Episoder

  • Sherry Hoppen stops by the BJDW studio to share her powerful journey of addiction and recovery, highlighting the pivotal role that surrendering to God and finding a supportive community has played in her healing process. She opens up about the challenges of addressing alcohol use disorder within the church, shedding light on the shame and stigma that often hinder open conversations. Sherry emphasizes the need for more resources and understanding within faith communities.

    Throughout the episode, Sherry stresses that surrendering to God and connecting with a supportive community is vital for a successful recovery from the drinking cycle. Her ministry, She Surrenders, provides the necessary faith-based support for women on the path to recovery. Sherry also discusses how writing a breakup letter to alcohol can serve as a powerful tool to resist temptation and remain committed to sobriety.

    You can learn more about Sherry and her incredible ministry at https://www.shesurrenders.com/

    JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE!

    Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Pre-order now and join us for 6 weeks of coaching through the book in our community.

    Learn More about Coaching with Christy

    Learn More about Coaching with Meade

    Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine

    You can find this episode on YouTube HERE

    The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.

  • Today, we’re chatting about the transformative power of playfulness. We explore how a lack of play often signals underlying anxiety—and how humor, play, and creativity can be powerful antidotes to stress. We share lots of practical ways to invite more fun and lightheartedness into your alcohol-free life. By exploring the surprising link between play and natural dopamine release, we reveal how activities like dancing, singing, and even being silly with your kids can provide the mood boost we often seek in alcohol.

    Through personal stories and reflections, we emphasize how reconnecting with our playful selves relieves stress, deepens our relationships, and enhances our well-being. This episode highlights how play is a secret superpower that creates a lasting sense of well-being.

    Tune in to learn practical tips for incorporating more play into your daily routine, how to reclaim joy through small, simple actions, and why playfulness is key to living an alcohol-free life that is not only manageable but genuinely fun. Whether you're on an alcohol-free journey or simply seeking more happiness in your everyday life, this episode is packed with inspiration, laughter, and actionable insights.

    JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE!

    Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Pre-order now and join us for 6 weeks of coaching through the book in our community.

    Learn More about Coaching with Christy

    Learn More about Coaching with Meade

    Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine

    You can find this episode on YouTube HERE

    The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.

  • Mangler du episoder?

    Klikk her for å oppdatere manuelt.

  • Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Pre-order now and join us for 6 weeks of coaching through the book in our community.

    We had the incredible privilege of inviting early readers to share their personal experiences with Love Life Sober: A 40-Day Alcohol Fast and how the book has impacted their sobriety journeys. Each woman opened up about her own struggles with alcohol, the challenges of recovery, and how the blend of neuroscience and biblical insights in the book provided both practical tools and spiritual guidance.

    What made this conversation so powerful is how these women highlighted the unique structure of the book, which combines scientific insights with Scripture, addressing the often-overlooked struggles Christian women face with alcohol. It was amazing to hear how the actionable steps and faith-based approach truly resonated with them. Through their stories, we underscored the transformative power of faith and the critical role of having compassionate support throughout the process.

    If this conversation speaks to you, we would love to invite you to begin your own journey. When you preorder Love Life Sober at lovelifesober40dayfast.com, you'll receive an exclusive invitation to join us for three months in the BJDW community, along with six weeks of free coaching to guide and support you.

    Learn More about Coaching with Christy

    Learn More about Coaching with Meade

    Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine

    You can find this episode on YouTube HERE

    The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.

  • Today, we are honored to welcome Caroline Beidler—an inspiring author, dedicated recovery advocate, and the visionary behind the Circle of Chairs Substack. Caroline shares her powerful story, taking us on a profound journey through her struggles with addiction and trauma, and revealing how she transformed these challenges into a beacon of hope for others on the path to healing and recovery.

    Caroline opens up about her powerful books, "Downstairs Church: Finding Hope in the Grit of Addiction and Trauma Recovery" and "You Are Not Your Trauma: Uproot Unhealthy Patterns, Heal the Family Tree," shedding light on her mission to lead women towards profound healing and lasting recovery. The conversation dives deep into the intricate link between trauma and addiction, exploring the often-overlooked impact of intergenerational trauma and how these deep-rooted issues can shape our lives.

    Listeners will gain invaluable insights into the critical role of community, faith, and actionable daily rhythms in the recovery process. Caroline passionately advocates for greater understanding, compassion, and empathy towards those facing addiction, urging a shift away from judgment and stigma.

    This episode is more than just a discussion—it's a heartfelt call to action. Caroline challenges each of us to reclaim our power, break free from the chains of trauma and addiction, and foster transformative change within ourselves and our communities.

    You can purchase Caroline’s new book, "You Are Not Your Trauma: Uproot Unhealthy Patterns, Heal the Family Tree” here and you can follow her on instagram @carolinebeidler_official. You can also follow Caroline's substack, Circle of Chairs, here.

    JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE!

    Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Pre-order now and join us for 6 weeks of coaching through the book in our community.

    Learn More about Coaching with Christy

    Learn More about Coaching with Meade

    Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine

    You can find this episode on YouTube HERE

    The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.

  • Today Anne Nicely shares her powerful journey from battling alcohol addiction to finding freedom and purpose through her faith in Jesus Christ. Anne candidly recounts her early experiences growing up in a small Kentucky town, where her father’s severe addiction deeply impacted her life. Despite vowing never to follow in his footsteps, Anne found herself caught in a cycle of binge drinking that left her overwhelmed with guilt, shame, and anxiety.

    She reflects on the pivotal moments that led her to surrender her life to Christ, the transformative power of vulnerability, and the role that sharing her struggles with others played in the freedom story. Anne emphasizes the importance of community and the necessity of being honest about one’s struggles, noting that it was through listening to the stories of others and immersing herself in the Word that she found the strength to quit drinking for good.

    She shares how she initially kept her decision to quit drinking private, relying on podcasts and sermons to keep her grounded in her early days of sobriety. Anne’s testimony is a powerful reminder of God’s grace and the freedom that comes from fully surrendering to His will. You can follow Anne on instagram at @The_Bright_Eyed_Sober_Girl.

    JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE!

    Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Pre-order now and join us for 6 weeks of coaching through the book in our community.

    Learn More about Coaching with Christy

    Learn More about Coaching with Meade

    Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine

    You can find this episode on YouTube HERE

    The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.

  • Today, we welcome Amy Betters-Midtvedt, author of the newly released You'll Make It (And They Will Too): Everything No One Talks About When You’re Parenting Teens. Amy brings a wealth of experience as a mother of five, ranging from ages twelve to twenty-two, and shares candid stories about the complexities of raising teenagers in today’s world.

    Throughout the discussion, Amy offers insightful strategies for maintaining strong connections with teens, even when faced with challenging situations like mental health struggles or questioning their faith. She emphasizes the significance of curiosity, intentionality, and grace, while also sharing her personal journey through experiences such as guiding a child through an eating disorder and supporting another during bouts of anxiety.

    Amy’s conversation is not just about surviving the teenage years but also thriving as a family. Her book, filled with wisdom, prayers, and actionable advice, is a must-read for any parent feeling overwhelmed or isolated in their journey.

    Whether you’re grappling with how to communicate effectively with your teen, looking for ways to celebrate their unique qualities, or need reassurance that you’re not alone, this episode offers both comfort and practical tips for every parent’s toolkit.

    You can get Amy’s book right here: You'll Make It (and They Will Too): Everything No One Talks About When You're Parenting Teens

    JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE!

    Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Pre-order now and join us for 6 weeks of coaching through the book in our community.

    Learn More about Coaching with Christy

    Learn More about Coaching with Meade

    Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine

    You can find this episode on YouTube HERE

    The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.

  • In today’s episode, we’re diving into all the little and big ways that ditching alcohol has seriously boosted our confidence. We’re chatting about how those small things—like actually remembering to wash off your mascara or not forgetting to leave money from the tooth fairy—make us feel more self-assured and on top of our game. And we’re also getting into the bigger stuff, like setting boundaries and learning to be totally okay with the fact that we can’t control what others think of us. These changes have helped us feel clearer, stronger, and more like the women we’ve always wanted to be.

    As we chat today, we’re highlighting how alcohol tricks us into thinking it’s boosting our confidence by lowering our inhibitions, but in reality, it’s just chipping away at our self-worth and making us second-guess ourselves. By living alcohol-free, we’ve stopped that cycle of doubt and started fully embracing our decisions with clarity and self-trust. It’s a whole new level of genuine confidence that doesn’t come with the regrets that alcohol often leaves behind. We know you all love our list-of-10 episodes, so we hope you enjoy this one! And don’t forget—you can always join the conversation in the BJDW community. We meet every week to talk about the episodes, share prayer requests, and just hang out as women who love Jesus (or are curious about Him) and are either living alcohol-free or looking to break free from it.

    JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE!

    Learn More about Coaching with Christy

    Learn More about Coaching with Meade

    Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind

    Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine

    You can find this episode on YouTube HERE

    The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.

    #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery #grief #mindset #Godsplan #opportunities #feedingoursouls #choice #newneuralpathways #self-compassion #Jesus #freedom

  • Join us for an inspiring and heartfelt conversation with our friend, Em Tyler, as she shares her powerful journey of transitioning from New Zealand back to the UK, leaving behind a life she cherished. Em opens up about the deep grief of feeling unfinished in New Zealand and grappling with why God led her there only to bring her back. In this episode, we chat with Em about the power of transforming her mindset, choosing to focus on the good and the new opportunities God has in store for her. She passionately talks about feeding our souls with God's truth and dwelling on things that are good, lovely, and admirable. Learn how taking our thoughts captive and creating new neural pathways can change our lives. Em shares her insights on self-compassion, kindness in our inner dialogue, and seeing Jesus as a compassionate coach. Be inspired to focus on the next right thing, trust in God's guidance, and embrace the freedom of not having to be the hero of your own life. This conversation is a must-listen for anyone seeking encouragement and practical wisdom for navigating life's challenges with faith and positivity.

    To connect with Em, visit her website, listen to her Go + Grow with Em Tyler podcast and follow her on IG and FB @helloemtyler

    JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE!

    Learn More about Coaching with Christy

    Learn More about Coaching with Meade

    Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind

    Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine

    The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.

    #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery #grief #mindset #Godsplan #opportunities #feedingoursouls #choice #newneuralpathways #self-compassion #Jesus #freedom

  • In this inspiring episode, former New Age practitioner and author, Caroline Dooner, joins us for a third time (check out episodes #57 & 58 for her first two appearances with us) as she opens up about her incredible journey of healing and the profound shift in her perspective on life. She candidly discusses her previous belief that controlling and healing every aspect of her life was necessary, a mindset that ultimately became overwhelming and daunting.

    Caroline shares about a pivotal moment in her life—a significant dental health challenge—that led her to surrender to God's plan. This experience helped her realize that healing doesn't require perfection. Instead, it calls for trust and peace in the Lord. This newfound understanding brought a profound shift in her approach to healing and life.

    Join us as we chat with Caroline about the difference between her work before and after her spiritual conversion, emphasizing how God's guidance now plays a central role in her life. She discusses her journey of embracing change, finding authenticity, and surrendering to God's plan. Caroline also shares how she has overcome internal chaos, navigated misunderstandings, and dealt with unpopularity by staying true to herself.

    Throughout our conversation, Caroline highlights the importance of embracing nuance, asking questions, and finding joy in nature. She emphasizes the value of disconnecting from technology to reconnect with oneself and the world around us.



    To connect with Caroline visit her website, follow her on IG @carolinedooner and check out her fascinating and hilarious substack, Problematic at carolinedooner.substack.com. And grab a copy of both of her books The F It Diet and Tired as F.



    JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE!

    Learn More about Coaching with Christy

    Learn More about Coaching with Meade

    Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind

    Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine



    The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.

    #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery

  • Get ready for an eye-opening discussion with Jessica Lahey, the acclaimed author of 'The Addiction Inoculation,' as we chat with her about the complex world of substance use among children and teenagers. Jessica tackles the pervasive myths and misconceptions head-on, illuminating the real facts parents need to know.

    Discover why delaying the introduction of drugs and alcohol is crucial in lowering the risk of developing substance use disorders. Jessica shatters the all-too-common belief that 'everyone is doing it,' backing her arguments with solid evidence. She shares practical advice on how to have those tough but necessary conversations about the dangers of substance use, highlighting the critical role of understanding genetic risks.

    This episode isn't just about debunking myths—it's about empowering parents with accurate information and strategies for proactive parenting in a culture that often normalizes dependency. Learn the importance of ongoing, open dialogues with your children, the impact of social media on youth drinking, and the effectiveness of prevention programs.

    Join us for a conversation that emphasizes the power of informed, honest communication and the importance of modeling healthy behaviors to raise resilient, well-informed kids.

    To learn more about Jessica and the work she does, visit her website and follow her on IG/Threads @teacherlahey



    JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE!

    Learn More about Coaching with Christy

    Learn More about Coaching with Meade

    Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind

    Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine



    The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.

    #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery #substanceuse #addiction #parenting #teenagers #myths #misconceptions #prevention #communication #youth #socialmedia

  • Fear and anxiety are rampant in our world, weighing us down and leading to profound physical consequences. Our misaligned priorities and superwoman tendencies often lead us to believe that hustle is honorable when it's actually harmful. For Christy Boulware, a severe panic and anxiety disorder diagnosis was the wake-up call she needed.

    Today, our conversation delves into the critical importance of community, discipleship, and faith in overcoming fear and anxiety while celebrating the audio release of Christy's powerful book, "Nervous Breakthrough: Finding Freedom from Fear and Anxiety in a World That Feeds It.”

    Together, we explore the impact of unresolved pain and the importance of identifying what we can and cannot control. We also chat about the challenges of parenting in the digital age, emphasizing the need for intentional communication with teenagers. By taking small actions, we can significantly impact our lives and live more intentionally in a technology-driven world.

    Order Christy’s book, Nervous Breakthrough” (now also available on audible!) here.

    JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE!

    Learn More about Coaching with Christy

    Learn More about Coaching with Meade

    Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind

    Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine



    The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.

    #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery

  • Hadley Sorensen, a mother of three, lifelong runner, and writer, shares her journey from social drinking to sobriety. Her book, The Dirty Truth on Social Drinking: “Everything in Moderation” and Other BS, debunks common myths about alcohol consumption and explores the concept of 'gray area drinking.' Hadley discusses the societal pressures that fueled her drinking habits, the challenges of quitting, and how her last hangover two and a half years ago marked the beginning of a new, beautiful life. She now uses her social media platform to inspire others to realize that anyone can quit drinking at any time, for any reason—no rock bottom required.

    Hadley explores the profound impact of alcohol on personal and family life, the strategies to break free from dependency, and the importance of questioning societal norms around drinking. Her insights from the book offer a relatable perspective on sobriety, emphasizing the positive changes it brings, such as improved relationships and mental clarity. This heartfelt conversation sheds light on the struggles with alcohol and celebrates the victories of living a sober life, providing hope and motivation for those on a similar path.

    To learn more about Hadley, visit her website, order her book and connect with her on IG @hadley_sorensen

    JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE!

    Learn More about Coaching with Christy

    Learn More about Coaching with Meade

    Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind

    Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine



    The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.

    #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery

  • In this heartfelt and inspiring episode, Wendy Speake ministers to women's hearts through her unique blend of storytelling and biblical life application. Wendy, author of multiple books including "The 40-Day Sugar Fast" and "The 40-Day Social Media Fast," shares her journey from hearing God's call at 18 to becoming a creative storyteller and Bible teacher. We chat about turning to God in times of struggle, the power of fasting, and the importance of replacing unhealthy desires with a deeper desire for God. We discuss how fasting can be a powerful tool for redirecting our focus toward God.

    The conversation also highlights the concept of feasting on God's word, with Wendy sharing insights from her book, "The 40-Day Feast," which encourages listeners to deepen their relationship with God through intentional time in His word. She emphasizes that increasing our desire for spiritual nourishment and God's presence is more effective than simply trying to eliminate unhealthy desires.

    Wendy's approach, whether on stage or on the page, combines the power of God's word with personal testimony, meeting women in their common struggles and pointing them towards the transformative power of God's Word and the faithful nearness of His Holy Spirit. Tune in to hear Wendy's inspiring journey and gain valuable insights on turning your struggles into opportunities for spiritual growth and intimacy with God.

    Check out Wendy’s Books here:

    The 40-Day Sugar Fast: Where Physical Detox Meets Spiritual Transformation The 40-Day Social Media Fast: Exchange Your Online Distractions for Real-Life Devotion The 40-Day Feast: Taste & See the Goodness of God’s Word The 40-Day Sugar Fast: Where Physical Detox Meets Spiritual Transformation

    JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE!

    Learn More about Coaching with Christy

    Learn More about Coaching with Meade

    Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind

    Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine



    The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.

    #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery

  • After a year of podcasting, we kept receiving requests for more ways to connect with our “readers.” We felt the Lord leading us to create a community where our listeners could engage with each other on a deeper level. Through our research, we realized there wasn't a dedicated community for Christian or Jesus-curious women on an alcohol-free journey. While there were many support groups for women quitting alcohol, none brought in our ultimate source of hope, Jesus. So, we founded a unique, women-only community to help women move beyond their struggles with alcohol, supported by faith and fellowship.

    Our community has flourished beyond our expectations. With weekly connection calls, expert-led masterclasses, and a dedicated Bible study, we've built strong bonds with the women who join us each week to pray, love, and support each other. We've tried to convey the essence of this community in brief podcast snippets, but we felt it was time to dedicate an entire episode to our members. We invited them to share what this community means to them, expecting maybe a couple of responses. However, we were overwhelmed by the number of women who showed up and their heartfelt testimonials. If you're interested in joining our BJDW community, follow this link to connect with us :

    JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE!

    Learn More about Coaching with Christy

    Learn More about Coaching with Meade

    Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind

    Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine



    The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.

    #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery

  • JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE!

    Heather Creekmore joins us to delve into the intricate topic of body image and its profound impact on women, heightened by the pervasive influence of diet culture. Drawing from her personal journey, Heather shares her struggles with body image and how she found liberation from disordered eating patterns. She challenges the notion of exercise solely as a means for weight loss, advocating for joyful movement and finding pleasure in physical activity. Heather encourages listeners to adopt a more nuanced and intuitive approach to health, letting go of rigid black-and-white thinking to embrace holistic well-being.

    In a vulnerable conversation with Christy and Meade, Heather further explores the pressures women face to conform to societal beauty standards, exacerbated by social media's influence. They discuss the importance of self-acceptance and the detrimental impact of media portrayal on young girls' body image. Heather shares insights from her books, 'Compared to Who?' and 'Aging Gratefully,' underscoring the significance of inner beauty and the freedom attained by shifting perspective. Tune in to gain valuable insights from Heather Creekmore's journey and her empowering perspective on body image, diet culture, and finding true freedom in Christ.



    To learn more about Heather and the work she does you can find her at:

    www.improvebodyimage.com and purchase her books here:

    New body image workbook "40-Day Body Image Workbook"

    New book on aging "Aging Gratefully: A 30 Day Devotional on Aging"

    Learn More about Coaching with Christy

    Learn More about Coaching with Meade

    Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind




    Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine



    The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.

    #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery

  • JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE!

    Learn More about Coaching with Christy

    Learn More about Coaching with Meade

    Order Christy’s New Book, Love Life Sober, here.

    In this insightful episode, Michelle Myers, co-founder of She Works His Way, delves into the significance of community and finding contentment in Christ. Michelle emphasizes that work is not confined to a job title; rather, it encompasses anything a believer does that requires effort. She underscores the importance of unity and love among believers, advocating for seeking God first and finding rest in Him. Sharing her personal journey of learning to be content, Michelle encourages listeners to make Jesus the focal point of their lives.

    Michelle also introduces a practical approach to self-assessment and well-being through regular check-ins in four key areas: spiritual, physical, emotional, and relational. She presents a simple evaluation tool using the colors red, yellow, and green to help individuals gauge their status in each area. By asking specific questions, we can gain valuable insights into our overall well-being and pinpoint areas needing attention. Michelle highlights the necessity of prioritizing spiritual health and its influence on other aspects of our lives, while also stressing the value of vulnerability and community support during these evaluations.

    Key Takeaways ~

    Redefining Work: Understanding work as any effort a believer undertakes, not just a job title.

    Community and Unity: Emphasizing the need for unity, love, and mutual support among believers.

    Finding Rest in God: Encouraging the practice of seeking God first and resting in His presence.

    Contentment in Christ: Sharing personal experiences of learning to be content with Jesus as the focus.

    Self-Assessment Tool: Introducing a simple red, yellow, and green evaluation method to monitor well-being.

    Four Key Areas: Regularly checking in on spiritual, physical, emotional, and relational health.

    Spiritual Health Priority: Highlighting the impact of spiritual well-being on other areas of life.

    Vulnerability and Support: Emphasizing the importance of community and vulnerability in personal growth.

    Discussion Questions:

    1. How can redefining work change your perspective on daily tasks and responsibilities?

    2. In what ways can you cultivate unity and love within your community of believers?

    3. What practices help you seek God first and find rest in Him amidst a busy life?

    4. How can you implement the red, yellow, and green evaluation tool in your daily routine?

    5. What steps can you take to prioritize your spiritual health and its impact on other areas of your life?

    6. How can vulnerability and community support play a role in your self-assessment journey?

    Tune in to hear Michelle Myers' profound insights and practical advice on fostering contentment, unity, and holistic well-being in your life.

    To learn more about Michelle and her work, you can connect with her at: sheworkshisway.com

    patreon.com/sheworkshisway

    facebook.com/sheworkshisway

    instagram.com/sheworkhisway

    You can find this episode on YouTube HERE



    Learn More about Coaching with Christy

    Learn More about Coaching with Meade

    Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy

    The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.

    #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery

  • In today's episode, we're honored to host Christopher Cook, an author, coach, and pastor, who courageously shares his path of profound healing and transformation. His journey, shaped by the trauma of his mother's battle with cancer, her passing, and his own health diagnosis that deeply rattled him, offers profound insights into our capacity, through Christ, for resilience and renewal.

    Christopher emphasizes the imperative of addressing the broken and crushed spirit, illuminating the path to heart transformation and renewal. He introduces us to the transformative SEED method—Secure, Examine, Expose, and Decide—a profound blueprint for renewing the mind and reclaiming one's inner peace and purpose.

    Christopher highlights the significance of surrender as not merely capitulation, but a courageous act of yielding to a process of confrontation and metamorphosis. Anchoring ourselves to the vine, Jesus Christ, and daily surrendering to His divine guidance, Christopher underscores the profound power of fixing our focus on God as the compass guiding our journey of healing and restoration.

    We also chat about the transformative power of vulnerability and community, inviting listeners to embrace daily actions and say yes to God's leading as they embark on their own journey of renewal. Ultimately, Christopher reminds us that the goal of transformation extends beyond personal happiness, aspiring instead to become agents of profound change and stewarding our lives for God's glory.

    Come alongside us as we explore the transformative force of anchoring our gaze on God, guiding us toward healing from the marks of our past.

    You can find Christopher Cook on Instagram @wintodaychris and buy his book, "Healing What You Can't Erase: Transform Your Mental, Emotional, and Spiritual Health from the Inside Out,” right here on Amazon.

    Learn More about Coaching with Christy

    Learn More about Coaching with Meade

    Order Christy’s New Book, Love Life Sober, here.

    Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy

    You can find this episode HERE on YouTube



    The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.

    #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery

  • Today, we welcome the beautiful (inside and out) Brittany Estes, a renowned life coach, speaker, and author, to the podcast. In this captivating episode, Brittany shares her poignant journey of overcoming false narratives about worth and embracing a life of freedom and authenticity.

    Brittany delves into the transformative power of identifying and challenging the lies we often internalize about ourselves. Drawing from her acclaimed book Flip the Script, she illuminates the profound impact of replacing negative self-talk with God's truth.

    Brittany emphasizes the crucial role of parents in demonstrating healthy beliefs and behaviors for their children, stressing the significance of doing the inner work to liberate them from the chains of self-doubt and insecurity. From body image issues to the pervasive belief of not being enough, Brittany provides practical tools and invaluable insights to empower listeners to cultivate a positive, truth-filled mindset and embrace their inherent worth.

    Join us as we explore the transformative power of gratitude, the importance of acknowledging the impact of our words and actions on others, and the liberating journey of flipping the script to embrace a life of freedom. Whether you're a parent striving to model healthy beliefs for your children or an individual yearning to break free from the chains of self-doubt, this episode provides a roadmap to reclaiming your truth and living a life filled with hope and truth.

    You can find Brittany Estes on instagram at @jbrittanyestes and you can order “Flip The Script, Make Your Move From Broken To Brilliant” here.

    JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE

    Learn More about Coaching with Christy

    Learn More about Coaching with Meade

    Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy

    You can find this episode HERE on YouTube



    The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.

    #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery

  • Allison Barber shares her profound journey to sobriety, shedding light on the complex evolution of her relationship with alcohol. Growing up as a rule follower, Allison felt the societal pressure to conform and fit in, leading her to question why she couldn't simply be a "normal drinker." However, amidst this struggle, she discovered the empowering truth that she had the freedom to choose – not only whether to drink or not, but also how to break free from the grip of alcohol's influence. This newfound agency went beyond the decision of whether to drink, empowering her to break free from alcohol's grip and take charge of her life. Through embracing personal responsibility, she transcended victimhood and paved her own path towards becoming the empowered woman she longed to be.

    With introspection and faith as her compass, she found solace in the profound realization that God was redeeming her story, transforming her struggles into a source of strength and resilience. She encourages our listeners to understand how being an observer of one’s life can lead to empowerment and the ability to make small but meaningful changes. Allison offers so much hope to women who feel stuck by encouraging them to have the freedom to take personal responsibility and make change.

    You can find out more about Allison here.

    JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE

    Learn More about Coaching with Christy

    Learn More about Coaching with Meade

    Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy

    You can find this episode on YouTube HERE

    The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.

    #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery

  • JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE

    Join us for a deeply moving episode as we welcome our dear friend Rina Bowring to the podcast. As a fellow alcohol-freedom coach, Rina brings a wealth of wisdom and vulnerability to our conversation, sharing her unique journey of overcoming alcohol addiction and postpartum rage.

    Rina recounts her early struggles with alcohol, using it to feel liberated and accepted. However, as she transitioned into motherhood, her relationship with alcohol spiraled into a destructive cycle, prompting her to confront the harsh reality of her addiction. With unwavering determination, Rina embarked on a journey of self-discovery, navigating the turbulent waters of postpartum rage and finding peace and hope with Jesus in sobriety.

    Rina underscores the transformative power of self-reflection and the importance of embracing vulnerability in the journey towards healing. She shares invaluable insights on the role of faith in finding solace and strength amidst trials and emphasizes the profound impact of choosing authenticity and connection in motherhood.

    From the pitfalls of societal expectations to the liberating power of self-care, Rina's journey is a testament to the resilience we can access when we bring God along on this freedom journey.

    Special note- Coach Rina will soon be offering a connection call in the community for anyone in Australia or surrounding timezones. For more information and to join us email [email protected]

    Learn More about Coaching with Christy

    Learn More about Coaching with Meade

    Connect with us on Instagram! @butjesusdrankwine @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy

    You can find this episode HERE on YouTube

    The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.

    #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery #rinabowring