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  • God gave you one physical body so you can live, move, and breathe, and He gave you a vital resource to fuel it––food. But because of damaging diet culture and pervasive body-shaming messages, it can be hard to have a relaxing, enjoyable relationship with food. Today we have nutritionist Meredyth Fletcher joining us, who believes that your perspective on food is directly impacted by your view of God, and in The (Good) Food Solution, she will help you shift any distorted perceptions on food to see it, not as a burden, but as a gift from God to nourish your body.

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  • Do you want sexual intimacy with your husband more than he wants it
    with you? Then this episode is for you! We sit down with Sherri Mueller, author of I Want Him to Want Me, to hear about navigating this journey well.

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  • Instead of passively hoping and praying for something better, what if you could actively embark on a journey of caring for yourselves and your marriage? What would that look like? In today's episode of the A Wife Like Me Podcast, we sit down with Robert S. Paul and Tara LaLonde, authors of Empowered to Love, to learn how to do this!

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  • What IS abuse? What if someone didn't mean to cause harm? How does Matthew 18 apply when abuse is happening? Are we supposed to stay in community with our abuser?

    "God wants us to be safe. I don't think he actually wants us to step into harm's way." - Jana Richardson

    We love every episode here at A Wife Like Me, however these two part episodes I believe are some of the most important.

    Grab your copy of You Are Safe Now, here.

    Find Tricia Lott Williford, here.

    Book mentioned: The Dance of Anger.

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  • Would you know if someone were abusing you? “I didn’t know the cycle of abuse, or that it’s normal to feel guilt for something that’s not your fault, to have complex emotions about your abuser as you heal. I learned that I could set boundaries, choose not to reconcile, and still pursue the internal freedom of forgiveness.” – Tricia Lott Williford

    We love every episode here at A Wife Like Me, however these two part episodes I believe are some of the most important.

    Grab your copy of You Are Safe Now, here.

    Find Tricia Lott Williford, here.

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    Grab our book, Dear Wife, here: https://www.amazon.com/Dear-Wife-Invitations-Practice-Connection/dp/0578470594

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    Grab our planner, Design My Day, here: https://awifelikeme.com/design-my-day

    Find out your Wife Type in less than 3 minutes, here: https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/63b9c12b3108f50016d71ba7

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  • Is there actually a benefit to studying God's Word with others? Why? We're talking about it in today's final episode in the Bible Study Basics series!

    We are so excited to have our friends Michelle Rabon and Natalia Drumm here with us for our Bible Study Basics series to talk about:

    - Why Is The Bible A Big Deal?

    - The Story of Scripture

    - How to Study The Bible

    - Bible Study in Community

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    Find out your Wife Type in less than 3 minutes, here: https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/63b9c12b3108f50016d71ba7

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    Find Michelle Rabon, here: https://michellerabon.com/

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  • How do you actually STUDY God's Word when you sit down to read it? In this episode you're going to gain the tools to not just read but study God's Word for yourself. Yes, YOU can study God's Word!

    We are so excited to have our friends Michelle Rabon and Natalia Drumm here with us for our Bible Study Basics series to talk about:

    - Why Is The Bible A Big Deal?

    - The Story of Scripture

    - How to Study The Bible

    - Bible Study in Community

    Partner with us through donating (A Wife Like Me is a 501(c)3 nonprofit), here: https://awifelikeme.com/give

    Grab our book, Dear Wife, here: https://www.amazon.com/Dear-Wife-Invitations-Practice-Connection/dp/0578470594

    Watch on YouTube, here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCe5HUNNkN0hhA8Xv-g1R3

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    Find out your Wife Type in less than 3 minutes, here: https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/63b9c12b3108f50016d71ba7

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  • Would you be able to explain the story of Scripture to someone who knows nothing about Jesus? In this episode, we're going to grasp the big picture of Scripture so that when you sit down to read God's Word you can understand the point of it all and be able to explain it to someone else.

    We are so excited to have our friends Michelle Rabon and Natalia Drumm here with us for our Bible Study Basics series to talk about:

    - Why Is The Bible A Big Deal?

    - The Story of Scripture

    - How to Study The Bible

    - Bible Study in Community

    Partner with us through donating (A Wife Like Me is a 501(c)3 nonprofit), here: https://awifelikeme.com/give

    Grab our book, Dear Wife, here: https://www.amazon.com/Dear-Wife-Invitations-Practice-Connection/dp/0578470594

    Watch on YouTube, here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCe5HUNNkN0hhA8Xv-g1R3

    Grab our planner, Design My Day, here: https://awifelikeme.com/design-my-day

    Find out your Wife Type in less than 3 minutes, here: https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/63b9c12b3108f50016d71ba7

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  • Woah! We all need to hear today's episode on understanding why the bible is a big deal!

    We are so excited to have our friends Michelle Rabon and Natalia Drumm here with us for our Bible Study Basics series to talk about:

    - Why Is The Bible A Big Deal?

    - The Story of Scripture

    - How to Study The Bible

    - Bible Study in Community

    Partner with us through donating (A Wife Like Me is a 501(c)3 nonprofit), here: https://awifelikeme.com/give

    Grab our book, Dear Wife, here: https://www.amazon.com/Dear-Wife-Invitations-Practice-Connection/dp/0578470594

    Watch on YouTube, here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCe5HUNNkN0hhA8Xv-g1R3

    Grab our planner, Design My Day, here: https://awifelikeme.com/design-my-day

    Find out your Wife Type in less than 3 minutes, here: https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/63b9c12b3108f50016d71ba7

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  • Are there rhythms we can practice that grow our faith? Are they actually important? On today's episode, we're learning about the importance of the different spiritual disciplines and our walk with God.

    We are so excited to have our friends Michelle Rabon and Natalia Drumm here with us for our Faith Foundations series to talk about:

    - What is Christianity?

    - Who is God?

    - How Does Knowing God Change Us?

    - What are Spiritual Disciplines?

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    Find out your Wife Type in less than 3 minutes, here: https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/63b9c12b3108f50016d71ba7

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  • Should knowing God change us? YES! But how? On today's episode, we're learning about how walking with Jesus transforms our hearts.

    We are so excited to have our friends Michelle Rabon and Natalia Drumm here with us for our Faith Foundations series to talk about:

    - What is Christianity?

    - Who is God?

    - How Does Knowing God Change Us?

    - What are Spiritual Disciplines?

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    Grab our planner, Design My Day, here: https://awifelikeme.com/design-my-day

    Find out your Wife Type in less than 3 minutes, here: https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/63b9c12b3108f50016d71ba7

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  • Having an accurate view of God is crucial to our faith walk! In today's episode we're diving into the question of WHO is God?

    We are so excited to have our friends Michelle Rabon and Natalia Drumm here with us for our Faith Foundations series to talk about:

    - What is Christianity?

    - Who is God?

    - How Does Knowing God Change Us?

    - What are Spiritual Disciplines?

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    Grab our planner, Design My Day, here: https://awifelikeme.com/design-my-day

    Find out your Wife Type in less than 3 minutes, here: https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/63b9c12b3108f50016d71ba7

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    Find Michelle Rabon, here: https://michellerabon.com/

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  • Whether you've been in church your entire life or you're wondering what it means to be a Christian, this conversation dives into what Christianity really is.

    We are so excited to have our friends Michelle Rabon and Natalia Drumm here with us for our Faith Foundations series to talk about:

    - What is Christianity?

    - Who is God?

    - How Does Knowing God Change Us?

    - What are Spiritual Disciplines?

    Partner with us through donating (A Wife Like Me is a 501(c)3 nonprofit), here: https://awifelikeme.com/give

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    Watch on YouTube, here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCe5HUNNkN0hhA8Xv-g1R3

    Grab our planner, Design My Day, here: https://awifelikeme.com/design-my-day

    Find out your Wife Type in less than 3 minutes, here: https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/63b9c12b3108f50016d71ba7

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  • Infidelity, heart-crushing endings, boundaries, and trusting God's timing are just a few things we chat about with Courtney Joseph Fallick! Courtney's new book, Still Standing is a must read for anyone in a difficult season.

    Still Standing features reflection questions and action steps at the end of each chapter, empowering women to emerge stronger after heart-crushing struggles, cling to God’s promises, and move forward stronger than before.

    Grab Still Standing, here: https://womenlivingwell.org/stillstanding/

    Find Courtney Joseph Fallick, here: https://womenlivingwell.org/

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  • Do you want to know how to stand confidently in your created identity—affirmed, decisive, and clear about your purpose? Today we sit down with Nicole O. Salmon and discuss how to:

    Reclaim your voice and become reacquainted with the voice of Holy SpiritInterrupt the cycle of second guessing who you are so you can operate more confidently in your purposeReplace old thought patterns and habits with a thought life that leads to overcoming guilt and achieving more results

    Embrace your unique identity, operate confidently in your purpose, and be the best version of yourself according to God’s design.

    Grab Courage and Confidence, here: https://www.tyndale.com/p/courage-and-confidence/9781641588331

    Find Nicole O. Salmon, here: https://www.nicoleosalmon.com/

    Link to give, here: https://app.givingheartsday.org/#/charity/1164

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  • These days, brokenness feels more comfortable to discuss than holiness. It’s easier to say that we are more messy than holy, and that healing is a long way off. But what if holiness in your everyday is not only possible, but biblical?

    In today's episode we sit down with Karen Stiller, author of Holiness Here, and hear her offer practical and inspiring ways to transform our lives as we understand that holiness is in fact, here.

    Grab your copy of Holiness Here, here: https://www.amazon.ca/Holiness-Here-Searching-Ordinary-Everyday/dp/1641587458

    Find Karen Stiller, here: https://karenstiller.com/

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    Bauman Grief Video: https://youtu.be/cVdLP_SKNcw?si=1a8Fznzm1MV40XX3

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  • What do we need to do as parents to raise kind, confident, resilient kids? How will our kids become mentally STRONG? We sit down with Dr. Charles Fay, president of the Love and Logic Institute Inc. to chat about all the things we can do as parents to develop well rounded, responsible kids who love the Lord!

    Grab your copy of Raising Mentally Strong Kids, here: https://www.christianbook.com/mentally-neuroscience-confident-responsible-resilient-children/9781496484796/pd/484796

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  • As a mom, it's easy to feel overwhelmed and limited by the demands on your life. Instead of just getting by, what if you learn how to recognize and follow the Holy Spirit's lead so you can experience the abundant life Jesus promised? Today we hear from Jessica Hurlbut, author of Unlimited Motherhood to learn how we can overcome the 12 limits that overwhelm us as moms!

    Grab Unlimited Motherhood, here: https://www.jessicahurlbut.com/

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  • In today's episode we discuss ongoing, unrepentant sin as well as the different elements to the Biblical Plan for Separation. Please listen and share with your people so that we as a church body never dismiss this damaging cycle within many Christian (and non-Christian) marriages today.

    National Domestic Abuse Hotline: 817-369-3970

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    NOTES:

    Biblical Plan for Separation with the Intent of Reconciliation + Restoration

    Purpose

    The goal of a biblical separation is to provide space to evaluate and repair the broken parts of the marriage, resulting in two healthy people and a restored marriage that both spouses love.

    Guidelines for Healing

    Time frame:
    Boundaries regarding communication with the opposite sex:
    Types of counseling, consistency and frequency for wife:
    Types of counseling, consistency and frequency for husband:
    Expectations regarding enjoyable time together:
    Expectations regarding communication and intimacy:
    Living arrangements:
    Care of the children; schedule for stays at home:

    Goals that must be met for the separation to end and couple to be reunified:

    Counseling conditions outlined above have been met.Spouses have demonstrated only healthy behaviors for a prolonged period of time that creates trust and confidence that the spouse is healthy and safe for the couple to be together again.

    If by the end of the time frame the above goals are not met:

    Expectations after reunification:

    If expectations after reunification are not met:

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  • Could you spot abuse in your or your friends' marriage? In today's episode we clearly define sexual, spiritual, physical, and financial abuse. Please listen and share with your people so that we as a church body never dismiss this damaging cycle within many Christian (and non-Christian) marriages today.

    National Domestic Abuse Hotline: 817-369-3970

    Scriptures referenced: 1 Corinthians 13:4-8; Galatians 5:13-14; Ephesians 5:25

    Biblical Submission Episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/biblical-submission/id1475974345?i=1000569525433

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    Notes:
    SEXUAL ABUSE

    Sexual abuse in marriage is any form of sexual acts that uses force, trickery, or manipulation.

    Sexual abuse can look like withholding sex as a form of punishment. The abuser might refuse or threaten to remove sex if they don’t get their way. Withholding sex is a weapon to establish or maintain dominance. Using sex as a weapon to control is sexual abuse.

    Sexual abuse can also look like marital rape. Any time one spouse is not in agreement or has not willingly engaged in a sexual act, it is rape. It is any sexual act committed against a spouse’s will. The abuser may use physical force, threats of force, or psychological force, fear, or manipulation to engage in marital rape. 1 in 10 spouses are raped by their spouse. Any sexual act should be mutually consented - any time it is not, it is sexual abuse.

    Sexual abuse may also look like criticizing your physical appearance. Abusers might use offensive language about your body or your physical appearance. Abusers might use offensive language about your body or your appearance to undermine your self-worth. This is not love, it is a form of sexual abuse.

    Sexual abuse might also look like unwanted aggression during sexual acts. Hitting, choking, or using any type of force is also sexual abuse.

    SPIRITUAL ABUSE

    Spiritual abuse is using Scripture, biblical concepts or belief systems to control, manipulate, or enforce power over anot

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