Episodes
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We are on a much needed break between seasons 4 and 5. We leave you with a 5 min reminder tip to stay open and vulnerable in your relationship with your loved one and with the important people in your life.
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We are on a much needed break between seasons 4 and 5. We leave you with a 5 min reminder tip to stay open and vulnerable in your relationship with your loved one and with the important people in your life.
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Missing episodes?
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Listen in this week as the therapists dish and dive about narcissism. Iona gets a rude awakening about how sheâs behaved in her relationship and this starts a conversation about people with narcissistic tendencies. Pam weighs in on her experiences and together they dive into some interesting and enlightening literature on the subject.
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Listen in this week for part 2 of our interview with therapist Alistair Moes, as he shares his knowledge about men, their feelings and their relationships.
Alistair has run anger management workshops for both men and women for over 25 years and has much to teach us about men and their feelings.
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Listen in this week for part 1 of an interview where the therapists talk with Alistair- a therapist and colleague whoâs worked for years specifically with men and their anger issues.
Learn how the men in his practice have learned to deal with their anger and their needs in relationships and where their issues originally stemmed from.
If youâve struggled with anger in your life, donât miss parts 1 and 2 of this fascinating interview.
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Listen in this week as the therapists dish and dive about The Withdrawer.
Behind every good pursuer is a good distancer. Iona is married to one and Pam is one, so its a charged topic. Learn how they each cope in their own marriages and learn what it is that the withdrawer is truly feeling underneath the cool exterior.
It'll surprise you how much is under there. Also, learn what the distancer really longs for and how the pursuer can give it to them, if they don't retreat into withdrawal.
Understand your stance in the cycle so you can get what you need from your partner and from your relationship. -
We would like to wish you a very Happy Valentines Day from us at Relationship Dish. Love the one you're with, and most importantly love yourself to help love others more.
Iona and Pam
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This week the therapists dish and dive about the pursuer position in the cycle.
Iona is a pursuer and Pam is married to one, so there is plenty of fodder to go around! Learn what the pursuer really needs, feels and longs for and how their stance can sabotage themselves and their partner. The more I pursue, the more you withdraw! Learn how to break out of this conflict, voice what you need and get what you need from your partner. -
Listen in this week as Iona and Pam dish and dive about growing apart from their partners.
It can happen to the best of us but how do we know if itâs just a phase or something more permanent?
Pam and Iona weigh in on their own experiences and learn how to tell the difference and how to stop the disconnection dead in its tracks.
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As a special treat to celebrate our recent 100th episode, this week the therapists interview Eric, Pamâs husband, to find out what impact the podcast has had on him, the relationship and Pam.
We learn whatâs changed for Eric as a result of his partnerâs podcast journey and how their relationship has grown over the past 2 years.
We also hear whatâs remained the same and what Ericâs learned about himself through the eyes of the podcast. Finally, listeners get to hear from the other side! -
Listener pick!
Just in time for cold and flu season...
Listen in this week as the therapists discuss hypochondria.Ever worry if the headache you have is really a tumour? Or if the cough you have is more nefarious than you think? Many of us, of course, wonder from time to time, but to obsess constantly about these long shots is the pain of hypochondria.
Pam and Iona discuss how it has personally touched their lives and the lives of those they care about.
Learn what it is and how to manage it if you suffer and how to help someone you love get through it! It can be a tricky one to treat, but, there is help and recovery as youâll find out. -
Listen in this week as the therapists dish about healthy guilt.
Is that a thing? You betcha! Sometimes feeling healthy guilt is really useful. Pam and Iona dish about their healthy guilt and the fallout theyâve experienced of not truly feeling it.
Dive into the literature about healthy guilt and learn its vital role in our lives, if weâll accept it!
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Happy new year! What better way to start 2020 than with learning how to regulate your emotions so that you can maintain your relationships!
Listen in as the therapists dish about their own struggles with discharging emotions in their relationships and the damage itâs done. Then learn what the literature says about the window of tolerance and how to keep ourselves within it so we can stay true to our own emotions while keeping the connection with our partners. A juggling act and a fine balance!
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Happy New Year and Happy Holidays,
Here is a replay of one of our favourite episodes,Falling in Love.
Sometimes we have to do away with the image we create of our partner, so we can meet and fall in love with who this person really is. They learn that this is not a selfish thing, that another person is not out on this earth to fill all of our fantasies, but rather to be loved for who they truly are.
Listen in and decide if youâre willing to fall in love with the actual person youâre with, instead of the fantasy of what this person can offer you.
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Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays,
Here is a replay of one of our favourite episodes. The Critic.
This week the therapists dish and dive about that critical voice in their heads, their inner critics.They look at where they come from and how we can learn to manage them so they donât take over our lives. Listen in and learn how to beat those negative voices!
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This week the therapists continue their interview with a couple who are beating the odds!
Typically divorce rates for second marriages are even higher than for firsts. But not for this couple!
Listen in and learn how they've persevered against toxic ex partners, blended families and outside responsibilities to keep and nurture the love they found with each other the second time around.
Our final in a special 2 part episode. -
This week the therapists interview a couple who are beating the odds!
Typically divorce rates for second marriages are even higher than for firsts. But not for this couple!
Listen in and learn how they've persevered against toxic ex partners, blended families and outside responsibilities to keep and nurture the love they found with each other the second time around. -
Listen in this week as the therapists dish and dive about adult growth and development.
Why is it that so many adults believe that once youâre of drinking age, that youâre done developing? Adults must continue to grow and mature until death or else stagnation ensues!
Learn how to grow and mature in your adult years so you can have the best possible relationships with self and others!
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Listen in this week as the therapists conclude their conversation with the single ladies.
Learn from them how to have a happy and full filling life, with or without a partner and understand how they find joy and meaning in their day to day lives.
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Listen in this week as the therapists talk with two single women about their lives and loves.
Learn how they thrive in a âcouplesâ worldâ and understand where and how they find meaning in their lives. What relationships matter most to them? What fulfills them? What teaches them about themselves?
Part 2 will continue next week. Donât miss it! - Show more
