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Hallo zusammen und herzlich willkommen zum Format CHEEXY Chats in unserem CHEEX TALKS Podcast von unserer Sexual-Wellness Platform CHEEX. Wir sind Helen und Amenzee, wir lieben es, miteinander über diverse Themen rund um Se+ & Beziehungen zu quatschen und in unserer 11. Episode sind wir, wegen vielen Nachfragen aus der Community, auf deutsch zu hören und sprechen über ein Thema, was sehr viele Menschen beschäftigt - die Penisgröße.
Wir gehen der Frage auf den Grund, woher die gesellschaftlichen Erwartungen bezüglich der Penisgröße kommen. Wir sprechen offen darüber, ob die Größe wirklich so wichtig ist wie viele denken und wie man mit Unsicherheiten in Bezug auf den eigenen Körper umgehen kann. Dabei beleuchten wir sowohl psychologische als auch physische Aspekte der Penisgröße und geben Tipps, wie man zu mehr Selbstakzeptanz und einem gesunden Selbstbild finden kann. Gemeinsam räumen wir mit Mythen auf und sprechen darüber, was in Beziehungen wirklich zählt: Vertrauen, Kommunikation und gegenseitiger Respekt.
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Musik: Eva-Lotte Andereya
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Hello everyone and welcome to the format CHEEXY Chats in our CHEEX TALKS podcast from our pleasure platform CHEEX. We are Helen and Amenzee, we love chatting freely about diverse topics connected to Se+ & Relationships and in our 10th Episode we are talking about the Libido and the things that affect your Se+life!
In our 10th episode, which also marks the finale of the first season of CHEEXY Chats, we talk about all the factors that can influence your sex drive. We share some personal stories as always, give you a little overview on the scientific aspects of the libido & we’ll talk about hormones, stress, relationships and P+rn. We hope this last episode of the very first season of CHEEXY Chats is a worthy conclusion. We promise to be back soon with more stories, ideas, topics and maybe even some exciting changes!
Thank YOU, dear listeners, for your time and attention, we can’t wait to meet you again soon!
Join us on the ride and feel free to comment on Instagram, Spotify or via Mail, what your thoughts & experiences with your sexual fantasies are.
As a listener of CHEEXY Chats, you now have the opportunity to try out the CHEEX annual subscription for free for 7 days. Simply use the code 'cheexychats' at checkout via the link: bit.ly/cheexychats
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Music: Eva-Lotte Andereya
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Hello everyone and welcome to the format CHEEXY Chats in our CHEEX TALKS podcast from our pleasure platform CHEEX. We are Helen and Amenzee, we love chatting freely about diverse topics connected to Se+ & Relationships and in our 9th Episode we are talking about sexual fantasies and what they mean. This topic goes along with our current “vote for your porn campaign” where you can anonymously take a short survey and we will turn your deepest desires into a porn: https://cheex.typeform.com/voteforyourporn (*poll is open until 11.8 so vote now)!
In our episode we also chat about where fantasies come from, how they can be categorized, why it is important to destigmatize them and what fantasy trends exist and how they shift. We answer questions like are there problematic fantasies? Do I have to test out all my fantasies? How do I share my fantasies? Join us on the ride and feel free to comment on Instagram, Spotify or via Mail, what your thoughts & experiences with your sexual fantasies are.
As a listener of CHEEXY Chats, you now have the opportunity to try out the CHEEX annual subscription for free for 7 days. Simply use the code 'cheexychats' at checkout via the link: bit.ly/cheexychats
Follow us on Instagram: @getcheex
Music: Eva-Lotte Andereya
Cut&Mix: Vanessa Sonnenfroh
Chapters:
Ca. 00:00:30 Intro
Ca. 00:04:30 What are Se+ual Fantasies: Definition and Overview
Ca. 00:09:00 Types of Se+ual Fantasies/ Common & Uncommon Fantasies
Ca. 00:18:00 Most Popular Fantasies according to P0rnHub
Ca. 00:30:00 Cultural and Societal Influences
Ca. 00:40:00 Psychology
Ca. 00:56:00 Outro -
Hello everyone and welcome to the format CHEEXY Chats in our CHEEX TALKS podcast from our ethical pleasure platform CHEEX. We are Helen and Amenzee, we love to chat freely about diverse topics connected to Se+ & Relationships and in our 8th Episode we are talking about the Hook-Up-Culture and discuss what role it plays in finding our se+ual liberation.
We’re talking about different kinds of movements that fought for se+ual liberation over the last years, we sum up what the term “se+ual liberation” means to us and critically dive into the topic of Hook-Up-Culture and many of its aspects. Is it freeing? Does it stand in the way of love? What about consent? Bodycounts? Pressure? Does it support the Patriarchy? Does it lead to freedom? What other ways are there to become se+ual liberated? And does se+ual liberation necessarily mean to have a lot of se+ ? Join us on the ride and feel free to comment on Instagram, Spotify or via Mail, what your thoughts & experiences with Hook-Ups are!
As a listener of CHEEXY Chats, you now have the opportunity to try out the CHEEX annual subscription for free for 7 days. Simply use the code 'cheexychats' at checkout via the link: bit.ly/cheexychats
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Chapters:
00:00 Intro
00:20 What is sexual liberation?
00:10 Sexual liberation & hook-ups
00:11:34 Is hook-up culture hindering love?
00:23:30 Personal anecdotes
00:51:10 Outro
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Music: Eva-Lotte Andereya
Cut&Mix: Vanessa Sonnenfroh -
CHEEXY Chats | Consent Is Mandatory
Hello everyone and welcome to the format CHEEXY Chats in our CHEEX TALKS podcast from our ethical pleasure platform CHEEX. We are Helen and Amenzee, chatting freely about diverse topics connected to S*x & Relationships and in our 7th Episode we are talking about Consent.
Consent is mandatory and today we will tell you a little bit more about the whole topic, our own experiences with and without consent, why consent is s*xy and we’ll guide you through a few situations and show you what consent can look like. This Episode could be seen as the basis to all the other topics we’re talking about in our Podcast, because it is the ground we’re walking on as se+ual liberated, empowered and playful beings. We’d love to invite you to try it yourself, learn, practice and maybe even share some experiences with us on Instagram, Spotify or wherever you may find us. Now join the ride right into roleplay, personal stories and some realtalk about one of our favourite topics!
As a listener of CHEEXY Chats, you now have the opportunity to try out the CHEEX annual subscription for free for 7 days. Simply use the code 'cheexychats' at checkout via the link: bit.ly/cheexychats
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Music: Eva-Lotte Andereya
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Hello everyone and welcome to the format CHEEXY Chats in our CHEEX TALKS podcast from our ethical pleasure platform CHEEX. We are Helen and Amenzee, chatting freely about diverse topics connected to S*x & Relationships and in our 6. Episode it is all about Oral!
As we focus on the topic of oral, we debunk some pretty wild myths, dive into the history of oral sex and talk about personal stories. This time, we asked the community via Instagram and you all sent us some exciting questions, we will answer. How did former US president Clinton affect the way we perceive oral today? When did oral appear for the first time?
How can Oral help strengthen a relationship, how do you spice up your oral pleasure and how do you get really good in bed – especially in oral?
If you are curious and want to know more about the whole topic, check out our 6th episode of CHEEXY Chats and become a part of our growing little community!
As a listener of CHEEXY Chats, you now have the opportunity to try out the CHEEX annual subscription for free for 7 days. Simply use the code 'cheexychats' at checkout via the link: bit.ly/cheexychats
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Music: Eva-Lotte Andereya
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Hello everyone and welcome to the format CHEEXY Chats in our CHEEX TALKS podcast from our ethical pleasure platform CHEEX. We are Helen and Amenzee, chatting freely about diverse topics connected to S*x & Relationships and in our new Episode we talk about the straight gaze in the media and how it affects our everyday life. Also: HAPPY PRIDE MONTH EVERYONE! You may have already heard of the male gaze and how it has been criticized over the last years, now we take it a step further and look at it from another perspective where we zoom into the queer and the straight ways of looking at life in movies, TV shows, ads, p0rn or Tumblr. How does the straight gaze affect marginalized groups in real life situations? Where does the whole “gaze”-topic come from? Why is the “gay best friend” trope in semi-woke films problematic and how do we start telling real stories of diverse people in different media forms?
If you are curious and want to know more about the whole topic, check out our 5th episode of CHEEXY Chats and become a part of our growing little community!
As a listener of CHEEXY Chats, you now have the opportunity to try out the CHEEX annual subscription for free for 7 days. Simply use the code 'cheexychats' at checkout via the link: bit.ly/cheexychats
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Music: Eva-Lotte Andereya
Cut&Mix: Vanessa Sonnenfroh -
Hello everyone and welcome to the format CHEEXY Chats in our CHEEX TALKS podcast from our ethical pleasure platform CHEEX. We are Helen and Amenzee, chatting freely about diverse topics connected to S*x & Relationships and in our fourth Episode we are talking about all kinds of body hair!
Join us on a ride through the history of body hair, exploring studies, benefits, fun facts, and debunking some myths along the way. We share a little about our own relationship to our body hair and we’d love to inspire you to talk to your lovers and friends about the hairy business.
Is it really more hygienic to shave? What the hell is “manscaping”? How did the people in ancient Greece shave? And what is all this fuss about our body hair anyway?
If you are curious and want to know more about the whole topic, check out our 4th episode of CHEEXY Chats and become a part of our growing little community!
As a listener of CHEEXY Chats, you now have the opportunity to try out the CHEEX annual subscription for free for 7 days. Simply use the code 'cheexychats' at checkout via the link: bit.ly/cheexychats
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Music: Eva-Lotte Andereya
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Hello everyone and welcome to the format CHEEXY Chats in our CHEEX TALKS podcast from our ethical pleasure platform CHEEX. We are Helen and Amenzee, chatting freely about diverse topics connected to S*x & Relationships and our third episode was taking place on the taz labs live stage.
We’re pleased to announce our very first guest of CHEEXY CHATS: Lina Bembe!
Lina Bembe is a P0rn-Performer, Director and Intimacy Coordinator. This Episode is all about Intimacy Coordination and Linas Work. Why is Intimacy Coordination necessary? What does it even mean? What’s the difference between Intimacy Coordinators on Movie Sets and on P0rn Sets and how does an Intimacy Coordinator make sure that everyone on Set is feeling safe?
If you are curious and want to know more about the whole topic, check out our 3rd episode of CHEEXY Chats and become a part of our growing little community!
As a listener of CHEEXY Chats, you now have the opportunity to try out the CHEEX annual subscription for free for 7 days. Simply use the code 'cheexychats' at checkout via the link: bit.ly/cheexychats
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Music: Eva-Lotte Andereya
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Hello everyone and welcome to the format CHEEXY Chats in our CHEEX TALKS podcast from our ethical pleasure platform CHEEX.
We are Helen and Amenzee chatting freely about diverse topics connected to S*x & Relationships and our second episode is all about the 0rgasm!
We chat about pleasure, masturbating, the 0rgasm-Gap, the relation between the patriarchy and the 0rgasms of vulva-owners and how to take up space and to take your time for your pleasure. We also broach topics like reconnecting with your body after abusive experiences, the different ways of performing pressure around the whole topic of 0rgasms for various types of genders and how wonderful 0rgasms are but how they are not always necessary for having a good time.
What do waterslides and s*xt0ys have in common? How do we loosen up the 3-Acts-Movie-like scripts of our s*xlifes and transform performance into shared experiences? How do we chill out a bit when it comes to 0rgasms and see them less as a task and more as a fun part of an experience?
Check out our 2nd Episode of CHEEXY Chats and become a part of our little community!
As a listener of CHEEXY Chats, you now have the opportunity to try out the CHEEX annual subscription for free for 7 days.
Simply use the code 'cheexychats' at checkout via the link: bit.ly/cheexychats
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Music: Eva-Lotte Andereya
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Hello everyone and welcome to the format CHEEXY Chats in our CHEEX TALKS podcast from our ethical pleasure platform CHEEX. With a big thanks we say goodbye to our former host Pauline and start into a new era of this podcast! What's new? The language, the format, the hosts and much more!
As a listener of CHEEXY Chats, you now have the opportunity to try out the CHEEX annual subscription for free for 7 days. Simply use the code 'cheexychats' at checkout via the link: bit.ly/cheexychats
We are Helen and Amenzee, good friends since meeting at a pool party 3 years ago. We decided to take our friendship to the next level with this podcast! Chatting freely about diverse topics connected to S*x & Relationships has been one of our favorite pastimes and we would love to invite you to join our conversation by listening, feedbacking and starting a conversation yourself with your friends and partners! We strongly believe in the power of communication and with this podcast we'd like to reduce the shame, fear, embarrassment and discomfort around the topic of S*x, that our society has taught us to feel. In our pilote-episode we dive straight into a taboo topic – we are talking about anal S*x! We talk about various myths, fears, and facts around the subject.. We include the history of anal S*x, homophobia, tips and technics.
If you got curious, join our new little community and listen to the first episode of CHEEXY Chats!
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Madita Oeming hat es sich als Pornowissenschaftlerin zur Aufgabe gemacht, Pornomythen aufzudecken, Pornopanik abzubauen und Pornokompetenz zu vermitteln. In ihrem neu erschienenen Buch „PORNO - Eine unverschämte Analyse“ nimmt sie uns auf eine Reise quer durch die Pornogeschichte und zeigt uns mit ihrem Ansatz „Wissen statt Scham“, was wir gewinnen, wenn wir endlich offen über Pornos sprechen. Wir sprechen über die Entwicklung der Pornografie, den gesellschaftlichen Umgang und wie wir lernen können, Pornografie reflektiert und lustvoll zu betrachten, ohne die Schattenseiten aus den Augen zu verlieren.
Link zu Maditas Buch: https://www.rowohlt.de/buch/madita-oeming-porno-9783499012334
Mehr zu Madita:
https://www.maditaoeming.de/
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Wie ist es, Investorin in einem Porno Startup zu sein? Darüber sprechen wir mit Tijen Onaran - sie ist Unternehmerin, Diversity Beraterin, Moderatorin, Autorin, Linkedin-Influencerin, Investorin und - ganz neu - Löwin in der TV Show „Höhle der Löwen“. In der Rolle der Geldgeberin haben wir uns ursprünglich kennengelernt, denn Tijen ist seit letztem Jahr bei CHEEX investiert.
Wir sprechen über ihren Werdegang, ihre besondere Leidenschaft für Diversity & Inklusion und was das für sie eigentlich bedeutet. Hat die Auseinandersetzung mit Sexualität auf beruflicher Ebene ihren persönlichen Bezug zu dem Thema verändert? Und wie hat ihr Umfeld reagiert?
Freut euch auf persönliche Einblicke und inspirierende Anekdoten, die euch eine ganz neue Seite von Tijen Onaran zeigen.
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Wie wäre es, wenn der Zyklus einen nicht mehr aus der Bahn wirft, sondern als Kompass dient? Mit dieser Frage beschäftigt sich Rena Föhr als Sexual- und Zyklusberaterin, Unternehmerin und Autorin. In ihrem Buch „Know your Flow“ gibt sie einen Wegweiser für Zyklus, Sex und Achtsamkeit.
Wir lernen in dieser Episode von ihr alle Basics rund um Periode, PMS und Zyklusphasen - wie wir sie erkennen und am besten für uns nutzen. Rena erklärt, wie der Zyklus die Lust beeinflusst und wie hormonelle und natürliche Verhütungsmethoden funktionieren. Zuletzt klären wir Fragen, die sich fast jede menstruierende Person schon gestellt hat: Synchronisiert sich der Zyklus tatsächlich mit der Mitbewohnerin? Was hat es mit dem Mittelschmerz auf sich? Und was hat eigentlich der Mond mit dem Ganzen zu tun?
Rena Föhr’s Buch ‚Know your flow‘
https://www.piper.de/buecher/know-your-flow-isbn-978-3-492-06437-8
Rena auf Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/renafoehr/
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In diesem Monat dreht sich bei uns alles um Positionen zur Lust - dafür haben wir bei CHEEX Positionen entworfen, die unterschiedliche Sexpraktiken, Identitäten, Lebensumstände und Körperformen zeigen. Dr. Nadine Beck ist promovierte Kulturwissenschaftlerin, Sexualberaterin, Sexpertin bei Beate Uhse, Spezialistin für Sextoys und Autorin. Wir sprechen mit ihr über konkrete Sexpositionen, ihre eigene Position zur Lust und ihr neuestes Buch “Sex in Echt”, ein inklusives Aufklärungsbuch. Darüber hinaus gibt Nadine Hilfestellungen zur Kommunikation: Wie spreche ich am einfachsten darüber, wenn ich etwas Neues ausprobieren möchte? Wie sage ich, was mir wirklich Lust bereitet?
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Dr. Nadine Beck aka Vulvantastic auf Instagram:
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Weitere Angebote von Dr. Nadine Beck:
Female Pleasure Kurs mit Dr. Nadine Beck und Tina Molin
https://tinamolin.trainercentralsite.eu/course/female-pleasure?previouspage=home&isenrolled=no#/home
Aufklärungsbuch "Sex in echt" von Dr. Nadine Beck, Rosa Schilling und Sandra Bayer
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Für die neue Podcast-Reihe ‚In Bed with Friends‘ treffen sich Anneli und Pauli von CHEEX einmal im Monat gemeinsam im Bett, um über das Thema des Monats zu sprechen. Bei diesen intimen Gesprächen seid ihr unsere Community und Zuhörer*innen, die Gäste und gemeinsam diskutieren wir, tauschen uns aus und hören live eure Erfahrungen.
In unserer heutigen Folge drücken wir noch einmal die Schulbank und stellen uns die Frage: Wie wurden wir eigentlich über Sex aufgeklärt bzw. was haben wir eigentlich NICHT oder viel zu spät gelernt? Bevor wir anfangen können grandiosen, orgasmischen Sex zu haben, ist es sinnvoll und durchaus notwendig, sich zuallererst mit den Basics auseinanderzusetzen. In dieser Folge werden Mythen aufgeklärt und wir lernen gemeinsam das Einmaleins der Sexualität.
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Why is communicating in romantic relationships a challenge for most of us? How do you deal with jealousy? And what are non-monogamous relationships really? Luckily, we are joined for this episode by Leanne Yau, the founder of Polyphilia – the largest social media platform dedicated to non-monogamy education and awareness in Europe. She is a polyamorous, sex-positive content creator, writer, educator and advocate. In this episode we are talking about the importance of consciously choosing the relationship(s) you’re in and how communication is a life long learning process.
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Sex Education & Porn: How do they work together and where? What do we need to change in the way we approach porn and sex education? And does a realistic view on sex exist?
We invited Lina Bembe, latinx sex professional, porn performer and director, to talk about her work and the fact that (sex) education never ends. In this episode you’ll learn about porn being entertainment just like any other movie genre and why diversity makes a difference in both education and porn.
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Erektionsstörungen: Weit verbreitet und doch immer noch ein großes Tabu Thema.
Für die aktuelle Folge CHEEX Talks hatten wir die Chance, gemeinsam mit einer Ärztin und einem Patienten über das große Thema Potenz und Potenzstörung zu sprechen.
Dr. Laura Wiemer, Urologin und Medical Director der Kranus App erklärt uns die Ursachen der erektilen Dysfunktion, welche Therapien es gibt, welche Rolle Druck von Außen und Pornografie spielen und räumt mit so einigen Mythen auf.
Der Kranus Patient Nicolas erzählt eindrucksvoll ehrlich von seinen Herausforderungen, was ihm konkret geholfen hat und wie der Umgang mit dem Thema auch jedem einzelnen helfen könnte.
Alles zu Kranus findet ihr hier:
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We proudly present our first podcast episode in English!
How is it working in the sex industry? Why do you dance without music and how does it affect your sexual self-esteem? We invited Esluna Love, porn performer, model, and sexual creative, to talk about her work, life and about the importance of turning yourself on first. In this episode, you get to find out about practices to boost your sexual self-esteem, the perks of working with your sexuality, and an exclusive Striptease Course with Esluna on CHEEX.
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