Episodes
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Five years ago, a group of friends gathered with August in the Girl Boner Radio studio to play You Don’t Know My Life. They shared spicy, funny, embaraassing, and touching stories from their lives. You’ll hear about puberty mishaps, awkward kisses, sexy exploration, unforgettable dates and more. Listen, enjoy, and play along!
This episode features:
Erin Tillman https://erintillman.com IG: @datingadvicegrl
Makenzie Mizell https://www.makenziemizell.com IG: @makenziemizell
Rayne Parvis https://rayneparvis.com IG: @RayneParvis
Vanessa McGrady http://vanessamcgrady.com IG: @art_and_intrigue
You Don’t Know My Life ttps://www.youdontknowmylife.com IG: @ydkmlgame
Support August’s work and help fund her new laptop:
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Evolved Our Gyro Vibe
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Oxyballs Willy Rings
Strap-On Unique Harness
Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.
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What if jealousy isn’t a monster after all? Dr. Joli Hamilton had built a career studying and helping others navigate jealousy when her own “green eyes” impacted her sexuality in ways she’d never imagined.
You’ll also hear about Joli’s sexual self-discovery journey, an epiphany during her first marriage that changed everything, and her top advice for anyone struggling with jealousy -- whether you're in a polyamorous, open, or monogamous relationship.
Learn more from Joli at openeasier.com or jealousyroadmap.com.
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Evolved Our Gyro Vibe
Je Joue ILY Wand Rechargeable G-Spot Vibrator
Oxyballs Willy Rings
Strap-On Unique Harness
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Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin
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Both Julia and Jeremiah grew up in religious communities, where sexuality, affairs and divorce were deeply stigmatized. Their journeys shed light on the importance of context around infidelity and the role evangelical ideas and purity culture play in all of these things.
Today, Julia and Jeremiah are certified sex therapists and co-hosts of the podcast, Evangelicals. Learn more at https://www.sexvangelicals.com
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Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin
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Somatic sex educator, Chris Maxwell Rose, was leading a rich, full life when a sudden medical crisis threatened their life. Eroticism, care from others and, eventually, self-care, saved them.
Hear Charlotte Mia Rose’s story in the previous episode.
Chris and Charlotte are co-founders of pleasuremechanics.com. Check out their courses, including Mindful Sex, here!
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Charlotte Mia Rose felt connected to her eroticism from early on. It remained a huge part of her life and identity into adulthood, when she met her life and work partner, Chris. A year after having a baby, Charlotte’s world changed when she became a triple caretaker. And for the first time, she felt an erotic disconnect.
Learn how Charlotte found her way back, what she learned through the process, and practical ways to benefit from pleasure when you’re feeling spent. Stay tuned for Chris’s story in the next episode.
Charlotte is a somatic sex educator and co-founder of pleasuremechanics.com.
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Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin
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Ginelle Testa sought connection in chat rooms as a kid, which led her to webcam for coins and validation. Nancy Jo Sales was “very sexualized” in childhood, too, then experienced common and related challenges while using dating apps as a middle-aged woman.
Both women wrote powerful memoirs about their experiences – Ginelle’s with addiction and seeking belonging; Nancy Jo’s with online dating. And they both have a lot to say about self-acceptance, cultivating healthy relationships and pleasure - in and outside of the bedroom.
Nancy Jo’s story was originally released in a 2021 episode.
This episode touches on sensitive topics, such as abuse and eating disorders. Please take care of yourself while listening.
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When Rena Martine found herself feeling burnt out in her career as a sex crimes Deputy District Attorney and unable to stay faithful in her monogamous relationships, she knew something needed to change. Epiphanies about both life areas changed just about everything for the better.
In addition to Rena’s story, you’ll learn a powerful practice for turning yourself on – one that’s especially helpful for women, parents, long-term partners and anyone with a busy lifestyle.
This episode also touches on:
What can happen when you have early exposure to sex, without context or education
The impact of 9/11 on Rena and her relationship
A threesome gone wonky
Rena’s first experience at a sexy Skirt Club party
Desires styles (and why you aren’t “broken” if you aren’t turned on in a snap)
Follow Rena on Instagram and check out her book: @_rena.martine_
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Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin
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Mattie Jo Cowsert and Amber Cantorna-Wylde grew up entrenched in purity culture, which impacted their relationship to sex, pleasure, and themselves profoundly. Their rocky paths to freedom shed light on the powerful role sexual self-discovery can play in our lives and relationships.
This episode touches on:
Childhood trauma
Masturbation and self-pleasure
Ways purity culture harms women, men and LGBTQIA+ folks
A common female sexuality stereotype
Spicy exploration
Benefits of trauma therapy and affirming faith communities in dark times
Learn more from this episode’s storytellers:
mattiejocowsert.com/godsexandrichpeople
https://www.ambercantornawylde.com
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Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin
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Suzannah Weiss learned to loathe her body during adolescence. After high school, a positive hookup experience helped her realize why, and set her on a path of sexual self-discovery with her pleasure and needs at the center.
Learn about her journey, including standout sex-related experiences — such as a BodySex workshop and orgasmic meditation — plus the ideas around sex and gender that felt off to her. She also shares her top related advice for leading a fulfilling life, in and outside of the bedroom.
Learn more about writer, feminist, and resident sexologist for Biird Suzannah Weiss at suzannahweiss.com. Find her new book, Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject, most anywhere books are sold.
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Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin
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Solo play, spicy bits, and…releasing! Renee Powers, Nora and Niba of The Feminist Book Club community, reveal unforgettable dating and sex experiences in which bodies surprised them. August recommends a sexy product in honor of each story.
The stories in this episode were originally released in September, 2019. Stay tuned next month for brand new stories!
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Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin
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When Alicia Davon went upstairs with her now husband, six months into their relationship, she knew they’d have a great time. But she didn’t expect the his and hers spiritual experience that unfolded. Magda Kay was part of a conscious community (one she’d later recognize as a cult) when two transcendent sexual experiences blew her mind. Hear their true stories, plus related advice.
More from Alicia Davon:
415.308.9580
Love Life Consultation
What People are Saying- Mastery of RelationshipMore from Magda Kay:
https://magdakay.com
https://youtube.com/@MagdaKay
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Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin
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Carol Queen, Phd, was like the Nancy Drew of sex early on, exploring her way to answers through years of trial and error. Her curiosities and exploration led to extraordinary experiences, including self-pleasuring on stage before 4,000 people. And she wants everyone to know the importance of living in our beautiful bodies with integrity.
Get The Sex & Pleasure Book: Good Vibrations Guide to Great Sex for Everyone at goodvibes.com. Read or listen to Real, Live, Nude Girl via Amazon or Audible. And visit the Antique Vibrator Museum in San Francisco.
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Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin
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Discovering squirting, a misplaced squirt, a misplaced condom and some trippy mind games… This “OMG” round of Girl Boner sex and relationship stories features:
Lala, of Lala’s Bedtime Tales
Nicoletta Heidegger, LMFT, of Sluts and Scholars
Makenzie Mizell, media producer
Carly, of Aurore
And August
Check out Afternoon Delight:
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Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin
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Jean Franzblau was enjoying a loving relationship and her intimacy and platonic touch-based career when she noticed a dramatic change in her libido. Where had her robust desire gone? Her journey to finding the answers – and solutions – took her to surprising places.
Learn more about Jean and My Mother Doesn’t Know I’m Kinky:
mymotherdoesntknow.com
jeanfranzblau.com
youtube.com/@CuddleSanctuary
cuddlesanctuary.com
Erotic Blueprints (episode): https://augustmclaughlin.com/erotic-blueprints/
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Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin
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Carly Pifer’s creative field research about sex and dating surprised her by becoming super sizzling for herself. Her intimate interviews overseas led to steamy romps, including sex with two very different Frenchmen in one day.
Once Carly’s study was over, current events prompted her to want to celebrate positive sexual experiences. She’s been on a mission ever since.
Check out Aurore at readaurore.com and @readaurore on Instagram.
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Produced by August McLaughlin. The interview featured in this episode was engineered by Makenzie Mizell.
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Dr. Talal Alsaleem is an award-winning infidelity recovery expert who’s on a mission to teach clients and counselors how to use the trauma of affairs to establish, rediscover and maintain healthy relationships. In this bonus for Jennifer’s story (parts one and two), August talks to Dr. Talal. You’ll hear his thoughts about working with Jennifer and Adam, risk factors for cheating and betrayal, pillars for healing after infidelity, the notion of “once a cheater, always a cheater,” and more.
Dr. Talal’s books
Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest!
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Produced by August McLaughlin
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Continuing Jennifer’s story from the last Girl Boner Radio episode, you’ll hear how Adam reacted when she returned from her intensive therapy program, what happened in their relationship post infidelity and how they’ve both found healing.
This episode touches on childhood trauma and abuse. Please take care while listening.
ACE childhood trauma quiz
Dr. Talal’s books
Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest!
IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner
augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner
Produced by August McLaughlin
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Jennifer had built a successful career and a happy family life when she became deeply involved in infidelity. While the first affair ended rather quickly, the second led down a path she couldn’t have imagined.
This episode touches on childhood trauma, abuse and cheating. Please take care while listening.
ACE childhood trauma quiz
Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest!
IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner
augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner
Produced by August McLaughlin
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What “kind of woman” gets into threesomes and gang bangs? Do “good girls” even grow up to enjoy sex? These questions once lived in Casey Donatello’s mind. Little could she have imagined she'd one day delve into the swinger's community and hotwifing.
Today the sex-positivity advocate is passionate about play she once considered taboo and "dirty." Casey is equally passionate about busting related stereotypes and sharing related wisdom.
You’ll hear about:
Casey’s friend’s sexual experience that put her off of sex early on
How that very thing later became her fetish
What she’s learned about threesome, gang bangs and her desires
How she met her husband (and why she was so hesitant at first)
Hotwifing basics
Tips for delving into hotwifing, swinging or any fantasy
More!
Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest!
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Produced by August McLaughlin
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Pamela Madsen was a happily married mother of two with a successful career when she felt drawn to an erotic experience that made her jaw (and clothes) drop. The experience launched a life-changing journey of sexual exploration that continues today — her “nutrition,” as she calls it.
Some of the topics you’ll hear about:
Sexological bodywork and massage
Erotic self-pleasure trans states
Incongruent desire in a relationship
Sexual self-embracement for eating disorder healing
Female sexuality
Sexual empowerment
D/S dominance/submission and sensation play
Learn more about Back to the Body: Sensuous Retreats for Women.
Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest!
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Produced by August McLaughlin
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