Episodes
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Do you think there are negative consequences in normalizing SW? Recently, appropriating SW has become a viral trend. Strip-tok took “fuck it I’ll just become a stripper” to a NEW LEVEL. Or should I say a NEW LOW? What society doesn’t grasp is the stigma of being a SWer is painfully real. Throughout history, SWers have been marginalized, ostracized and continue to be criminalized; yet civilians think it’s acceptable to cosplay as us. Whether it’s celebrities using our culture for clout, Tik-tokers pretending to be strippers, bottle girls and bartenders twerking, we are constantly mimicked and mocked. Pole dancers also choose to try to dignify themselves with the hashtag #notastripper. SW isn’t a hobby. SW isn’t fashion. SW is not an aesthetic. SW is work. Normalizing SW in TY, movies, music and social media has brought light to our community. But, unfortunately I don’t see any SWers reaping any benefits from all the exposure. We are still publicly shamed and put at risk. As a SWer my style is everything to me. It’s a part of how we identify, market and brand ourselves. I don’t take the privilege and responsibility of walking in my Pleasers lightly. SW is the oldest profession with a history that continues to repeat itself. Exploit SWers, profit off of their work, silence and exile them. History of hoes 101. Still here we are today in 2023 witnessing a recurring theme using SWers as inspiration. SW is “in fashion,” but it’s not fashionable to support SWers. Normalizing SW is just normalizing sex. Society has been indoctrinated to fear sexual liberation and freedom for the benefit of men. Ironically, the same people who have always pushed this agenda will say it’s okay that sex sells but you shouldn’t sell sex. Although that may be true, SW will always exist. Anywhere you look for it you will almost certainly find it, normalized or not. So let’s talk about it.
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Do you like to be referred to as a stripper or do you prefer dancer? I prefer to go by stripper. It is called the strip club and a stripper pole after all. Speaking of polls I took an instagram poll about this and on this episode I respond to the results. I also talk about the differences between gentlemen’s clubs vs strip clubs, sugar babies vs hoes and fssw vs sw.
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Soft White Underbelly was a YouTube channel I had definitely heard of but I wasn't an avid follower. So I was surprised when I was approached for an interview. Meeting interviewer Mark Laita was an experience to say the least and I was grateful for the opportunity to speak my truth on a bigger platform. Although, looking back I'm glad I didn't accept a payment for my interview. Instead I asked Mark to give it to the next person who needed it because one, I was advised not to accept a payment and two, after my interview I was left with a bad taste in my mouth and at the end of the day I wouldn't have felt right accepting his dirty money. I among plenty of others have all had our suspicions and opinions about Mark and in this episode you'll find out where I stand.
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For someone like me to have missed all the signs leading up to this... Ignorance is truly bliss. From the moment I was warned by a stranger… my time was ticking but I thought nothing of it. Then on the morning of 2/22 lucky to be alive! I checked out of room *222. It so just happened to be Ash Wednesday and the start of Lent. The synchronicities and signs were all there. The universe spoke. Even if a part of me died there I left feeling more alive than ever.
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From August to December I pretty much hid that I was in an open relationship. It was much worse than this episode will allow me to express because I just want to move on from that... If you listen to early episodes you know how I was affected so deeply the first time around. This man was a piece of work and there we're very many painful things said... but I think the most iconic thing he said was "I didn't get you a present for your birthday because my gift to you was letting you go get fucked by someone else on your birthday." I think because of recent events that shit is just hilarious to me now. Greatest gift he could've given me.
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In this episode I explain the downfall of my relationship with my "work wife" at the club. Was I wrong? Is working with a partner beneficial? What was your experience? Here's mine.
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Spice is back with Season 2! Out with the old and in with the new. So much has been going down behind the scenes. Am I retiring? Did I get fired or did I quit? Plus hear a sneak peak about me getting dumped in a text by my ex. What would you have done?
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I wasn’t always open to receiving the blessings I have now. My spiritual journey began at a very dark time in my life. I’m still on this journey and in this episode I shine the light on what really happened.
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In this episode I break down everything from menstrual cycles to orgasming my way to the top....
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Staying in my bag and out of my feelings was the best choice I ever made. They say love will set you free, but as a SW it kept me a prisoner at one point. Never will I ever fall out of love with myself again. But will I ever be able to fall in love again? Here are the pros and cons of my single life as a SW.
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Here I spill the tea on how I prepare myself for a booking and what can go down in a room with me.
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How pink became my kink…
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Becoming a top earner wasn’t easy. Here are the ups downs I overcame on my way to becoming a high paid hoe.
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