Episodes

  • Sleeping under the stars, spending time in the countryside, wandering into a leather convention and getting surrounded by a pack of pups...?

    For Upton Rand, finding out about America's gay campgrounds was a revelation. One he decided to grab with both hands. And probably his mouth.

    You can see photos of him and his pup, find out more about his shenanigans, AND order his book, 'Gay Campgrounds' right here: https://www.gaymensfieldguide.com/

    COME SEE ME DO STANDUP COMEDY! My show, 'Fuck Me I'm Old' is on Sunday 10th Nov @ The Divine: https://linktree.com/probablytrue

    YouTube version: https://youtu.be/Lhxr49xIq6Y

    Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. 

    The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone. 

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  • Eye contact: essential for cruising, flirting, and romance. At least, according to the books. But how much is too much? Why do we look away when it happens accidentally? Join me as I torture a metaphor, miss out on a shower with a hottie, and generally explore one of those things you don't think about until it's not there anymore.

    YouTube version: https://youtu.be/IeE5BoXRZ1s

    GET YOUR LIVE SHOW TICKETS: https://linktr.ee/probablytrue   

    Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. 

    The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone. 

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  • Jordan Gonsalves loved Lady Gaga long before he loved guys, but through her music, very slow internet connections, and some free tickets to the Monsters Ball, he also learned to love himself.

    Jordan's queer history podcast, But We Loved, is available on all good podcatchers and here: https://www.butweloved.com/ 

    Jordan's Socials:

    instagram.com/jor_gonsalves 

    twitter.com/jor_gonsalves 

    All material in this podcast is used under the Fair Use copyright policy, and no ownership of others' content is implied or assumed.

    YouTube version: https://youtu.be/1kQsfh7mle8  

    Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. 

    The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone. 

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    Does retaining semen improve your health?

    Can you increase testosterone by storing your seed?

    How can holding on to your jizz help you sleep?

    All these questions AND MORE answered in this week's Probably True podcast!

    YouTube version: https://youtu.be/Nv5cpztnCU8

    Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.

    The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone.


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    Check out the full series by searching for ‘Probably True’ wherever you get your podcasts.

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  • Come and see Probably True LIVE ON STAGE! London, Sunday October 20th as part of the Cheerful Earful Podcast Festival!

    Buy tickets (please): https://cheerfulearful.podlifeevents.com/festival/probably-true-live-from-cheerful-earful-podcast-festival-20th-oct-tickets

    Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. 

    The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone. 

    Links to live shows and everything Probably True: linktr.ee/probablytrue

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  • I got a nasty throat infection, so rather than torture my tonsils trying to croak my way through a 'proper' episode, let's end this season with a clip from that live show.

    Thanks to everyone that came (HUNDREDS of people! It was amazing.) and if you want to hear the rest of the show, get in touch - I'm sure there's a queer venue near you that would welcome a performance from me and my (many, many) nob jokes.

    YouTube version: https://youtu.be/hNLbXILi4J4  

    Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. 

    The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone. 

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  • How do you have better sex with strangers? Send more nudes? Shower together? Get better at organising hookups?


    Sex therapist Todd Baretz shares the story of how sex with lots of random men helped him realise the truth: anonymous shags weren't for him, and the best way to get good sex is to get to know the person you're shagging.


    Order your copy of Todd's book, How To Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind here: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/723331/how-to-love-someone-without-losing-your-mind-by-todd-baratz-lmhc/

    And follow his Instagram: https://instagram.com/YourDiagnonsense

    YouTube version: https://youtu.be/u4I9z3c2-r0  

    Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. 

    The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone. 

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  • Fighting for equal marriage is one thing, but actually living happily ever after is quite another.

    Writer Karl Dunn shares his experiences of the side of equal marriage that we don't talk about: Divorce, and how it helped him find community and insights in some unlikely places.

    Get your copy of Karl's book: https://www.karldunn.com/book

    YouTube version:  https://youtu.be/ooauTayXKDo 


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  • From Greek legends to Socialist vegetables via the world of instagram and teenage angst: Queer Historian Sacha Coward pops in for some impromptu therapy grounded in ideas of beauty, vanity, and big muscly dudes not wearing much.

    Pre-order your copy of Sacha's book, Queer As Folklore: https://unbound.com/books/queer-as-folklore

    YouTube version: https://youtu.be/XP8eHQsm8rI  

    Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. 

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  • Can condoms make sex more... sexy? Should we say Grace before filling our mouths? Why was I such a weird teenager? All these questions and more are pretty much ignored in favour of making some silly jokes. Standard, really.

    From straight students to sexual Sherlocks, we're touching on every aspect of johnnies, nodders, and spaff-catchers. Just be sure to wash your hands afterwards.

    YouTube version: https://youtu.be/uzMbEJ8I4uk  

    Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. 

    The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone. 

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  • According to Andrew Tate, if you enjoy making sweet love with a woman, you're gay. I look into why anyone would say something so strange, while trying not to die of a hangover. A lesser person would surely have perished.

    Also: The naked version of a meeting that could have been an email, why you shouldn't eat too many cakes, and what to google if you're not having fun in bed.

    YouTube version: https://youtu.be/NELFhavOxPE

    Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. 

    The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone. 

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  • Just a quick and dirty moment to keep you going until the next episode. Featuring: Disastrous flirting, a (hilarious) transgender joke, and news of an upcoming live show. Thrilling(/terrifying) stuff!

    YouTube version: https://youtu.be/13VdenOz3To

    Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. 

    The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone. 

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  • [CW: Drug use & addiction] Youtube sensation and Adult Entertainer Patrick Marano brings us three tales of sex, drugs, and the wisdom of sluts. Featuring: The Good Old Days, Definitely NOT dead family, and The Wanted.

    Also: second-hand sex toys, near-death experiences, and Canadian strippers.

    Find out more and check out Patrick's work at https://patrickmarano.com/

    YouTube version: https://youtu.be/M-qbQ0pU_hQ

    Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. 

    The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone. 

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  • What gender-neutral words can you use for queer people instead of 'Daddy'? From Star Trek to star signs, here's a queer take on the struggles of being non-binary when you look very cis. And totes masc.

    ALSO! From Astrology to Apology: how to avoid misgendering someone, what to do if you mess it up, and why courtroom dramas should incorporate star signs.

    YouTube version: https://youtu.be/nrQmbmY8Lsg

    Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. 

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  • History is full of queer role models - you just have to know where to look. From 'confirmed batchelor' to 'Just Good Friends', Dr Alfredo Carpineti explains how our gay, lesbian, bisexual, and trans heroes are hiding in plain sight throughout history.

    (Turns out the 'step-bro' thing has been around a VERY long time...)

    LINKS!

    - Buy a copy of Alfredo's book about science, queers, and history: 'Invisible Rainbows - Exploring the Unseen Universe Beyond Our Senses': https://unbound.com/books/invisible-rainbows

    - Alfredo's podcast, socials, Pride in STEM and other links: https://linktr.ee/theastroholic

    YouTube version: https://youtu.be/kZBmrmuYtPo

    Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. 

    The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone. 

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  • An interrupted gym session leads to looking for support in all the wrong places, a message from God, and the need to search deep inside myself. Really deep. All the way in there.

    Also involved: the best biscuit, some surprisingly strong pelvic floor muscles, and an unexpected way of dealing with stubborn sweetcorn.

    YouTube version: https://youtu.be/R1Rx-pJ1iRs

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    Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. 

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  • The BEST transgender joke ever told.

    AND I'm taking a little break. I need to rest and hibernate and generally recharge. Back in a couple of weeks. 

    YouTube version: https://youtu.be/96S4TdE2f3E

    Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. 

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  • [CONTENT WARNING: Gross STI symptoms and some mentions of drug use.]

    Sex, drugs, and... Cameras up your bum: Actor, writer and HIV Activist Nathaniel talks us through some bad luck, iffy decisions and slightly strange medical referrals.

    YouTube version: https://youtu.be/KQeJCwZAUFM

    Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. 

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  • 'Inspired' by more awful experiences, here's one tart's guide to better bedroom etiquette. And if anyone knows manners, it's the English.

    Featuring: The best grip to use when tickling his fancy; what their choice of drink says about your sexual opponent; and why respect is key.

    Also involving, for no real reason: Half-melted waxworks, a terrifying Roomba, and a sulking hottie.

    YouTube version: https://youtu.be/3tqCBSe6PYc

    Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. 

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  • Christmas doesn't have to be merry - sometimes it's ok just to get through the day.

    Featuring a hatred of Christmas music brought on by trying to 'do Christmas right' while dealing with seasonal depression, a portacabin with delusions of grandeur, and the joys of spending Christmas with my mother.

    I hope your festive season goes as well as it can. If you're feeling lonely or down, come join me in the Probably True Discord: https://discord.gg/n3aNaj533T (this is the 'join us' thing I blather on about towards the end - I didn't realise until it was too late that I didn't explain what you were joining. I am a muppet.)

    YouTube version: https://youtu.be/ShJtzNorW-Y

    Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. 

    The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone. 

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