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  • Listen in as we explore the ever-engaging topic of “How to Get the Girl,” both in the pursuit of relationships and retaining that everlasting bond with if you happen to already have one. We tackle the notion that the chase shouldn't end at the altar and offer sage advice for bachelors on becoming a man worthy of a woman's affection. The key takeaway here is the emphasis on foundational stability, like having a job and financial security, as non-negotiable starting points before embarking on the quest for love.

    Join the conversation as we reminisce about the early days of courtship with our wives, underscoring the need for courage and initiative when initiating a relationship. We recount how strategic moves, like swapping work groups at a summer camp and enduring the potential sting of rejection, can display commitment and genuine interest. It's a narrative that celebrates bravery, the support of good friends, and the unyielding persistence that sometimes leads to the most meaningful connections.

    Learn about the continuous journey of masculine growth and how it molds relationship dynamics. We discuss the necessity of a balanced approach to self-improvement, touching on the physical, financial, and character development crucial for young men. In marriage, we stress the importance of nurturing the bond through intentional quality time and mutual service, highlighting strategies that keep the spark alive amidst life's busyness. So, whether you're navigating the dating world or fostering a deep-rooted marital connection, tune in for an honest, practical take on cultivating lasting love and happiness.

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    Jermaine Stewart: https://www.instagram.com/thejermainestewart
    Jeremy Quintini: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyquintini

  • Embark on a journey through the complex world of ambition with the charismatic Carlos Flores, founder of HiHello Labs, as our guide. We traverse the highs and lows of fatherhood, manhood, and the entrepreneurial spirit, navigating through personal anecdotes like my recent mountain climbing feat and Carlos's humorous yet enlightening path from a misstep-prone individual to a CEO and podcasting trailblazer. Revel in tales of resilience, and the impact of faith, and gain a fresh perspective on what it truly means to be ambitious in today's world.

    This episode peels back the layers of how generational shifts have painted our work ethic and ambitions with different strokes. We reminisce about the days when milestones like getting your first job were badges of honor and ponder if today's youth are navigating a different terrain entirely. Through the lens of our childhoods, shaped by the relentless drive of our parents, we examine how ambition can be both instilled and innate. Join us for a candid, sometimes whimsical, exploration of ambition's roots and its influence on shaping our aspirations and professional journeys.

    As we wrap up the conversation, the focus turns to the transformative power of chasing dreams amidst uncertainty and transition. Reflecting on my season of unemployment and the emotional roller coaster that accompanies major life shifts, we dissect the importance of maintaining an ambitious spirit. Finally, we put a spotlight on Carlos's endeavors in the podcasting world, inviting those near Orlando, Florida, to engage with his innovative work.

    Connect with Carlos: https://www.instagram.com/carlosflores/
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    Jeremy Quintini: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyquintini

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  • Are you ready to challenge the status quo of modern manhood? Dive deep into a riveting conversation with Eric Gilmour, where we dissect the true essence of spiritual strength and the legacy of godly men. This podcast episode isn't just a dialogue; it's a wake-up call for every man seeking to navigate the complex landscape of faith, family, and personal growth.

    Embark on this transformative journey with us as we delve into what it means to be a “Man of God,” starting from the pivotal moment of salvation to the ongoing quest for godliness. Eric, with his rich background in ministry and family life, shares invaluable insights into the importance of prioritizing your relationship with Jesus and how it can dramatically influence every facet of your life.

    We tackle tough questions head-on, addressing societal pressures and internal struggles that men face daily. By embracing the non-negotiables of a God-centric life, Eric demonstrates how men can impact their families and communities, shaping legacies that will stand the test of time.

    From the necessity of living with conviction to finding true fulfillment in God, this episode is an honest reflection on self-worth, surrender, and courage. Listeners will leave not only inspired but equipped with practical advice on pursuing God amidst the hustle of everyday life.

    Don't miss this opportunity to redefine your path to authentic manhood. Tune in to gain the tools and wisdom to forge a life dedicated to God's grand design, and witness the power of a man who finds strength in spiritual integrity.

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    Jermaine Stewart: https://www.instagram.com/thejermainestewart
    Jeremy Quintini: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyquintini

  • Are you ready to redefine masculinity and unlock the secrets of building strong, thriving relationships in today's rapidly changing world?

    Dive deep into an engaging conversation with the first female guest in the podcast, Carolina Flores from Hi Hello Labs, as we explore the delicate dance of gender roles and partnership. From the influence of the feminist movement to the evolving expectations of men and women, this discussion confronts the challenges and triumphs of modern masculinity and femininity.

    Listeners will hear about what women truly desire in their partners, the complexities of dating in the digital era, and the profound role of men in both relationships and the wider society. We dissect the nuances of marriage, the biblical context of women's roles, and the shared vision necessary for a fruitful partnership. Our conversation doesn't shy away from sensitive topics, including the impact of feminism on male responsibilities and the balance of leadership and nurturing in relationships.

    As the episode unfolds, prepare to be equipped with strategies for cultivating grace-filled partnerships, understanding the power of supportive prayer over criticism, and recognizing the importance of mutual support in family dynamics. Whether you're a man seeking to fulfill your divine purpose or a woman looking to understand and support the modern man, this podcast promises to leave you with actionable insights and a renewed perspective on gender dynamics and relationship success.

    Connect with Carolina: https://www.instagram.com/carolinadiplanflores/

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    Jermaine Stewart: https://www.instagram.com/thejermainestewart
    Jeremy Quintini: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyquintini

  • Discover the remarkable transformation of Mike Dow, as he takes us through his harrowing journey from the clutches of drug addiction and gang life to a path of spiritual awakening and leadership within the church. His story is one of radical change, a testament to the power of faith and the possibility of second chances. Join us as Mike opens up about the instability of his childhood, his descent into a life of crime, and the profound encounter with God that turned his life around. His candid reflections on overcoming adversity and embracing a new purpose will undoubtedly touch your heart and inspire your spirit.

    Fatherhood and manhood take center stage in our profound conversation with Mike, where he speaks on the struggles that come with the absence of a father figure. We confront the daunting task of navigating marriage and parenting without a reference point, and the process of finding guidance and strength in faith.

    Learn how to redefine manhood through the lens of faith and the importance of role models in shaping positive ideals of masculinity. For those seeking to deepen their spiritual commitment and impact their world positively, this is a call to action—an invitation to step into the roles of priest, prophet, protector, and provider with conviction and grace.

    Connect with Mike: https://www.facebook.com/MichaelSDowJr

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    Jermaine Stewart: https://www.instagram.com/thejermainestewart
    Jeremy Quintini: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyquintini

  • Welcome to a deeply personal episode of "Let's Talk About Porn," where we invite you into the intimate corridors of our own journeys with this complex and often hushed topic. In this episode, we lay bare our individual stories, sharing the vulnerability of our own encounters with pornography—the introduction, the struggles, and the battles that many face in silence. Our hope is that by sharing these personal narratives, we can forge connections with our listeners, letting them know they are not alone in their experiences.

    Within our conversation, we courageously unravel the cultural misdirections surrounding pornography. We expose the myths that have misled and shaped a distorted narrative, aiming to strip away the stigma and provide a more authentic understanding. By lifting the veil on societal misconceptions, our goal is to empower listeners with a clearer perspective and realize they are not alone.

    In the realm of relationships, we delve into the intricacies of how husbands and wives navigate the impact of pornography. This episode is more than just a discussion—it's a shared exploration of practical insights, lived experiences, and heartfelt advice on fostering open communication and understanding within the delicate fabric of intimate partnerships. And as we navigate this sensitive terrain, we confront the pivotal question: Can one break free from the clutches of pornography? Through the lens of our own experiences and the guiding wisdom found in scripture, we explore pathways to healing, offering a message of hope and liberation. Join us for this poignant, unfiltered episode of "Let's Talk About Porn," where personal stories meet shared wisdom in a compassionate conversation about a topic that touches countless lives.

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    Nathan Arceneaux: https://www.instagram.com/nathan_arceneaux
    Jermaine Stewart: https://www.instagram.com/thejermainestewart
    Jeremy Quintini: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyquintini

  • Imagine for a moment: What if you were the adversary of men? In this eye-opening episode titled "If I Were the Enemy of Men, Here's How I Would Destroy Them," we explore the subtle strategies that could potentially undermine your resilience and potential. From the pitfalls of procrastination to the dangers of avoiding challenges and succumbing to discouragement and isolation, we dissect the tactics that erode the foundations of your strength as a man.

    Join us as we share personal anecdotes and keen observations that shed light on the pervasive influence of these strategies in real-life scenarios. This episode is a call to action, urging you to be vigilant against these subtle adversaries and fostering a sense of collective strength in facing the challenges that come with being a man in today's world.

    Through introspection, we encourage you to recognize and resist these pitfalls. Embrace discomfort, reject procrastination, and seek connections that uplift rather than isolate. This episode aims to empower you with awareness, inspiring a resilient mindset in the face of adversities that may threaten your well-being. Together, let's explore how to defeat the adversaries of our souls and emerge stronger on the other side.

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    Nathan Arceneaux: https://www.instagram.com/nathan_arceneaux
    Jermaine Stewart: https://www.instagram.com/thejermainestewart
    Jeremy Quintini: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyquintini

  • In this episode, we embark on a exploration of the fundamental question: if we could only teach our sons one thing, what would it be? We delve into the four crucial stages of development from boyhood to manhood, offering insights and personal anecdotes that transcend generations. This episode serves as a poignant starting point for fathers eager to instill lasting lessons in their sons.

    As we navigate through these stages, we uncover the unique challenges and opportunities for growth, providing a roadmap for fathers alongside their sons. Whether guiding a curious child or supporting a young man finding his identity, this episode equips you with valuable insights to foster a strong and resilient father-son relationship.

    To deepen our understanding, we explore how Maslow's hierarchy of needs influences our sons' goals and aspirations. Through practical examples and thought-provoking discussions, this episode sheds light on the profound impact fathers can have on shaping their sons' journeys toward fulfillment and purpose.

    Join us on this transformative journey of “Raising sons in today’s world" as we delve into the art of fatherhood and the timeless wisdom passed down through generations.

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    Nathan Arceneaux: https://www.instagram.com/nathan_arceneaux
    Jermaine Stewart: https://www.instagram.com/thejermainestewart
    Jeremy Quintini: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyquintini

  • Welcome to "The Ways Culture is Failing Men," where we dive deep into the pressing issues surrounding modern manhood. As fathers, we share a common concern about raising our sons amidst the challenges of today's culture. Join us as we explore the attempts to redefine manhood and unravel why these perspectives fall short of capturing the true essence of being a man.

    In each episode, we address our frustrations surrounding the growing trend of young men avoiding responsibility. We navigate the cultural shifts that contribute to this phenomenon, examining how societal expectations impact the choices and paths young men take.

    Delving into the heart of the matter, we discuss the pursuits that many men engage in today, only to find them ultimately worthless. From superficial aspirations to misplaced priorities, we examine the societal influences that lead men down paths that may not contribute to their true fulfillment.

    But it's not all about the problems. In this podcast, we provide actionable insights into what men can do about these challenges. We explore constructive ways to navigate cultural expectations, redefine personal values, and cultivate a sense of responsibility that aligns with true manhood.

    Join us on this journey as we unpack the complexities of contemporary manhood, address the failures in our culture, and empower men to shape their own destinies. It's time to redefine what it means to be a man in a world that often falls short of supporting authentic masculinity. Subscribe now and be part of the conversation on "The Ways Culture is Failing Men."

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    Nathan Arceneaux: https://www.instagram.com/nathan_arceneaux
    Jermaine Stewart: https://www.instagram.com/thejermainestewart
    Jeremy Quintini: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyquintini

  • In episode 20, we interview Elliott Hulse, a master strongman, strength coach, father, and mentor to over 2.4 million men on YouTube.

    Elliott joins the guys in studio to talk about the issues and challenges facing men today. In this episode, we discuss the different viewpoints on masculinity. We talk about why men need to embrace patriarchy to understand themselves, how we’ve gone from a Hierarchical vs Matriarchal society, the issue of fatherlessness and why men under 25 are running to influencers to learn how to be men.

    If you’ve been struggling to break an addiction, questioning your existence or wondering why life is so hard for men, this episode is for you! It’s time to stop being emasculated as a man and unapologetically embrace both inner strength and divine surrender. This episode will challenge, inspire and provoke you to fight and why men are at our best when we are challenged.

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    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elliotthulse/
    Website: www.elliotthulse.com

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    Nathan Arceneaux: https://www.instagram.com/nathan_arceneaux
    Jermaine Stewart: https://www.instagram.com/thejermainestewart
    Jeremy Quintini: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyquintini

  • In this episode of Father Focus, Jeremy, Jermaine and Nathan explore the 3 biggest challenges every man face in our generation.
    They dissect the 3 biggest obstacles taking out men in our world today and share real life examples of men they have seen broken and beat down by one of these 3 challenges. They also dive into the common reasons men face these mountains and share personal struggles with these along the way.

    The message is loud and clear: not only are men facing giants, they can overcome them. We wrap up this episode, sharing practical ways we have overcome these battles and give you courage and confidence that you can too! You’re gonna want to run through a wall after listening to this episode!

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    Jermaine Stewart: https://www.instagram.com/thejermainestewart
    Jeremy Quintini: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyquintini


  • We list our top qualities that every great man has and every man needs to be great. We also talk about the things we struggle with the most. Hear the whole list by downloading this episode now.

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    Nathan Arceneaux: https://www.instagram.com/nathan_arceneaux
    Jermaine Stewart: https://www.instagram.com/thejermainestewart
    Jeremy Quintini: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyquintini

  • In today's episode we are going to be dissecting the message of culture that your manhood is toxic and needs to be rejected. We discuss the problem with the most popular voices and influencers in culture for men and why this message is so toxic to true masculinity.

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    Jermaine Stewart: https://www.instagram.com/thejermainestewart
    Jeremy Quintini: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyquintini

  • Season 2 kickoff episode coming at you! We are live together in studio in Orlando discussing why we are so passionate about the topic of manhood! This episode gives you a glimpse of what’s coming out this season and why this topic is so critical in our culture today.

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    Jermaine Stewart: https://www.instagram.com/thejermainestewart
    Jeremy Quintini: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyquintini

  • In the last episode of season 1, the guys do an overview of the highlights from season 1 & their biggest takeaways. This episode will leave you inspired and motivated to be the father you aspire to be! Fresh motivation served up on this episode.

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    Nathan Arceneaux: https://www.instagram.com/nathan_arceneaux
    Jermaine Stewart: https://www.instagram.com/thejermainestewart
    Jeremy Quintini: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyquintini

  • This week in the Father Focus Podcast, the hosts dive into the topic of the lack of fathering in the current generation and how it has consequences across the board in our culture. They remind us of biblical examples of fathers and how they inspire us to be better dads and suggest focusing on being intentional in the tasks that they set out to do and prioritizing their family. The negative portrayal of fathers in the media affects our perception of fatherhood, but the need for fathers to be present in their children's lives and the emotional toll it takes when they are absent is evident.

    In this Episode:
    -Motivating Factors for Fatherhood, Equipped to Fulfill Tasks
    -Overcoming Negative Feelings and Motivating Yourself
    -Setting an Example and Guiding Our Children in the Day-to-Day Grind
    -Parenting and the Biblical Example of the Bar/Bat Mitzvah
    -Creating Time for Family Bonding, Passion, and Intentional Engagement

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    Nathan Arceneaux: https://www.instagram.com/nathan_arceneaux
    Jermaine Stewart: https://www.instagram.com/thejermainestewart
    Jeremy Quintini: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyquintini

  • Do you need to declutter your family.

    In this episode, we discuss:
    -The most common things that choke your family connection,
    -Clutter your connection
    -What you can do about it.

    Connect with Father Focus: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherfocuspodcast/
    Website: https://www.fatherfocuspodcast.com/

    Connect with the Hosts:
    Nathan Arceneaux: https://www.instagram.com/nathan_arceneaux
    Jermaine Stewart: https://www.instagram.com/thejermainestewart
    Jeremy Quintini: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyquintini

  • In this episode our hosts Nathan and Jermaine sit down to discuss:
    -The challenges of parenting in a technological world & how technology could be hurting your family.
    -We discuss the new term “Technoference."
    -The power of presence as a parent and ways to fight back and build your child’s confidence and identity through attention.

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    Nathan Arceneaux: https://www.instagram.com/nathan_arceneaux
    Jermaine Stewart: https://www.instagram.com/thejermainestewart
    Jeremy Quintini: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyquintini

  • In this episode we interview Guest Ptolemy Pruden. Ptolemy is the father of 6 kids from age 23-8 and is the published author of 2 books. In this episode we discuss:

    -dynamics of raising a big family
    -Giving your kids a voice in the parent/child relationship
    -how to keep a great relationship with your kids through every stage of life
    -and how he inspired his oldest son to write and publish a book before he graduate high school


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    Jermaine Stewart: https://www.instagram.com/thejermainestewart
    Jeremy Quintini: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyquintini

  • On this episode of Father Focus, the hosts welcome special guest Seth_mixdown to dive into the nuances of parenting and discipline. They discuss the importance of influence rather than control, using discipline instead of punishment, and allowing children to learn from their mistakes to develop self-discipline. The group also explores the impact of parents' beliefs on their children's understanding of God and how wounds from the past can influence our parenting styles. Additionally, they emphasize the need to recognize the orphan spirit and strive to live as sons and daughters. Tune in to this episode for valuable insights on building strong, healthy families.

    In this episode:
    Power Struggles, Fear, Punishment, And DisciplineThe Role Of The Father In Raising Healthy ChildrenKnowing Who God Says Your ChildrenParents' Belief System And Emotions’ Impact On The FamilyTeenage Behaviour Patterns

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    Jermaine Stewart: https://www.instagram.com/thejermainestewart
    Jeremy Quintini: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyquintini