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  • Norman Fischer is a poet, writer, and Zen priest who has dedicated his life to studying, practicing and teaching Zen Buddhism. After graduating from the Iowa Writers' Workshop, he moved to San Francisco to learn how to practice meditation in the Soto Zen tradition. He spent decades studying the practice and serving the temple at the San Francisco Zen Center, where he went on to serve as the co-abbot from 1995-2000. After retiring as co-abbot, he founded the Everyday Zen Foundation where he continues to offer teachings and lead retreats. In this episode, Norman discusses with Dan the importance of expanding the way we think about ourselves and the world we live in because, he says, we are drowning in the limitations we've collectively set for ourselves and the ways we live in the world. The theme of the reflections in this episode come from Norman's new book titled "The World Could Be Otherwise."

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    Website: https://www.normanfischer.org/
    Everyday Zen Foundation: http://www.everydayzen.org/

    The World Could Be Otherwise: Imagination and the Bodhisattva Path: https://www.amazon.com/World-Could-Otherwise-Imagination-Bodhisattva/dp/161180504X

    Other books mentioned in this conversation:
    The Order of Time by Carlo Rovelli: https://www.amazon.com/Order-Time-Carlo-Rovelli/dp/073521610X

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  • Elizabeth Stanley has a long history of stress and trauma. In this episode she talks about the adversities she has suffered, which include a near death experience and losing her eyesight for extended periods of time from contracting Lyme disease while serving in the military. After decades of "powering through" and not dealing with her difficult emotions, she reached a breaking point. That's when her healing journey began and she found meditation, sitting multiple long retreats. Stanley has since created a resilience training program, called Mindfulness-based Mind Fitness Training, that she has taught to military troops and to people working in high-stress situations. Her book, "Widen the Window," offers tools on thriving during stress and recovering from trauma.

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    Website: https://elizabeth-stanley.com/
    "Widen the Window": https://www.amazon.com/Widen-Window-Training-Thrive-Recover/dp/0735216592

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  • Thubten Chodron was born in Chicago and grew up near Los Angeles. She felt her life's calling was to help others, so she became a teacher, landing her first job in the inner-city schools of Los Angeles. Looking for something to do during summer break, she saw a flyer for a meditation course being taught by two Tibetan Lamas. Little did she know, taking this course would change the trajectory of her life. The teaching that resonated with her most was about setting motivations. She realized that though she was doing good things in her life, the motivations she had for doing them were self-centered. Chodron wanted to dedicate her life to living selflessly and with altruistic intentions. She felt the only way she could do that was to let go of her worldly attachments, including her marriage, and become a Buddhist nun. She believes we all have the potential to be happy and live altruistically, but we get in our own way. In this episode, Chodron offers her thoughts on how to set selfless motivations as we live our everyday lives.

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    Personal Website: https://thubtenchodron.org/
    Sravasti Abbey: https://sravastiabbey.org/
    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/sravastiabbey

    Books:
    The Compassionate Kitchen: Buddhist Practices for Eating with Mindfulness and Gratitude https://www.amazon.com/Compassionate-Kitchen-Practices-Mindfulness-Gratitude/dp/1611806348

    Other book titles by Thubton Chodron: https://www.amazon.com/Thubten-Chodron/e/B000APM652

  • Kittisaro graduated from Princeton as a Rhodes Scholar and went on to Oxford before going to Thailand to ordain with Ajahn Chah in 1976. He was a monk for 15 years. Thanissara started Buddhist practice in 1975, decided to ordain after meeting Ajahn Chah and spent 12 years as a Buddhist nun. They had known each other for years when they fell in love in 1991. They decided to leave the order so they could be together and were married the following year. They have gone on to become co-founders of Dharmagiri Sacred Mountain Retreat in South Africa and co-authors of Listening to the Heart: A Contemplative Guide to Engaged Buddhism. They are Guiding Teachers of Sacred Mountain Sangha, on the Spirit Rock Teacher Council, and are Core Teachers at Insight Meditation Society. In a wide ranging interview, they discuss their practice and how their monastic lives have prepared them for their life in a relationship.

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    Website: http://sacredmountainsangha.org/
    Books
    Listening to the Heart: A Contemplative Journey to Engaged Buddhism:
    https://www.amazon.com/Listening-Heart-Contemplative-Journey-Buddhism/dp/1583948392
    Time to Stand Up: An Engaged Buddhist Manifesto for Our Earth -- The Buddha's Life and Message through Feminine Eyes
    https://www.amazon.com/Time-Stand-Up-Buddhist-Manifesto/dp/158394916X

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  • Psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author Esther Perel is recognized as one of today’s most insightful and original voices on modern relationships. Perel provides her insight on such topics as: how to make a relationship work in today’s society, the real reasons why we cheat, and how political or economic shifts can affect our relationships. Her celebrated TED talks on relationships have garnered more than 28 million views and her international bestseller Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence became a global phenomenon translated into 25 languages.

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    Website, Newsletter and Blog: https://www.estherperel.com/
    Podcast: Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/where-should-we-begin-with-esther-perel/id1237931798
    Podcast: How’s Work? With Esther Perel: https://open.spotify.com/show/0P13JasQfVZ1RiDCMZMYNU
    Book: Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence: https://www.amazon.com/Mating-Captivity-Unlocking-Erotic-Intelligence/dp/0060753641
    Book: The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity: https://www.estherperel.com/store/the-state-of-affairs
    TED Talk: Rethinking infidelity… a talk for anyone who has ever loved
    https://www.ted.com/talks/esther_perel_rethinking_infidelity_a_talk_for_anyone_who_has_ever_loved?language=en
    TED Talk: The secret to desire in a long-term relationship:
    https://www.ted.com/talks/esther_perel_the_secret_to_desire_in_a_long_term_relationship?language=en
    The Future of Love, Lust, and Listening: SXSW 2018: https://www.sxsw.com/interactive/2018/esther-perel-interactive-keynote-at-sxsw-2018-video/
    Relationship Skills and Workplace Dynamics at SXSW 2019: https://www.sxsw.com/interactive/2019/esther-perel-on-relationship-skills-and-workplace-dynamics-at-sxsw-2019-video/
    Instagram: @estherperelofficial
    Twitter: @EstherPerel
    Facebook: @esther.perel, https://www.facebook.com/esther.perel/

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  • Our guest this week is Alicia Menendez, an award-winning journalist, who finds herself in a common position for many women: caring way too much about what others think of her. Be nice, but not too nice. Be successful, but not too successful. Just be likeable, whatever that means. In the workplace strong women are often criticized for being cold, while warm women may be seen as pushovers. In her just released book, The Likeability Trap, and in our conversation, she discusses this issue and explains how and why both men and women should combat it.

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    The Likeability Trap: https://www.amazon.com/Likeability-Trap-Break-Free-Worth/dp/0062838768
    Website: http://aliciamenendez.com/
    Twitter: @AliciaMenendez
    Instagram: @aliciamenendezxo
    Facebook: @AliciaMenendezTV

    An Evening with Joseph Goldstein and Dan Harris: Staying Sane in a Crazy World
    https://www.nyimc.org/event/an-evening-with-joseph-goldstein-and-dan-harris-staying-sane-in-a-crazy-world/

    Episode References
    Psychological Safety / What Google Learned From Its Quest to Build the Perfect Team:
    https://www.nytimes.com/2016/02/28/magazine/what-google-learned-from-its-quest-to-build-the-perfect-team.html

    THE FIVE INVITATIONS: Discovering What Death Can Teach Us About Living Fully
    https://fiveinvitations.com/the-book/

    WeCroak: https://www.wecroak.com/

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  • Brian Grazer is a Hollywood giant! He’s made more than 100 films including Splash, Apollo 13 and the best-picture-winning A Beautiful Mind. He tells Dan this week how he has used his own curiosity in others to build powerful relationships. He takes us back to when he was a law clerk at Warner Bros. delivering papers to the biggest names in Hollywood and how he was able to overcome personal obstacles to strike up conversations he would turn into connections. Grazer also discusses how he uses transcendental meditation to calm feelings of anxiety and fear. We also discuss his latest book, Face to Face: The Art of Human Connection, his secrets on how to engage with others, and the importance of eye contact is when it comes to building relationships.

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    Face to Face: https://www.amazon.com/Eye-Contact-Power-Personal-Connection/dp/1501147722
    A Curious Mind: http://www.grazeriscurious.com/
    Social: @BrianGrazer

    An Evening with Joseph Goldstein and Dan Harris: Staying Sane in a Crazy World
    https://www.nyimc.org/event/an-evening-with-joseph-goldstein-and-dan-harris-staying-sane-in-a-crazy-world/

    Dan’s Book Recommendations: https://www.tenpercent.com/reading
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  • Dr. Susan Pollak found refuge in meditation at a young age, introduced to it by a family member. Describing herself as an anxious and neurotic kid, she noticed how meditation offered her some relief. Pollak has remained fascinated with meditation ever since. She earned degrees in comparative religion and psychology, becoming a psychologist, and for decades she has been integrating the practice of mediation into psychotherapy. In her new book, “Self-Compassion for Parents,” she explains why parents need to care for themselves first in order to provide the best care for their children. For those short on time, she’s created meditation practices that take just a few minutes and she explains how even small moments of mindfulness can make a big difference.

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    The Institute for Meditation and Psychotherapy: http://meditationandpsychotherapy.org/
    Center for Mindfulness and Compassion: https://www.chacmc.org/
    The Art of Now Blog: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-art-now
    Website: https://www.drsusanpollak.com/
    Self-Compassion for Parents:
    https://www.amazon.com/Self-Compassion-Parents-Nurture-Caring-Yourself/dp/1462533094
    Additional Books: https://www.drsusanpollak.com/books.php

    Addiction-Related
    Judson Brewer, MD, PhD (Habit Change): https://www.brown.edu/public-health/mindfulness/people/judson-brewer-md-phd
    G. Alan Marlatt (Addictive Behaviors): http://depts.washington.edu/abrc/marlatt.htm
    Jessica Morey Inward Bound Mindfulness Education (iBme): https://ibme.com/

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  • Self-compassion may not be your strong suit, but with this introductory training, you’ll develop more resilience, kindness, and ease in life.

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    https://self-compassion.org/category/exercises/#guided-meditations

  • Life can be challenging. It’s comforting to have kind, supportive people around you to help you through it. Dr. Kristin Neff believes it’s equally important to cultivate a kind, supportive inner voice. In her last year of graduate school Neff was going through what she calls a messy divorce. Looking for a way to alleviate the strong feelings of stress and shame she was experiencing, she found meditation. Drawn to the integration of mindfulness and compassion practices, she was able to work through her emotional turmoil. She came to the realization that she deserved kindness and encouragement and she didn’t need to rely on anyone other than herself to fulfill those needs. That epiphany inspired her to spend the next several years of her life doing self-compassion work. Neff believes self-compassion is a trainable skill anyone can learn, even those who are not naturally inclined to be kind to themselves. She recently co-created a workbook that guides the reader through the practices of mindful self-compassion, hoping to help others experience the life-changing benefits of being kind to ourselves.

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    Website: https://self-compassion.org/
    Workbook: https://self-compassion.org/mindful-self-compassion-workbook/
    Twitter: @self_compassion
    TED Talk: https://ed.ted.com/on/zhq011AI

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  • Self-Compassion may not be your strong suit, but with this introductory training, you’ll develop more resilience, kindness and ease in life.

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    See Yourself Compassionately: https://10percenthappier.app.link/ZHqOD1TNv0
    Jessica Morey Meditations on the Ten Percent Happier App:
    https://10percenthappier.app.link/weTJGm1Nv0

  • Dr. Sydney Spears is a professor at the University of Kansas School of Social Welfare and holds a PhD in Clinical Social Work from Smith College. As a woman of color, she tells us she has experienced layers of oppression and discrimination. Looking for a way to make sense of these experiences, and the difficult emotions she felt because of them, she became interested in meditation. Through her mindfulness practice she realized her identity did not need to be defined by the social constructs society often uses to discriminate. She found comfort in knowing that while she may not be able to control her external experiences, no one could affect her internal peace. Now she teaches the concept of mindful self-compassion to help others come to this same realization.

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    Website: https://midlifeateasecounseling.com/
    Twitter: @MidlifeAtEase
    Midwest Alliance for Mindfulness: https://mindfulness-alliance.org/

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  • Bonus Meditation with Sharon Salzberg, Self-CompassionPlug ZoneSelf-Compassion Meditation: https://10percenthappier.app.link/pRxEZhPgk0Sharon Salzberg Courses & Meditations on the Ten Percent Happier App:https://10percenthappier.app.link/NOCqrWwik0

  • We are all guilty at times of taking on too much. Our guest this week, Jocelyn K. Glei, explains some of the benefits of taking a step back. She discusses the importance of slowing things down to prevent burnout and boost creativity. She’s written about maximizing potential and managing each day. Her most recent book is Unsubscribe: How to Kill Email Anxiety, Avoid Distractions, and Get Real Work Done.

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    Website: https://jkglei.com/
    Hurry Slowly Podcast: https://hurryslowly.co/
    Course: https://reset-course.com/
    Books: https://www.amazon.com/Jocelyn-K-Glei/e/B00BSX6EJE/ref=dp_byline_cont_book_1
    Twitter: @jkglei

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  • Life is already complicated enough. Meditation doesn’t have to be, if we learn to be simple and easy.Plug ZoneBe Simple & Easy: https://10percenthappier.app.link/6WVKqYJV6ZJoseph Goldstein Courses & Meditations on the Ten Percent Happier App: https://10percenthappier.app.link/x9Q0TCy36Z

  • One of the first American Vipassana teachers and the co-founder of Insight Meditation Society, Joseph Goldstein, is a highly recognized name to many in western meditation. He has studied and practiced various forms of Buddhist meditation under world renowned teachers from India and he has led, and continues to lead, numerous insight and loving-kindness meditation retreats worldwide. Goldstein shares his abundance of knowledge on insight meditation, the confusion between attention and mindfulness, ethical frameworks and provides clarity on various terms such as the awakened mind, checking the attitude of the mind, in-order-to mind and more. Currently, Goldstein is a meditation teacher at the Insight Meditation Society in Barre, Massachusetts as well as on the Ten Percent Happier app. He is also the author of numerous publications such as Mindfulness: A Practical Guide to Awakening and One Dharma: The Emerging Western Buddhism.Plug ZoneInsight Meditation Society: https://www.dharma.org/teacher/joseph-goldstein/Joseph Goldstein Courses & Meditations on the Ten Percent Happier App:https://10percenthappier.app.link/x9Q0TCy36ZNew York Insight December 5th Event: https://www.nyimc.org/event/an-evening-with-joseph-goldstein-and-dan-harris-staying-sane-in-a-crazy-world/Bonus Meditation: Be Simple & Easy: https://10percenthappier.app.link/6WVKqYJV6ZJeff Warren November Meditation Retreat: https://jeffwarren.org/event/fidgetyskeptics-northcarolina-2/***VOICEMAILS***Have a question for Dan? Leave us a voicemail: 646-883-8326

  • David Fajgenbaum, a young, promising medical student, could not have imagined he would become a patient in the same hospital he was serving his residency. After being diagnosed with a very rare illness, he came close to death on multiple occasions. In the throes of one encounter, he promised himself that if he survived, he would make a difference in the fight against this disease. Through his research, he found a drug that he believes has helped him into remission. In the wake of his bouts, he has chosen to live his life "on overtime," time that he is extremely lucky to have, gifting him a unique perspective on living we can all learn from. Fajgenbaum is the Co-Founder and Executive Director of the Castleman Disease Collaborative Network and leads the Castleman Research Program at Penn Medicine. He is the author of Chasing My Cure which details his journey of going from a college athlete, living a healthy life to being diagnosed, and the hurdles he had overcome with love, determination and faith.

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    Actively Moving Forward (AMF): https://healgrief.org/
    The Castleman Disease Collaborative Network (CDCN): https://cdcn.org/
    Book: https://chasingmycure.com/
    Twitter: @DavidFajgenbaum
    Facebook: @davidfajgenbaum, https://www.facebook.com/davidfajgenbaum/

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  • As far as meditation teachers go, they don't come more highly regarded than our guest this week, Jack Kornfield. Kornfield trained as a Buddhist monk in the monasteries of Thailand, India and Burma. He has taught meditation internationally since 1974 and is one of the key teachers to introduce Buddhist mindfulness practice to the West. You might think this meditation master is unflappable, but you would be mistaken. Kornfield discusses how he, one of the preeminent teachers in the field, still encounters difficult times, including how his marriage ended in divorce. He also delves into the role psychedelics play in the mindfulness movement.

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    Website: https://jackkornfield.com/
    Books: https://jackkornfield.com/books-audio-programs/
    Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/heart-wisdom-with-jack-kornfield/id923017416
    Twitter: @JackKornfield
    Facebook: @jkornfield, https://www.facebook.com/jkornfield/

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  • For Christine Porath, meditation was one way of coping with a toxic work environment. Her own experience, paired with watching her father suffer a serious health scare tied to his own harmful workplace atmosphere, led to her interest in researching civility in the workplace. She shares with us her findings, such as how working with uncivil co-workers can drive down morale as well as performance, and she presents data on the real-world financial consequences of incivility in the workplace. Porath is the author of "Mastering Civility: A Manifesto for the Workplace" and co-author of "The Cost of Bad Behavior."

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    Website: http://www.christineporath.com/
    Books: https://www.amazon.com/Christine-Porath/e/B01NCOGEER%3Fref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share
    Twitter: @PorathC
    Ted Talk: https://www.ted.com/talks/christine_porath_why_being_nice_to_your_coworkers_is_good_for_business

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  • Peter Attia is the founder of Attia Medical, PC, a medical practice focusing on the applied science of longevity. In other words, his practice aims to increase the length of one's life, while simultaneously improving the quality. He explains how happiness, or emotional well-being, can help accomplish both and he recommends meditation as one way to achieve that emotional well-being. He knows this first hand; emotionally describing the personal struggles he overcame to transform himself into the person he is today. Discussing both his personal and professional beliefs he tells Dan, "Even If being happier didn't extend your life one day, even if it shortened your life a day, wouldn't it be worth it?"

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    Website: https://peterattiamd.com/
    The Peter Attia Drive Podcast: https://peterattiamd.com/podcast/
    Facebook, Twitter, Instagram: @PeterAttiaMD

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