Episodes

  • In this episode Trina talks about how poetry and spoken word really helped build her confidence and vulnerability in sobriety.


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  • In this episode we talk about the dangers of blacking out while drinking.


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  • Nic The NA CPA join us in this episode as we dive into sobriety, na drinks, and being a man in the sober space. We also dive into how running can really support your sobriety. Follow Nic on Instagram Here:
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  • In this episode we talk all about OCD, Sober Blogging, Sober Retreats, and even relationships where only one partner is sober. Izzy has a refreshing touch on the importance of community and how remarkably complicated it is to explain how peaceful you feel in sobriety.


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  • In this episode Liv shows us how chill choosing not to drink can be!Sobriety is not a requirement for your whole personality just a choice you make to positively improve your life. Liv could’ve accomplished all that she has with alcohol, she just chose not too. Let me tell you more about Liv because she is THE COOLEST. Utilizing her highly engaged online network, Liv unites strangers across New York and the country, organizing vibrant events where "99% arrive solo and 100% leave as friends." Her vision is to bring back "IRL” connections, create 1 million friendships, and decrease loneliness statistics through her events. Liv not only leverages her influence to cultivate connections but also uses her knowledge of what’s culturally relevant to curate events – usually selling out soirees (from theme parties to pickleball, self-defense classes to sound baths) for hundreds of guests in a matter of minutes; and over 30K are on the waitlist. Her goal is to further widen the network and offerings in other cities such as LA, Austin, and Miami. Liv's reach extends beyond just events – she’s tapped into TikTok and social media trends to develop an engaged audience and has proven herself as a tried-and-true influencer with 150K+ followers across platforms. She has collaborated with a variety of high-profile brands: Anheuser-Busch, Bumble BFF, Macy's, Nestlé, REVOLVE, Goldfish, Halo Top, Lyft, Hudson Yards, DKNY & more. June 7 Hot and Free Coffee:https://www.eventbrite.com/e/june-hot-happy-morning-free-coffee-meetup-tickets-825525076727?aff=erelexpmltJune 6 Girl Dinner:https://www.eventbrite.com/e/hot-girl-dinner-june-6th-tickets-891123292757?aff=erelexpmltMore About Camp Social:https://www.businessinsider.com/adult-sleep-away-summer-camp-make-new-friends-2023-9Follow Liv on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/livschreiber?igsh=MWdqeXRsemkydDE4bg==Follow Hot and Social on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/hotandsocial?igsh=b2Z4YWp5enliYnBiFollow Trina On Instagram: https://instagram.com/TheRetiredPartyGirlThe Retired Party Girl Journal: https://amzn.to/49EDnczSubstance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration: https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline

  • Today’s transparent episode is allll about financial health from budgeting, to what you should be saving, to manifesting financial wellness.

    AJ Schneider is a budget coach, business strategist, and money mindset, expert. She is passionate about showing people that budgeting is the most radical form of $elf-care you can do. AJ started as a starving yogi who was always struggling to get by, formally known as "poor friend" in her upper eastside dwellings in constant fear around her debt and struggled to pay her bills. While she was waiting for all her problems to go away, she figured out she was the answer she was looking for.

    By changing her mindset around debt, money management, and manifestation, AJ discovered beyond the material that she manifested the love of her life, now husband, by using the magic of money to heal. Her relationship with money was the key to understanding her relationship with herself. She has helped over 300 clients get out of debt and build wealth through personal accountability, vulnerability, and strategic financial planning. Along with her team of 5 coaches, AJ teaches clients how to heal their relationship with money so they can show up in the world authentically and live a life of choice.

    AJ’s mission is to help women, couples, and small business owners who were never taught to care about personal finance but feel completely overwhelmed and anxious and are under chronic stress when it comes to money get out of debt, increase wealth, gain financial freedom, and grow their independence, so they can harness and use their innate power to take control over their destiny and build a brighter future.


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  • Trina has Vanessa break down alll the detox secrets on today’s episode!

    The world of detox is so foreign to me and Vanessa dives into the for brain connection, as well as healthy colon practices for better “releases”. As someone who recently learned how important it is to detox your body, the clay drink and bath bomb have really molecules my wellness routine.

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    http://www.sobercitysummit.com

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  • Trina and Kelsey talk about all the fun, joys, and complexity that comes with being a mom that doesn’t drink alcohol. We dive into sisterhood, motherhood, and Instagram friend hood. Kelsey is a sober stay at home mom of FOUR and was so bright and excited about sobriety and motherhood during this entire conversation!

    Kelsey got sober 4/2/24 after experiencing post partum depression.

    The conversation was filled with slight I can’t explain.

    Talking to someone who is so thankful to be a mom and especially a sober mom was soooo humbling.




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  • Today episode is sponsored by tooth decay and delusional running goals. Trina got a root canal, but also a perspective about how we let scary things overwhelm us from a beautiful bigger picture. Also shares about an exciting project andddd her new sober scary goal to run a half marathon.
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  • Trina wraps up a beautiful time at Sober City Summit at Rent Money Lounge in NYC! Trina also answered some juicy unanswered questions from the event!
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  • I’m sick and this is a real life podcast so enjoy this short reflection on touching it out while hungover vs taking it easy while sick!
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  • Cindi Roberts is a Professional Recovery Coach and is recognized as the
    SoberSexpert©. She holds a Masters degree in Sexual Health Education and is
    currently studying to be a Clinical Sexologist. Cindi has over 25 years of experience in public health and is passionate about helping individuals in recovery navigate intimacy issues.

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    Check out her website here: http://www.cindiroberts.com/

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  • Today we are talking all about the exciting details of Sober City Summit, happening on 4/20 from 12-3 in NYC at Rent Money Lounge.In this episode 2 Sober Girls are joined by Michaela and Erin from @2SoberGirls, Rachel Hechtman @soberincentralpark, Megan Wilcox @sobahsistahs and Gabrielle Brick @gabriellebrick to talk about our upcoming event - Sober City Summit

    Experience 10 inspiring speakers, interactive sobriety panel, meet new friends, and enjoy delicious mocktails, all while mingling with the best authors, podcasters, experts, and influencers from the sober community.
    Whether you're taking your first steps towards sobriety or looking to elevate your self-development journey, Sober City Summit offers the perfect blend of inspiration and support

    See more info and all the speakers here:

    https://www.sobercitysummit.com

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  • A little life update on all the things Trina has been doing behind the scenes and the first episode she shares a page from The Retired Party Girl Journal for all of the listeners to answer in their own way! If you guys know any recovery spaces or resources please share!
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  • Hilary Sheinbaum is a journalist and the author of The Dry Challenge: How to Lose the Booze for Dry January, Sober October, and Any Other Alcohol-Free Month (HarperCollins), a judgment-free guide to giving up alcohol for a month-long period.

    Hilary is a prominent figure in the sober curious/nonalcoholic beverage space. She is an advocate for dry months and exploring fun, new and different ways to live a happy, adventurous, big life. In 2023, she was featured extensively in news articles and on broadcast segments including: MarketWatch’s piece on nonalcoholic options on St. Patrick's Day, The New York Times which calls "Ms. Sheinbaum, the Dry January M.V.P.,” The Wall Street Journal in a front page story, Good Morning America in a dry dating segment with Michael Strahan, on NY1 mixing a N.A. cocktail, and discussing Dry January tips on CBS NY, CBS Miami, The Tamron Hall Show, and NBC Streaming. Hilary also regularly appears on Good Morning America’s Instagram (3.6 million followers) and website, making her own N.A. concoctions. Her first TEDx Talk, covering the topic of dry dating, went live in October 2023.

    The University of Florida graduate started her journalism career as a red carpet reporter, interviewing actors, recording artists and reality stars. Hilary has contributed to 60+ publications since, including The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, Bloomberg, USA TODAY, New York Magazine, EATER, The Huffington Post, Us Weekly, Marie Claire, and ELLE.com.

    Hilary grew up in South Florida, lives in New York, and often finds herself in Los Angeles (visiting her three brothers).



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    * goingdry.co
    * Instagram.com/hilarywritesny
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  • In this episode Trina and Katie scatter thru all things sobriety! Katie grew up a social butterfly, flapping her wings from her hometown of Bethesda, Maryland up to the University of Rochester where she went for her undergraduate studies. After graduation, Katie moved to New York City and life really took off – the good, the bad, the ugly and the awesome. Pursuing a career in media + entertainment, Katie spent a year working in the prestigious NBC Page Program before moving into representation at a major talent agency.

    “I love being the person who connects people. Making introductions, hosting parties, bringing people together – I get such a rush from it. It’s no wonder that I really took to the party life. So much of the entertainment industry revolves around drinking. Conferences, work drinks, happy hours, gifts of alcohol, etc. After I had my daughter in 2021, things got worse before they got better but now, I can’t even imagine ever going back to alcohol. Don’t get me wrong, I had a ton of fun in college & in my 20s but there was a lot of pain with it too. I’m realizing that now and am so proud of how far I’ve come.” Follow Katie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/soberlivingct?igsh=cmhtZTd6amNveHhs

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  • “Confidence comes from commitments you make and keep for yourself whatever you have to do to make that commitment to yourself I want you to do that”
    Amanda is an alcohol-free lifestyle expert. She’s a holistic life coach, speaker and author living, working and playing in Austin, TX. As a coach, Amanda helps ambitious, soul-centered women stop drinking and start manifesting the life they deserve and desire.
    She teaches a modern approach to personal development, self-actualization and spiritual enlightenment through the lens of elective sobriety. Amanda’s first book, Unbottled Potential: Break Up With Alcohol And Break Through To Your Best Life is out now (Penguin Random House / Avery) is available now wherever books are sold.
    Her work has been featured on CNN, Business Insider, and The Skimm.

    You can follow Amanda on Instagram her: https://www.instagram.com/amandakuda/


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  • **Trigger Warning SA** Meg is an ordinary mom who found herself trapped in the mommy wine culture. She began her sober curious journey in November of 2019 where her love of science led her to discover the real truth about alcohol and its seductive lies.

    As a speaker and award-winning bestselling author, Meg is changing the narrative on the mommy wine culture, the hustle culture, and our pro-drinking culture. In Meg’s debut book, Intoxicating Lies: One Woman's Journey to Freedom from Gray Area Drinking, Meg flips the script on the five most intoxicating lies we tell ourselves about alcohol and about our self-worth.

    Meg's work has been published in AFTER Magazine, and she has been featured in Delaware Online, Delaware Today Magazine, and The Cape Gazette. She is also the founder of her writing community, Write Back To You.

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  • **|Trigger Warning: Child Loss|** Hailey and Trina talk about life after alcohol in the emotional and educational episode full of all the things from ACOTAR to motherhood to shocking sobriety statistics. Hailey was a social drinker in college and law school. Her nightly two glass habit began after a traumatic entry into motherhood. Several kids and several years later, she was in deep with mommy wine culture. After reading Quit Like a Woman, Hailey quit alcohol. She quickly noticed a dramatic improvement in her life.

    Hailey Conroy is a book blogger who reviews all genres. She also shares sober firsts, fun reels, and quit lit recommendations on her blog. Hailey resides in North Carolina with her husband, four kids, and apricot maltipoo.

    Check her out on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hconroybooks?igsh=b2dtbW9tZHM3Y2R5

    Hailey talks about this informational podcast episode What Alcohol Does to Your Body, Brain & Health - Huberman Lab:
    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/huberman-lab/id1545953110?i=1000576901433

    She also recommends checking out this article for more information on the flip flop between moderate drinking and no alcohol being safe: https://slate.com/technology/2023/04/alcohol-wine-drinking-healthy-dangerous-study.html

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  • Trina shares a little bit of her speech from a recent self love event. She encourages others to deconstruct the lies we’re told about self love, being good enough, and change.


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