Episodes
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Hey you! We're joined this week by Natalie and Jon from the Fun With Sex podcast and $luts Party Chicago! Wonderful people, we talk about Gen Z's relationship to sex, building a club scene with good communication, and falling off the damn bed. Then it's your questions:
Recommended resources that informed our views on sexuality | New partner seems to be doing a lot of shit-talking to you about their other partner
Thanks again to Jon and Natalie for joining us, find Fun With Sex wherever you get podcasts or on TikTok/Insta, and find their Chicago events on Insta @slutspartychi
And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!
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Well that shit sucked. But this guest? And you, listener? Wonderful. We're joined by musician MaryMary! to talk dating and synth stuff and embarassing story and then it's your questions.
Thanks again to Mary for joining us, go listen to her music as MaryMary! and find her on insta @marymarychic
And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!
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Oooooo it's Halloween and election season, double spooky! And joining us this Halloweek it's streamer Libby Watson! We talk to Libby about Wal-Mart, democracy sausages, and a sink-pissing ex before answering YOUR questions, here's what we get into:
Having trouble cumming during sex and partner is feeling bad about that | Relationship of over a year is feeling off | Is Libby mad at chat? | Response to the nausea/eating problems question from last week
Thanks again to Libby for joining us, lovely person, find her on Twitch @libtron and Bluesky @libbycwatson
And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!
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New week new guest! We're joined by youtuber Very Tall Bart and it's a good ol time, heres what we get into:
Help finding a side hustle without getting burnt out | Follow up to weight loss kink question | Partner has issues with eating
Thanks again to Very Tall Bart for joining us, go find his stuff on Youtube and Bluesky @verytallbart and you can find info on his trans support organization at loushouse.org
And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!
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INSOMNIA ENERGY! Joining us this week in the midst of Dono's whirlwind of sleeplessness - it's returning champion Brian Alford from The Worst of All Possible Worlds. We talk about comets and a mexican restaurant with gamer lights and then it's question time:
Feeling lightly weird when people find out you've been in a relationship since high school | Friends keep asking for help moving but they're kind of hoarders and are never packed up when you get there | Having trouble wanting to be intimate with people after a breakup
Thanks again to Brian for joining us, go check out The Worst of All Possible Worlds if you haven't already it's a great show and we've been on a few times. And if you have already? Do it again! Right now! GO GO GO!
And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!
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Folks! New ep, great ep, we're joined by a first time guest this week! Comedian, writer, and host of What A Time To Be Alive podcast it's Eli Yudin! We talk about Dono's horrifying cracker experience, Eli's new pup, and an absolutely punishing first date experience. And then it's questions:
Navigating being aromantic but wanting to have kids | Cheap date ideas for when ya broke | How do you wipe?
Thanks again to Eli for joining us, go check out his podcast What A Time To Be Alive (with past guest Kath Barbadoro) it's one of my weekly listens. And find him on Insta @chilisrestaurants
And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!
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I'm gonna say it at the top: banger episode. We're joined by streamer DeadBlossomJesse this week and they are fantastic. We talk to Jesse about loneliness while streaming, Chicago, pelicans, their divorce, a thoughtful Valentine's day gone wrong, and then your questions! Here's what we get into:
How do you smile through the pain of a divorce | Stressing about dating as a newly out trans woman with no sexual experience | How to tell your friend you want to go to their sex party
Thanks again to Jesse for joining us, absolutely lovely human being. Go watch their stream @DeadBlossomJesse on Twitch or see the recordings on their Youtube channel!
And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!
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This one is wild out the gate gang, we are joined by Marcos from The Ain't Shit Show and many of the best Western Kabuki episodes. We talk experiences in the Craigslist personals, absolutely wild encounters, and Marcos' relationship history before getting into your question:
Dating while living with your parents | Partner seems to be using their autism as an excuse to be shitty to you | Afraid you're becoming an incel
Thanks again to Marcos for joining us, find him and his show on socials @Aintershow!
And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb, plus our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!
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Lotta sponsors on this ep! Fruit (Eat It Up!™), Olivia Newton John, and the dark chocolate bar Dono ate beforehand and so we're gettin wacky. We're joined this week by post extraordinaire Katie Tightpussy, formerly of Twitter now mostly of Bluesky! We get the ol embarrassing dating stories and then it's question time:
Dating as women for the first time as a newly out gay woman is stressing you out! | Things are going great but you have no one to share life with - what do you do when your relationship needs are specific and you're having no luck?
UPDATE FROM KATIE: "The caramel was good"
Thanks again to Katie for joining us! Follow her on Bluesky she's excellent @juicysteak117.gay and on Letterboxd at KatherineTea
And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!
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That's right from Blocked Party and YKS we have the inimitable Producer Dan joining us this week. On his first podcast appearance! We talk to Dan about having his phone number out in public, an embarrassing dating story, and the importance of hydration! And then it's your questions:
Update to the music festival ex question from last week | How to cope with not having someone to always text and flirt with after a breakup | Can't seem to find motivation to make art even though you want to | Keep seeing someone you think you went to school with at the grocery store but not sure whether to say something
Thanks again to Dan for joining us, go hear him on Blocked Party (while supplies last) and Your Kickstarter Sucks and find him on socials @Early90sPants
And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!
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Return of the Bryan! Returning champion Bryan Quinby aka MurderBryan from the Guys podcast join us again this week! We catch up on Bryan's life since starting Guys, his daughter moving out to head to our alma mater, self-esteem, and then your questions here's what we get into:
GF can't cum and seems fine with that but you're not | Someone writes in about hemorrhoids for some reason | Weight/body image issues making you feel like shit
Thanks again to Bryan for joining us, follow him on socials @murderxbryan and listen to Guys podcast wherever you listen to us!
And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week (plus the new Frasier bonus series) at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!
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What's up gang it's Audrey's bday and to celebrate we're getting through as many backlog questions as we can and ya know what? We did alright we hit a lot. So if you've been waiting for an answer to your question from over a year ago maybe we hit it this time! There's so many questions I can't list em all so you'll have to listen to find out
Thanks for tuning in folks! Want to support the show and get a bonus episode each week, plus our Frasier bonus series PLUS stickers PLUS OUR DISCORD AND MORE?? Griddy on over to Patreon.com/rftb
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Good LORD don't get covid people that sucked! Dono's back, we've got Kath Barbadoro back on the show, and we're rip-roaring to go this week. We're talking food around the country, we're talking overcoming injury, we're talking dating, and then it's question time:
Ended friendship with a guy after he turned out to be a creep, are you a bad person for having been friends with them? | Ex's friends/your neighbors are "mean gays" and they're talking shit about your ex but you're no contact - do you say something? | In love with your best friend to the degree that you had to come clean and ask for space - how do you know when you can go back?
Thanks again to Kath for joining us, we love her, find her on socials @kathbarbadoro and listen to What A Time To Be Alive and Lie Cheat And Steal wherever you find podcasts!
And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb!
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What up tote nashe (nat? naischte?) it's Audrey posting this week because Donovan is afflicted with the Novel Coronavirus. They're alright! Getting better, chattin' with them as we speak.
Sitting in as Definitely Not Donovan Donovan this week is friend of the show Andrew Hilary joining us for a rollicking discussion of your questions, queries, quandaries and other sundries.
We answer these burning questions!
A listener updates us on an apology to an ex. | Is it problematic to stay friends with an ex? | Unicorn is growing angry at being forced into that role. What do? | Friend is probably gonna get back together with their shitty ex. How do you tell them no without being relentlessly negative?
Check out The Worst Week Yet everywhere you find your podcasts!
Check out our Patreon! Patreon.com/RFTB
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This week, the Radio Free Tote Buddies are joined by writer Rebecca Alter to talk becoming ordained ministers, Skibidi Toilet and Momo the freaky-ass bird lady! She gets pretty vulnerable about attatchment!
Follow it up with some listener questions, which is a thing we do!A relationship is long over and there's still guilt about how a listener treated their ex partner. Should they contact them and apologize? | Someone encourages your friend to go monogamous and she goes for it. Then the guy cheats! They make up after the cheating and then the friend treats you poorly. THEN you find the partner on Tinder!? What the hell! | A FINAL mention of the Blocked Party toilet jerk-off question. | A friend is into you and you're not into them. That's all well and good, but you ARE into their friend? How much should you spare the friend's feelings?
Follow Rebecca on Twitter!
https://x.com/ralter
Check out our Patreon!
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Greetings dear listener! Gather close and attend ye the tale of our friend, actress and artist Tåsi, joining us on the program! We talk Seltz and the evils of Fanta, we talk bear v gorilla and the horrors of Ursus Maritimus. We get into a very fun embarassing dating story about a clogged toilet.
Then, listener questions!
Anxious/Depressed person with ADHD has it all but the ability to text back. How do you find success in dating? | Partner has a physical illness preventing them from taking care of their half of the chores and you're getting burnt out. How do you navigate this? | Girlie at the gym is flirting with you, a happily married man. What's next?
Thanks so much to Tåsi for joining us! We had a lot of fun!
Follow her at @islandgoth on Bluesky
Check out our Patreon for bonus episodes and video content!
https://www.patreon.com/rftb
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THUNDER NOISE! It's stormin in Chicago, Dono's sick, Audrey had a nice date, and we're joined this week by musician Darren Keen aka PROBLEMS! We're talking sobriety, getting back into dating, ART, and your QUESTIONS:
Dating after being hardcore gaslit | Struggling with the initial loneliness after moviing to a new city | Nebraska dog - good or nah? | Where HAVE all the cowboys gone?
Thanks again to Darren for joining us, go listen to PROBLEMS it's really good music and it's on streaming and keep an eye out for tour dates!
And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week (plus the new Frasier bonus series) at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!
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Alright listen Audrey drank several beers and Dono napped right before this, I don't know what to tell ya. But wait we're joined this week by Ash from the Horror Vanguard podcast! Who is now out as trans! LFG! We catch up, Audrey takes a bird ID quiz, and then it's question time:
Relearning how to have sex after gaining the ability to orgasm for the first time | Another scorcher | How to stop being an over-apologizer | Another response to the crankin' it in the toilet survey
Thanks again to Ash for joining us, listen to Horror Vanguard wherever you find us!
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That's right, we hear the blues a-callin! You got us to our Patreon goal and, as promised, we're doing a bonus series on Frasier! Audrey's seen it multiple times, Dono's never seen an episode, and we're watching and discussing.
THE FIRST TASTE IS FREE! Subscribe to our Patreon for more hot Frasier action and bonus RFTB episodes each week at Patreon.com/rftb
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IT'S HOT! Except in Chicago its fine here for now. But everyone else on the show this week is gettin scorched and I mean EVERYONE cause we've got all three of the Librarypunk hosts with us, it's Sadie, Jay, and Justin, it's a goddamn panel show so we're talking inter-podcast romance and an embarrassing dating story from Sadie and then it's your questions:
Follow-up from the sexy mailman who wrote in | Gender dysphoria from a disability? | Best coffee table books to INTIMIDATE GUESTS
Thanks again to all the Librarypunk punks for joining us, they're great we've been on their show go check it out at librarypunk.gay
And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Like stickers! Discord! And a new Frasier series we're doing on account of hitting our Patreon goal! Patreon.com/rftb gogogo
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