Episodes
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Our children are growing up in an environment unlike any previous generations. Technology and cultural expectations have taken away their childhood and forced them to mature faster than ever. This is having some difficult effects.
Join me in this episode as I'm joined by a much younger guest who goes by Mr. Whisky. We talk about his work supporting the mental health of our younger generation. We cover practical perspectives and things to think about as a parent of this generation.
You can read more about Mr. Whiskey and find his podcast at: https://couple-o-nukes-website.webnode.page/
I also invite you to check out my free Manly Strengths Assessment at https://catholiclifecoachformen.com/manly-strengths-assessment-signup/
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Comparison is the thief of joy.
Even if we men don't speak our comparisons out loud very often, they still destroy our joy and happiness in life. They take a gift of God that is so good, and make us so terribly unhappy about it.
Join me in this episode as I walk through the danger of comparisons and how to steal your joy back. Imagine a kid with a scoop of icecream who just watched another child walk by with three scoops. It takes a lot of work to not lose that joy. But, by the grace of God, you can beat comparisons.
Oh, and comparisons are actually a sneaky form of pride. As if pride wasn't already sneaky enough.
If you have not listened to Part 1 (at least) first, please start there. I'm building on a discussion that has already started.
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The Litany of Humility is one of the hardest prayers to pray and actually mean. Everyone groans when they first read it. This is a series designed to help us men through this litany and help us find humility.
Join me in this episode as I continue to work through the various parts of the Litany of Humility. In this episode, I break apart the indirect (or invisible) fears we all have. I talk about how important it is to accept that others will hurt us and not to take offense.
Instead, we must remember that Vengeance is for the Lord. We are simply to accept, forgive, and keep loving. This is humility. It's not about us.
If you have not listened to Part 1 (at least) first, please start there. I'm building on a discussion that has already started.
I also invite you to check out my free Manly Strengths Assessment at https://catholiclifecoachformen.com/manly-strengths-assessment-signup/
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A man who enters the world will encounter problems. This is unavoidable. As soon as one is solved, another rises up. Over time this can be extremely frustrating. It's tempting to just start blaming - other people, events, and even God.
When a man turns to blame and plays a victim, his life only gets worse. If he continues, he ends up with a life not worth living.
Don't believe the lies of the world.
Join me in this episode as Dr. Mark Teague and I dive into a discussion of how to respond to life's problems. Do you accept that there are problems and you need to work to solve them, or do you hide? How do you balance responsibility with humility as a Christian? This episode is an invitation to get working and take responsibility!
You can find Mark's book at his website or anywhere books are sold! http://www.aworkingmansguide.com
I also invite you to check out my free Manly Strengths Assessment at https://catholiclifecoachformen.com/manly-strengths-assessment-signup/
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Emotional attacks hurt. They cause wounds that can fester for decades if left alone. Worse, we men are particularly bad at dealing with emotional pain.
It's not a surprise that we do not like the Litany of Humility. It's painful to even think about! Deep down, however, we need it.
Rather than hiding, drinking, or turning to some pleasure, the Christian journey is to endure and accept suffering of all types - even emotional. But how do we do it?
Join me in this episode as I explore the next part of the litany of humility - the invitation to not be afraid of emotionally painful treatment. I walk through why we must be brave enough to endure this pain - and what it costs us if we don't. Even thought it's not easy to see, the Christian call always works out better than the lies of the world.
This is the fourth episode of a series, I strongly recommend not listening to them out of order.
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The most dangerous part of Pride is how often it hides itself behind seemingly well intentioned lies. Being consulted is a good thing. Being preferred because you've worked hard is also a good thing. The desire of these, however, is not.
This does not make sense right away. It's not obvious why this should be so.
Join me in this episode as I discuss the danger of the desires to be consulted and preferred. These do not sound like bad things - and in fact are not. The danger is in the desire, but it's subtle. We intellectually know that the church's teachings are true, but they can be hard to understand!
This is the third episode of a series, I strongly recommend not listening to them out of order.
I also invite you to check out my free Manly Strengths Assessment at https://catholiclifecoachformen.com/manly-strengths-assessment-signup/
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This episode continues the Humility series where I am exploring the Litany of Humility. This is one of the most painful prayers to pray, and therefore probably pretty important.
Pride is one of the greatest sins of our time - and perhaps always has been. As Christians, we are called to combat the pride in our own hearts in a powerful and unique way.
Join me in this episode as I walk through what I call the "direct goods" that the litany asks Jesus to deliver us from. Why would this be good? What does this even mean? Why would I want to pray this? Join me in this episode to find out.
I also invite you to check out my free Manly Strengths Assessment at https://catholiclifecoachformen.com/manly-strengths-assessment-signup/
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This episode is part 2 of a discussion with Ed Jozsa. In part one (episode 211) he discussed his amazing story of a series of miracles that took place after he went through a horrific accident. If you have not yet listened to that episode, I strongly suggest listening to that first!
In this episode he and I take the discussion in a totally different direction. I explore the impact that this story has had on his relationships, starting with his marriage, then moving into how it has affected his children and extended relationships.
Join me in this episode as Ed and I discuss how you do not need to go through a miracle to experience the voice of God and respond to his promptings. God has a plan that needs your cooperation. You are called to act powerfully in the lives of everyone around you. Take action, today!
You can read more about Ed on his website: https://presenceofgodencounters.com/
You can find his two books:
The Mystic Next Door and Triumph of the Cross
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So many men feel overwhelmed. We allow the distractions and tasks of the day to be more important than our loved ones. Worse, we often fail to take care of ourselves properly!
Join me in this episode as productivity expert Mark Struczewski and I talk about how to change your life, forever. Productivity is not some magic pill or meditation technique, but a return to the simple basics that always work. We cover distractions, overwhelm, procrastination, and the self-care necessary to be the best for our loved ones!
You can find out more about Mark on his website: https://misterproductivity.com/
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Humility is one of the hardest and most essential of virtues to grow in. It's painful, embarrassing, and well...humiliating!
The hard part is most people don't even really understand what humility is.
Join me in this episode as I start a new series on humility. The goal of this episode is just to explore what humility is, how to find our pride, and some basics of what to do. In subsequent episodes, I'll walk through each line of the litany of humility. First, however, we need some basics.
This episode is not going to be fun, comfortable, or easy to listen to. It may, however, be the most important podcast episode you listen to!
I also invite you to check out my free Manly Strengths Assessment at https://catholiclifecoachformen.com/manly-strengths-assessment-signup/
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Sometimes the day that everything goes horribly, even tragically wrong, can be the best thing ever to happen to us.
We almost never see it that way at the time, but we worship a God of impossibilities. A God that does things that seem utterly impossible.
Join me in this episode as Ed Jozsa shares his miraculous, unbelievable story. After an accident that the doctors all agreed he should never have survived, Ed was given a series of truly mystical visions. They were a wake-up call to a man who was sleeping through his life. They can be a wake-up call to us as well.
If you want to watch and read more about Ed's miraculous story, you can find it at his website: https://www.presenceofgodencounters.com/
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Whether you are a father, grandfather, or thinking you might become a father one day, odds are that you aren't giving enough gravity to what that role really means.
A father is often even more critical in an older child's life than his mother - and research supports this scary (and politically incorrect) conclusion!
Join me in this episode as I explore the data about why fatherhood is so critical, ways that we can imitate our Heavenly Father, and practical tips to being a better father right now. Wherever you are in your journey as a father, something in this episode will challenge and inspire you to up your game.
Your children are counting on you!
I invite you to check out my free Manly Strengths Assessment at https://catholiclifecoachformen.com/manly-strengths-assessment-signup/
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While Eve was speaking to the serpent, Adam...stood by idle. He did not act.
How often do we also fail to act - either entirely or slowly?
Join me in this episode as I explore why it is so important to make today "Day One" or obedience to God's will, rather than waiting to obey "One Day" in the future when it's more convenient. God invites us to obedience.
I also invite you to check out my free Manly Strengths Assessment at https://catholiclifecoachformen.com/manly-strengths-assessment-signup/
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If you have children that are currently being educated, you need to know about the attacks coming under the label of "Critical Race Theory."
CRT is devastating to children - it causes confusion, guilt, blame, and a lifetime of misunderstanding.
It's also demonic in origin.
Join me in this episode as CRT opposition expert Dr George Maurer walks through what is happening in schools and even home-schooling curriculum across the country in regards to CRT. He explains why it is so bad, and what you need to do as a parent to protect your children.
You can follow him on Facebook or checkout his book!
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We worship a God of miracles. Sometimes they're subtle or slight - but sometimes they're not!
Sometimes the miracles are so big and powerful we're left to wonder how we ever doubted.
Join me in this episode as Joshua Marcengill shares his story about God's powerful and miraculous intervention in his life. Multiple times in his story, God brings a powerful healing. Now he has the opportunity to share his encounter with God with others.
You can read more about Abundant Encounters at https://www.abundantencounters.com/
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Many today want to deny the existence or importance of the spiritual realm. It's scary, confusing, and often overwhelming.
Yet, we would be foolish to not take it seriously. We know that it's real and has real power in our lives.
Join me in this episode as I give some high level guidelines for some things you need to be aware of as a Catholic about the demonic world. This episode is only an introduction that will inspire you to dig deeper with the actual authorities. This should help you know when you need to do more.
You can find my free online manly strength assessment at: https://catholiclifecoachformen.com/manly-strengths-assessment-signup/
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A lot of us take great confidence in our technical skills. We may be the very best at our jobs of all the competition, but if we cannot connect on a personal level then we are going to struggle.
Join me in this episode as Lance Cayko walks through his journey of learning to connect with others, and eventually with God. So often we run from God - or at least from what we think God represents. Yet, God patiently draws us back to Himself. The truth always points to Him.
You can find Lance's podcast at https://www.insidethefirmpodcast.com/
You can follow his fishing adventures at Fishing With Lance.
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This is a tough time to be in a corporate environment and be a Catholic.
There's a tremendous number of powerful assaults on the truth and teachings of goodness going on everywhere. Many men are intimidated and unsure how to balance what seems like an impossible mix: providing for their family while also speaking the truth.
Join me in this episode as I tackle this difficult question. What are the principles and practical ways we as Catholic men can navigate these treacherous waters? We must hold to truth. We must hold to charity. We cannot compromise on virtue. We must be men of prayer, discernment, and action.
If you haven't yet, go check out my free online Manly Strength Assessment. It will help you quickly determine where you need to work on yourself. https://catholiclifecoachformen.com/manly-strengths-assessment-signup/
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Virtually everyone has heard of the Ten Commandments. Yet, surprisingly, most of us can't actually name all ten.
If we can't even name them - do you really think we're actually keeping them?
Some people might even wonder if they're still relevant in our lives today.
Join me in this episode as Ed Van Buskirk and I talk about the value and necessity of the Ten Commandments in our lives, even today. We discuss why they are a critical part of our struggle towards holiness. God has given us a great gift in the commandments, and we ignore them to our own suffering.
You can read more about the amazing work that Ed has done and all he offers at his website: https://ifuloveme.org/
I also invite you to check out my free Manly Strengths Assessment at https://catholiclifecoachformen.com/manly-strengths-assessment-signup/
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We hear all the time that we need to surrender something to the Lord. Sure, it sounds good, and is probably a good thing to do - but how do we actually do it?
Sometimes surrendering that particular thing kind of feels almost like a little bit of death!
Sometimes it actually is. But we still have to do it anyways.
Join me in this episode as I walk through How to finally Surrender something to the Lord. It's super simple, but also super hard. To help make the point, I also tell 3 stories in my life of where I've had to surrender something, and the pain and agony I've gone through to do it.
You can find my new free Manly Strengths Assessment here:
https://catholiclifecoachformen.com/manly-strengths-assessment-signup/
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