Episodes
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Hello Mess Hall! We're back from Philly and got a fresh new poddy cheesesteak for ya. Check Spotify or our socials to get in on the poll!
We're hopping in these threads:
Email: BDSM in the Bible BeltMy (29M) partner (29F) has recently started frequently making claims about me I feel are extreme. How do I navigate this?Friendship gone sour: I (33F) have completely ghosted a close friend (35F) of a decade. Is there a better approach to end this friendship?Thanks for listening!
Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
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This is totally on time y'all trust us! We're jumping into some listener mess today, so buckle up!
We're hopping in these email:
What it means to be polyam/ENMRoommates to loversGoal based partnersBatting out of his league updateThanks for listening!
Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
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It's a mailbag episode! Thank you to all the anon listeners being vulnerable enough to share!
We're hopping in these topics:
Friend Batting Out of His LeagueBoundary Breaking Degradation SubHome For The PolydaysWoke White GFAutoromantic AnonThanks for listening!
Socials: Krys T is @krys_t_ @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
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Not OUR break up mind you, there's just a lot of breaking up
We're hopping in these threads:
EMAIL: Update from anonEMAIL: Friends growing distantMy (35M) girlfriend (33F) is urging me to quit my band because she doesn't like the other members. How do I explain to her that it isn't fair for her to make me do this?BIL(40M) tried to make a pass on me(31F), told husband (35M)and he didnât react! What am I supposed to do with that?Thanks for listening!
Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily
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Guests are back and we're hanging with the amazing OJ Stellar! What a time to be had!
We're hopping in these threads:
My (31F) Husband (31F) and I Cannot Handle My Mom (60F) and Dad's (75M)'s Decisions?I (27F) got dumped by a guy (31M) because he didn't want to wait one month for sex after 5 dates. Is this common for guys to do?I (20F) have reason to believe my boyfriend (22M) stole my passport (together 2 yrs). How do I talk to him about this?Thanks for listening!
Socials: OJ Stellar is @ojstellar, @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily
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We spend a good bit of time yapping in this one. We spent 5 days in Vegas and somehow only talk about MagicCon and not about that fact that Ify won $14, until you take into consideration that the Casino ATM fee was $12...
We're hopping in these threads:
I [27F] decided to shoot my shot with my guy friend [27M], but what signs did I misread?[27M] My ex-girlfriend [25F] pushed for an open relationship, then left me for a woman. I feel like I was just a stepping stone in her journey, and I'm left broken. Any Advice?I [38M] met her [42F] after 15 years. How do I handle the possibility that I possibly have a child with her?Thanks for listening!
Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshopPodcastwithIfyandEmily
Email: [email protected]
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Wednesday is basically Tuesday, so let's just go with that! Got an email and some reddit questions! Let's boogie!
We're hopping in these threads:
Email: Accidental ghostingMy (38F) husband (36M) completely dropped the ball on our wedding day - how to move past it?I (29F) want to tell my husband's (34M) affair partner (21F) that she is the other woman in the most supportive way possible. If you've been the other woman, what would you want me to say and what would make you leave him?My (28f) boyfriend (33m) started dating my friend after we opened the relationship. Where to go from here?Thanks for listening!
Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily
Email: [email protected]
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Look at us getting you your new episode on time for your commute! I'm proud of us! Happy Tuesday, y'all! This one is a rollercoaster of emotions and a lot of open and shut cases, but that doesn't mean we don't get to have a great discussion about it!! Come one, come all, to the messiest show on the internet!
We're hopping in these threads:
Me(20 M) and my gf (18F) had a fight due to her obsession with her ex and she somehow thinks I am just being insecure. I need advice as to how exactly I should solve this problem or like is this relationship just done for?I (32f) think that I have to break up with my fiancé (35m) after he embarrassed me in public over a sandwichMy partner 25M and i 24F have broken up but he still wants to remain friends and i was wondering if anyone has an ex to friends to lovers again story?What if I (M18) feel uncomfortable that my gf (F18) told me she wants to get passed around?Thanks for listening!
Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily
Email: [email protected]
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Sorry for the confusion, but we have now uploaded the right episode! Delete your current downloaded episode and refresh to get the new episode!!!
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Hello there! We're back with another venture into the mail bag and we have some nice tea for you all. Come on a wild ride into the internet today!
We're hopping in these threads:
Ersties.com clarificationTLDR; Best friend of 10+ years has revealed that he actually doesn't support me being polyamorousMy 34F husband 32M of 9 years said I'm too loose for him to finish. What do I do?i 22F caught feelings for a prisoner 26M. do i cut ties or stay?Thanks for listening!
Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily
Email: [email protected]
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Happy Afternoon y'all! We got some goods again!
We're talking about:
My (36M) Wife (37F), said some really disrespectful and unpleasant things to my parents recently, thinks she was right. I think that she might have some trauma which is causing this thoughts. How do I approach this?My 22f boyfriend 21m makes me feel so gross during sex. How can I fix this?Suspicious texts on my (29F) husbandâs (31M) phone. What would you do?Thanks for listening!
Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily
Email: [email protected]
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We are back with another ep and we get right into the emails and reddit questions!
We're talking about:
A brother who wants his brother to stop flirtingHow to silence that fear in your head.How can I have an open conversation with my husband (30M) about him using escorts when I (27F) am away? Looking for advice on how to handle this situation and move forward.I (F26) accidentally had my baby at my friendâs (F31) house, and now sheâs pissed. How do I solve this?I (26f) am a doctor, but my boyfriend(27m) isnt and peoples reactions start to worn him out?Thanks for listening!
Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily
Email: [email protected]
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We're doing something completely different this week, we're talking about our mess in full detail. Walk with us through this fun transition (we're not breaking up) and a ton of tangents, of course.
Thanks for listening!
Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily
Email: [email protected]
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Happy Tuesday, Mess Hall! We're deep into listener's this question after giving you some insight into the adventure that Ify's car went on while we were in London.
We're hopping in these topics:
Email: Are ~equipment~ preferences okay?Email: How to stay close friends with people who just started dating?Thanks for the questions and thanks for listening!
Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily
Email: [email protected]
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We thought it was Monday, so that's why you're getting it late this week! We don't even need to go to Reddit this episode, because so many listener questions came in! So listen in as we discuss getting back out on the dating scene, feeling like you can do more to support your partner, and what it might look like when you don't. Thanks to everyone who submitted a question!
Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily
Email: [email protected]
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Another listener question!!! Thank you to anon and I hope we helped you out. We also spend another episode kicking it off with a long discussion about OUR deal. We still got some mess for y'all tho!
I'm (m22) pretty sure my friend (m22) and my mom (f51) hooked up. What should I do now?I (27F) had a threesome with a couple (29M and 29F) and we all loved it, what now?Yep! We talked so much we only had time for two questions!
Thanks for listening!
Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily
Email: [email protected]
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We're kicking this late episode off with a long talk about Magic: the Gathering and parenting! So, buckle up for that! Then we have our first listener question read anonymously! This is what else we tackle:
Every time my wife (43f) gets home after a few days away, leaving me (42m) to look after the kids, she has a go at me. Why?My 30M coworker 50F keeps commenting on my eating habits and saying I love food. How should I approach her to tell her to stop?My vegan partner (24m) doesnât want me (24f) cooking pork/beef when heâs home. What do i do?Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily
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We're back with some more fun! I explain where I was and what I was up to, don't worry! Today we're hopping into these:
My (18F) Mom (50F) is suddenly obsessed with my hygiene because I "don't take long enough to pee." Help?!How do I (F27) handle a demanding friend (F27) who ignores boundaries?I 23F have a 22M boyfriend with a problematic fetish, any advice?My mother F 70 cheated on my dad M 72 years ago with a married man- now heâs back in the picture?Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily
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Siena East joins up as we stumble through more mania!
What do I (33f) say to my suddenly Conspiracy Theorist boyfriend (40m)My GF's (28F) parents think I (28M) peed the bed, but it was her squirt. What should I do?70M 60F been together for two months (Trigger warning Old People having sex ) advice needed??I (20F) am potentially getting a US green card and I do not know how to tell my bf (21M)?Socials: @sienaeast @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily
YouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9
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Better late than never, right? We're coming in hot a day late with another great episode with our good friend Demi Adejuigbe who is coming in with some good advice and some illegal advice. We're jumping into these questions today!
I saw (f32) tinder bank charge on husbandâs (m39) bank statement. Not sure what to believe?My (21f) boyfriend (20m) is somewhat friends with my ex-friend (23f) who is a homewrecker. Should I leave it alone?My (23F) boyfriend (24M) wants me to âstop having my period.â Can I even recover from this?My (28F) husband (33M) has been babied by his mother all his life and now its ruining our marriage, what can I do?Socials:
Demis is at @electrolemon on IG and Twitter, @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily
YouTube: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9
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On todays episode it gets wild and spicy as Ify has a bone to pick with some of these posters. Annoying people dealing with annoying people, potentially outing your husband because you snooped, and familial beef all go off in these week's episode!
Here's what we're getting into:
How do I (F23) shut down being friendly with a guy friend (M22) without insulting him?
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dtb0su/how_do_i_f23_shut_down_being_friendly_with_a_guy/
I (F29) found gay porn on my husbandâs (M30) phone, I need advice on what to do now?
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dt9nir/i_f29_found_gay_porn_on_my_husbands_m30_phone_i/
What can I (27 F) do to get over a family grudge regarding my boyfriendâs (29 M) family member?
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dt6o5h/what_can_i_27_f_do_to_get_over_a_family_grudge/
My [24F] boyfriend [25M] told me that snacking on mozzarella cheese balls might be a dealbreaker, what should I do?
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dtaegt/my_24f_boyfriend_25m_told_me_that_snacking_on/
Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@OurRelationshipPod
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