jackie shares personal insights on the significance of being an advocate for oneself. The discussion touches on the challenges of vocalizing boundaries and preferences, highlighting the evolution of communication skills over time.
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Open Relationship Advice: How To Handle Fear & Jealousy
John and Jackie answer a follower submitted question in this week's episode!
Do you have any advice or techniques to help alleviate self-doubt and stress and is it common for the wife to take the leadership role in the lifestyle adventure? Listen hear John and Jackie's answer! -
In this episode, John and Jackie delve into the intricacies of friendships when one person is in an open relationship.
Courtney shares her experiences as the friend in an open relationship, facing both positive and negative reactions from friends in monogamous relationships.
The conversation explores the dynamics, challenges, and societal perceptions surrounding open-relationships within friend circles.
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