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  • Justin and Mercedes discuss a Bad Therapy story of poor boundaries and where it leads. If you have your own Bad Therapy story, send it to [email protected]

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    This and other content produced by Justin Sunseri (“JustinLMFT”) (i.e; podcast, YouTube, Instagram, etc.) is not therapy, not intended to be therapy or be a replacement for therapy.  Nothing in this creates or indicates a therapeutic relationship.  Please consult with your therapist or seek for one in your area if you are experiencing mental health symptoms.  Nothing should be construed to be specific life advice; it is for educational and entertainment purposes only.

    Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).

  • Learn experiences of the Polyvagal freeze state, like changes in cognitions and underlying impulses.

    00:00 Introduction

    00:50 Understanding Freeze State: Insights and Analogies

    04:23 Cognitive Effects of the Freeze State: Analysis and Examples

    08:22 Addressing Shame and Cognitive Adaptations in Freeze State

    10:09 Therapeutic Approaches: Top-Down and Bottom-Up Strategies

    11:29 Closing Thoughts and Resources

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    🔸Free ebook, "Trauma & the Polyvagal Paradigm" when you sign up for my email list - https://www.justinlmft.com/books

    🔸Learn the Polyvagal Theory simply and for free - https://www.justinlmft.com/polyvagalintro

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    Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).

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  • Explore practical strategies for understanding and gradually replacing negative coping skills eventually and slowly with healthier alternatives, employing the principles of the Polyvagal Theory. Host Justin Sunseri shares insights from a discussion with his private community, offering techniques to recognize and modify behaviors such as binge eating by creating a mindful space between impulse and action. The episode navigates the challenges of self-regulation and provides a compassionate framework for individuals seeking to address their coping strategies without judgment or shame.

    00:00 Introduction

    01:17 Strategies for Managing Negative Coping Skills

    05:22 The Journey Towards Mindfulness and Self-Regulation

    07:13 Preparation Stage of Change

    08:41 Join the Stuck Not Broken Community

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    🔸Learn the Polyvagal Theory simply and for free - https://www.justinlmft.com/polyvagalintro

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    This and other content produced by Justin Sunseri (“JustinLMFT”) (i.e; podcast, YouTube, Instagram, etc.) is not therapy, not intended to be therapy or be a replacement for therapy.  Nothing in this creates or indicates a therapeutic relationship.  Please consult with your therapist or seek for one in your area if you are experiencing mental health symptoms.  Nothing should be construed to be specific life advice; it is for educational and entertainment purposes only.

    Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).

  • The Polyvagal Theory is not a solution, but a scientific understanding of our biological reactions. So, how does the PVT apply to stage fright? What Polyvagal states are occurring and what can you do about it?

    00:00 Introduction and Background

    00:46 Understanding Performance Anxiety and Polyvagal Theory

    02:39 The Science Behind Stage Fright

    04:45 Exploring the Freeze Reaction

    06:14 Factors Contributing to Performance Anxiety

    10:22 Strategies to Overcome Performance Anxiety

    15:50 Closing Thoughts and Contact Information

    16:25 Disclaimer and Additional Resources

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    This and other content produced by Justin Sunseri (“JustinLMFT”) (i.e; podcast, YouTube, Instagram, etc.) is not therapy, not intended to be therapy or be a replacement for therapy.  Nothing in this creates or indicates a therapeutic relationship.  Please consult with your therapist or seek for one in your area if you are experiencing mental health symptoms.  Nothing should be construed to be specific life advice; it is for educational and entertainment purposes only.

    Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).

  • Learn why you might have difficulty accepting safety cues, even from your loved ones. Your Polyvagal state acts as a filter and changes your perception of your interactions with others.

    00:00 Introduction and Viewer's Question

    00:52 Understanding Safety States

    01:39 The Role of Interpersonal Relationships in Safety States

    03:45 The Impact of Defensive States on Perception

    05:48 Building Strength in Your Safety State

    07:28 Alternative Avenues for Anchoring Safety

    08:20 Conclusion and Invitation to Join Trauma Recovery Courses

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    🔸Free ebook, "Trauma & the Polyvagal Paradigm" when you sign up for my email list - https://www.justinlmft.com/books

    🔸Learn the Polyvagal Theory simply and for free - https://www.justinlmft.com/polyvagalintro

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    This and other content produced by Justin Sunseri (“JustinLMFT”) (i.e; podcast, YouTube, Instagram, etc.) is not therapy, not intended to be therapy or be a replacement for therapy.  Nothing in this creates or indicates a therapeutic relationship.  Please consult with your therapist or seek for one in your area if you are experiencing mental health symptoms.  Nothing should be construed to be specific life advice; it is for educational and entertainment purposes only.

    Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).

  • Emotions, including sadness, are not random but are responses to our body's state. Use this three-step process to begin feeling your sadness with self-compassion.

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    🔸Learn the Polyvagal Theory simply and for free - https://www.justinlmft.com/polyvagalintro or the entire Polyvagal 101 playlist - https://player.captivate.fm/collection/cce134e7-1550-4d33-8e56-738d344c63b0

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    01:11 Understanding Sadness and Emotions

    01:40 The Polyvagal Theory and Emotions

    03:37 Recognizing and Validating Sadness

    04:10 The Three-Step Process: Validate, Normalize, Give Permission

    06:24 Anchoring in Safety and Dealing with Sadness

    10:11 Different Flavors of Sadness

    11:09 Polyvagal Trauma Relief System and Conclusion

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    Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).

  • Learn how to feel ventral vagal safety even when it feels out of reach through 3 different options: imagination, co-regulation, and mindful sensory experiences. These 3 options may be the most approachable for identifying and eventually building safety within.

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    This and other content produced by Justin Sunseri (“JustinLMFT”) (i.e; podcast, YouTube, Instagram, etc.) is not therapy, not intended to be therapy or be a replacement for therapy.  Nothing in this creates or indicates a therapeutic relationship.  Please consult with your therapist or seek for one in your area if you are experiencing mental health symptoms.  Nothing should be construed to be specific life advice; it is for educational and entertainment purposes only.

    Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).

  • Therapist and Coach Justin Sunseri lists all 9 official Polyvagal Theory autonomic states and shares the story of Courtney. The episode demystifies different autonomic states like Safety, Flight/Fight, and Shutdown, and their mixed states such as Freeze, Play, and Stillness. Justin dives into the nuances of these states, explores how to identify them in Courtney's relatable, emotional journey, and guides you to recognize and understand these states within your own experiences.

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    Polyvagal Trauma Relief System - https://www.justinlmft.com/traumarelief

    Intimacy podcast episode - https://youtu.be/zS-IYlJWVAo

    Appease and Fawn podcast episode - https://youtu.be/4vTXTEF47pQ

    Trauma and the Polyvagal Paradigm ebook - https://www.justinlmft.com/books

    Polyvagal 101 audio series - https://player.captivate.fm/collection/cce134e7-1550-4d33-8e56-738d344c63b0

    Polyvagal Intro web page - https://www.justinlmft.com/polyvagalintro

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    Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).

  • Your mindset might not be the main problem when it comes to making lasting change in your life. Instead, your underlying Polyvagal state matters more. The state of one's body influences emotions, behaviors, and even one's mindset. The concepts of the "growth mindset" and "fixed mindset" were popularized by Carol Dweck. But maybe it's not as simple as choosing a growth mindset. Learn about the Polyvagal Theory, which suggests we have three basic states: safety, flight/fight, and shutdown. Ultimately, how readily one can access the 'safety' state is crucial to cultivating a growth mindset.

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    Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).

  • Discover how the Polyvagal Theory sheds light on binge eating as a behavioral adaptation. This episode post delves into the complex interplay of defensive autonomic states and eating disorders, offering insights for those seeking a deeper understanding of their eating behaviors and paths to healthier coping mechanisms.

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    This and other content produced by Justin Sunseri (“JustinLMFT”) (i.e; podcast, YouTube, Instagram, etc.) is not therapy, not intended to be therapy or be a replacement for therapy.  Nothing in this creates or indicates a therapeutic relationship.  Please consult with your therapist or seek for one in your area if you are experiencing mental health symptoms.  Nothing should be construed to be specific life advice; it is for educational and entertainment purposes only.

    Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).

  • Discover the intersection of emotional regulation and the Polyvagal Theory in trauma recovery, discussing the balance between 'allowing' and 'doing' in emotional regulation. Addressing whether one needs to experience overwhelming sadness to heal, he emphasizes individualized approaches to trauma recovery. Justin also delves into his unique method, highlighting the role of bodily sensations and impulses in understanding and processing emotions. This engaging talk is a journey through the layers of sadness, exploring the importance of safety, mindfulness, and compassion in healing from trauma.

    Polyvagal Trauma Relief System - https://www.justinlmft.com/traumarelief

    Trauma and the Polyvagal Paradigm ebook - https://www.justinlmft.com/books

    Polyvagal 101 audio series - https://player.captivate.fm/collection/cce134e7-1550-4d33-8e56-738d344c63b0

    Polyvagal Intro - https://www.justinlmft.com/polyvagalintro

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    Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).

  • Deb Dana takes the difficult Polyvagal Theory academia and translates it into everyday language. This episode identifies and explains her most valuable contributions to the Polyvagal Theory: glimmers, Story Follows State, Home Away from Home, and the Polyvagal Ladder.

    (book links will take you to Amazon. If you purchase, I will get a portion of the sale at no extra cost to you.)

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    Polyvagal Practices - https://amzn.to/3MGxv8E

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    Polyvagal Exercises - https://amzn.to/3Ur528z

    Justin’s Polyvagal Trauma Relief System - https://www.justinlmft.com/traumarelief

    Justin’s Trauma and the Polyvagal Paradigm ebook - https://www.justinlmft.com/books

    Justin’s Polyvagal Intro web page - https://www.justinlmft.com/polyvagalintro

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    Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).

  • Explore the complexities of repairing relationships with insights on co-regulation, trust, and vulnerability. Learn how self-regulation and empathy can help heal and mend bonds. Understand the dynamics of misattunement and ruptures, and discover practical strategies for rebuilding trust and healthy connections.

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    This and other content produced by Justin Sunseri (“JustinLMFT”) (i.e; podcast, YouTube, Instagram, etc.) is not therapy, not intended to be therapy or be a replacement for therapy.  Nothing in this creates or indicates a therapeutic relationship.  Please consult with your therapist or seek for one in your area if you are experiencing mental health symptoms.  Nothing should be construed to be specific life advice; it is for educational and entertainment purposes only.

    Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).

  • Have you ever felt calmer and more secure just by being around a specific person? You feel more safe with that person because of co-regulation. I'll explore how this deep-rooted biological process plays a vital role in shaping your emotional and physiological states. From the calming effects of a loved one's presence to the subtle cues of safety we exchange with those around us, co-regulation is an essential part of being human - and healing from trauma.

    SNB: Total Access - https://www.justinlmft.com/totalaccess

    Polyvagal Trauma Relief System - https://www.justinlmft.com/traumarelief

    Trauma and the Polyvagal Paradigm ebook - https://www.justinlmft.com/books

    Polyvagal 101 audio series - https://player.captivate.fm/collection/cce134e7-1550-4d33-8e56-738d344c63b0

    Polyvagal Intro - https://www.justinlmft.com/polyvagalintro

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    This and other content produced by Justin Sunseri (“JustinLMFT”) (i.e; podcast, YouTube, Instagram, etc.) is not therapy, not intended to be therapy or be a replacement for therapy.  Nothing in this creates or indicates a therapeutic relationship.  Please consult with your therapist or seek for one in your area if you are experiencing mental health symptoms.  Nothing should be construed to be specific life advice; it is for educational and entertainment purposes only.

    Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).

  • If you’ve been through a panic attack, you know they are no joke. You may actually go through panic attacks repeatedly. You may even have a panic attack the same time each day, like at nighttime. That’s how this discussion starts off, with one of my Stucknaut Collective community members asking during one of our Meetups. This short conversation touches upon how to reduce the intensity of panic attacks through both passive and active means, focusing on the Polyvagal safety state.

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    Polyvagal Trauma Relief System - https://www.justinlmft.com/traumarelief 

    Trauma and the Polyvagal Paradigm ebook - https://www.justinlmft.com/books

    Polyvagal 101-109 - https://player.captivate.fm/collection/cce134e7-1550-4d33-8e56-738d344c63b0

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    Crisis Text Line - Text “HOME” to 741741

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    Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).

  • The ventral vagal safety state of the Polyvagal Theory may not be easily accessible, especially if you exist in a traumatized state. And it’s maybe even more difficult to deeply settle into and experience for extended periods of time. I’ll discuss what the safety state is, the spectrum of how the safety state can be used, and when to do so. This will give you a framework for where you’re at, what you can handle, and next steps.

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    Learn more about joining the Total Access Membership - https://www.justinlmft.com/totalaccess

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    Crisis Text Line - Text “HOME” to 741741

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    This and other content produced by Justin Sunseri (“JustinLMFT”) (i.e; podcast, YouTube, Instagram, etc.) is not therapy, not intended to be therapy or be a replacement for therapy.  Nothing in this creates or indicates a therapeutic relationship.  Please consult with your therapist or seek for one in your area if you are experiencing mental health symptoms.  Nothing should be construed to be specific life advice; it is for educational and entertainment purposes only.

    Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).

  • With the incredible emergence and rapid upgrading of artificial intelligence models, one has to wonder if it can act as your therapist in late October 2023. As of right now, the answer is a clear no. But that may not be for long. Join me as I discuss the current limitations of AI and what I think the future holds.

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    Crisis Text Line - Text “HOME” to 741741

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    This and other content produced by Justin Sunseri (“JustinLMFT”) (i.e; podcast, YouTube, Instagram, etc.) is not therapy, not intended to be therapy or be a replacement for therapy.  Nothing in this creates or indicates a therapeutic relationship.  Please consult with your therapist or seek for one in your area if you are experiencing mental health symptoms.  Nothing should be construed to be specific life advice; it is for educational and entertainment purposes only.

    Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).

  • You're depressed. You're learning about and applying the Polyvagal Theory with little change to your shutdown state. In this episode, I will share a few things you are doing to keep yourself stuck (unintentionally) and also a couple things you can do about it.

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    Become a free site member for my Polyvagal resources and Learning Hubs - https://www.justinlmft.com/members

    Learn about the Polyvagal Theory in this playlist - https://player.captivate.fm/collection/cce134e7-1550-4d33-8e56-738d344c63b0

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    Crisis Text Line - Text “HOME” to 741741

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    This and other content produced by Justin Sunseri (“JustinLMFT”) (i.e; podcast, YouTube, Instagram, etc.) is not therapy, not intended to be therapy or be a replacement for therapy.  Nothing in this creates or indicates a therapeutic relationship.  Please consult with your therapist or seek for one in your area if you are experiencing mental health symptoms.  Nothing should be construed to be specific life advice; it is for educational and entertainment purposes only.

    Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).

  • It's possible to live with more connection, energy, and hope in life. Yes, living without being in a dominant Polyvagal shutdown is possible. Life without depression is possible. I pull from my years of working as a therapist and my Polyvagal Theory knowledge to give you the major bullet points of recovering from a chronic shutdown.

    Total Access Membership of trauma recovery courses and community - https://www.justinlmft.com/totalaccess

    Free ebook, "Trauma & the Polyvagal Paradigm" when you sign up for my email list - https://www.justinlmft.com/books

    Validation - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eG9Opx2QTpw

    Normalization - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CnvH4REHF08

    Give permission - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TW0xlROhQsQ

    Polyvagal 101 podcast episodes - https://player.captivate.fm/collection/cce134e7-1550-4d33-8e56-738d344c63b0

    National Suicide Prevention Hotline - 1 (800) 273-8255

    National Domestic Violence Hotline -1 (800) 799-7233

    LGBT Trevor Project Lifeline - 1 (866) 488-7386

    National Sexual Assault Hotline - 1 (800) 656-4673

    Crisis Text Line - Text “HOME” to 741741

    Call 911 for emergency

    This and other content produced by Justin Sunseri (“JustinLMFT”) (i.e; podcast, YouTube, Instagram, etc.) is not therapy, not intended to be therapy or be a replacement for therapy.  Nothing in this creates or indicates a therapeutic relationship.  Please consult with your therapist or seek for one in your area if you are experiencing mental health symptoms.  Nothing should be construed to be specific life advice; it is for educational and entertainment purposes only.

    Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).

  • The traditional model of behavior as a result of a stimulus is missing a middle component. There is some algorithm that takes place in between the stimulus and the response. The Polyvagal Theory may provide some insight.

    Read the Vagal Paradox - https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S2666497623000346#:~:text=Convergent%20patterns%20of%20both%20positive,regulation%20of%20the%20heart%20and

    Total Access Membership of trauma recovery courses and community - https://www.justinlmft.com/totalaccess

    Free ebook, "Trauma & the Polyvagal Paradigm" when you sign up for my email list - https://www.justinlmft.com/books

    National Suicide Prevention Hotline - 1 (800) 273-8255

    National Domestic Violence Hotline -1 (800) 799-7233

    LGBT Trevor Project Lifeline - 1 (866) 488-7386

    National Sexual Assault Hotline - 1 (800) 656-4673

    Crisis Text Line - Text “HOME” to 741741

    Call 911 for emergency

    This and other content produced by Justin Sunseri (“JustinLMFT”) (i.e; podcast, YouTube, Instagram, etc.) is not therapy, not intended to be therapy or be a replacement for therapy.  Nothing in this creates or indicates a therapeutic relationship.  Please consult with your therapist or seek for one in your area if you are experiencing mental health symptoms.  Nothing should be construed to be specific life advice; it is for educational and entertainment purposes only.

    Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).