Episodes
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Do you find that women don’t respect you?
Or maybe if you have kids, they fail to speak in a respectful way?
Maybe your colleagues at work, your customers, or even your friends don’t treat you with the respect you deserve.
In this podcast, we will explore why women, children, and even men don’t respect nice guys.
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In No More Mr. Nice Guy, Robert Glover talks about how some radical feminists claimed that men were the cause of all of the problems in the world. Or that men were merely an unnecessary nuisance. This contributed to a climate that convinced many men that it was not OK to be just who they were.
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Let’s say you’re dating someone or in a relationship, and the infamous topic of body count comes up. What’s the magic number that would make you question if you should stay with her? Does body count really matter when you're in a relationship? How do you get over your partner's past, especially if her count is higher than yours? Should you even bother talking about body count at all?
These are some of the juicy questions I want to dive into today. Let's be real, folks. We're not living in a Disney fairytale where everyone is a chaste prince or princess waiting for "the one." People have pasts, and sometimes those pasts can include some pretty steamy and provocative things. -
Have you ever fallen for a woman you knew was bad for you? You know something is off but the combination of hotness, excitement, and possibility of a love connection keep you hooked.
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In this podcast, we’re going to look at the crisis behind why so many men are struggling to get into relationships?
Are men the problem? Or maybe women are the reason why men are single or is it society or maybe dating apps?
Who’s fault is it and can we rescue relationships? Should we rescue relationships and you are probably thinking, what’s wrong with being single?
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Back in January, my son and I were testing for our next tae kwon do belt. I had just started tae kwon do 2 months earlier after quitting 30 years ago, so I was excited to do it with my son. Long story short, my ex, who had picked him up from school, texted me and said he didn’t want to go to my testing because he was tired and had a long day. I was incensed by this. I told her she wasn’t teaching him the right thing about how to support a family member, that we were making memories together. I insisted that he come with me. She said she was surprised how selfish and narcissistic I was being. She later said to me, do you know how much he is in engaged in tae kwon do to make you happy?
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If you’re anything like I was early in my Nice Guy recovery, you have a hard time setting boundaries. Especially with women. We tend to let a pretty woman walk all over us, afraid if we set boundaries she will walk away.
Over the years, working with hundreds of Nice Guys, I’ve noticed they struggle with boundaries too. I used to think boundaries were negative, that they made you rigid, and that people with boundaries were just selfish.
Then one day, I heard Dr. Glover say, “Boundaries are an act of love.” This threw me because I couldn’t see how love could be rigid. But he explained that boundaries show others what you will accept and what you won’t. Without boundaries, there’s no love, especially for yourself. And if you can’t respect yourself enough to have limits, how can you truly love others?
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In this podcast, we’re going to explore Is Being Vulnerable Unattractive To Women?
Now, there are a lot of messages fed to men that being vulnerable is key in relationships, but this is also confusing as some men as they report that when they are vulnerable, she pull away, look disgusted or become upset.
So, should you be vulnerable in a relationship or not? If not, then why not? If yes, how can men be vulnerable without killing attraction?
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Why do so many men struggle with social skills? Why do so many men struggle to understand women? Why are so many men isolated and lonely? Why are so many men hypersensitive? These questions come up regularly with nice guys I work with. Some then ask me, does this mean I’m on the autism spectrum? Am I just wired this way?
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In this podcast, you will learn how you can still date successfully even if you have kids. I will share my experience, mid 40s I date women in their early 30s and how they treated me and my kids.
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In today's episode, we'll explore the self-limiting beliefs that Nice Guys carry, beliefs that keep them stuck in life. We'll uncover the origins of these beliefs, how they take hold, and most importantly, how we can break free from them. We'll delve into the steps to transform these beliefs, empowering you to live with integrity, confidence, and passion.
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Ever found yourself saying, 'Of course I'll take care of the dishes,' to your spouse, only to conveniently 'forget' later? Or maybe you’ve caught yourself saying, 'Sure babe, I’d be happy to weed the entire yard while you go take a bath! Whatever you want,' then ruminating and secretly planning their demise in a revenge fantasy straight out of the Show Dexter?
Welcome to the realm of passive aggression, where 'Nice Guys' have turned being incredibly agreeable into an art form—while seething like a pressure cooker on the inside. It's like being the world's most polite volcano—on the surface, we’re all “sure, you bet, anytime” smiling and being calm, but beneath, there's a molten core of frustration just waiting to blow."
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Have you ever seen two people in a relationship that you know is dead but somehow they didn’t get the memo? You probably know on a gut level what I’m talking about - you see two people who do nothing but argue, complain about each other, or completely ignore each other.
I believe that a relationship is a living thing with its own life force that can die. The two partners may still be officially a couple and they may still be attached to each other but the love and care and energy have evaporated. Yet the thing just keeps going, staggering around from day to day, draining those who come in contact with it. This is what I call the nightmare scenario: a zombie relationship. How do you know if you’re in a zombie relationship and how do you prevent it?
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In this podcast, you will discover How To Be More Social & Create a Social Circle even if you are shy, an introvert or an nerd… and
If you find yourself spending too much time isolatedworking from home anddon’t have many guy friends to hang out withnothing to do over the weekend and feel LONELY a lotthis podcast is for you.And for the guys who get into a relationship and start neglecting their guy mates and their hobbies and know you want know how to make friends and where to go to make friends.
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Today we’re going to delve into a polarizing topic. No, not which direction should the toilet paper hang. Not does pineapple belong on pizza. I’m talking about friends of the opposite sex if you’re in a committed relationship. Gasp! What do you do if you’re in a relationship and she has a lot of male friends? Are you okay with that? Or are you just insecure if you don’t want her to have these types of relationships? Is it okay that you have friendships with members of the opposite sex if you’re in a committed relationship?
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A lot of men want to know, will I be a nice guy forever? The conventional wisdom in nice guy coaching is that you will always be recovering from vestiges of the syndrome, that you are always susceptible to falling back into nice guy patterns. But can some or all nice guy patterns be fully resolved or eliminated? Just how much can someone change?
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Have you ever had a woman say to you:
You are not listening to me.You are not empathic.You don’t get it or understand me.Wait a minute, what about you guys?
Let’s hear it for the men.
Do you find women listen to you?
Do you feel understood and respected?
Well, let’s find out if only men are bad listeners. In my book, that may not always be the case.
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Why are men’s groups so critical for a man? When I started my journey of becoming a conscious man, I did it through books and 1 on 1 coaching. And I made a lot of progress. I learned more about how to lead in my relationships, set boundaries, and get out of my comfort zone. But I didn’t realize that I had actually hit a wall in my growth. If you want to understand what this wall is, then keep listening.
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Have you ever had a woman who’s constantly nagged, complained about you all the time and criticized everything you did, and no matter what you did, it never resolved the complains.
Then this podcast is for you and I we will share why women complain and what you can do to stop the complaining.
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Welcome to the Nice Guy Show. With Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff and Chuck Chapman.
The three of us are coaches dedicated to helping nice guys because we are recovering nice guys ourselves. Together, we have decades of experience helping men level up. Our mission is to help men develop the confidence and the skills to get the love, sex, and success they desire. Today's guest is Dr. Robert Glover, author of No More Mr. Nice Guy, who discusses cheating.
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