Episodes
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Tuck catches up with organizer Jerika Che (they/them). Topics include:
Creating an abolitionism-inspired trans summer camp What’s up with all the gender-segregated trans picnics? Advice for creating your own trans community events Learning to successfully collaborate with co-organizers Plus: Xenogenders, Transoween, and Warrior Cats?This Week in Gender: The Girls & Gays Movie Corner (lol)
Find Jerika’s events at seattletransjoy.com and @seattletransjoy.
Submit a piece of Theymail: Today’s messages were from Joce Ryder/Gentlethem and the podcast Cruising.
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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: Queer Candle Co (promo code: GENDER10) and DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) -
Tuck chats with author KT Hoffman (he/him) about trans romance novels, egg & cheddar gender, egg behavior, and not being Assigned Mariners At Birth.
Listen to the full episode on Patreon for discussions of bagel recipes, real-life baseball romance (in our dreams), local queer softball leagues, formative gay YA novels, and which marginalized group will get to play professional baseball first (lol).
The Prospects is available now wherever books are sold! Find KT Hoffman at kthoffmanwrites.com and @squashgoblin.
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Ozzy and Tuck chat with with Yin Q (they/them). Topics include:
How parenting changed Yin’s relationship to gender and kink What queer people still need to learn about kink and consent How the Red Canary Song documentary honors its subjects’ privacy and agency Decriminalizing sex work — and then taking the “work” part out of it Plus: Spiritual sexuality, the kink-o-meter, and parent-child top surgery?This Week in Gender: A Trans Day of Snack update!
Find Yin @redcanarysong @kinkoutevents and @yinq13ritual. Yin also recommends the book Thriving in Sex Work by Lola Davina as a resource.
Submit a piece of Theymail: a small message or ad that we’ll read on the show. Today’s message was from the podcast Cruising.
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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: “Jadie Grange” by Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: Queer Candle Co (promo code: GENDER10) and DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) -
Happy (almost) Trans Day of Snack! We’re explaining this weekend’s mutual aid campaign (including FREE SNACKS for trans people in 26 US states) and sharing part two of our chat with Shuli Branson.
Sign up to receive your snack and/or financial aid at bit.ly/tdos24. View our list of trans resources at bit.ly/tdos24links. Spread the word!
Our full chat with Shuli is available here. (Part one is available here.)
Find Shuli at sjbranson.com and @shulibranson. Practical Anarchism is available from Pluto Press. Support The Breakup Theory on Patreon.
Get 25% off the Surviving the Future paperback or e-book with the coupon code GENDERREVEAL at pmpress.org this weekend.
Donate to our mutual aid/snack fund via PayPal or Venmo. (Put "TDoS" in the subject line plz.) Please donate to families fleeing Gaza at linktr.ee/fundsforgaza.
Our Trans Day of Snack merch is available through March 31 at bit.ly/gendermerch.
Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: “Hensteeth” & “Road to Petersby” by Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: ShopEnby.com (code: GenderReveal) and DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) -
Tuck chats with with writer Jamie Lauren Keiles (he/him). Topics include:
Writing a nonbinary history book that eschews common trans identity rhetoric Reporting on phallo and blowjob jokes for the New York Times Magazine Why Jamie will never run another Most Transgender Name Competition Why everyone in the trans community is annoying in different beautiful ways :) :) :) Plus: “Fake bi to real bi,” best novelty license plates, and Chaz Bono shopping in Miami?This Week in Gender: There’s new work by Andrea Long Chu, Beans Velocci, Paisley Currah and Judith Butler… but we instead quote Sawyer Kemp, Lola Pellegrino and Foz Meadows.
Find Jamie at jamielaurenkeiles.com and on Instagram and Twitter.
Submit a piece of Theymail: a small message or ad that we’ll read on the show. Today’s message was from Southpaw Cafe.
We’ve got limited-edition Trans Day of Snack 2024 merch on sale this month, with proceeds benefiting our mutual aid fund.
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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: “Syriah” & “The Odd About It” by Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: ShopEnby.com (code: GenderReveal) and DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) -
Tuck and Ozzy chat with Liz Fong-Jones (she/her). Topics include:
Creating a Coworker Solidarity Fund to support worker organizing and potential strikes Organizing your Google colleagues so hard that you crash Google Docs Being realistic about your security threats (e.g., is it safe to organize in Google Docs?) Ways that (trans & cis) tech workers can support trans people Plus: How the Joy Luck Club (not that one) saved her lifeThis Week in Gender: Listen to Hang Up.
Find Liz at lizthegrey.com and on cohost.
Submit a piece of Theymail: a small message or ad that we’ll read on the show. Today’s message was from Wren Dove Lark.
We’ve got limited-edition Trans Day of Snack 2024 merch on sale this month, with proceeds benefiting our mutual aid fund.
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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: “Hrse Hrse” & “Gamboler” by Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: ShopEnby.com (code: GenderReveal) and DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) -
Tuck shares last year’s conversation with Nigerian fashion designer and activist Fola Francis (she/her/they). Topics include:
Dodging a blacklist to walk in Lagos Fashion Week Advice for other people living under anti-LGBTQ laws “Queerness has always been very African” Hosting several of Lagos’s first balls Plus: Nigerian healthcare, Dolls Activities, and And Just Like That…This Week in Gender: Remembering Fola.
A full episode transcript is available at genderpodcast.com/listen.
You can find archives of Fola’s life at @folafrancis and @thefolafrancis.
We've got Trans Day of Snack merch for a limited time over at bit.ly/gendermerch.
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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
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Tuck chats with linguist Ariana Steele (they/them). Topics include:
Studying ways that Black nonbinary people degender themselves via language Developing a “chill vs loud” nonbinary fashion taxonomy How Ariana’s autism and gender relate to each other… …and how all this ties into their mixed identity and Aquarius-Pisces cusp Plus: Britney Spears, the “gay lisp,” and doing ethnographies in the clubThis Week in Gender: Get ready for Trans Day of Snack 2024!
Find Ariana at arianasteele.com.
Submit a piece of Theymail: a small message or ad that we’ll read on the show. Today’s message was from MappingTransJoy.org.
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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: “Beignet” & “Capering” by Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: ShopEnby.com (code: GenderReveal) and DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) -
Tuck chats with artist and experience designer Shing Yin Khor (they/them). Topics include:
The memoirist’s dilemma: narcissism vs turning other people into Content™ “The long human tradition of grabbing some clay and making a little guy” Shifting your approach to activism in order to (hopefully!) avoid burnout Transitioning out of gender entirely? Plus: Burning Man hot takes, Paul Bunyan’s BDE and the Muffler Man renaissanceThis Week in Gender: Krys Malcolm Belc reviews Caitlyn Jenner’s memoir.
Find Shing at shingkhor.com, on Patreon, and @sawdustbear. Read “I Do Not Want to Write Today” on Catapult.
Suggested Gaza support: @fundsforgaza & MECA
Submit a piece of Theymail: a small message or ad that we’ll read on the show. Today’s message was from Alex Nolos.
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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: “Slimheart” “Our Only Lark” & “The Poplar Grove” by Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: Aphrodisia Boutique (code: GENDERREVEAL) and DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) -
Tuck chats with writer Lucy Sante (she/her). Topics include:
Why Lucy finally transitioned after avoiding it for nearly 60 years Why the worst trans memoirs are like pre-cooked bacon What does it mean to identify as a bohemian? Reading about the Street Transvestite Action Revolutionaries in the newspaper as a high school student Plus: Trans lit recs; vibe shifts at the Strand; and how Harry Potter ruined a visit to a Portuguese bookstoreThis Week in Gender: Cecilia at St. Patrick’s. (Full video on YouTube. Read more in Vogue. More photos via Time. Here’s a recap of the aftermath. Most importantly, donate to the Legacy Fund!)
Find Lucy at lucysante.com. I Heard Her Call My Name is available now.
Other texts referenced:
Low Life by Lucy Sante Nevada by Imogen Binnie Andrea Long Chu (generally) Can the Monster Speak? by Paul Preciado I Want What I Want by Geoff Brown April Ashley’s Odyssey by Duncan Fallowell & April Ashley Apologia Pro Vita Sua by John Henry Newman Confessions by Jean-Jacques Rousseau An Anecdoted Topography of Chance by Daniel Spoerri A Sorrow Beyond Dreams by Peter Handke Maybe the People Would Be the Times by Lucy Sante “Commerce” by Lucy Sante (link)Submit a piece of Theymail: a small message or ad that we’ll read on the show. Today’s message was from Tiny Parade Coaching.
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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: “Vulcan Street” & “Douglass Stairs” by Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: Popwink (code: GENDER20) and DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) -
This week, we remember advocate, storyteller, and mother Cecilia Gentili.
Cecilia resources & links:
Cecilia’s legacy fund!!! Faltas (published by our friends at LittlePuss Press) Full videos of Cecilia’s 2/7 memorial service Speaking with M. E. O’Brien for the NYC Trans Oral History Project (with transcript) “Cecilia Gentili’s Revolutionary Ask” on Latino USA “History of the Stroll & Stories from a Trans Elder” on Afterlives: The Layleen Polanco Story (w/ Raquel Willis) Interview with Harron Walker for Interview Mag (2023) Profile by Harron in Vulture (2022) Interview with Grace Byron for Xtra (2022) Interview in Paper about COIN, a free healthcare program for sex workers (2021) Our Cecilia story collection on Instagram (@gendereveal) More links and videosPosts cited:
Fran Tirado Cyd Nova Chiquitita PeppermintSenior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: “On the Hour” & “Lean Dream” by Blue Dot Sessions -
Tuck chats with Shuli Branson (she/they), author of Practical Anarchism: A Guide for Daily Life. Topics include:
Transition as a form of anarchist refusal (and why transition itself isn’t liberatory) Breakup theory: letting go of the expectation that everything needs to last forever How raising kids can help you catch your authoritarian impulses Is it actually more responsible to give away your savings right now?? Plus: Palestine solidarity, abolishing work, and signing up for your shift at the depression factoryThis Week in Gender: Conflict with Lantern and Moss??
Find Shuli at sjbranson.com and @shulibranson. Practical Anarchism is available from Pluto Press. Support The Breakup Theory on Patreon and subscribe wherever you’re reading this.
Submit a piece of Theymail: a small message or ad that we’ll read on the show. Today’s message was from Queer Thrival.
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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: “On the Hour” & “Lean Dream” by Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: Popwink (code: GENDER20) and DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) -
Tuck finally chats with academic and occasional Gender Reveal producer Cassius Adair (he/him). Topics include:
His role in the Twin Flames cult documentary Getting mpreg (lol) 12 years after being told that HRT would sterilize him Joining trans studies because he got on the wrong flight in 2011 Writing about whiteness, tech history, and hot trans social contagion Plus: Lexification of t4t and putting ur relationship through academic peer reviewThis Week in Gender: Jesse Lawson & Lou Sullivan on “How to Look 30 When You Are 30” (listen here).
Find Cassius at cassiusadair.com, and find us both at sylveon.co.
We’ve got three Palestinian solidarity designs (plus trains flag restocks) in the merch shop this month. Get 10% off everything with code TRAINS.
Submit a piece of Theymail: a small message or ad that we’ll read on the show. Today’s message was from FLIES FLIES FLIES.
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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: “Lost Shoe” & “Lakkalia” by Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: Popwink (code: GENDER20) and DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) -
Tuck catches up with multidisciplinary artist Salimatu Amabebe (he/they). Topics include:
Barracuda, an it/its drag monster and perverse people-pleaser Should you retcon your dead dad into someone more convenient? Demanding better (and more creative) gender-affirming surgeries The pros and cons of making earnest, vulnerable art Plus: Envisioning yourself as a house for many different / differently-gendered beings (“and they’re all employed!”)This Week in Gender: We remix a 4-year-old TSA segment.
Find Salimatu on Instagram @salimatuamabebe and @black.feast.
We’ve got three Palestinian solidarity designs (plus trains flag restocks) in the merch shop this month.
Submit a piece of Theymail: a small message or ad that we’ll read on the show. Today’s message was from Max Burns UX.
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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: “CoulisCoulis” by Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: Aphrodisia Boutique (code: GENDERREVEAL) and DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) -
We’re back, baby! Tuck chats with Lamya H (she/they), author of Hijab Butch Blues. Topics include:
Discovering queer themes (and dykes!) in the Quran How having a baby helped Lamya assert their own gender identity TFW someone suggests you read your own pseudonymous memoir Finding gender euphoria in religious practice Plus: Pinkwashing, Dadaism, and subway speed challengesThis Week in Gender: Dakota Hommes reports on union bargaining for trans healthcare.
Find Lamya at lamyah.com and @lamyaisangry. Paperbacks are available for preorder.
We’ve got three Palestinian solidarity designs (plus trains flag restocks) in the merch shop this month.
Submit a piece of Theymail: a small message or ad that we’ll read on the show. Today’s message was from Luke Dani Blue.
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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: “Away Game” “Faithless Constellation” “Passages Interlude” & “Copper Halls” by Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: Aphrodisia Boutique (code: GENDERREVEAL) and DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) -
Tuck chats with journalist Rax Will (he/they) about queer food, pronoun-themed cocktails, and “AFAB” trans clothing brands (derogatory). Plus, news about next season!
Listen to the full episode on Patreon for discussions of:
Rax’s extensive research about trans people and dog food(?!) Why the hottest new accessory is the NYC diaper Receiving the perfect “sorry I misgendered u” gift Why one of the best queer bars won’t hang a pride flag And more that we cannot even mention here!!!Find Rax @bigfoodie69. Articles mentioned in this episodes include:
“The Best Shorts for Trans Men and GNC Badboyz” (lol) “The Next Generation of ‘Lesbian Bars’ Is Here. What Should We Call Them?” “When Sir and Ma’am Miss the Mark: Restaurants Rethink Gender’s Role in Food Service” (gift link)Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: “Dialtone 11” by Blue Dot Sessions -
Tuck speaks with Ally Beardsley and Babette Thomas way back on Trans Day of Snack 2023. It's a Gender Reveal x Gender Spiral crossover event!
Find Gender Spiral at genderspiralpod.com as well as Instagram, TikTok, and Patreon.
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A few quick announcements on what's coming up next.
Thanks to Blue Dot Sessions as always for the music bed.
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Quick announcement because I remembered that not everyone is on Instagram dot com.
This year's grant applications close on Halloween night. Apply at bit.ly/GRgrant23, and find a full list of past grant recipients at genderpodcast.com/grant. Spread the word!
Grab free tickets for the November 10 2 Trans 2 Furious event (featuring Tuck, Tre'vell Anderson, and Mckenzee Griffler) at bit.ly/2T2FLA. Only a few left!
Also, we've got a new Gender Conceal episode with Mckenzee and it really is something.
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Tuck chats with activist Raquel Willis (she/her). Topics include:
Why having the ~most radical gender~ isn’t a useful standard Reconciling your feminism with your transsexual desires Parental loss, and death as an animating force How to choose a good beneficiary for trans fundraising Plus: Afrotransmisogyny, Janet Mock, and… Fortnite??This Week in Gender: Girlfriends by Emily Zhou; Idlewild by James Frankie Thomas; People Collide by Isle McElroy; Laugh Riot by Io & Jonas Goonface.
Find Raquel on Instagram and Twitter. Preorder The Risk It Takes to Bloom before Nov 14.
Find a copy of 2 Trans 2 Furious here, and join us on Nov 10 at North Figueroa in LA! (RVSP HERE.)
Check out our nonprofit merch store by October 15!
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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: “Di Breun” and “Hedgeliner” by Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: ShopEnby.com (promo code: GenderReveal) - Show more
