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  • This parenting lark isn’t getting any easier this week we have a host of questions from our lovely listeners. Ranging from hair problems to potty mouths. There's a heap of great recommendations and big laughs in this fantastic episode.

    Question 1-

    A single dad gets in touch looking for advice on how best to care for his little girl's hair. Luckily we have the best solution for this particular question. Braid Maidens! An online or in person braiding tutorial to suit all parents including the ones who have never brushed long here before. It's allrun and created by the lovely Annis. Her success rate is 100 percent. https://www.braidmaidens.com/

    Question 2- 

    How do you clear your name if your reputation in your home is "Evil Step Dad"? Can the relationship with your step kids be saved if they’ve already decided their new dad is a big ogre. Does the problem stop with you or them? Who needs to take action? Can it be fixed? 

    Question 3- 

    For whatever reason when children curse we find it adorable. Obviously a potty mouth toddler isn't ideal but who can you stop the habit before it's too late. Is it ever too late?

    Are you in a situation with your kids? Drop us an email [email protected]

    Every week the extended cut of our episode is available on www.patreon.com/irishmanabroad - this week we hear from a Dad who is simply not enjoying fatherhood. That sense that being parent is not what was advertised can leave you feeling very low. You are not alone if you're feeling this way.

  • Welcome back to another episode of Honey You’re Ruining Our kid. Slightly delayed episode this week but totally worth the wait. We have a new segment as Jarlath starts this week's episode with some of the weirdest shit of the week. From being Papped to children on planes to saving a kid from drowning - this episode is great craic and has heaps of helpful information regardless of what relationship you have with the kids in your life.

    Question 1- 

    If you have a kid who is struggling with anxiety don't worry an all too common problem for our children these days. A wonderfully generous mother has gotten in touch with a portfolio of help for us all. How do we help our kids push through? Should we make our kids push through? Are we actually building resilience by forcing our kids to take part or are we adding to the problem. All of us are flying blind when it comes to equipping our children for this modern world so it’s so incredibly helpful when parents come together to pool their resources. 

    Question 2-

    Bed wetting is everyone’s nightmare problem. Nothing makes a morning more stressful than additional showers, more laundry and mattresses hanging out windows in an effort to get them dry for round 2, later that night. How can we help our kids get through the night without having an accident? I believe a consistent plan is key, but how can an already very tired parent push through with a consistent plan? Is the return of some sleep motivation enough? 

    Question 3- 

    Everybody poops but goodness is it stressful when your kid starts refusing to. Holding onto their poos is a very common early childhood problem. How can we help our kids navigate this uncomfortable phase.  When they are teeney tiny we absolutely encourage you to bring them to the GP. Is there anything else that can help?

    Thank you for tuning in to this weeks episode of Honey You’re Ruining Our kid. Pop on over to Patreon for the extra bits. www.patreon.com/irishmanabroad to join up in a few clicks - help us continue the podcast and get bonus episodes on American and fitness.

    Email us anytime at [email protected]

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  • Kids can be very mean - even tiny little ones! What do you do when you find out your kid is being isolated by her "new best friend". Flying into a fit of rage is one option but Tina has a few other approaches that won't land you in front of a Judge. Today on HYROK a lot of the conversation is around confidence and how to build it in a child. Don't let anyone tell you that self-belief is organic or just in their DNA. It is a learned behaviour and a quality we can help grow in the younglings! Having a fungal infection sure won't help. One Mom gets in touch with a very tricky skin situation. As a very sweaty man, Jarlath knows the pants this kid should be wearing and as a child behaviour expert with 20 years of experience in the business, Tina knows what steps to take to help this kid through this.

    Over in the extended cut on www.patreon.com/irishmanabroad you can hear Tina's ultimate life hack for parents with kids that won't sleep. Come on over and join us. Come see Jarlath live on tour - his new show is all about growing up and coping with the world. www.jigser.com/gigs is where you can find all his tour dates. Move fast they are all selling out - he's added two more dates at Dublin's 3Olympia!

  • Boy do we have a banger of an episode for you. Not only have we three great questions, we also have advice on what questions you should ask your kids to get them to reflect and open up to you.

    Question 1.

    Phobias, we all have one - don't we? If you don’t, well well done on your mental health and/or living in denial. This week a mother gets in touch about her daughter’s phobia of stickers. Tina knows only too well the hell of pittakionophobia. She has suffered with it for years. Maybe you are dealing with it too. Listen and maybe get in touch with your ideas to how to move through a phobia with a small child.

    Question 2.

    Eating disorders are so scary and as parents we all have the responsibility of feeding our kids but also keeping a watchful eye for any dysfunctional thinking around food. How do we teach our kids about fuelling? How do we help our children to be happy and at home in their miraculous individual bodies? Where do we go for help if and when we need it? We absolutely recommend going to your doctor and seeking a referral if you feel like you need that.

    Question 3.

    When a loved one suddenly passes how do you help your kids cope with their grief while you manage your own? What do you share, how do you share? We think you just try and be as open and honest as possible. Find your comfort level. Allow them to be part of the funeral celebration, try not to exclude them from the mourning, instead help them feel part of the goodbye.

    If you have questions ping them into [email protected].

    There's even more of this episode and all our episodes on www.patreon.com/irishmanabroad - pop over and see what you're missing. This week Tina follows up on a previous email and we get to hear the most imporatant question you will ever ask your child.

  • Does your kid refuse to do any chores around the house and if they do, it's a HUGE deal? Was your kid an angel last week but now won't listen to a word you say? Take a deep breathe. The kids back at school. Now it's time to examine what the hell happened over the midterm. Jarlath and I have a banger episode to help you make sense of it all.

    Question 1- 

    No matter how much they might want you to believe it, getting your child to pull their weight around the house is not a violation of child labour laws. If you’re raising your children on a farm how do you get them to be stake holders in the farming process? Motivating our kids to be active participants in how the family runs it’s day to day is a major issue in almost every house. Have we unwittingly raised entitled kids who don’t think they have to help out in the home? Children who don’t even consider that to be one of their responsibilities? How can we get that them involved and get everything back on track. 

    Questions 2- 

    The Terrible Threes are a real thing. This week we hear from a mom whose behaviour has flipped upside down. She’s gone from being overly obedient toddler to a completely independent young woman toddler who can’t be reached. Tantrums for days and a mom struggling to cope. How can we help her and get her three year old to be reasonable and approachable again? 

    Question 3- 

    Picky eating kids are a dime a dozen but that doesn't have ot be a reality we accept. Today we hear from another exhausted mom who is worried about how little her kid eats. Tune in to hear how Tina’s Tapas technique can change your life! No exaggeration this technique works every single time. 

    Thank you for listening in, subscribing and spreading the word. If you need to email our show get your emails over to [email protected].

    To hear the full XL episode each week and gain access to the back catalog of our podcasts including interviews with Sharon Horgan, Mary Robinson, Marian Keyes, Cecelia Ahern and Imelda May pop on over to www.patreon.com/irishmanabroad

  • If you're exhausted and out of ideas, if you can't summon the energy to deal with another one of your kid's tantrums, if you feel like you just need 30 minutes with people who get it. You are in the right place. Welcome back to another episode of Honey You’re Ruining Our Kid. Thank you to the legend that is Bridget for this extra Monday off in Ireland. If you're not in Ireland, take today off and say it's part of your religious beliefs.

    Question 1- 

    A parent gets in touch about a teenage sleep over dilemma! What do you do when your daughter wants a sleep over with 4 of her close friends but one of them is her girlfriend? Is it okay to say no to partners in the house before the age of 16. How do you navigate this intimate situation when other parents have expressed their approval. Do you dig the heels in or is there another way?

    Question 2 - 

    How do we help our children understand what they are feeling? This week a mum gets in touch exhausted by her child’s dramatic outbursts. How do you educate your child about their feelings and how to navigate the constant emotional waves? 

    Question 3- 

    Weight issues are the thing that’ll keep any parent up late at night. Trying to get your child to love themselves and be body proud is a constant battle in the current image obsessed media age. What do you do if you uncover that your child is secretly eating while you all sleep?

    Pop on over to Patreon to support the creation of this show and to hear further section on family etiquette and teenage difficulties. www.patreon.com/irishmanabroad

    If you are having any parenting nightmares, if they just won't listen, if some shit just hit the fan and you have nowhere to turn...get those parenting questions into [email protected]

  • This week our house has been germ central which reminded us just how hard it is to juggle work while trying to mind a sick child. Heartfelt hugs going out to all the parents who found themselves juggling that nightmare this week. As always we have three very different anonymous emailers bravely looking for guidance on three very different kid scenarios.

    Question 1- 

    Our first question is actually about how applicable general advice is to neurodiverse kids. A mom gets in touch to ask whether general parenting tips can be applied to every child, especially kids with additional needs. 

    Question 2. 

    An exhausted mum reaches out for help with the terrible tantrums of her two year old. The constant whining and crying is driving her round the twist. How can she make it stop? How can she get her house to be a happy home again? 

    Question 3- 

    Definitely our toughest question yet. A worried parent gets in touch about her very young daughter’s anxiety issues. With behaviours ranging from school refusal to full blown panic attacks, this mum definitely needs help. Where can she get it though? How can we help her while she waits for the services she requires to access the care ahead of she needs. 

    Thank you for tuning into another episode of Honey You’re Ruining Our Kid. If you need any help email us at [email protected]. If you want more? Pop on over to Patreon for the juicy stuff. Jarlath Regan | creating Irishman Abroad Podcasts | Patreon

  • Meeting the principal of your kid's school when you are not happy with what is happening there is very tough. How can you get the most out of these meetings? Tina has experience from both sides of the fence. Is your kid a bit of daredevil? How do you reign them in without crushing that adventurous spirit? When a kid regresses to wetting themselves over a certain age, what do you do? This jam packed episode continues over on www.patreon.com/irishmanabroad.

    Here are Tina's questions:

    Question 1- 

    A mom gets in touch about her thrill seeking daughter and how stressful it is to manage her kid's cowgirl dreams. Jarlath gets super honest about his feelings towards ponies and horses and once I catch my breath from laughing, we try and come up with a plan. 

    Question 2. 

    What do you do if your son’s teacher is being "extra mean" to him and taking away lunchtimes, isolating him from his friends? How can you help your child survive his days at school? Can you reach out to the teacher in an attempt to get her to change her ways?

    Question 3. 

    It’s hard to believe that some parents walk out on their families but unfortunately this is a reality that some children have to learn to live with. Rejection affects us all in different ways. In this case a little eight year old boy has started to wet and soil himself. A very worried mom gets in touch begging for help. We think this regression in toilet training is a result of another behavioural factor. If we can guide this mom is surviving this storm hopefully we can get her boy back to himself soon. 

    Pop on over to Patreon for the extra parenting content. This week we take a super dive into the challenge that is parenting teens. Jarlath Regan | creating Irishman Abroad Podcasts | Patreon

    Welcome back to another episode of Honey You’re Ruining Our Kid. What a week we have had, thank you to everyone who is coming out to Jarlath’s shows. We love getting to meet you guys. 

    If you have any questions do not hesitate to email us here at [email protected]. No question is too big or too small. 

  • We open the show talking about Tina’s time on the Pat Kenny show this week. With school refusal being such a huge problem, what are parents supposed to do and how are schools able to help? 

    If you need help with this or anything like this email is at [email protected]

    Question 1- 

    Teenage life is incredibly hard to navigate. Trying not to keep your child close and not lose them completely during those years is all consuming. This week an exhausted mother gets in touch in need of an intervention with her rebellious teenage daughter. It’s Jarlath who has the advice this lady needs this week. Introducing her to an incredible book that has changed his approach to parenting. As always we recommend checking out Jigsaw.ie.  A free online parenting resource available to all. 

    Question 2 -

    If your child is aggressive and struggling at school how do you decipher whether they are just misbehaving or if they have additional needs? We try our best to point this parent in the direction of the avenues they need to go down for help. 

    Question 3- 

    Sleep deprivation is no joke. This week a family gets in touch about their three year old's sleep regression. After going on a cosy holiday where all the rules when out the window, they are now home and really struggling to get their toddler to sleep in his own bed. Is it possible to get him back on track? Tune in and follow our few simple steps to getting your child to sleep in their own bed again. 

    For more pop on over to Patreon to hear the extra bits. Jarlath Regan | creating Irishman Abroad Podcasts | Patreon 

    Thank you so much for tuning in. Please spread the word if you can. Don’t forget to subscribe, listen and share. 

  • And just like that a new year is here and we are all full of hope for the year ahead. Many parents making resolutions to do and wishing they had better kids. Worry not because myself and Jarlath are here to help. Email us at [email protected] with any concerns and we will get back to you with a workable plan. 

    Question 1- 

    Parenting as good cop vs bad cop never really works out. One parent always ends up feeling taken for granted and burned out. This week a mom gets in touch about feeling isolated from her boys. She has approached her husband and revealed how she feels out of the loop and not part of the gang. He thinks she’s imagining this. She wants help getting through this situation and through to him. 

    Question 2- 

    Has an Xbox arrived into your home and ruined everything. Stress not! First of all you are not alone. Secondly there is help and solutions to take the power back. This week we help a mom and dad who thought bringing an Xbox into their life would make their kids happy, instead they are grumpier and more strung out than ever before. 

    Question 3. 

    An embarrassed mom gets in touch with a very tricky situation. Her daughter found her naughty drawer and is eager to know why her mom needs to use a dildo. We tease out all the possible paths this mom can take making sure feeling any shame about having a naughty drawer is not one of them. 

    Does your kid refuse to talk to you? Pop on over to Patreon for the extra bits - that's exactly what we are talking about over there this week.

    Jarlath Regan | creating Irishman Abroad Podcasts | Patreon

  • We have three very different parenting scenarios to discuss today on the podcast. Welcome to the Christmas episode of Honey You’re Ruining Our Kid. Our very last episode of 2023. We want to say a huge thank you to all of you sound heads!! You guys are the reason our show is growing and growing. We are so grateful to you, our listeners, for making our show what it is today. There will be no podcasts over the Christmas holidays but emails, as always, will remain open. Get in touch anytime, we will be there for you, email - [email protected]

    Question 1- Unsupervised 14 Year Old Vacation?

    At what age is it appropriate for your teenagers to go away on holidays together? A very worried mum has gotten in touch to see if she’s being unfair by not allowing her 14 year old daughter to go away on an unsupervised holiday. Is she being unreasonable? Are other parents allow similar trips?

    Question 2- Coping With Grief.

    We all cope and deal with grief in our own way. When grown ups struggle with grief how can we expect our children to be able to understand or comprehend what they are going through. In this week's episode we try our best to help a mom guide her child through the loss of not only her grandad but her father as well. 

    Question 3-  My Kid Won't Talk To Me?

    A mom and dad get in touch about their struggle to get their 11 year old daughter to open up. How do we help our children process their feelings, reflect on their day and then get to a place where they want to share their experience with their parents?

    We hope everyone has a very special Christmas holiday season. Podcasts will be back in January but emails will remain open. Pop any question over to [email protected]

    Over on Patreon Tina examines the options facing parents who regret getting upset with their kids at Christmas. How to best walk it back without losing respect?

    Jarlath Regan | creating Irishman Abroad Podcasts | Patreon

  • Heads and hearts are low at the moment. Everyone feeling particularly helpless while we just watch on as the devastation unfolds in Gaza. Very hard to feel like celebrating anything, never mind Christmas. In today's episode we talk about getting there for the sake of our children. Christmas magic is essential for them but so hard to conjure. Reminding them that there is always some light is flipping hard and not helped by the deadlines of the year.

    Question 1- 

    What do you do when your toilet training has been a total disaster. Christmas is just around the corner and your child keeps ruining their clothes, carpets and bed!! When toilet training isn’t working and is actually causing turmoil, is it okay to shelve it and start again at a later date? 

    Question 2- 

    While scrolling through her daughter's phone this mum finds out that her daughter has started having sex with her boyfriend. While reaching out to us for advice is the scariest question we’ve ever received our advice is unanimous. It’s time to mom up, your personal feelings need to be put to one side and you need to be there for your young woman. 

    Question 3- 

    Favouring one child over the other, carving out more time for some grandchildren than others? The emotional impact this leaves on our lives is sometimes too hard to bare. In this episode we try our best to help this mum navigate the emotionally exclusionary situation she finds herself in. 

    If you have any parenting questions please email them over to [email protected]. Or follow us on Instagram. 

    Pop on over to Patreon to hear the extra mail about a dad struggling to get his son to love sport. Jarlath Regan | creating Irishman Abroad Podcasts | Patreon

  • We are not alone in parenting tricky kids. With Christmas just around the corner how do you manage your kids expectations. How do you get them to follow your lead and appreciate the Christmas magic? Tina offers advice based on her 20 years of experience in early years education and Jarlath brings the funny on 3 superb listener questions.

    Question 1-  What do you do when you tiny little human won’t let you change their nappy. Tina helps this mum manage the changing time stress by giving her three very workable strategies to wrangle this wriggler. 

    Question 2 - Together as parents we all know the pain that comes along with screens and screen addiction. It’s nearly impossible to avoid gaming and all the behaviours that come along with it. In this episode Tina and Jar try to empower a dad to set boundaries in his home.

    Question 3 - If your kid can’t stop asking ‘why’ questions? What can you do?

    Thank you to everyone whose been getting in touch. Email us any question to [email protected]

    Pop on over to Patreon to listen into the juicy and way too honest stuff. www.patreon.com/irishmanabroad

  • Welcome to the annual books edition of Honey You’re Ruining Our Kid. Our picks of the year and the reasons why you need certain books in your life. All the books recommended can help you contend with the most common issues we have been emailed about in 2023.

    Huge thanks to all our lovely listeners who shared their parenting book recommendations. Massive thank you to the wonderful Helen Carr who got in touch with the most beautiful books for your Xmas stockings this Christmas. 

    We run through all our favourite books that we think are essential for your children’s bookshelf. 

    Debi Giliori - No Matter what. 

    Owl Babies- Martin Waddell.

    The Invisible String - Patrice Karst. 

    Arlo the Lion- Catherine Rayner. 

    How Do You Feel - Lizzy Rockwell. 

    Llama Llama Mad At Mama- Anna Dewday. 

    Millie Fierce- Jane Manning. 

    Where Happiness Begins - Evo Eland. 

    Breathing Makes It Better- Christopher Willard and Wendy O Leary. 

    The Unbudgeable Curmudgeon- Matthew Burgess. 

    Big Feelings - Alexandra Penfold. 

    Ellen Ryan - Girls who slay monster.  And her new book: Gods Don’t Cry. 

    Let’s Talk …. Richie Sadlier. 

    Parenting books:

    Good Enough - Dr. Becky 

    Brainstorm & The Whole Brain Child - both by Dan  Siegel. 

    The 4-7 zone - Dr Colman Noctor. 

    The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read - Philippa Perry. 

    Irish books for gifts this Christmas. 

    https://obrien.ie/tread-softly

    https://obrien.ie/its-too-dark-puffling

    https://obrien.ie/twin-power-the-lost-cup

    https://obrien.ie/sally-in-the-city-of-dreams

    Shout out to Threshold listening library an incredible online resource for parents this Christmas. Threshold Listening Libraries

    Email us on [email protected]

    Join us on www.patreon.com/irishmanabroad to access bigger episodes and the full archive of bonus content.

  • Can you ban non-believers from your house at Christmas? One Mom just did it! Tina has a way of keeping the magic alive. 

    Question 1 - what do you do if you're raising a Harry Houdini? If you can’t relax in your house because you never know what your little adventurer is up to, you need to hear this one.

    Question 2- when your child is rude to your friends and family what can you do? When they refuse to engage socially how do you get them to start interacting with people. These parents say they are already modelling their desired behaviour they want from their kids? But are they prepping them? Find out how to successfully navigate social gatherings with your children. 

    Question 3: if you grew up in a house with an aggressive sibling what do you do when you see similar patterns of behaviour emerging in your own child. How do you help them cope? Teaching them how to process and reflect upon their emotions is key. Think sheets are incredibly helpful for encouraging older children to reflect on their behaviour and recognise what caused them to act out in the first place. 

    If you have a parenting question fire it over to us at [email protected]. No question is too big or too small. 

    Head on over to Patreon to hear the juicy stuff. www.patreon.com/irishmanabroad

    Over on Patreon with hear from a mum who Tina has spent a lot of time working with. She gives an update on her kids situation which makes Tina feel like she can finally relax the cax about this situation. 

  • The Regan’s are back with another episode of Honey You’re Ruining Our kid, accompanied by the tranquil sound effects of storm Debi. Jarlath and Tina start the show talking about the storms that can pass through our own parenting life. How do we navigate them? How do we get over them and how do learn from them? 

    Question 1.

    When you’re separated from your partner, but you’ve been co-parenting really well for years, what do you do when they move house and start moving the rules. How can you reach them and get them to understand your worries? Or do you need to just have these open conversations with your kids? 

    Question 2. 

    If your child is about to have surgery how do you manage their anxiety and yours? Jarlath has brilliant advice for this mum. Through lived experience he knows the most important care is the after care. He directs this mum to seek that out. 

    Question 3.

    If you’re already trying everything what can you do to possibly help your child with their separation anxiety. Tina traces everything back to feelings and if our children know how to process them. There is never too much work that can be done on feelings. We need to help our children understand and face them. 

    Pop over to Patreon to get so much more Honey! You're Ruining Our Kid! laughs and email replies. How did the advice work out for the parents involved. What do you do when your teenager is starting to push your buttons on purpose! Email [email protected]

  • This week on the show fussy eaters, bed wetters and kids who just want to be naked. As always Tina has the solutions you need. Tune in to hear her advice and stay for the laughs. 

    First up on the show we hear from a mom whose child is regressing with their toilet training. Not unusual at all. This mom is completely on it and so tuned in to her child. Tina offers up two options, depending on how fast this mom wants change but both are definitely hopeful that this little girl will start using the toilet again. 

    Next up we hear from a mum who is at loggerheads with her own mother about how she’s parenting her child. Is there anything worse than our own parents questioning or overriding out parenting style. Tina has some sound advice for this mum that she hopes will work and transform this unpleasant situation.  

    Fussy eaters are everywhere. How do you get your child to try new foods. Tina’s Tapas are back. Listen in to see how Tina suggests you should present your dinner. This technique is a game changer. 

    If you have a parenting problem that is driving you all kinds of bananas get in touch today. We can help. Email - [email protected]. There is nothing we haven’t seen before. We can and will help. 

    Come on over to Patreon and listen in to the juicy stuff. Thank you so much for supporting our show. 

  • Is worrying about our kids the normal operating mode of modern parents. Are you stressed out, constantly over thinking and worrying about who they are becoming? I wants to know how did we get to this point? Were our parents ever as concerned about our wellbeing or did they just never vocalise it to us? Are we getting it right with all the mental health awareness or is it giving young people more ideas about what they should be worried about?

    Question 1:

    If you can’t get your partner to have your back and your parenting styles are very different how can you get your kids to do what you’ve asked them to do? When one parent tells them they don’t have to and the other is making threats - things get messy fast! Feeling alone and isolated as a parent is never a good feeling. Tina and I try to guide this mom through a very difficult personal situation.

    Question 2-

    A mom gets in touch about her out of control teenager. Her daughter wrecked her car and physically assaulted her. Should she cancel her party as a punishment? Or is that a step too far when your daughter is showing signs of frustration and unhappiness. Is being this strict actually helpful?

    Question 3-

    What’s the best approach when relocating your family. How do you prepare your child for the move? How do you persuade them it’s for the best when they are being vocal about not wanting to go.

    Finally... over on Patreon

    Tina reads an email from a listener who followed her plan and has seen a miraculous change in her kid. And yes, I did see a ghost. Or was it just some lad in a weird night dress. Who knows! It was definitely a ghost.

    Email any questions into [email protected]. Pop on over to Patreon to get the juicy stuff. Jarlath Regan | creating Irishman Abroad Podcasts | Patreon

  • Three great questions from three brave listeners this week and to start with a discussion about online safety. "Cilter" is a new technology that is being developed to ease every parents nightmares. Mobile phones seem to be an essential item our kids have to have, yet the minute they possess one we are putting them in danger. It’s a hard circle to square. We need safety systems to protect our kids. Cilter needs your help. Get in touch http://www.kidsonlinesafetyresearch.ie/ and help inform the development of this much needed technology. 

    Question 1- 

    A very sleep deprived mom of four gets in touch after trying everything to keep her 7 year old in his own bed at night. It’s a daunting one for Tina as this incredible mum seems to have already exhausted all the go to resources.

    Question 2:

    Friendship problems just never go away. How do we help guide our kids through the constant friendship turmoils. Do we need to watch our own language and emotions that tend to resurface when we are triggered by our own past friendship experiences? 

    Question 3- 

    What do you do when what used to make your baby a sassy little lady is now more worrying. Hitting out not only at home but at strangers in the supermarket. How can you help your toddler know what we use our hands for and how to appropriately express their feelings. Listen in to this week's episode of Honey You’re Ruining Our Kid and see if you agree with Jar and Tina’s advice. 

    Send any parenting questions, situations and solutions to [email protected]. Zero judgement is guaranteed. See www.patreon.com/irishmanabroad for even more episodes and content from Jar and Tina.

  • The number one zero judgement parenting podcast is back with child behaviour specialist Tina Regan and comedian/parenting chancer Jarlath Regan. This week on the show… 

    Question 1: An overwhelmed mum gets in touch seeking help with her out of control 5 year old. What do you do when your older child is assaulting your younger child and you can’t get them to stop? Tina and Jarlath draw up a plan of action that will hopefully get her on the path to a happier home life. 

    Question 2: There is a lot of talk about bed bugs at the moment, what do you do though if your child can’t sleep because they are convinced that they are covered in them. Tina suggests pivoting the other way completely. Embrace your kids irrational fear of bugs and feed them information that will help them understand an insects purpose. If you’ve had a similar experience please get in touch so we can pass on your advice to this desperately sleep deprived mum. 

    Qu 3 : How do you get twins who are refusing to eat to eat their meals? If feeding your twins is all you’re doing in your day you will lose your mind. No mum should have to spend her whole day just trying to get a spoon in their child’s  mouth. What are the alternatives? Listen in and see if you agree with Tina and Jars advice. 

    Thank you for supporting our show. Extra bonus content available on our Patreon. www.Patreon.com/irishmanabroad 

    Jarlath and Tina want your parenting emails. Get them in to - [email protected]