Episodes
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Kim Cary returns to talk about how God gave her the most incredible "R" words during one of the most difficult seasons she's experienced. In today's interview, Chris and Christina dive into how Kim received these powerful words.
Release was the first word, given during her difficult journey of caring for her aging mother. Rest followed a year later as she knew rest was exactly what she needed as she faced a taxing job and was dealing with the effects of high stress. Renew came a year later after sitting in a workshop as a reminder that until she fully released things into God's hands, rested her body and mind, He could not renew her. And finally, after making a decision to retire from her career in higher education after 30 years, reveal was the final "r" word that made it's way into her life.
Kim shares her journey not just with the four "r" words that have impacted her life in the last few years but also the journey those words has taken her on with her relationship with God.
Today's episode is brought to you by Commercial Brick. Commercial Brick is a family owned company who is passionate about what they do and are dedicated to manufacturing quality brick. For information, contact: commercialbrick.com
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When most men come to church, they are searching for more than a worship service. They are hoping for a genuine connection with other men where they can be vulnerable and transparent. When men connect at a heart level, they will most likely want to be a part of the church and will, as a result, lead their family in that involvement.
This is the basic idea that Chris leads with in today's episode. Men, within the walls of the church, are struggling. The challenge is not to condemn the church but to challenge men within it to reach out and become a safe person for another man.
Common struggles men are facing:
misunderstanding manhood, social anxiety, depression, lust, alcoholism, drug use, sexual identity, fear, work stress, no practical application for the Bible, misunderstanding God.
If you would are a man who can relate, reach out to a safe person. If you are man who can be that safe person, do it! There is power in men connecting.
Today's sponsor: Lorie E Kenney, CPA firm. loriekenneycpa.com
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Today, Chris and Christina continue to discuss "The Big Six", a podcast episode of Adam Young's The Place We Find Ourselves.
In his episode, The Big Six, Adam talks about the way children's brains development based upon the level of care and kindness in the family environment. The "Big Six" are the six things you needed from your parents:
AttunementResponsivenessEngagementAbility to Regulate Your AffectAbility to Handle Your Big EmotionsWillingness to Repair HarmShow sponsor: Lori E Kenney CPA Firm. (loriekenneycpa.com)
Podcast: The Place We Find Ourselves by Adam Young; The Big Six, Episode 159, airdate July 15, 2024.
Adam Young (licensed clinical social worker with a master degree in social work (Virginia Commonwealth University) and Divinity (Emory University), host of podcast The Place We Find Ourselves and Fellow with The Allender Center).
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Today, Chris and Christina discuss a recent podcast hosted by Adam Young (licensed clinical social worker with a master degree in social work (Virginia Commonwealth University) and Divinity (Emory University), host of podcast The Place We Find Ourselves and Fellow with The Allender Center).
In his episode, The Big Six, Adam talks about the way children's brains development based upon the level of care and kindness in the family environment. The "Big Six" are the six things you needed from your parents:
AttunementResponsivenessEngagementAbility to Regulate Your AffectAbility to Handle Your Big EmotionsWillingness to Repair HarmPart one will focus on the first three of the "Big Six". Chris and Christina will define and give examples of each one.
Show sponsor: Lori E Kenney CPA Firm. (loriekenneycpa.com)
Podcast: The Place We Find Ourselves by Adam Young; The Big Six, Episode 159, airdate July 15, 2024.
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Integrity builds trust. Trust is essential for good relationships. At the end of the day, this podcast is all about relationships.
Today, Chris and Christina talk about the disease of partial integrity.
Disease: illness, sickness, infection, ailments, disorder, affliction
We don't allow a disease to stay in our bodies. If you have an illness, the doctor asks for your symptoms. Just like a doctor may ask for symptoms, what are the "symptoms", your proof, that you are a person of integrity?
In today's discussion, you will be able to assess your level of integrity, discover some consequences of not being a person of integrity as well as hear some practical ways you can practice integrity.
Proverbs 10:9 "He walks in integrity walks securely, but he who perverts his way will be found out."
Sponsor of today's show: Commercial Brick (commercialbrick.com)
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No script! Today, Chris and Christina recount their spontaneous thoughts about the power of connection.
Why do we connect?
How do we connect?
Where do we connect?
If you have a best friend, co-worker, spouse or children it is important to connect. The concept of connecting well with others get explored today in depth!
Sponsor for today's show: Commerical Brick (commercialbrick.com)
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Today, Chris and Micheal pick back up with their talk about the loss and grief they have experienced through death of a loved one as well as the benefits of talking about death, the reason why we don't talk about death, and why as a trusted Mentor, you could have the privilege of initiating one the most important conversations with others.
At Fahrenheit: Real Life Mentoring, we care about and engage the whole person. We are spiritual, physical, mental, emotional, relational, and professional/educational.
Jesus talked about his own death repeatedly. He didn’t run from the fact that his life would be cut short or try to hide that from his followers. He talked openly about it and I believe it helped him stay focused on what He was here to do and not get distracted by the crowds or temporary celebrations.
If Jesus talked about death, we think we should, too! Today Chris talks with Micheal Gerecke on the topic of death, perspective and real life. They mention the book by author Micheal Hebb, Let's Talk About Death Over Dinner which spurred part one of this two part discussion.
Resources:
Let's Talk About Death Over Dinner, Micheal Hebb, Hachette Go; Reprint edition (February 9, 2021).
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At Fahrenheit: Real Life Mentoring, we care about and engage the whole person. We are spiritual, physical, mental, emotional, relational, and professional/educational.
Jesus talked about his own death repeatedly. He didn’t run from the fact that his life would be cut short or try to hide that from his followers. He talked openly about it and I believe it helped him stay focused on what He was here to do and not get distracted by the crowds or temporary celebrations.
If Jesus talked about death, we think we should, too! Today Chris talks with Micheal Gerecke on the topic of death, perspective and real life. They mention the book by author Micheal Hebb, Let's Talk About Death Over Dinner which spurred part one of this two part discussion.
Today, Chris and Micheal will talk about the loss and grief they have experienced through death of a loved one as well as the benefits of talking about death, the reason why we don't talk about death, and why as a trusted Mentor, you could have the privilege of initiating one the most important conversations with others.
Resources:
Let's Talk About Death Over Dinner, Micheal Hebb, Hachette Go; Reprint edition (February 9, 2021).
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Today, Nathan Brewer joins Chris and Christina once again to discuss The Working Genius. The Working Genius Model is the fastest way to find out what kind of work brings you joy and energy and the simplest way to maximize your team's productivity.
In today's podcast, Nathan will give a short review based on the past two episodes. Then he will go into the dynamics of using The Working Genius in marriage, other relationships and teams.
If you want to learn more, reach out to Nathan.
Contact Nathan: [email protected]
Website: https://workinggenius.eu
And, as an added bonus, the first 3 listeners that share this episode on their social media platforms will receive a 33% discount on an online workshop for their team!
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Today, Chris and Christina continue the conversation with Nathan Brewer on The Working Genius. The Working Genius Model is the fastest way to find out what kind of work brings you joy and energy and the simplest way to maximize your team's productivity.
The Working Genius can bring clarity to you in the workplace as you discover how you best operate in and how your "genius" brings you joy in your work.
In part two, Nathan will provide you with a short review of The Working Genius and then take a deep dive into each of the six areas:
• Wonder
• Invention
• Discernment
• Galvanizing
• Enablement
• Tenacity
After listening, if you find this intriguing and want to know how you can get started then
Check out https://workinggenius.eu
Contact Nathan: [email protected]
Bonus: The first 2 listeners: 20% off 2-hour online Workshop for your team
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Today, Nathan Brewer joins Chris and Christina once again to discuss The Working Genius. The Working Genius Model is the fastest way to find out what kind of work brings you joy and energy and the simplest way to maximize your team's productivity.
Today kicks off a three-part series in which Nathan will help you, the listener, understand how The Working Genius can bring clarity to you in the workplace as you discover how you best operate in and how your "genius" brings you joy in your work.
The 6 types of working geniuses have significant implications for not only teams but also families and other relationships.
In today's podcast, Nathan will give an overview of the types and provide you with information on how you can learn more.
Contact Nathan: [email protected]
Website: https://workinggenius.eu
Bonus for Real Life Mentoring listeners: $10 off Working Genius Assessment + Online Coaching Session (50 minutes)
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Words are powerful. We've all been on the receiving end of words that built us up or unfortunately tore us down. But how many times has a conversation changed your life?
Today Chris and Christina take a look at how a conversation has the power to potentially change your life. They give some examples from their own lives of conversations that were used to impact the trajectory of their lives as well as take a look at a recent article in Psychology Today.
Link:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/shift-mind/201803/do-you-have-real-conversations
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The foundation of family is important. Building tools that keep these relationships healthy takes intentional effort over time.
By way of what NOT to do, today Chris and Christina talk about the top 12 ways that choosing these repeated behaviors could potentially damage the relationships within your family.
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Today Chris and Christina continue their conversation with Shannon Irwin. Picking up from the last weeks episode in which Shannon talks about her own journey with mentoring, today she talks about her role in the public school system. In her role as New Teacher Liaison, Shannon has the opportunity to mentor Mentor Teachers. She talks about how mentoring looks like on the job, what benefits are provided when you mentor on the job and some practical steps you can take if you want to be a mentor in the workplace.
If today's episode is helpful, like, subscribe and share!
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In today's episode, Chris and Christina interview Shannon Irwin. Shannon is a wife, mother, soon to be mother-in-law, school teacher and mentor. She candidly shares how not having a mentor in her early years affected her. She also talks about the role mentors played in her life to give her tools that have benefited her today. You won't want to miss today's interview on Shannon's journey with mentoring!
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Amy Whitson joins Chris and Christina today for part two of talking about learning styles. Why talk about learning styles on a mentoring podcast? Knowing more about another person - including their learning style - is an invaluable deposit into healthy relationships.
Amy Whitson is an educator with over 20 years experience. Amy currently serves as the Culture and Communication Coordinator at Jasco Products linkedin.com/in/amy-whitson-9a2466268.
In part one, Chris and Christina explore the learning styles:
https://vark-learn.com/the-vark-questionnaire/
If you'd like to know more about The Five Love Languages referred to in today's episode:
https://www.amazon.com/s?k=dr+gary+chapman+5+love+languages&hvadid=174238047079&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=1024290&hvnetw=g&hvqmt=e&hvrand=14736960190825395674&hvtargid=kwd-44793353963&tag=googhydr-20&ref=pd_sl_2caygymrfz_e
If you liked today's podcast, like and subscribe!
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Amy Whitson joins Chris and Christina today in this two-part series about learning styles. Why talk about learning styles on a mentoring podcast? Knowing more about another person - including their learning style - is an invaluable deposit into healthy relationships.
Amy Whitson is an educator with over 20 years experience. Amy currently serves as the Culture and Communication Coordinator at Jasco Products linkedin.com/in/amy-whitson-9a2466268.
In part one, Chris and Christina explore the learning styles:
https://vark-learn.com/the-vark-questionnaire/
If you'd like to know more about The Five Love Languages referred to in today's episode:
https://www.amazon.com/s?k=dr+gary+chapman+5+love+languages&hvadid=174238047079&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=1024290&hvnetw=g&hvqmt=e&hvrand=14736960190825395674&hvtargid=kwd-44793353963&tag=googhydr-20&ref=pd_sl_2caygymrfz_e
If you liked today's podcast, like and subscribe!
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Personalities, past experiences and body language ... all of these topics are things to consider in better understanding others. Understanding others help mentors and mentees take their relationships deeper. Today Chris and Christina discuss part two of the complexities of how to better understand others. Taking the time to understand those in your life is a worthwhile undertaking that can deeply affect the relationship for the better.
Topics Chris and Christina will unpack today are understanding that ...
... body language helps you understand people.... social skills and social anxiety need to be discussed.... talking about the uncomfortable.This conversation is part of the mentor workshop content that YOU can host! Contact Fahrenheit: Real Life Mentoring to find out how.
Like and subscribe, share the podcast and reach out for more information!
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Personalities, past experiences and body language ... all of these topics are things to consider in better understanding others. Understanding others help mentors and mentees take their relationships deeper. Today Chris and Christina discuss the complexities of how to better understand others. Taking the time to understand those in your life is a worthwhile undertaking that can deeply affect the relationship for the better.
Topics Chris and Christina will unpack today are understanding that ...
... words and actions don't always tell the same story.... personalities matter.... pain from the past makes an impact.... cultural differences need to be considered.... generational differences are real.... open-ended questions are a great way to find out more information!This conversation is part of the mentor workshop content that YOU can host! Contact Fahrenheit: Real Life Mentoring to find out how.
Like and subscribe, share the podcast and reach out for more information!
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What would you like to talk about if you had a trusted mentor? How long do you meet with a mentee? What tools do you use with a mentee? These are common questions when talking about a mentor/mentee relationship.
In part two of How Do You Mentor, Chris and Christina answer these and other frequently asked questions when it comes to the mentor/mentee relationship.
If you are interested in how to host a mentoring workshop in your area, reach out to them!
Please like and subscribe! If you want more information, would like to donate to the podcast or have any other questions, reach out! Fahrenheitmentoring.org
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