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    Ever wondered why it's crucial to educate yourself before heading to the polls? In this heartfelt finale of the season, I, Dom L'Amour, share my journey of political self-discovery and the imperative of personal research when choosing leaders like Kamala Harris. Initially poised to break down my reasons for supporting her, I instead realized the futility of convincing those unwilling to research themselves. Instead, I am channeling my energy into real-world activism by volunteering for the Democratic Party in Georgia. Let’s explore why informed voting matters and how small actions can catalyze significant political change.

    Additionally, this episode serves as a warm thank you to everyone who has supported The Black Man Talking Emotions Podcast throughout the year. Your feedback, encouragement, and shared love have driven meaningful conversations on this platform. As I work on my next album, "Domie," slated for release next year or early 2027, I send you my deepest gratitude and best wishes for a joyous holiday season.

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    Stay tuned for more engaging content when we return in Black History Month, and keep up with me on Instagram @dom_lamour for updates and behind-the-scenes moments. Much love to you all!

    Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'Amour

    Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keys

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    from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers Team

    Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99

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    Dom L'Amour speaks with good friend Mark Reichard AKA @pluark about living in la working in the film industry, politics and so much more.

    Join us as we navigate the intricate relationship between staying informed in politics and the industry dynamics in Los Angeles. We start with a heartfelt chat on why it's crucial to hold our leaders, especially those like Kamala Harris, to the highest standards. From the importance of staying vigilant against unchecked political tactics to the resilience needed during the recent industry strike, Mark shares his unique experiences and insights living in LA.

    Ever wondered how to keep your creative spark alive while working in the high-pressure entertainment industry? We’ve got you covered. Mark and I discuss the balance between maintaining passion and facing the industry’s demands. Sharing personal stories, including an exciting music video project on the Sunset Strip and the incredible contributions of art department veteran Josh Meltzer, we highlight the importance of supportive friendships. The chapter mirrors the joy and enthusiasm that drive us, even amid the challenges.

    As the conversation deepens, we explore the realities of life in Los Angeles, the democratization of filmmaking through technology, and the broader political landscape. From the emotional toll of starting fresh in a diverse city to the contrasting treatment of political leaders by Republicans and Democrats, our discussion is both insightful and reflective. We wrap up with a sneak peek into my upcoming album "Domie,”, and a call to action for listeners to find their tribe and nurture meaningful connections. Whether you’re an aspiring filmmaker or a politically conscious individual, this episode offers a rich tapestry of experiences and reflections.

    Opening quote: John Lewis

    Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'Amour

    Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keys

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    from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers Team

    Featured song: "Adrienne's Interlude" by Dom L'Amour

    Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99

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    Dom L'Amour looks back on the second season of The Black Man Talking Emotions Podcast.

    Ever wondered how to balance the demands of work and personal life while still giving your best self to loved ones? Inspired by a powerful James Baldwin interview, we reflect on the importance of nurturing relationships with acts of service and presence, even after a tough day. This episode of Black Man Talking Emotions wraps up season two with a heartfelt discussion on balancing professional and personal responsibilities, providing insights that are especially relevant in today's challenging work environments.

    The joys and sacrifices of parenthood are front and center in our next segment. My guest shares the emotional fulfillment of watching their children grow and discuss the natural inclination to prioritize their needs. Special guest Shannon O'Keefe, recounts her transformative journey from finding solace in dance to achieving a fuller sense of happiness outside the entertainment industry. This conversation offers a rich exploration of love, responsibility, and self-discovery within the family unit, highlighting the progress we've made since our college days.

    Lastly, we explore the serene beauty of the Japanese green tea ceremony and its mindful approach to caffeine consumption. Personal anecdotes weave through our discussion on adapting this ancient ritual into daily life, reflecting on the cultural nuances and community care in Japan. From the intriguing belief in animism to the communal mindset that emphasizes care and respect, we consider how these cultural practices can inspire a more intentional and respectful way of living. Join us as we touch on navigating multiple identities as an artist, and the importance of authenticity and continual self-evaluation in various roles.

    Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'Amour

    Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keys

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    from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers Team

    Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99

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    Todays featured clips came from these past episodes:

    -Unmasking-our-true-selves-embracing-change-and-authentic-connections-with-storm-freeman-The Dance of Adulthood, Embracing the Past and Present with Reverend Jeff-Shannon O'Keefe on Embracing Change and Finding Joy-Another Check in with Chris Bates-Unveiling True Self: Leana Welker's Transition Story-Tea Ceremonies, Travel Stories, and More with Jacob Buckmeyer-Tales from the Stage Life's Melodic Truths with Bovell AKA Kaylan Royston

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    Dom L'Amour looks back on the second season of The Black Man Talking Emotions Podcast.

    What happens when the traumas of our parents shape our future relationships? This episode kicks off with a heartfelt conversation about breaking the cycle of generational trauma. Our guest opens up about the impact of her parents' divorce on her own relationships and her journey to be the mother she never had. She shares her fears and hopes upon learning she was having a daughter, and how the supportive role of her father has helped her navigate through these challenges. This segment is a testament to resilience and the conscious choices we make for the well-being of future generations.

    Next, we delve into the bittersweet reality of leaving home for personal growth. Our guest reflects on moving from St. Louis to Colorado, the guilt of missing family milestones, and the feeling of being an outsider upon returning home. We discuss the importance of advocacy, especially in the light of social movements like Black Lives Matter, and the responsibility of being a white ally in predominantly white spaces. This discussion emphasizes not just the complexities of identity but also the necessity of confronting ignorance and prejudice in our everyday interactions.

    Wrapping up, we take a nostalgic trip down memory lane to a dorm room conversation. Our guest, now a father of four daughters, shares the joys and challenges of parenting. From balancing strictness with letting kids learn on their own to the academic pride he feels for his daughters, it's a candid look into fatherhood. We also indulge in a heated LeBron vs. Kobe debate, showcasing the passionate side of sports fandom. This episode is a rich tapestry of personal stories, advocacy, and heartfelt reflections on family and identity, promising to leave you thinking long after it ends.

    Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'Amour

    Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keys

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    from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers Team

    Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99

    Listen to full episodes here: https://domlamour.com/tbmtep

    Todays featured clips came from these past episodes:

    -Cultural Shifts, Family Dynamics, and Growth with Hannah Moore

    -Exploring Culture and Cuisine with Sam Niehaus
    -Chasing Dreams and Raising Kids with Heath Kennedy

    -Navigating Fatherhood and the Digital Age with Scotty-Overcoming Challenges and Embracing Family Life with Benjamin Stevens-Embracing Motherhood and the Bonds of Friendship with Jessi Lynn-Political Talk with Jon Butts-The Question Game for Mother's Day

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    Dom L'Amour looks back on the second season of The Black Man Talking Emotions Podcast.

    How has the internet shaped our perceptions of abstinence, finances, and personal goals? Discover how authenticity in creative pursuits, especially in the music industry, can lead to lasting recognition rather than fleeting social media fame. Join me, Dom L’Amour, as we explore the profound influence of digital platforms on our decisions and underscore the importance of genuine face-to-face conversations.

    In this highlight reel from season two of The Black Man Talking Emotions Podcast, we revisit transformative moments that reveal how personal experiences and societal issues intersect. From the significance of Roe v. Wade for women with high-risk pregnancies to the inspiring impact of marriage on artists, I share personal insights into navigating these life-altering events.

    Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'Amour

    Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keys

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    from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers Team

    Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99

    Listen to full episodes here: https://domlamour.com/tbmtep

    Todays featured clips came from these past episodes:

    -Behind the Music: Standing Firm in Artistry and Tackling the Live Stage with Dom L'Amour and Bo Lamar

    -Unwrapping Humor with Cameron Keys

    -Building strong Relationships through Transparent Conversations with Jessica Trapp-Resonating Beyond the Music with Linda Marks-New Years Day Flowers Featuring Chris Bates-CP Time with Nic Tayborn-Navigating the Spiritual Landscape: With Dom L'Amour & Taylor Pace-Harmonizing Passions and Adventures with Michael Jordan

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    Dom L'Amour speaks with good friend Leana Welker AKA (@Leanadelalune) about Transitioning to a new gender, the struggles, and the rewards of the move.

    What does it truly mean to live authentically? This week, we sit down with Leana Welker, who shares her heartfelt journey of transitioning from male to female over the past year. You'll hear about the intricate layers of self-love, the nuanced changes in personal expression, and the mixed bag of reactions from family and friends. Leana's courage and determination illuminate the broader societal struggles faced by transgender individuals and emphasize the immense importance of personal identity.

    Liana opens up about a pivotal emotional breakdown that led her to unearth hidden aspects of her past. Her poignant reflection offers hope and understanding for those on similar paths. From the role of therapy and self-reflection in her journey to the significance of self-awareness, this chapter is a powerful testament to personal growth and inner strength.

    Lastly, we tackle the thorny issue of inner criticism and self-doubt, both within the trans community and beyond. Leana’s experiences highlight the often-overlooked impact of negative self-talk and external influences on our internal dialogue. We explore how outdated self-protection mechanisms can impede our growth and the importance of fostering a supportive internal environment. Join us as we explore the beauty of experiencing life authentically, finding joy in life's milestones, and rediscovering activities that bring true happiness.

    Please support Leana's New Band "Coyote Verde and The Wild Pack"
    Follow them @cvatwp on Instagram for music and updates!

    Opening quote: Shanna Katz Kattari

    Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'Amour

    Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keys

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    from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers Team

    Featured song: "I Get a Kick Out of You" performed by Dom L'Amour

    Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99

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    Dom L'Amour speaks with good friend Nic Tayborn ( @nictbone ) about Apple vs. Andriod, Mistakes, judgement and so much more.

    Can a single debate spark a deeper understanding of our daily tech choices? Tune in as we dissect the age-old rivalry between Apple and Android. My guest, Nic Tayborn, brings a perspective, challenging my views and igniting a lively discussion that extends beyond tech into the personal realm. Nic shares the unique experience of enrolling a Covid-era child in preschool, opening up about the joys and concerns of parenting during these unprecedented times.

    How do our mistakes shape us into who we are today? Nic and I reveal some of our most cringe-worthy moments, using humor to navigate the intricacies of judgment and personal growth. From past relationships to parenting missteps, we explore the concept of self-sabotage and the relentless journey of learning and improvement. Our candid stories highlight the lasting impact of humor in friendship and the importance of acknowledging and growing from our past errors.

    Political divides often test our ability to maintain human connections and basic decency. We tackle sensitive topics like the repercussions of Roe v Wade's overturn and the controversial actions of former President Trump. Through anecdotes about online exchanges and face-to-face encounters, we discuss the challenge of balancing personal beliefs with kindness and understanding. Listen in as we navigate the treacherous waters of political division, striving to find common ground and uphold genuine human connections.

    Opening quote: Ian Mackaye

    Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'Amour

    Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keys

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    from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers Team

    Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99

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    I share a deeply personal poem, "Picture, this Picture that," inspired by my recent trip to the National Center for Civil and Human Rights in Atlanta. My wife and I were profoundly moved by the stories of resilience and courage, especially that of six-year-old Ruby Bridges, who faced unimaginable adversity just to go to school. Her bravery and the broader struggles of African-Americans during the civil rights era prompted me to create something meaningful that I couldn't wait to share with you.

    We'll also touch base on what's coming next for the podcast, including a few more insightful interviews and some best-of episodes to wrap up the year. As always, your support means the world to me. Don't hesitate to connect on Instagram at D-O-M underscore, L-A-M-O-U-R for collaborations or just to share your thoughts. Thank you for being part of this journey—your engagement and love keep this conversation going. Stay safe and much love to you all!

    Poem by. Dom L'Amour

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    Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99

    Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keys

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    from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers Team

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    What does it feel like to face a world that questions your humanity before you even understand what that means? Imagine being six years old, dressed in new clothes, and carrying fresh books with a heart full of hope, only to encounter barriers built by centuries of prejudice. This episode takes you on a heartfelt journey through a single day in the life of a young child growing up in a racially charged society. You'll hear about the simple joys and harsh realities that shape their innocent experiences, from wishing on a penny to facing hostility on the way to school.

    We’ll explore the inner resilience these young souls muster to confront systemic racism, illustrating how ignorance can both shield and expose their fragile innocence. Expect a candid conversation filled with poignant moments and a call to action against the deep-seated biases that continue to haunt our society. Listen as we contrast the purity of childhood dreams with the heavy burden of racial discrimination, and be inspired to challenge the injustices that undermine the humanity of children everywhere.

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    Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99

    Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keys

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    from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers Team

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    Dom L'Amour speaks with good friend Shannon O'Keefe AKA @Shannondances about life after her dance career, communication, knowing your limits, looking out for your own well being and so much more.

    Have you ever taken a leap of faith and left behind something you loved? Join us for an inspiring conversation with Shannon O'Keefe, who transitioned from a life dedicated to dance to discovering fulfillment beyond the stage. Shannon talks about how dance served as her lifeline through a difficult childhood and the emotional challenges she faced as a performer on cruise ships. She shares her pivotal moments of realization, recognizing personal limits, and the surprising joy she found after walking away from a long-held dream.

    We touch on the transient nature of friendships in the entertainment world, exploring Shannon's deep connections with colleagues, and the heartbreak of inevitable goodbyes. Hear about the physical demands and emotional toll of performance life, and how these experiences shaped her decision to prioritize well-being over a grueling career. Shannon's journey offers an authentic look at balancing professional aspirations with personal happiness, resilience, and growth.

    Finally, Shannon's passion for children and the performing arts shines through, as she recounts her journey of healing from body image struggles and an eating disorder. Tune in to hear how influential mentors guided her path, and the freedom and happiness she now enjoys outside the industry. We'll also preview Dom L'Amour’s exciting new music project and reflect on the significance of supportive relationships and personal growth. Don't miss this heartfelt episode filled with gratitude, inspiration, and plans for a brighter future.

    Opening quote: Doe Zantamata

    Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'Amour

    Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keys

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    from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers Team

    Featured song: "Valentines Day" By Dom L'Amour

    Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99

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    !!! LISTEN TO "HERE TO ENTERTAIN VOL.2" ON ALL STREAMING PLATFORMS !!!

    Have you ever wondered how personal experiences shape an artist’s music? In this heartfelt episode celebrating my 35th birthday, join me, Dom L'Amour, as I give you an exclusive glimpse into my latest project, "Here to Entertain, Vol 2." This live EP features rejuvenated versions of songs from my earlier albums and fresh tracks from my upcoming work, "Domie" Through personal stories and raw emotion, you'll learn about the profound inspiration behind songs like "Free" and "You Are Mine to Lose," and how these melodies serve as an emotional escape and a deep connection with my audience.

    Tune in as I unfold the touching backstory of "Janet's Song," a tribute to my grandmother, and how this piece fits into my new album, "Domie" Alongside, you'll hear about a unique effort to fill the musical void around Thanksgiving with a genuine, heartfelt tune. This episode captures not just the creation but the essence of family, love, and the simple, everyday moments that turn into timeless music. Listen as I discuss my journey, from working at bars to celebrating holidays with loved ones, all while crafting music that resonates with real, lived experiences.

    Finally, step into my world of intimate songwriting and discover the emotional conclusion of a Valentine's Day performance that left listeners in awe. I'll share the stories of personal growth, the challenges faced in producing music, and the joy of creating authentic art without compromising its integrity. As we toast to another year filled with exploration and love, follow my musical journey and find out what’s next. Be sure to check out my music on streaming platforms and stay connected on Instagram at @dom_lamour. Cheers to another incredible year!

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    Dom L'Amour speaks with My guy Ben Stevens AKA @theworstsingerever about Being a father, Music, being married and so much more.

    Imagine being known as "the worst singer alive" and using that label to fuel your rise in the music industry. Today, we bring you the inspiring journey of Benjamin Stevens, a singer and performer who has embraced criticism and transformed it into self-acceptance. Benjamin takes us back to his early influences, from the soulful sounds of Marvin Gaye's "Distant Lover" to his family's eclectic record collection. Discover how these experiences shaped his passion for music despite societal and familial pressures.

    Navigating the complexities of a musical career isn't easy, especially when faced with personal and external challenges. Listen as Benjamin and I share stories of overcoming negative influences, such as contradictory family attitudes and societal perceptions. Hear how balancing band practices with wrestling in school led to crucial decisions that ultimately defined our paths. We discuss the critical role supportive friends and mentors played in helping us overcome fears and stay true to our musical dreams, even when it meant stepping away from familiar environments to grow.

    Balancing a career in music with family life is a continuous challenge filled with sacrifices and rewards. Benjamin opens up about performing while raising four children, the stress of being a touring musician, and the importance of family support. From the mental hurdles of gigging to maintaining meaningful connections with his kids, this conversation highlights the resilience and dedication required to pursue one's passion while striving for personal and professional fulfillment. Join us for an episode that underscores the power of perseverance and the joy of staying true to your craft amidst life's many hurdles.

    Opening quote: Alison Krauss

    Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'Amour

    Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keys

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    from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers Team

    featured song: “Grundy County Auction" Covered by Dom L'Amour and Benjamin Stevens. Members of “Big Bling and the funk machine”

    Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99

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    Dom L'Amour speaks with friend of the show Jessica Trapp AKA (@trappedinhealth) about Communicating about sex, communicating about money and so much more.

    How often do you talk about sex and money with your partner? On this powerful episode of the Black Man Talking Emotions podcast, we break the silence on these crucial, yet often avoided, topics in relationships. Dom L'Amour kicks off the conversation by underscoring how financial instability can severely impact mental health and stressing the importance of sharing financial worries with your significant other. We are honored to have Jessica Trapp join us, bringing her unique perspective from a household where sex and money were openly discussed. Jessica passionately advocates for women to feel empowered in discussions about their finances and bodies, and together we emphasize the need for transparency and cooperation to build a healthy partnership.

    Are societal pressures making honest conversations about sex and finances more difficult? Reflecting on our conservative upbringings, we unpack the stigma and misinformation that often prevent open dialogue on these subjects. From debunking pervasive myths about financial success to navigating the complex terrain of sexual boundaries and desires, we share personal stories that highlight the vital role of honest communication. We discuss the damaging effects of early exposure to sex through media, the inadequacies of sex education, and the misconceptions that arise from these gaps, stressing the necessity of mutual respect and open conversations in intimate relationships.

    How do different backgrounds shape our financial perceptions and communication styles? Wrapping up, we delve into the intricacies of managing finances within relationships. We explore the impact of upbringing on our views of money, share personal experiences of navigating financial hardships, and reflect on the frustrations of being undervalued in professional settings. This episode is packed with heartfelt anecdotes and practical advice, underscoring the importance of continuous dialogue and understanding in strengthening relationships. We conclude with a heartfelt thank you to our listeners, a shout-out to Jessica’s podcast "Sex and Money with Jess" and an invitation to join us in continuing these essential conversations.

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    Opening quote: Michelle Singletary

    Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'Amour

    Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keys

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    from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers Team

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    Dom L'Amour speaks with Friend of the show and my best friend Chris Bate AKA @chriselb_88. They have a mental check in and also speak about having babies.

    Imagine wanting to start a family but being faced with the complex world of male infertility and fertility treatments. We promise that by the end of this episode, you'll have a deeper understanding of the emotional, financial, and logistical hurdles that come with this journey. Join me, Dom L'Amour, and my friend Chris Bates as we share our personal stories about navigating the healthcare system, dealing with insurance challenges, and the differences between IVF and IUI treatments. Chris also opens up about his experiences with urologists and the potential role of medications like Clomid. This candid conversation sheds light on the importance of understanding your partner's perspective and desires as you embark on the path to parenthood.

    Shifting gears, I take a moment to reflect on my current mental state and what I’ve been up to lately. With Adrian out of town, I've embraced the opportunity to attend jam sessions and open mics, which has been invigorating. Balancing this newfound freedom with the responsibility of caring for our dog, I’ve also been networking with new musicians and even had a blast at our recent Juneteenth barbecue. Wedding season is in full swing, and I share some insights on the unpredictable nature of outdoor weddings and how we managed our own wedding logistics. Feeling positive and connected, I emphasize the significance of strong communication in maintaining a healthy relationship, even amidst minor family issues.

    Finally, Chris and I delve into the rollercoaster of fatherhood and family life. We explore the emotional and practical challenges of new parenthood, the rapid development of a five-month-old baby, and the importance of flexibility and perseverance in the fertility process. From key milestones like sitting up and teething to the joy of social interactions, we celebrate the simple pleasures and express our gratitude for every moment. Wrapping things up, I reflect on the joy of reconnecting with friends and the excitement for what the future holds. This episode is a heartfelt tribute to the trials, triumphs, and simple joys of family life.

    Opening quote: Nelson Mandela

    Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'Amour

    Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keys

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    from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers Team

    Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99

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    Dom L'Amour speaks with good friend Hannah Moore AKA @hannahmatthewsmoore about becoming a mother, How her past has affected her present, Moving to and From NYC and so much more.

    What happens when life throws you a curveball and old methods no longer cut it? Join me and my guest, Hannah Moore, as we uncover the art of adjusting to life's unexpected changes. From her rapid-paced life in New York City to the serene yet demanding journey of motherhood, Hannah shares her candid reflections on integrating past experiences into a new routine. As we discuss prioritizing what truly matters, you'll hear firsthand about the challenges and triumphs of balancing a packed schedule with the role of being a parent.

    Ever feel like you're stuck in a routine while trying to plan for the future? This episode contrasts daily routines with long-term goals, influenced by lessons from my father's meticulous planning and the instability during my childhood. Hannah's unwavering support during my post-college struggles is also celebrated, emphasizing the importance of friendship and resilience. Whether it's the relentless pursuit of goals or the significant milestone of buying a house, we explore how to balance short-term actions with long-term aspirations.

    Cultural differences and personal growth are at the forefront of this episode. From overcoming culture shock in diverse environments to reshaping reputations in the beauty industry, our conversation highlights the necessity of toughening up and seeking new opportunities. We wrap up with an emotional exploration of generational trauma, the resilience needed to forge new paths, and the importance of vocalizing emotions and gratitude. Tune in for an episode filled with heart, growth, and inspiring stories as we navigate life's twists and turns together.

    Opening quote: Gilda Radner

    Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'Amour

    Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keys

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    from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers Team

    Featured song: "Our Love Is Here To Stay" Covered by Dom L'Amour and Hannah Moore

    Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99

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    Have you ever wondered if achieving your dreams could still leave you feeling a longing for something more? This episode takes you on a personal journey from the turbulence of early adulthood to a life enriched with love, stability, and a fulfilling music career. Yet, amidst all this success, an insistent yearning to create remains. We explore the delicate balance between personal aspirations and everyday responsibilities, and question the nature of true satisfaction and the pursuit of deeper peace.

    In the second part of the episode, I reflect on the current state of my artistic endeavors and creative processes. Life has been especially joyous, thanks to my wonderful wife and the rejuvenating effects of our recent vacation. Despite a shift in creative focus due to daily routines, new work is still being produced, albeit at a different pace. This chapter invites you to consider that creativity doesn’t need to stem from hardship and encourages collaboration on positive art projects. Tune in to hear more about the excitement of recording new podcast episodes, featuring more guests, and the gratitude I feel for your continued support.

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    Dom L'Amour speaks with good friend Sam Niehaus AKA @samuel_henry_niehaus about Moving across the country, working on yourself, my struggles with being a Vegan and so much more.

    What sparks a monumental life change? In today's episode, we explore just that with Sam Niehaus, who left the familiar streets of St. Louis for the rugged beauty of Denver. Sam's story is a testament to the transformative power of embracing new adventures—from snowboarding down Colorado's powdery slopes to soul-rejuvenating hikes through Mesa Verde. His move wasn't just about changing geography but about nurturing a newfound love for the outdoors and rekindling his musical passions by joining a local band.

    Engaging on social media isn't just a modern necessity; it's a lifeline for musicians and cultural enthusiasts alike. In our conversation, we unpack the significance of digital support in amplifying artistic voices and fostering a sense of community. Sam and I touch on the enriching experiences that come from stepping beyond one's comfort zone, highlighting how diverse adventures can expand our understanding and appreciation of different cultures and our own country. Leadership, in many ways, is born from these very explorations, and seeing friends grow through such journeys is truly inspiring.

    Our chat takes a delicious turn as we reminisce about the culinary gems of St. Louis, from savory pork steaks to the mouth-watering delights at local spots like Venice Cafe and the Gramophone. We also tackle the personal challenges and rewarding aspects of transitioning to a vegan lifestyle, sharing stories of family dynamics, societal judgments, and the joys of discovering new foods. Wrapping up, Sam and I reflect on our individual paths to happiness and success, emphasizing the importance of supportive relationships and the relentless pursuit of our passions. This episode is a heartfelt celebration of growth, community, and the beauty of embracing change.

    Opening quote: Robert Breault

    Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'Amour

    Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keys

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    from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers Team

    Featured song: "It's True" Preformed June 24th 2014 by The Strange Owls in St. Louis at the Gramophone. Featuring Dom L'Amour on Vocals and Sam Niehaus on Drums.

    Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99

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    Dom L'Amour speaks with Jacob Buckenmyer (@jabucke) about the actor/writers stike, how traveling shapes your world view, AI and so much more.

    Can mindful caffeine consumption enhance your well-being? Join us as we kick off this episode with our guest, Jacob Buckenmyer, to explore this intriguing question. We start by sharing the vibrant atmosphere of live concerts, where the absence of phones fosters deeper social connections. Our conversation then transitions to the mindful consumption of caffeine, drawing inspiration from the traditional Japanese tea ceremony. Jacob opens up about his journey of reducing caffeine intake, emphasizing the benefits of moderation and balanced habits.

    Our cultural observations take center stage as we compare Japan and the United States through the lens of personal travel experiences. We delve into the respect and care embedded in Japanese culture, from the meticulous upkeep of public cleanliness to the communal spirit seen in daily practices. A particularly poignant moment is Jacob's personal anecdote about the challenge of finding a hair pick as a black man in Japan, highlighting the unique and diverse experiences encountered during international travel. We reflect on these cultural contrasts, suggesting ways to incorporate greater mindfulness and community spirit into our often hurried American lifestyles.

    We also tackle the sensitive nature of cultural engagement and historical awareness. From the sanitized portrayals of local cultures during cruise travels to the nuanced balance between tradition and modernity in art, we explore the importance of genuine cultural experiences. The conversation extends to the latest actor's writer strike, the transformative power of travel, and the significance of art and originality in the age of AI. We wrap up with heartfelt gratitude for the listeners' positive feedback, celebrating the joy of our shared connection and the enriching discussions that keep us all engaged. Tune in for a thoughtful episode that bridges tradition, modernity, and the essence of mindful living.

    Opening quote by Michael Tippett

    Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'Amour

    Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 & Vol. 2 by Mad Keys

    Featured song : "Beyond The Sea" Covered by Dom L'Amour and Jacob Buckenmyer

    Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99

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    Dom L'Amour speaks with good friend Jon Butts AKA J Boogie @jonbuttsishereabout our feelings on the state of the upcoming election.

    What if the political landscape is more fragile than we think? Join me, Dom L'Amour, on the Black Man Talking Emotions podcast as I sit down with my good friend J Boogie, aka Jon Butts, to dissect the current state of U.S. politics and its looming impact on the upcoming election. We unravel the complexities behind eroding voter bases, President Biden's plummeting approval ratings, and the overall sense of disillusionment gripping the nation. Alongside our political analysis, Jay shares some light-hearted updates on his personal life, including a new home and preparing for the joy of fatherhood, while also lamenting a sold-out show that didn’t go as planned.

    Our candid conversation takes a hard look at the global influence of U.S. politics, the relentless left-right battle, and the chaos that defined the first debate between Biden and Trump. We ponder the efficacy of past Democratic candidates like Elizabeth Warren and Bernie Sanders, and confront the double standards in political scandals. The chapter titled "Navigating News and Trump's Legal Battles" is a deep dive into our media consumption habits, balancing between comedic relief from John Oliver and Seth Meyers, and more neutral reporting from NPR. We also reflect on the repetitive nature of Trump's media coverage and the unwavering support from his followers.

    Wrapping up, we explore the contrasting perceptions of Trump and Biden, touching on their respective promises, actions, and the moral dilemmas they present. From minimum wage issues to labor laws and systemic injustices, our discussion sheds light on the role of government in improving lives. We even venture into the personal, discussing the challenges of city life and the importance of staying connected and informed. This episode is a mix of political discourse and personal reflection that promises to be both thought-provoking and heartfelt. Tune in and join our conversation.

    Opening quote: Alexander Hamilton

    Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'Amour

    Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol1 and Vol. 2 by Mad Keys

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    from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers Team

    Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99

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    Dom L'Amour speaks with good friend Heath Kennedy AKA @heathbuh about Family, acting, goals and so much more.

    Ever wondered how a chance encounter can blossom into a lifetime of laughter and love? Heath Kennedy, a close friend whose life story could fuel a dozen rom-coms, joins me, Dom L'Amour, for an episode that dances between the joyous mayhem of fatherhood and the electric thrill of chasing comedy dreams. With the welcome chaos of his fourth child, Heath and I delve into the art of balancing growing family dynamics, the unbreakable bonds of friendship, and the power of a good chuckle.

    As we stroll through memory lane, we hit the rewind button to the college days where music reigned supreme and love was waiting in the wings at The Tiki Hut. Heath shares the cinematic tale of meeting his wife April, peppered with moments straight out of a screenplay, as we dissect the fortitude required in both personal and professional arenas. Parenting takes center stage too, with heartfelt contemplation on the delicate dance of nurturing and knowing when to step back, all underscored by the symphony of childhood uniqueness.

    The curtain rises on a raw reflection of our shared college theater escapades and the unscripted lessons learned under the spotlight. From grappling with complex roles to setting the stage ablaze with record-breaking cabaret performances, we unpack the odyssey of creative passion and the eternal quest to leave audiences in stitches. Join us for this candid conversation filled with warmth, wit, and wisdom—a tribute to the unpredictable script of life and the enduring pursuit of artistic excellence.

    Opening quote: Earl Nightingale

    Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'Amour

    Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keys

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    from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers Team

    Featured song: "And I Love her" Cover preformed by Dom L'Amour and Heath Kennedy

    Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99

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