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good day to our difficulters!! this episode is inspired by the tiktok trend on propaganda we should NOT be falling for, and we made this whole ep on super niche things that are normalized in the south asian community that we should NOT be doing!! is tanning and darkening our skin that bad?? do we gotta buy our parents a home before ourselves?? do we gotta respect our elders??? listen to find out :)
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hello!!! if you're not sure why you should vote or care for these upcoming nyc elections, then this episode is for you! we break down the revolution that zohran mamdani is creating for young voters as he runs for nyc mayor, why this impacts america as a whole, what sets him apart from his competitors, his fight for more accessibility and affordability across the city. we're simplifying the jargon around voting and politicians so let's dive into it !!
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we are in the engaged era and in the initial stages of wedding planning and OOF - we are stressed. in this very vulnerable tell ALL episode, we are talking about the behind the scenes of wedding planning. no one tells you about the financial stressors, societal and familial pressures and expectations on what it's supposed to look like, who NOT to invite and if we even have a say over that, and so much more when it comes to these very glamorized wedding events. buckle in because this is a good one!
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hello!!! this episode serves as a part 2 to last weeks 'do we owe everything to our immigrant parents?' where in this we talk about all the things we DONT owe. do we owe them full cultural perfection? or control over our careers? or complete sacrifice of self being?? that and so much more discussed in this wonderful episode of ur fav pod!!!
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are we spoiled for not giving everything to our immigrant parents like the last generation? do we not have boundaries if we choose to give our money and time to our parents. in this episode, we are going to talk all about what we feel like we owe to our parents and talk about the gratitude vs. guilt aspect, the fine line with sacrificing too much and not enough, and more. this is only just part 1 so stay tuned for the next one!!
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it's so very true, your fav cohosts are engaged!! after 3+ years of long distance and being together for almost 5 years, we are so excited to share the story on the surprise proposal, the intense planning that went into it, our different pov's on the week leading up to this engagement, what it feels like to be in the talks of marriage as south asians, and so so much more. this new chapter in our lives mean so much to us so we are so excited to share it with u <3
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hello hello!! this episode is a part 2 to our recent episode on the roots of the south asian competitive mindset. we've all been there, our parents comparing us to our family and peers, but how do we make sure we don't live our lives with that same way of thinking? in this ep, we go in depth on realistic ways to realize there's enough room at the table, how to spread love and admiration over hate and spite, how to feel successful apart from money and status, and many many more!! lock in
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we've all grown up with toxic cultural traditions and mindsets that just are NOT IT. whether it's parents placing earlier curfews on daughters vs. their sons, being told to not go out in the sun because you'll get dark, or even just talking over one another. in this episode, we are going to talk about some of the harmful mindsets that we have unlearned and that we will not be passing onto the next generation. you all had a lot to say in this one so hope u enjoy!!!
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we've all gone through bad friendship breakups that made us lose faith in making friends ever again. we've stayed friends with toxic friends or settled just so we don't have to be alone anymore. in this episode, we are talking about the lonely period after going through a friendship breakup, but then how life turns around when you make new friends and find your forever people. this includes advice for anyone going through these tough times right now and also for anyone who doesn't know how to make friends. hope u enjoy!
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did you grow up constantly being compared to your smarter cousin and see family members talk down on everyone around them? did you ever get told to gatekeep resources and not share secrets so that others can't get ahead of you? in this episode, we are going to be breaking down why there are some brown people who compete with other brown people instead of welcoming collaboration and genuine community. we'll be explaining the scarcity mindset in our parents' generation and why many of us also grow up with this need to be the one and only person on top. grab your popcorn because this ones a good one!!
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yall loved the first time we did this so we had to run it back! for this episode, we asked you guys on ig to tell us your BIGGEST south asian pet peeves and yall didnt hold back. being judged for how muslim you are? not getting recognition for small wins?? people biting off south asian fashion??? that plus so many more in an episode so jam packed and comedic you'll pee your pants just like mohuya does this episode!!! enjoy ;)
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many people overlook these powerful success mindset shifts and habits, but these WILL change the way you take risks, grow in your career, and become successful. welcome back to another episode where we talk about some of our most life changing routines like taking a difficult work out class, getting into the creative deep flow state, or even simply, having a reliable skincare routine. we hope u enjoy this one!
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you know we need to do another advice session with some of our most asked questions!! if you're struggling with approaching therapy for the first time or telling your desi parents about a non-desi partner OR even how to start meal prepping, then this is the episode for you. this includes advice for bed rotters, newly grads, and everyone in between. this is what we'd do in your situations so we hope u enjoy!
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we are airing out all our dirty laundry here by exposing some of our WORST red flags that we've had to unlearn over the past few years. we talk about the toxic ways we would act in relationships like giving the silent treatment or always having a victim mindset while also sharing some ways we've unlearned these bad traits. we ALL have negative things that we have to work on so this episode is for me and for u to get some inspiration on how to get better for ourselves and people around us. hope u enjoy!
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we've probably all pulled all nighters to study for a test or worked overtime and cancelled on plans, but what happens when it becomes a part of your everyday lifestyle? in this episode about toxic productivity, we talk about the negative effects of working too much to the point of burnout and exhaustion and some signs to look out for if you feel like you might be experiencing this too. as children of immigrants, working hard might've been ingrained in us and it's about time we take control of our own life and realize that we are more than just our work and grades. we worked hard on this one and really hope u enjoy!
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our second time around on this topic and we get real spicy!!! join us for an episode of 6 hot takes on the south asian community, including but not limited to: brown people are the most racist ones to brown people? south asian women need to stop relying on their husbands?? we need to respect south asian service workers more??? tune in to hear the rest!
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this one is for all the people who have been in an unhealthy environment whether it's with toxic friends, family, or other loved ones. these are some realistic tips on how to protect your peace and cope with them because unfortunately most of us can't just cut them out of our lives!! how do u still maintain your sanity as an adult in your childhood home? how do u maintain boundaries with people who don't make you feel safe?? we answer it all here and we hope u enjoy this one!
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sometimes you need to hide some things and live a double life in a south asian family... and in this episode we don't hold back. we share some of our funny personal experiences on what we kept from my parents growing up like hiding grades, the way we dress, relationships, who we're hanging out with, and so much more. there's definitely a bigger conversation on why we felt the need to hide these things growing up in this culture, but for now we hope you love and relate to this lighthearted episode!! <3
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the first guest of 2025 and she's the real deal!!! this episode is with our good friend aria mustary, a harvard grad the escaped child marriage at 12 now helping other young girls do the same as the founder of mai soli, a foundation revolutionizing education for young girls in developing countries through empowerment and entrepreneurship. we dive deep on living through poverty as a eldest daughter on the edge of child marriage, the sacrifices her and her mother made for her family, her battles with mental health and adhd, and how she stumbled her way into harvard grad school. as moving as her story is, aria stays humble and lighthearted and is a huge clown and we're blessed to have her on please enjoy!!!
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we are officially in part 2 of our self sabotage series where we now talk about the tangible ways to stop self sabotaging. if you are wondering how to slowly unlearn imposter syndrome, the fear of failure, low self esteem, and stop getting in your own way, then you need to listen to the realistic tips we have to get to the best version of yourself. we talk about getting out of the toxic relationship cycle, getting out of your comfort zone career wise, procrastination when it comes to work, and so much more. you don't want to miss out on this one!
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