Episodes
-
In this festive episode, Raeann recaps her restorative Canyon Ranch trip—three days of much-needed wellness despite the rec center aesthetic. Kristina shares that her dog Dué is heading into surgery to give them a little more time together. The girls also chat about the Matilda Djerf workplace controversy and the mysterious drones flying over New Jersey. They reminisce about the magic of Christmas, sharing favorite childhood memories, best and worst gifts, and the nostalgia of holiday traditions. Raeann is looking forward to spending her first Christmas with Gabe. Plus, funny listener submissions, including George Foreman excess and a dog that got ahold of dentures. Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays, wishing you a lovely time with family and good food!
Resources:
Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! -
This episode is all about the struggle of saying NO and how to break free from people-pleasing habits. Raeann and Kristina chat about the balance between honoring your commitments vs saying no with conviction. Kristina shares her progress in setting family boundaries, while Raeann reflects on the regret of skipping her family’s safari trip. Saying no takes practice and is a hard skill to get good at, but sometimes you just have to put yourself and your priorities first. And for the other people pleasers out there, saying no is not a personal rejection.
Resources:
Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! -
Missing episodes?
-
Today, Raeann and Kristina are chatting all things pop culture—from Wicked’s whimsical set and goosebump-worthy music to Vanderpump Rules’ fresh new cast and Lala’s Photoshop fail. They fan-girl over Ilona and Alan for single-handedly reviving Dancing with the Stars and applaud Steve for his undeniable star power. Meanwhile, Jacob Elordi’s beard debut? A unanimous flop. Oh, and is it just them, or is every influencer getting engaged right now?
Thanks to our sponsors: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod #sponsored get up to 48% off your first subscription or 20% off one time Magic Mind purchases with code CONFIDENT at checkout You can claim it at: https://magicmind.com/confidentcollectiveResources:
Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! -
Before this week’s Ask Away kicks off, Raeann shares her sister’s Breckenridge house chaos and Kristina agrees that homeownership isn’t all sunshine and roses. They also get into the Christmas spirit by sharing Christmas highlights from childhood gifts to nostalgic movies. In today’s Ask Away, the girls dig into relatable struggles, from ending the cycle of dressing to look skinny and overcoming wedding dress shopping anxiety to embracing cellulite with confidence. They also unpack the uncertainty of deciding when to have a baby and tackle uncomfortable topics, like how to tell a friend you’re not a fan of their toxic boyfriend. Hope you found this advice helpful—until next ti Thanks to our sponsors: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod #sponsored
Resources:
Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! -
Today, the girls are chatting all things Thanksgiving—from Friendsgiving highlights to niche family recipes. Raeann explains the lore behind her family’s infamous Watergate marshmallow salad while Kristina’s family keeps to their Greek roots. They also recap their best-ever Friendsgiving with fellow Confidants. It was a safe, judgement-free space where everyone could open up, rock their cutest holiday outfits and celebrate their curves with confidence! Shout out to Maybelline for sponsoring this beautiful event. And thank you all for the love and support. Wishing you the best Thanksgiving! Thanks to our sponsors: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod #sponsored
Resources:
Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! -
This week, Raeann and Kristina get real about body confidence, reflecting on the pressures of “thin is in” culture and how it affects their mindset. Both girls have faced a tough year with their body confidence—Raeann’s ups and downs of feeling hot vs hating her body and Kristina’s struggle with clothes that don’t fit and the suburban skinny bubble. They also discuss balancing body positivity with health goals, the power of habits, and checking in with how you’re feeling. Remember, confidence naturally ebbs and flows, and practicing self-love wherever you’re at in this journey is important! In other news, Kristina shares the buzz of filming in a new studio, previously graced by Lala from Vanderpump Rules, while Raeann opens up about an amazing psychic reading. The girls also dive into the iconic Martha Stewart documentary and the drama around the crazy $12M Brianna Chickenfry and Zach Bryan NDA.
Resources:
Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! -
Today, we welcome on Brittany Ball, a social media personality, who shares her journey of motherhood, self-discovery and dating. From life in Hawaii with her ex-husband to starting fresh in NYC as a single mom, Brittany turned her challenges into a journey of self-discovery, creating a beautiful life for herself and her son. She talks about her peaceful co-parenting dynamic, balancing motherhood with dating, and how she carves out time for herself. While in eras of uncertainty, embracing the beauty of alone time and taking the time to discover yourself is so important. Brittany’s story is all about redefining who you are and where you want to go while balancing self-love with being a mother.
Resources:
Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! -
Kristina’s tackling hair struggles, from finding the right cut to using a silk bonnet, while Raeann talks about doing a strict wellness retreat this winter to focus on her health. Plus, we talk about motherhood and our latest obsessions—Kristina’s encouragement to strike up a conversation with new people and Raeann’s Spanish lessons with Gabe. In today’s Ask Away episode, we chat about confidence, relationships, and the ebbs and flows of life. If you’re 27, single, and new to dating, we offer advice on shifting your mindset and feeling confident going into the dating scene. We tackle the current “thinness” trend and the importance of finding what makes you feel good in your body. We also discuss how to navigate friendship changes, from new relationships and honeymoon phases to family planning. And if you’re wondering how to keep the spark alive in your relationships, we’ve got tips for that too. Plus, we chat about our Confidant Friendsgiving that’s happening next week!
Resources:
Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! -
Today, we sit down with Kerry O’Brien, a powerhouse in real estate who pivoted her career in her 40s and quickly became a billion-dollar seller in Monmouth County. Karrie shares her advice on how to go after what you want in life, from doing things out of your comfort zone to going the extra mile to embracing the hard moments. It’s never too late to go for what you want and Karrie is proof of that. She also gives her tips for first-time homebuyers on how to set yourself up for success and how to find “the one”. Whether you're ready to pivot your career, start a business, or buy your first home, this episode is full of great advice and inspiration to help you take that leap of faith!
-
This week, Kristina and Raeann break down the return of the iconic Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show, from their favorite walks to the curve model representation. At the afterparty, they reaffirmed that they ARE big girls and Raeann now manifests her runway debut in next year’s show. They highlight favorite moments, from Ashley Graham owning the spotlight to Lisa from Blackpink’s stunning performance, but they also drop some critiques—pointing out the lack of glitz and glam and the small percentage of body diversity. The girls reminisce about the old show and how happy they are that it’s back but with better diversity and the message that it’s for the girls! Kristina and Raeann also share that they're hosting Friendsgiving for the Confidant community again this year! It’ll be an intimate affair in NYC and it’ll sell out quickly so join our Patreon to be the first to know. Thanks to our sponsors! Get 15% off OneSkin with the code: TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod #ad #sponsored
Resources:
Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! -
Kristina took a peaceful but semi-chaotic bike ride to the podcast studio today. Raeann chats about her wholesome weekend with her parents and how her dad will strike up a conversation with literally anyone. Kristina also shares her perspective on school uniforms and how parents put pressure on themselves just to impress other parents. They also talk about their frustration with brands that claim to carry larger sizes but don’t, and on a more positive note, they share their excitement about attending the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show. In today’s episode, the girls break down the latest in pop culture, from Sabrina Carpenter’s flirty, pop-star charm to Raeann’s love for Remi Wolf’s captivating star power. They explore Chappell Roan’s quick rise to fame and her struggle with the spotlight, while Ilona Maher wins hearts on Dancing with the Stars and deserves that celebrity status. Kristina swoons over her new favorite show, Nobody Wants This, featuring a realistic nod to how dating is right now. Plus, they cover Anne Hathaway’s Princess Diaries 3 news, how everyone seems to hate J. Lo, and the crazy P Diddy conspiracy theories!
-
Today’s episode is all about the art of delusional confidence, but first, Raeann chats about her birthday plans for Gabe’s 29th and Kristina tells us about her upcoming suburban block party. Plus, they share everything that’s on their fall wishlists—think apple picking, chunky sweaters, and fall re-runs like Practical Magic and Gilmore Girls. Now, get ready to embrace your delusional confidence! We break down how to embody and apply this unapologetic belief that you can achieve anything. Delusional confidence is all about having a dream, creating a clear vision, and working hard to turn aspirations into reality. Kristina and Raeann share their examples of how they apply this mindset, from dating to being on TV to becoming a curve model. As you begin to speak your dreams into existence, you have to tune out the haters, surround yourself with ambitious people, and embrace the ups and downs. Just believe in yourself and remember, sometimes you have to be a little delusional!
Resources:
Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! -
Today’s Ask Away is a good one, but first, the girls fill us in on their trip to sunny Los Angeles. Kristina and Raeann chat about their live show in LA with Naturalizer, where they interviewed Deepika Mutyala, Founder of Live Tinted, and celebrated the launch of Naturalizer’s most inclusive boot line yet. They also try to decipher the question of, are you are innately cool or popular, and chat about Kristina’s fascination with the P Diddy scandal. The girl’s questions today are hard-hitting, from self-care and body image to relationship dilemmas and childhood friend drama. Raeann and Kristina give advice on how to shift your mindset towards fitness for mental health and strength, rather than just physical change. They also cover how to navigate a stale relationship and complicated work crush, along with how to feel confident and overcome insecurities when dating. Hopefully, a little fresh perspective and honest advice gives you girls some clarity!
Resources:
Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!Thanks to our sponsors!
OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod -
In this *Live* episode from Los Angeles, Raeann and Kristina, along with special guest Deepica Mutyala, engage in a lively conversation about confidence, inclusivity, and fashion. Deepica shares her journey in the beauty industry, challenges of representation, and the success of her brand Live Tinted. They discuss confidence in dating, career hurdles, and the significance of a supportive community. Audience questions further explore business failures, inspirations, and the essence of genuine leadership.
This episode was brought to you LIVE from Los Angeles thanks to Naturalizer!
-
Today, we’re joined by Payton Sartain, content creator and podcast host of Note to Self. We chat relationships, city vs. country living, and how to navigate life transitions. Payton talks about her frequent moves—from the Midwest to Fashion Week in NYC to preparing for her next chapter in South Florida. As someone who thrives on new beginnings, she offers advice on navigating life in a new city, making friends as an adult, and finding your community. Payton also gives a peek into her relationship (and Raya success story) with her MLB boyfriend, Joe, and how she manifested him down to a T. The takeaway? Trust yourself, stop overthinking, and don’t be afraid to walk away from what doesn’t serve you. And remember, we’re all just girls trying to figure life out as we go! Kristina and Raeann also chat about their trip to LA, their obsession with the Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, and how taking a break from drinking may have to wait until winter.
Resources:
Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!Thanks to our sponsors!
OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod -
In this episode, Raeann talks about her first few days doing 75 Medium (75 Hard Rae edition), focusing on consistency, routine, hitting her hydration goals. Kristina celebrates her 7-year wedding anniversary and shares marriage advice on communication and how to balance life with kids. They also dive into their latest obsessions — Raeann’s dopamine menu of little joys like iced matcha, fresh sheets, and ocean dips, while Kristina raves about her new pilates princess era. Today, the girls are talking alllll about food! The focus is to celebrate the joy a good meal can bring and to quiet the toxic diet culture. They share nostalgic childhood dishes, like Kristina’s grandma’s butter pasta and Raeann’s family’s homemade pizza dough. From last meals on earth to their shared love for sauces to food-specific pet peeves, they reveal all their food loves and hates. Plus, they drop their favorite NYC restaurants where you don’t need a reservation two months in advance. Whether it’s cooking scrambled eggs at home or ordering sushi delivery, Kristina and Raeann remind us that food should be fun and free from shame! Bon appétit, ladies!
Resources:
Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! -
In this *LIVE* episode of TCC, Raeann and Kristina sit down with the iconic Lauren Chan. Together, they dive into the world of fashion, body confidence, and how to authentically show up as yourself. Lauren shares empowering insights on choosing outfits based on how they make you feel, not just how they look. Plus, they discuss fashion inclusivity, give a shout-out to brands making an impact, and share advice on finding emerging designers. Tune in for style tips, real talk, and a whole lot of inspiration!
This episode was brought to you LIVE from NYFW thanks to Naturalizer!
-
We're back, Confidants! Raeann and Kristina are back from their summer break, settling into their new sunroom studio! They dive into the joys and challenges of suburban life and how they’re striking the perfect balance between that and their city roots. Rae shares her summer adventures, from horseback riding to hiking in Colorado, while Kristina reflects on her relaxed, family-centered summer and some heartfelt thoughts on motherhood.
Rae and Gabe are perfect - are they not? Raeann gives us an update on their relationship—go back and watch her bull riding video on Instagram if you haven't seen it! The conversation also turns to pop culture, where they chat about their admiration for stars like Addison Rae and Sabrina Carpenter, plus all the buzz surrounding Love Island USA and influencer drama.
To top it all off, they share their excitement for their first live event with Naturalizer on September 3rd, where they’ll be celebrating inclusive sizing and fostering a sense of community. This episode feels like catching up with old friends—full of warmth, insight, and a little bit of juicy gossip.
Resources:
Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!Thanks to our sponsors!
OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod Goodwipes: Be sure to shop for Goodwipes at Target, Walmart, Kroger, and most local grocery stores! If you are more of an online shopper, Goodwipes are available on Amazon! -
In the final rewind episode of the summer, we turn back the clock to one of our personal favorites! Remember when Rae dropped the big "what are we" question? And Kristina rocking the neighborhood mom scene. We're also spilling tea about the craziest things we've ever done in relationships (hint: it involves jumping out of moving vehicles! 🚗).
We chat about Rae’s wild Breckenridge girl’s trip, tackle troll comments, and discuss Kristina’s obsession with Mike the Situation. The girls are thriving and leaving that toxic energy behind.
"42% of people in their 20s & 30s have never been in a relationship." We’re delving into the inner struggles of never having been in a relationship. In this rom-com generation, we expect great sex and fairytale romances, but overcoming the fear of rejection and battling self-doubt can be daunting. Don’t worry, you’re not alone. The TCC community chimes in with their burning questions and insecurities about their lack of dating experience. We’re here to be your hype women and remind you that you ARE hot, funny, and smart enough to land the person of your dreams. Being perpetually single isn’t a bad thing; if anything, it’s kind of a turn-on. Podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. New episodes return NEXT WEEK on September 3rd!
Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!
*Please note: This episode was recorded earlier, so any mentioned ads or discounts may no longer be available. Additionally, some topics, opinions, and advertisements may have changed since recording. -
In today's throwback episode, we got some great tips to help you embrace your "Main Character Energy" all year round. Plus Kristina shares an epic story involving a magical Tesla, a lost purse, and a white fig tree that led her to realize her current house was meant to be. We also dive into the Beckham documentary and discuss why it’s so captivating, and whether David and Victoria Beckham might have one of the greatest love stories of all time. Naturally, this leads us to chat about the Spice Girls. One of us channels Scary Spice, while the other embodies Posh Spice. Can you guess who’s who?
Podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. New episodes return September 3rd!
Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!
*Please note: This episode was recorded earlier, so any mentioned ads or discounts may no longer be available. Additionally, some topics, opinions, and advertisements may have changed since recording. - Show more
