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Jeff & Connie have spent lots of time together working on rental properties, but on this day, something when extremely wrong! Talk about a miscommunication!
Key Topics:
Understanding Miscommunication: Discover how assumptions and lack of clarity can lead to division and frustration in your relationship.
Effective Communication Strategies: Learn how to express yourself clearly, concisely, and courteously to avoid misunderstandings and strengthen your bond.
The Role of Personality Styles: Explore how different personality and behavior styles influence communication and conflict resolution in marriage.
Developing Listening Skills: Understand the value of listening to your spouse to create a supportive and loving environment.
Impact of Family Background: Reflect on how your upbringing and family dynamics shape your communication patterns and expectations in marriage.Learn MORE with a personal behaviors assessment - worth it's weight in gold : ) https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/offers/ycwcbB7F
Connie emphasizes the importance of not assuming your spouse thinks the same way you do and encourages listeners to be more open and trusting. She also highlights how understanding each other's personality styles can significantly reduce conflict and enhance connection.
Join Connie as she provides practical tips and insights to help you communicate more effectively with your spouse, ensuring a happier and healthier marriage. Don't miss out on the opportunity to transform your relationship with these valuable communication secrets.
Subscribe now to The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast and embark on a journey to uncover the best-kept secrets of happy, healthy marriages!
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Host Connie Durham explores the five essential concepts of happiness that can transform your life and your marriage. You'll find real concepts that make a big difference.
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Key Topics:
Love and Belonging: Understand the importance of feeling loved and appreciated, and how it can be the foundation of a strong marriage.
Freedom and Choice: Discover how having the freedom to make choices can impact your happiness and strengthen your relationship.
Safety and Security: Learn why feeling secure is crucial for a happy marriage and how to provide that for your partner.
Power and Achievement: Explore the need for accomplishment and how it can drive happiness and satisfaction within your relationship.
Fun and Pleasure: Embrace the joy of having fun and finding pleasure in life, and how these elements can enhance your marriage.
Connie shares her personal journey and the challenges she faced when unexpected changes disrupted her life. By identifying your top two happiness concepts, you can better understand yourself and your spouse, leading to a more fulfilling marriage.
Join us as we delve into the puzzle of happiness and discover how these concepts can make your marriage extraordinary.
Don't miss out on Connie's upcoming on-demand workshop, "Rediscovering Your Spouse," and learn how to build a firm foundation of love and romance.
Subscribe now to The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast and share the joy of an extraordinary marriage with your friends. For more insights and resources, visit www.theextraordinarymarriage.com.
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We're delving into the art of transforming family gatherings into joyous occasions filled with love, understanding, and memorable conversations.
Connie shares real-life stories and practical advice on how to approach family events with a positive mindset. Learn how to say "yes" with genuine enthusiasm, let go of past frustrations, and embrace the unique personalities within your family.
Discover the power of understanding and respecting differences, and how these small shifts can lead to stronger family bonds and beautiful memories.
Key Takeaways:
Say Yes with Intention: When you agree to attend a family event, commit wholeheartedly and look forward to the experience with an open heart.
Let Go of Past Frustrations: Release any lingering negativity and choose to forgive, paving the way for joy and peace in your interactions.
Understand and Respect Differences: Recognize the diverse backgrounds and temperaments of family members, and appreciate the richness they bring to the gathering.
Focus on Positivity: Shift your thoughts to the good in everyone, and remember that everyone wears a sign saying "Make me feel important."
Be Thankful: Cultivate gratitude for your family and the opportunity to share moments together, enhancing your overall experience.Join Connie as she guides you through these transformative strategies, helping you to create a family environment where everyone feels valued and cherished. Whether it's through active listening, asking thoughtful questions, or simply being present, these tips will help you foster deeper connections and lasting happiness.
Don't forget to subscribe to The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast on Apple, Spotify, or visit www.theextraordinarymarriage.com for more resources and show notes. Share this episode with friends and family to spread the joy of an extraordinary marriage.
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In this enlightening episode of The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast, host Connie Durham delves into the transformative power of gratitude in marriage.
Discover how cultivating thankfulness can strengthen your bond, prevent negativity, and encourage kindness in your relationship.
Key Topics:
The Power of Gratitude: Explore how gratitude can deepen your connection and keep love thriving.
Reflecting on Blessings: Learn the importance of appreciating what you have, rather than focusing on what you want.
Seeing the Good: Discover how to focus on the strengths and positives in your spouse.
Acts of Kindness: Understand how small gestures can fill your "love bank" and create a ripple effect of positivity.
Mindful Communication: Foster positive communication by letting go of negativity and learning your love languages.
Daily Gratitude Rituals: Implement simple habits to express appreciation regularly and enhance your marriage.Connie shares personal anecdotes and practical tips, encouraging you to see the beauty in your spouse and your shared life. This episode is a heartfelt reminder that gratitude not only prevents negativity but also deepens the connection between partners.
Join Connie in uncovering the best-kept secrets of happy, healthy marriages and gain insights into the unique communication styles that can transform your relationship.
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Often when life is frustrating us, we loose sight of what's good. This causes the "Love Bank" to be emptied. For 25 simple ways to refill that love bank... go to... https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/pl/276000.
Print and choose the best 3 for you, and begin refilling that "LOVE BANK".
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✨ Join host Connie Durham and special guest Gina Stinson as they explore the profound power of words in shaping our relationships and personal well-being. As a pastor's wife and writer, Gina shares her journey of overcoming negative self-talk and the importance of grace deposits in our daily interactions.
Key Takeaways:
- Grace Deposits: Discover how making daily grace deposits can offset the occasional withdrawals when we fall short, enhancing forgiveness and understanding in your marriage.
- Power of Words: Learn how the words we use with ourselves and others can either propel us forward or hold us back, and how to choose words that build and heal.
- Humor and Faith: Explore how humor and a shared faith have contributed to Gina's extraordinary marriage, providing balance and perspective in life's challenges.
- Communication Strategies: Gain practical tips for effective communication, including keeping the volume down, asking questions, and using the sandwich method to address issues constructively.
- Personal Reflection: Understand the importance of pausing to reflect on our thoughts and feelings, and seeking God's guidance to overcome negative patterns.
Connie and Gina emphasize the significance of creating a positive atmosphere in the home, where mutual respect and understanding thrive. Whether it's through gentle humor, thoughtful conversation, or intentional words of affirmation, this episode offers valuable insights for nurturing a loving and supportive marriage.
Join us as we delve into real-life stories and actionable advice that will inspire you to cultivate an extraordinary marriage filled with grace, humor, and lasting connection.Don't miss out—subscribe now to The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast and transform your relationship today!
Connect with Gina Stinson: Visit www.ginastinson.com to explore her writings and learn more about her journey.Connie's Free Starter Kit - https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/pl/2148403428
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Recognizing and finding root causes of irritation, conflict, and disconnect in your marriage, are key in resolving them.
Only then will you reset your life and find your joy again!
Key Topics:
Awareness: Recognize the issues that withdraw from your love bank and start making positive changes.
Resolving Challenges: Learn to meet in the middle, communicate openly, and understand your spouse's needs.
Practicing Patience: Adopt a loving tone, enjoy conversations, and prioritize quality time together.
Personality Differences: Embrace and understand the unique traits that each partner brings to the marriage.
Gaslighting Awareness: Identify and address gaslighting behaviors to promote a healthier relationship.Connie emphasizes the importance of applying the golden rule in marriage, treating your partner with the kindness and respect you desire. She also shares personal anecdotes and practical tips to help you reset your relationship and fill your love bank.
Marriage is a journey that you can walk blindly through or makeup your mind and strive for what you want. More love, support, and enjoyment for one another.
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Welcome to Season Two of The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast! As the holiday season approaches, we delve into practical strategies to conquer holiday stress and enhance your marriage.
Host Connie Durham shares her personal insights and five actionable steps to help you navigate financial pressures, family obligations, and time management during this bustling time of year. Key
Takeaways:
Plan Ahead: Begin holiday preparations early to ease financial strain and enjoy gift-giving without stress.
Budget Wisely: Create a realistic budget, consider drawing names for gifts, and explore handmade options to keep costs down.
Prioritize Family: Discuss and decide together what family events are most important, ensuring you leave space for rest and quality time with your spouse.
Manage Time Effectively: Use a planner to track commitments and learn to say no when necessary to maintain balance.
Enhance Connection: Foster a loving relationship by sharing responsibilities, leaving love notes, and expressing gratitude.
Connie emphasizes the importance of maintaining a positive outlook, appreciating time with loved ones, and making deposits in the "love bank" with thoughtful gestures.
Discover how these small but impactful actions can strengthen your marriage and make the holiday season truly joyful. Join Connie each week as she helps you cultivate connection, understanding, and lasting love.
Visit www.theextraordinarymarriage.com for free gifts, including the Starter Kit, and to explore past episodes like "Mighty Mom Mastery." Don't forget to subscribe and share the podcast with friends to spread the joy of an extraordinary marriage.
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In this episode of The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast, Connie Durham and Tala Hershey explore the power of meaningful conversation in strengthening your marriage and supporting your child's speech development.
If you're a married couple looking to deepen your connection and foster open communication, this episode is for you.
Enhance Connection: Discover five practical strategies to engage in more fulfilling conversations with your spouse.
Develop Better Speech: Learn effective techniques to support your child's speech development, ensuring they grow up with strong communication skills.
Importance of Communication: Understand why developing a strong conversational bond with your spouse is crucial for a happy, healthy marriage.
Join us as we share expert insights, real-life stories, and actionable tips that will transform the way you communicate with your loved ones.
Tune in and take the first step towards an extraordinary marriage and a brighter future for your family. Don't miss out—subscribe now to The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast on Apple, Spotify, and Amazon!
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In this episode, Connie tackles the complexities of blended families. Combining households, navigating different parenting styles, and fostering unity can be challenging. But with Godly advice and years of experience, we offer practical strategies to help you create a harmonious blended family.
Why Listen to The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast? You Want A Happy Healthy Marriage!
Godly Guidance: We integrate faith-based principles to provide you with time-honored wisdom.
Expert Insights: Benefit from our years of experience and deep understanding of human needs and relationships.
Practical Tips: Learn actionable steps that you can implement immediately to improve your relationship.
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Join us on "The Extraordinary Marriage" as we explore how to overcome childhood trauma to build a positive and successful marriage. Together, we'll uncover the secrets to letting go of a troubled past and creating a future filled with love and harmony.
Featuring expert insights and personal stories, this podcast is your guide to recognizing past challenges for a more hopeful future. Perfect for couples and women committed to transforming their relationships and finding lasting happiness.
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Host Connie Durham & Jaci Finneman
Hey, I'm Connie! After over four decades of matrimonial bliss and motherhood experience under my belt, let me tell you - people are a fascinating mix of quirks and characteristics.
Whether we like 'em or not is almost always determined by the way they make us feel about ourselves...and that goes double for marriage!
That's why I've made it my mission to find those niggly marriage problems pricking your happiness bubble – so together we can get rid of them and forge ahead on a path towards an even better life than before. It makes me a kind of Marriage Guru…with all the exciting remedies yet waiting to be discovered!
Jaci Finneman Jaci's Gift - http://smpl.ro/MarriageMakeitRight
Jaci Finneman, Founder of Hello World and No-Problem Parenting™ is passionate about helping parents become confident leaders for their kids, find happiness in their day-to-day routine and bring peace back into their homes. Jaci is a Parent Coach, Parenting Strategist and a Leader. Her 30 years experience includes roles as a special needs para-professional (5 years), an In-Home Mental Health Practitioner and Program Coordinator for a mental health counseling agency (20 years)where Jaci led a successful, value-driven team and launched multiple new children’s mental health programs during her ten year. In 2013 Jaci started Hello World LLC, a company dedicated to and focused on teaching parents how to be the confident leader their kids crave them be! In 2019 Jaci created The No-Problem Parenting online-on demand parenting course and in 2021 launched The No-Problem Parenting Podcast. Jaci’s down to earth, authentic and relatable personality adds light, hope and clarity for her clients. “My coaching is parent-focused. Parents are their own child’s expert. I am here to empower them, to help them help their child.” – Jaci Finneman
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Welcome to The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast, where we empower married couples with the insights and tools needed to create a thriving, fulfilling relationship.
Our podcast is dedicated to helping you identify and overcome marital challenges so that you can focus on the positive aspects of your relationship and live your best life together.
Key Topics We Cover: Childhood Impact: Explore how hurtful childhood experiences can affect children and shape their future relationships.
Parental Traits: Discover ten essential parental traits that help raise strong, confident, and forward-thinking kids.
Marital Challenges: Learn how to identify and address common marital issues effectively.
Positive Focus: Techniques and strategies to focus on the positive aspects of your marriage, promoting happiness and connection.
Why We're Different: Unlike other relationship podcasts, The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast goes beyond surface-level advice. We dig deep into the root causes of marital challenges, offering actionable insights and practical solutions tailored to your needs. Our unique approach helps you not only understand your relationship better but also equips you with the tools needed to nurture and grow it.
Join us each week as we bring you expert interviews, real-life stories, and actionable tips to help you build an extraordinary marriage.
Subscribe now and take the first step towards a stronger, more connected, and happier relationship.
Tune In. Transform Your Marriage. Live Your Best Life Together. Subscribe Now www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcast also on Apple, Spotify, and Amazon #theextraordinarymarriage #children #familylife #familyrelationships #marriageandfamily #positivevibes #poem #youbtube
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This month we're talking about different... Parenting Styles Explore diverse parenting styles based on behavior & personality types.
Whether you're a calm mediator or a spirited decision-maker, we provide insights on how to harmonize your approach to parenting and grow together as a couple.
Love First Approach... Connie emphasizes the importance of loving first. Learn how to move past the irritations and focus on what truly works in your marriage.
Discover the strategies that Connie has successfully applied, not only in raising her own children but also with her grandchildren.
Gain Confidence... Every episode is designed to empower you with the confidence to master your unique skills.
From communication tips to conflict resolution, you'll gain practical advice to apply in your daily life. Why Listen?
What sets The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast apart is Connie's real-life experience and heartfelt advice. She shares time-tested methods and personal anecdotes that resonate with listeners, making complex issues relatable and manageable. Join Us... Tune in to transform your marriage into an extraordinary one. Gain the tools to not just survive but thrive in your relationship.
Subscribe now and start your journey towards a more loving and harmonious marriage today. Listen on Apple, Spotify, and Amazon. www.theextraordinarymarriage.com
Talk to Connie and figure out where the disconnect is in your marriage. Find the "FRESH INSIGHTS" Button on the top right corner of The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast page. www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcast
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You always hear that introverts and extroverts are absolute opposites, but have you thought about how that effects your marriage?
Each wanting exactly what the other, doesn't want. Are you thinking about that?
Today we talk about living with your opposite and how to understand them better. Understanding will improve your relationship at least 50%.
Would you like to figure out your differences and turn them into more support, romance, and intimacy? Take a look...
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Today Pastor Brian joins me as we journey through his saying I do, figuring out how to be a better spouse and following Gods word. Pastor Brian lives in Fayetteville GA with his wife Codie and 5 children.
Hi I'm Connie Durham, the Host of this podcast and Brian is my pastor. May I say he's passionate, transparent, and also dedicated to his family and church. My mission is to cultivate connection & lasting love for an Extraordinary Marriage.
Often our past experiences color our future and we loose our way, in finding love that last. Our personalities conflict, hurt and crush the ones we love and we don't know how to change that.
Follow Brian's words and put God in the center of your marriage. Then go to my web page and get my Marriage Starter Kit Free. Take notes and list the first 3 things to work on.
If you keep doing the things you're doing... you'll keep getting the same thing you're getting. Ready for change? https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/pl/2148403428
Key Takeaways:
Marriage as an attack on selfishness: Discover how selflessness and serving each other can transform your relationship.
The foundation of God's word: Learn how biblical principles can guide and strengthen your marriage.
Communication is key: Practical advice on how to talk to each other, not at each other, and the importance of respectful dialogue.
Value and respect: The significance of valuing your spouse and showing respect through actions and words.
Intentional love: Understanding and catering to each other's love languages to foster a deeper connection.Brian also opens up about the challenges he faced growing up in a divorced family and how it shaped his approach to fatherhood and marriage. This episode is packed with wisdom, real-life stories, and actionable advice to help you build a stronger, more loving relationship.
(00:00) Discover real life stories and a path to overcome the pitfalls every marriage encounters
(01:09) Connie Durham welcomes Brian Parrish to the extraordinary marriage
(02:14) Brian and Cody got married in 2010; it's been 13 years now
(03:27) Brian says the biggest need in a healthy marriage is communication
(04:30) Jeff and I had unrealistic expectations when we got married about communication
(06:21) Brian and Cody both come from divorced families. So how does that feel as a kid
(12:01) Brian and his wife were married nine days when their first child was born
(15:43) Tennessee Knox says marriage is an attack on selfishness
(21:06) That selfishness is so hard to fight. It's steady, it's constant
(21:21) Brian: Whenever we blow up, our partner has three choices
(22:58) I think how selfish we are when we first get married starts with selfishness
(30:20) In marriage, sometimes you get tired, and it's about what you do
(36:36) Brian: Where does respect come from? Value. I mean, you respect something based on its value
(39:45) Jeff: There are roles to marriage, and there are responsibilities
(46:34) By knowing your partner's love language, you can serve them
(49:01) Connie Durham: Brian, thank you so much for sharing today
🌟 Ready to transform your marriage? Join Connie for a free 40-minute Fresh Insights session to uncover the challenges in your marriage and find actionable solutions. Visit https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session to schedule your session today.
Don't forget to subscribe to The Extraordinary Marriage podcast on Apple, Spotify, and Amazon for more insights and practical tips on building a happy, healthy, and extraordinary marriage.
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It's a Journey... not a destination. I am moving toward the Goal!
EPS 18 - The Crazy Cycle https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148450564
FREE 5 Day Challenge... Get your Husband to Listen to you
EPS 39 - Day 1 of Honey Listen Up https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148696139
Let me help you move past the misunderstandings that are causing a disconnect in your marriage. https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session
Get the exact tools you need to avoid them and reignite that “first met” passion and deep connection. Check on the next Online Workshop https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/CS-Marriage
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Moms have a hard job. Focusing on the right things will bring you energy to navigate your very busy days.
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In today's episode, Navigating Love's Frustration, Jeff & Connie explore the emotional dynamics that either strengthen love or create division in marriage. Discover how predictable out of control emotions influence your relationship and learn practical strategies to overcome these challenges.
Go to www.theextraordinarymarriage.com - scroll down and find your Free Positive Attitude PDF... ready to download. (It's a button) We can not control the things around us... but we can control our own MIND. At least we can try. 😅 Thank you for listening.
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In this episode, Connie Durham dives into "Three Mistakes Couples Make That Push Their Spouse Away." With over 40 years of marriage experience, Connie shares heartfelt stories, practical advice, and actionable steps to help you reconnect with your spouse and navigate through common marital conflicts.
Connie emphasizes the importance of understanding your spouse's personality, effective communication, and prioritizing each other. She also shares a personal story about a challenging day at one of her rental properties, illustrating how miscommunication and assumptions can lead to frustration and conflict.
Stay tuned until the end of the episode to download a free workbook on resolving conflict in your marriage. This episode is packed with insights and strategies to help you build a stronger, more loving relationship.
(00:00) Three mistakes couples make that push their spouse away in Connie Durham's marriage advice
(00:55) Resolve conflict in your marriage with this workbook
(01:43) Three mistakes that couples make that push their spouse away
(03:50) My husband and I have six rental properties
(09:18) Three mistakes couples make that push their spouse away in marriage
(12:12) Pay attention to your tone of voice and how you speak to your spouse
(17:57) Third mistake is not putting your spouse first. This is one that a lot of us make
(21:59) Understanding your spouse and understand your differences can help resolve conflict
(27:14) It's called communication secrets for an extraordinary marriage
(34:01) Communication secrets for marriage determine what you each want
(37:34) You get an introductory video and then you get a personal behavior assessment
(44:09) Communication secrets for an extraordinary marriage is free with a growth 40 coupon
(48:43) After 40 years of marriage, Connie Durham can help you improve your marriage
🌟 Ready to transform your marriage? Join Connie for a free 40-minute Fresh Insights session to uncover the challenges in your marriage and find actionable solutions. Visit https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session to schedule your session today.
Don't forget to subscribe to The Extraordinary Marriage podcast on Apple, Spotify, and Amazon for more insights and practical tips on building a happy, healthy, and extraordinary marriage.
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It's a Journey... not a destination. I am moving toward the Goal!
EPS 18 - The Crazy Cycle https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148450564
FREE 5 Day Challenge... Get your Husband to Listen to you
EPS 39 - Day 1 of Honey Listen Up https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148696139
Let me help you move past the misunderstandings that are causing a disconnect in your marriage. https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session
Get the exact tools you need to avoid them and reignite that “first met” passion and deep connection. Check on the next Online Workshop https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/CS-Marriage
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In this episode, Connie Durham dives deep into the root causes of conflict in marriage and how our predictable personalities play a role in recurring issues. Using relatable anecdotes and practical advice, Connie explores the importance of understanding different perspectives, levels of patience, and upbringing influences.
Discover how focusing on the good and beautiful aspects of your relationship can transform your marriage. Connie also introduces the concept of the compound effect, where small, consistent choices over time lead to significant benefits. Learn about the four predictable personality styles and how recognizing these traits in yourself and your spouse can help you navigate conflicts more effectively.
Don't miss out on the upcoming masterclass, "Three Mistakes That Push Your Spouse Away," and find out how to avoid these common pitfalls. Connie shares her wisdom from over 45 years of marriage and offers a free Fresh Insights session to help you move past misunderstandings and build a stronger connection with your spouse.
(00:00) One year, I was making their birthday cake and I needed an extra big one
(01:46) The extraordinary marriage podcast explores the causes and solutions to conflict in marriage
(05:56) Your past and your personalities determine how you see the world
(06:51) When we focus on what is good and beautiful, relationships go a lot better
(10:35) Communication money is one of the top two divorce accelerators
(12:11) There are four predictable personality styles and each one has its strengths and drawbacks
🌟 Ready to transform your marriage? Join Connie for a free 40-minute Fresh Insights session to uncover the challenges in your marriage and find actionable solutions. Visit https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session to schedule your session today.
Don't forget to subscribe to The Extraordinary Marriage podcast on Apple, Spotify, and Amazon for more insights and practical tips on building a happy, healthy, and extraordinary marriage.
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It's a Journey... not a destination. I am moving toward the Goal!
EPS 18 - The Crazy Cycle https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148450564
FREE 5 Day Challenge... Get your Husband to Listen to you
EPS 39 - Day 1 of Honey Listen Up https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148696139
Let me help you move past the misunderstandings that are causing a disconnect in your marriage. https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session
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Have you ever wondered what keeps the spark alive in a marriage? In this episode, Connie Durham delves into the nuances of attraction and how it evolves over time. From the body language and loving tones that first drew you to your spouse, to the everyday habits that might be causing friction now, Connie offers insights into maintaining and rekindling that initial connection.
Do you feel like your marriage could use a boost in romance, fun, and adventure? Or perhaps you seek more compassion, support, and strength? Discover real-life stories and practical advice to overcome the common pitfalls every marriage encounters.
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"10 Days to a Happier Healthier Marriage"
https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/ten-days-to-a-happier-marriage
Connie also shares a personal story about her first car and the lessons she learned about showing excitement and keeping a straight face—lessons that can be surprisingly relevant to marriage dynamics.
Explore four areas that might be causing trouble in your relationship and gain three powerful questions to ask yourself to reignite the attraction with your spouse. Are you ready to open the door to a more extraordinary marriage? Tune in and find out!
(00:00) Today, we are talking about those things that attracted you and your spouse
(03:53) What attracted you to your spouse? Are they fun loving
(07:08) Three mistakes couples make that push their spouse away in a free webinar
(07:40) Connie Durham: Communication is the number one problem that couples have
🌟 Ready to transform your marriage? Join Connie for a free webinar on the three mistakes couples make that push their spouse away. Visit www.theextraordinarymarriage.com to register and start building a happier, healthier marriage today.
Don't forget to subscribe to The Extraordinary Marriage podcast on Apple, Spotify, and Amazon for more insights and practical tips on building a happy, healthy, and extraordinary marriage.
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It's a Journey... not a destination. I am moving toward the Goal!
EPS 18 - The Crazy Cycle https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148450564
FREE 5 Day Challenge... Get your Husband to Listen to you
EPS 39 - Day 1 of Honey Listen Up https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148696139
Let me help you move past the misunderstandings that are causing a disconnect in your marriage. https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session
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It's not where you start, but where you finish. Connie Durham dives into the essence of creating harmony in your marriage, focusing on the choices you make today and tomorrow. Drawing inspiration from Albert Einstein's wisdom, Connie explores how to overcome the pitfalls every marriage encounters and foster a loving, supportive relationship.
Todays Gift - Why Couples Argue and Fight https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/pl/2147559250
In this episode, Connie shares ten actionable ways to find more harmony with your spouse. From turning on your positive attitude to showing appreciation, she provides practical advice to help you focus on the things you love about each other. Whether it's dealing with past baggage or learning to communicate effectively, this episode is packed with insights to strengthen your marriage.
(00:00) Check out why couples argue and fight in the notes
(01:05) Ten ways to find more harmony in your marriage with this podcast
(01:39) Make a list of the things you actually like about your spouse
(02:34) Couples don't get married until they're 27 and 29 these days
(03:22) I want you to think about your childhood. Remember the hardships the most
(04:49) If you're having challenges in your marriage, recognize it. Turn on your positive attitude
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