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  • Are you looking for ways to make homework time more enjoyable for your child and turn it into a positive experience for the whole family?


    In this episode, Genie Dawkins shares creative methods to transform homework from a stressful task into a fun and engaging activity. By using music, games, and a playful attitude, parents can create a joyful environment that fosters learning and builds special memories with their children.


    Key Takeaways:Celebrate Homework Time

    Use songs like "Celebrate" by Kool & the Gang to create a festive atmosphere around homework, making it an enjoyable routine for children.

    Positive Parental Attitude

    Your approach to homework significantly influences how your child perceives learning and challenges.

    Incorporate Playfulness

    Turn homework into games, mix in fun math problems, and maintain a playful attitude to make learning engaging.

    Family Coworking Time

    Establish shared, collaborative learning sessions to practice skills together and foster a supportive environment.

    Use of Technology

    Implement educational software and digital platforms to enhance learning and track progress.

    Designated Homework Spaces

    Create a specific area or use a "homework bag" for mobile organization, ensuring a consistent and conducive environment for study.


    Timestamps

    06:27 Defining homework: supporting your child's academic success.

    10:28 Reevaluating homework to support children's academic success.

    11:34 Designate consistent homework spaces for children.

    16:14 Focus on foundational skills for neurodiverse children.

    21:12 Challenges in math often arise from learning gaps.

    23:21 Assess child's needs and collaborate with school.

    25:44 Check homework, support understanding, bridge teacher-student gaps.

    30:49 Create routines; tips and resources available online.

    33:09 Transform homework time into a fun celebration.


    Links and Resources:Does Homework Still have Value? John Hopkins EducationRecommended Workbooks:

    Kumon Workbooks

    Educational Software:Khan AcademyProdigy Math Game
    Quotes:“Turn homework into a celebration! Use songs like 'Celebrate' by Kool & the Gang to set a positive tone.""Your attitude towards homework can reshape your child's perception of learning and difficulties.""Family coworking time isn't just about homework; it's about building connections and creating a collaborative learning space."
    Speaker Biography:

    Genie Dawkins: Genie Dawkins is the host of "The Parenting Cipher," a podcast dedicated to providing parents with strategies and insights to support their children's growth and academic success. Genie's personal experience as a parent, combined with her professional expertise, allows her to offer practical advice and to empower parents to enhance learning at home.


    Tune into this episode for an enlightening discussion on how you can turn homework time into a fun and memorable experience for the entire family!

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  • Are you finding it challenging to set and support educational goals for your child? In this episode, Genie Dawkins delves into practical strategies for parents to help their children achieve their academic goals by maintaining clear communication and ensuring they receive necessary accommodations.


    Episode Summary:


    In this episode we explore the common challenges parents face with evening school events, the vital role of connecting with teachers, and, most importantly, the powerful impact of setting personalized educational goals for your children. Genie emphasizes how these goals can foster independence, boost confidence, and drive academic and personal development. With practical advice on proactive communication, keeping organized records, and utilizing motivational visual aids and reward systems, Genie shares her tried-and-true methods for success. Plus, she brings personal anecdotes about her own children to further inspire and guide you on this journey. So grab your notebook and get ready to join us in making this school year a triumph through goal-setting and proactive involvement!

    Key Takeaways:Setting Educational Goals: Understand the importance of setting both short-term and long-term educational goals tailored to your child’s needs. These goals help children take ownership of their academics and personal development.Support Through Communication: Maintain ongoing, effective communication with your child about their goals. Engage them in discussions about their progress and the challenges they face, ensuring they feel supported and understood.Ensuring Accommodations: Advocate for your child by ensuring they receive the necessary accommodations outlined in their IEP. Regularly review and communicate with the school to guarantee these accommodations are properly implemented.Goal Setting Strategies: Use visual aids for younger children to represent achievements and contracts with monetary rewards for older kids to motivate academic and behavioral improvements.Proactive School Engagement: Don’t wait for scheduled meetings—initiate conversations with teachers and school administrators to discuss your child’s goals and accommodations early on.Organization for Success: Keep detailed binders for each child with important educational documents, including reports, assessments, and goals, to stay organized and informed about their progress.

    Links and Resources:

    - Understood.org

    - Education Binder

    - Wrightslaw Resources

    - ADDitude Magazine Resources for ADHD


    Quote:


    1. "Motivating children involves setting goals that are relatable and interesting to them, making the journey of learning enjoyable and rewarding."


    Genie is the passionate host of The Parenting Cipher, a podcast designed to help parents navigate the complexities of special education. With years of firsthand experience as a parent of children who require special education, Genie offers a wealth of knowledge, practical tips, and motivational insights to empower parents in creating a supportive and successful educational environment for their children. Her relatable storytelling and expert advice have helped countless families feel more confident and informed in their educational journeys.

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  • Are you wondering how to effectively communicate your child's unique needs to their school and establish consistent routines? In this episode, Genie Dawkins dives deep into practical strategies for parents to advocate for their children, especially those with neurodiverse needs. From securing necessary accommodations to setting up productive after-school routines, Genie uses her personal experiences to guide you through the often-overwhelming journey of the school year.


    Episode Summary

    Genie Dawkins, host of The Parenting Cipher, provides parents with essential advice on how to secure specialized school accommodations and establish effective routines for their children. She emphasizes the importance of communication with school staff and consistently advocates for the child's individual needs. Throughout the episode, Genie shares her personal experiences with her son’s ADHD and holistic medication journey, offering encouragement and reassurance to parents.


    Key Takeaways

    - Securing Specialized Accommodations: Obtain documentation from doctors or therapists to support your child’s specific needs.

    - Effective Communication: Establish open lines of communication with the school, including teachers and special education coordinators.

    - Routine Establishment: Use the first month of school to set routines and communicate any necessary accommodations for your child.

    - Advocacy and Documentation: Always document conversations with school staff to ensure there's a record of what has been discussed. 

    - Holistic Approach: Personal insights into using holistic medications for ADHD.

    - Encouraging Independence: Support children in creating their own calendars and managing their schedules.

    - Bedtime Routines: Introduce consistent bedtime routines and activities to aid sleep, particularly for neurodiverse children.

    - Nutritional Tips: Incorporate multivitamins and establish morning routines to ensure a good start to the day.


    Links and Resources

    Spotify for White Noise and StoriesRecommended Reading AppsVirtual Tutors for Neurodiverse ChildrenHow Much Time Should My Child Do Homework?Amazon Echo

    Quotes

    - “Use the first month of school to establish routines and ensure you’re communicating effectively with the school staff.” - Genie Dawkins

    - “Don’t be afraid to advocate for your child’s individual needs; you know them best.” - Genie Dawkins

    - “Let your child take part in creating their own calendars and managing appointments. It builds independence.” - Genie Dawkins


    Short Biography


    Genie Dawkins: A devoted advocate for children with neurodiverse needs, Genie Dawkins uses her platform on The Parenting Cipher to share her experiences and knowledge. With personal insights into raising a child with ADHD, Genie empowers parents through practical advice and emotional support. She is passionate about holistic approaches and effective communication techniques that benefit both children and their families. 

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  • Have you ever wondered how to set the tone for effective communication with your child's school, especially when your child has special education needs? In this episode of The Parenting Cipher, Genie Dawkins shares her personal experiences and strategies for creating a constructive dialogue with teachers and school staff. Genie emphasizes the importance of faith, empowerment, and inward change as foundations for effective advocacy.


    Episode Summary:


    In "Effective Communication," Genie Dawkins discusses the significance of maintaining clear, respectful, and solution-focused communication with your child's school. She encourages parents to meditate and alleviate their fears, have faith in better outcomes, and focus on creating a supportive environment for their child. Genie shares her personal journey of managing a concerning incident involving her son, emphasizing the value of consistent documentation and follow-up communication. The episode provides practical advice such as writing an introductory letter to teachers, keeping a communication binder, and knowing key school policies. Genie underscores the need for empathy, active listening, and organization when advocating for your child's needs.


    Key Takeaways:

    - Communication Foundations: Start the school year with an introductory letter to teachers outlining your child's accommodations and needs.

    - Consistent Documentation: Keep records of all interactions with the school through notes, emails, or voice memos.

    - Active Listening and Empathy: Engage with school staff empathetically to build a collaborative relationship focused on your child's success.

    - Organizational Tools: Use communication binders and cheat sheets to stay organized and effective in your advocacy.

    - Policy Awareness: Know the school's bullying policy, attendance laws, and the designated person for handling issues to stay prepared.

    - Meditation and Empowerment: Use meditation as a tool to find inner peace and empowerment in your parenting journey.


    Links and Resources:

    - J. Cole's "The Change

    - Parenting Cipher Website

    - Special Education Advocacy Toolkit


    Quotes:

    - "Empathy and understanding are crucial when dealing with school systems and advocating for children with IEPs."

    - "Effective communication comes from a place of respect and composure, even in difficult conversations."

    - "Find your peace through meditation, and let that be your strength in advocating for your child."


    Biographies:

    Genie Dawkins: 

    Host of The Parenting Cipher, Genie Dawkins has dedicated her career to providing support and resources for parents of children with special education needs. Her personal experiences as a parent navigating the school system spotlight her insights on effective communication and advocacy. Genie's emphasis on meditation, empowerment, and inner change serves as a guiding principle for parents seeking to create a supportive environment for their children.


    Join us in this insightful episode, and learn how to communicate effectively with your child's school to ensure their success and well-being.

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  • Are you trying to figure out how to prepare your neurodiverse child for the upcoming school year? In this episode of The Parenting Cipher, Genie Dawkins covers essential back-to-school preparation and organization tips aimed at supporting neurodiverse children and their families. Genie dives deep into creating checklists, organizing school supplies, and preparing both mentally and physically for a successful school year.


    Key Takeaways:

    - The importance of creating detailed checklists, completing necessary paperwork, and scheduling appointments for school readiness.

    - Necessary school supplies tailored to support reading and math challenges in neurodiverse children.

    - Using a family planner to set and track academic, fitness, and personal development goals.

    - Establishing dedicated spaces and organizing tools at home and school, and involving children in managing their equipment.

    - Reviewing the Individualized Education Program (IEP) and setting transition goals for high school or employment.

    - The value of creating visual schedules and routines to manage daily activities and reduce anxiety.

    - The benefits of creating visual storytelling books to help children prepare for the school year.

    - Maintaining effective communication with teachers and support staff through templates and clear, documented communication.

    - The importance of visiting the school environment before the first day and organizing school necessities in advance.

    - Upcoming back-to-school series and the encouragement to engage with the Parenting Cypher community.


    Links and Resources:

    - Parent-Teacher Communication Template (for purchase)

    - Child Trends Report: https://www.childtrends.org

    - Joyful Family Planner [Link to purchase or download the recommended planner]

    - Back-to-School Course with templates and discounts: [Link to course sign-up]

    - "North Star" by MuMu Fresh with D Smoke: Link to song

    - Parent-Teacher Organization Kit: [Link to purchase]


    Quotes:

    - "Protect and nurture the light and shine within your child as they walk their unique path."

    - "Being your child’s north star means supporting their individuality and helping them navigate their own journey."

    - "Effective communication and detailed organization can significantly reduce back-to-school anxiety for both parents and children."


    Short Biography for Speaker:

    Genie Dawkins, the host of The Parenting Cipher, is a passionate advocate for families with special education needs. With years of experience and personal insights as a parent to neurodiverse children, Genie offers practical advice and resources to support and empower parents. Her engaging style and heartfelt dedication shine through in every episode, helping families navigate the complexities of special education with confidence and grace.


    Remember to hit the subscribe button, leave a 5-star review, and check out the wealth of resources provided in the show notes. Cherish each moment, be kind to yourself, and support your child's individuality as you embark on this back-to-school journey together.

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  • Have you ever felt completely overwhelmed in your parenting journey, wondering if your dedication to your children is also causing you to lose touch with yourself? In this episode, Tanika Ray and Genie Dawkins dive deep into the balance of self-care and motherhood, the concept of invisible labor, and how conscious parenting can save lives.


    Episode Summary:


    Genie Dawkins opens up about feeling disconnected from herself during a challenging period as a parent and emphasizes the importance of self-care. Tanika Ray discusses the impact of mothers giving their all to their children, often benefiting the patriarchy, and the concept of invisible labor in motherhood. Together, they offer personal experiences on co-parenting, conscious parenting, and the importance of acknowledging individual roles in a child's life. They address inherited generational anxiety and trauma, discuss their children's struggles within societal pressures, and explore how their own upbringing has influenced their parenting styles. The episode also covers the effectiveness of different disciplinary approaches and the significance of acknowledging and apologizing for one's mistakes as a parent.


    Key Takeaways:

    - Recognizing the importance of self-care and not losing oneself in the role of a parent.

    - Understanding the concept of invisible labor and its exhaustion.

    - Value of open communication and understanding your child's emotions and rhythms over physical punishment.

    - Impact of generational trauma and anxiety on parenting and children's well-being.

    - Importance of allowing children to express themselves and embrace their individuality.

    - Balancing self-care with parental responsibilities and nurturing one's personal interests.


    Links and Resources:

    - Mamaste Podcast

    - Dr. Shefali's Book on Conscious Parenting

    - Child Trends Report on Generational Anxiety


    Quotes:

    - “In order to give your children the love and care they need, you must first learn to give it to yourself.” – Genie Dawkins


    - “Our labor as mothers goes unnoticed and often unappreciated, yet it’s the very foundation that keeps our families running.” – Tanika Ray


    - “Discipline should teach, not punish. It’s about understanding our children, not controlling them.” – Tanika Ray


    Short Biography for Speakers:


    Genie Dawkins: Genie is a passionate advocate for conscious parenting and self-care. As a host of the Parenting Cipher podcast, she brings her personal experiences to light, helping other parents navigate the complexities of raising children while maintaining their own identity and well-being.


    Tanika Ray: An accomplished media personality and advocate for wellness and parenting, Tanika uses her platform to inspire mindful and self-aware parenting practices. She emphasizes the importance of individual expression and nurturing the unique attributes of each child, drawn from her transformative journey in conscious parenting.


    Tune in to this insightful episode that promises to offer guidance, solidarity, and practical advice for parents navigating the intricate balance of caring for oneself and one’s children. Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review for The Parenting Cipher!

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  • Are you wondering how to ease your special needs child's transition back to school and manage their anxieties effectively? In this episode, Genie Dawkins dives deep into preparing for the upcoming school year, providing essential strategies for parents of special needs children. She shares personal experiences, thoughtful advice, and practical tips to help make the transition as smooth as possible.


    Episode Summary:


    In this insightful episode of "The Parenting Cipher," host Genie Dawkins focuses on preparing special needs children for a successful start to the school year. Genie emphasizes the importance of early preparation, managing anxieties, and encouraging independence. She shares her personal journey with her son's struggles, offering actionable strategies like creating visual schedules, adjusting bedtime routines, and arranging school visits. Genie also discusses the significance of validating children's emotions, preparing role-playing scenarios, and connecting with teachers and school staff to establish a robust support network. Listeners will gain valuable insights and practical tips to make the back-to-school transition as seamless as possible for their special needs children.


    Key Takeaways:

    - Early Preparation: Start preparing early to manage anxiety effectively.

    - Visual Schedules: Create visual schedules to help children understand their daily routines.

    - Gradual Transitions: Make gradual changes to routines to ease children into the school schedule.

    - Holistic Sleep Solutions: Tackle sleep issues with holistic methods rather than sleep aids.

    - Role-Playing Scenarios: Use role-playing to build confidence and prepare for school routines.

    - School Visits: Arrange pre-school visits during quieter times to familiarize children with their environment and teachers.

    - Back-to-School Kits: Utilize transition kits containing visual schedules, social stories, and sensory items.

    - Parental Advocacy: Connect with special education coordinators and engage in parenting groups.

    - Empowering Independence: Encourage small responsibilities to build independence in children.


    Links and Resources:

    - Visual Schedule Printables

    - Back-to-School Transition Tips

    - Parenting Groups for Special Needs

    - Holistic Sleep Solutions for Kids


    Quotes:

    - "Start preparing early to set your child up for success and manage those back-to-school anxieties." - Genie Dawkins

    - "Validating your child's emotions and communicating positively can significantly alleviate their fears and build their confidence." - Genie Dawkins

    - "Building a strong support network with teachers and school staff is crucial in ensuring that your child's needs are met." - Genie Dawkins


    Speaker Biography:

    Genie Dawkins: Genie Dawkins is a dedicated parent and the host of "The Parenting Cipher" podcast. As a parent of a special needs child, Genie is passionate about providing support, resources, and expert insights to other parents facing similar challenges. Her personal experiences with her son's anxiety, bullying, and sleep issues motivate her to share practical strategies that empower parents to advocate for their children's education and well-being.

    We hope you find this episode of "The Parenting Cipher" both informative and encouraging. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review to join our supportive community!

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  • Wondering How to Maintain a Summer Routine While Keeping Your Sanity? 


    In this episode of The Parenting Cipher, Genie Dawkins shares valuable insights on curating a balanced and engaging summer schedule for kids, without compromising parents' well-being. From managing sleep disruptions to keeping children entertained with minimal screen time, Genie provides practical tips that can transform your summer experience.


    Episode Summary:

    Join Genie Dawkins in this insightful episode as she delves into strategies for creating effective summer routines for children, especially those with special needs. Genie emphasizes the importance of self-care for parents, planning intentional breaks, and involving children in daily activities. She answers listener questions about balancing routines, addressing behavior challenges, and engaging children without screens. Genie rounds off by offering supportive resources through the Parenting Cipher platform and reminding parents that striving for the best is more important than seeking perfection.


    Key Takeaways:

    - Importance of taking breaks and delegating responsibilities

    - Tips for maintaining consistent schedules, including bedtimes and snack times

    - Utilizing digital tools like Google Maps to plan personal breaks

    - Addressing challenges like sleep disruptions, behavior management, and sensory overload

    - Use of visual tools like planners or whiteboards to keep track of schedules

    - Engaging children in planning and setting goals

    - Ideas for fun and educational outdoor activities and reading routines

    - Self-care strategies such as networking and trying new activities


    Links and Resources:

    The Parenting CipherGoogle Maps for Finding Local Cafes/Bookstores(https://www.google.com/maps)AudibleReading Resources for Kids Library Summer Reading ProgramsHobby Town and Hobby Lobby Meal Services for Busy ParentsJoyful Family PlannerKids Summer Planner

    Quotes:

    - "Striving to do the best rather than seeking perfection is key to a happy, balanced summer." - Genie Dawkins

    - "Planning intentional breaks is crucial. Use Google Maps to find a nearby café or bookstore and recharge." - Genie Dawkins

    - "Involving children in planning goals and routines makes them feel valued and engaged." - Genie Dawkins


    Short Biography for Speaker:

    Genie Dawkins is the compassionate and insightful host of The Parenting Cipher. As a dedicated parent and advocate, Genie offers practical advice and resources to help families navigate the complexities of parenting special needs children. With her relatable anecdotes and professional tips, Genie empowers parents to create harmonious, structured, and engaging environments for their children.


    Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a 5-star review, and check out the show notes for additional resources. You can also share your tips and questions on our website or social media. Remember, every small step you take can lead to a fulfilling and memorable summer for you and your family.

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  • Are you worried about your teen's online safety and how much control they should have over their technology?

    In this episode, Genie Dawkins talks about the emotional and practical journey of giving her son, Zavier, more control over his technology as he turns 13. From setting up recovery options to dealing with location settings, Genie shares her reflections on the responsibilities that come with turning 13. This episode highlights the importance of open conversations between parents and children about technology use, offering insights from previous expert interviews and personal experiences.


    Key Takeaways:

    - The significance of turning 13 and the responsibilities that come with it.

    - Steps for setting up technology settings safely with your teenager.

    - The importance of parental involvement in conversations about technology and responsibility.

    - Lessons from experts Jody Aman, Simone Alicia, and Elizabeth on guiding teenagers in managing online safety.

    - Impact on a teenager's sense of agency, self-esteem, and responsibility.

    - Strategies for ensuring clear expectations and boundaries regarding technology use.


    Timestamps:

    03:58 Google account supervision for kids over 13

    09:42 "Why not empower him with tech?"

    10:51 Giving children agency reduces anxiety and rebellion.

    15:57 Reflecting on conversations, empowering son's growing independence.

    18:06 YouTube ads and parental controls for kids.


    Links and Resources:

    "Black Gold" by Flying Lotus: From the Yasuke soundtrack, symbolizing Zavier’s journey into a new identity as he turns 13.Google Safety Center [Google SafetNational Online Safety: (https://nationalonlinesafety.com/)Family Online Safety Institute: (https://www.fosi.org/Google Family Link: https://families.google/familylink/Jodi Aman : https://jodiaman.com/Elizabeth Milovidov: https://www.digitalparentingcoach.com/Dr. Simone Alicia: https://www.theselfesteemdoctor.com/

    Quotes:

    1. "Turning 13 is a milestone, not just for our children, but for us as parents as we balance their newfound independence with ensuring they are safe." – Genie Dawkins

    2. "Conversations about technology use and boundaries are essential. It's about building trust and setting clear expectations." – Genie Dawkins

    3. "Empowering our teenagers with responsibilities can boost their self-esteem and sense of agency, but we have to guide them in managing those responsibilities." – Genie Dawkins


    Speaker Biographies:

    Genie Dawkins

    Genie Dawkins is a dedicated and passionate advocate for parents navigating the challenges of raising children in a tech-savvy world. As the host of "The Parenting Cipher," she shares her experiences and insights into effective parenting strategies, often inspired by her journey with her own children. Genie’s candid reflections and thoughtful conversations help listeners understand and tackle the complexities of modern parenting.


    Join us in this episode as we delve into the journey of empowering our teenagers with the right technological tools while ensuring their safety and growth. Tune in to "The Parenting Cipher" and be part of the conversation!

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  • Are you wondering how to boost your child's self-esteem and why it's so essential for their emotional and educational resilience? In this enlightening episode of The Parenting Cipher, Genie Dawkins is joined by Dr. Simone Alicia, renowned self-esteem coach and founder of a self-esteem academy. They delve into practical strategies for enhancing self-esteem at home and discuss the significant role it plays in a child's development and well-being.


    Key Takeaways:

    - Importance of modeling positive self-talk and behavior to reinforce good self-esteem in children.

    - Role of social-emotional learning in children's development and how parents can integrate practices into their daily routines.

    - Dr. Simone Alicia’s insights into using affirmation and gratitude games to engage and teach children about their self-worth.

    - The impact of self-esteem on children's critical thinking skills and confidence.

    - The importance of understanding and adapting to different learning styles to support children with special educational needs.


    Timestamps:


    1:49 Negative thoughts have a chemical impact.

    18:37 Prepare for ongoing education and self-improvement.

    25:05 Confidence and self esteem are interconnected forces.

    26:56 Build genuine self-esteem, confidence, self-assurance. Follow inner guidance.

    35:52 Story emphasizes importance of self-assuredness and calm.

    41:28 Studied neuro linguistic programming for behavioral change.

    43:12 Nurturing self-awareness and positivity in youth.

    53:16 Seeking solutions when feeling overwhelmed with responsibilities.

    58:26 Empower yourself through academy for teaching advantage.

    01:07:00 Incorporate activities into your daily routine for balance.


    Link and Resources:

    - Dr. Simone Alicia's Self-Esteem Academy: https://www.theselfesteemdoctoracademy.com/

    - The Self-Esteem Doctor: https://www.theselfesteemdoctor.com/


    Quotes:


    - "Self-esteem is more than feeling good about oneself; it is about having the resilience to tackle challenges and the confidence to explore new opportunities." — Dr. Simone Alicia

    - "Every interaction with your child is an opportunity to build their self-esteem." — Genie Dawkins


    About the Speakers:


    - Genie Dawkins is a passionate advocate for children's education and parenting strategies. She hosts "The Parenting Cipher" to provide parents with resources and insights for handling various parenting challenges. Genie combines her personal experiences with expert advice to foster a supportive community for parents navigating the educational system.


    - Dr. Simone Alicia is a self-esteem coach and the enthusiastic founder of a self-esteem academy designed to empower children and parents. With a background in educational psychology and a heartfelt dedication to fostering healthy self-esteem, Dr. Alicia’s approach involves engaging, tailor-made content and practical strategies for everyday parenting. Connect with Dr.Simone on IG @drsimonealicia


    Tune in to this episode for an invaluable conversation that could change the way you support your child’s growth and self-esteem. Whether at home, school, or in the community, learn how to be the role model your child needs for developing genuine confidence and self-worth.

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  • Have you ever wondered how lack of assistive technology in schools can affect your child's education, especially if they have been diagnosed with neurological behavioral conditions like dyslexia or ADHD? In this enlightening episode, Genie Dawkins dives into the critical role of assistive technology in aiding students' learning processes and advocates steps to ensure these resources are accessible in public schools, particularly those in inner-city areas.


    In This Episode:


    Genie Dawkins shares her personal struggle with securing assistive technology for her son and uses her experience to offer insight and advice for other parents in similar positions. She discusses the disparity between the resources available in underfunded public schools versus private schools and stresses the importance of parents' advocacy to bridge this gap.


    Key Takeaways:


    - Understanding the spectrum of assistive technologies and their significance in supporting students with disabilities.

    - Navigating the challenges presented by the underfunding of assistive technology in public schools.

    - Practical steps to advocate for assistive technology, including knowing your legal rights and collaborating with educators.

    - The benefits of assistive technology in not only aiding academic success but also boosting student confidence and independence.


    Links and Resources:

    IDEA Act National Center on Accessible Educational MaterialsCenter for Parent Information and ResourcesWrights LawUnderstanding Assistive Technology for Your Child's Academic Success

    Time Stamps:

    07:38 Adapting assistive technology to support students in need.

    10:08 Underfunded schools impact children's education and support.

    14:10 Assistive technology helps students focus on comprehension.

    17:08 Schools may lack awareness and resources for assistive technology.

    20:15 Special education consultant advocates for technology access.

    22:15 Closing the gap for neurodiverse kids is essential.

    28:05 Instructions sent for child's independent learning.

    29:28 Use speech-to-text to ensure accountability in schools.


    Quotes:

    "Assistive technology is not just a tool; it's a bridge to unlocking our children's potential." - Genie Dawkins

    "Every child deserves the right tools to succeed, and sometimes, it's up to us as parents to build that toolkit." - Genie Dawkins


    Speaker Biography:

    Genie Dawkins is a devoted mother and dynamic advocate for children's education rights, especially those with special educational needs. With her insightful podcast, The Parenting Cipher, Genie empowers parents with knowledge and strategies to support their children's educational journey and advocate for necessary resources, including assistive technology.


    Tune into this episode for a deep dive into how assistive technologies can revolutionize learning for students with special needs and how you can play a pivotal role in that transformative process.

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  • Are you finding it hard to stay calm and present during the hectic everyday life of parenting? In this episode of The Parenting Cipher, Josephine Atluri sheds light on how mindfulness can transform your parenting journey. Sit back and join hosts Genie Dawkins and Josephine Atluri as they dive deep into embracing mindfulness amidst the chaos of raising kids.


    Episode Summary:


    Josephine Atluri, a mom to seven children through international adoption, IVF, and surrogacy, shares how her challenging journey led her to embrace mindfulness and meditation. Both Genie and Josephine explore their initial skepticism towards these practices and discuss various accessible strategies for incorporating mindfulness into daily routines. This episode debunks common myths, highlights the simplicity of mindfulness practices, and provides actionable advice for integrating mindfulness moments throughout your day to foster a more grounded and calm parenting approach.


    Key Takeaways:


    - Mindfulness can be practiced in simple, scalable ways starting with even just one minute a day.

    - It is natural for the mind to wander during mindfulness practices; the key is returning focus without judgment.

    - Incorporating mindfulness into daily activities can greatly aid in handling stress and enhancing clarity and presence within family interactions.

    - There are diverse ways to practice mindfulness, ensuring that there is something for everyone—there is no "one right way."

    - Even moments of supposed failure, like falling asleep during meditation, are part of the journey toward more mindful living.


    Links and Resources:


    - 5 Minute Mindfulness for Parents - Check out Josephine Atluri’s book to explore easy and quick mindfulness exercises.

    - Mindful.org - A useful resource for beginners and seasoned practitioners looking for tools to deepen their practice.

    - Headspace - An app offering guided meditation sessions and mindfulness training.


    Quotes:


    - "Mindfulness is not about getting it right; it's about being aware of the present and learning from it," - Josephine Atluri.

    - "The beauty of mindfulness is in its flexibility; it bends to fit into our lives uniquely," - Genie Dawkins.


    About the Speakers:


    Josephine Atluri is an expert in meditation and mindfulness training, specialized in helping individuals overcome adversity through mindfulness. She is the author of "5 Minute Mindfulness for Pregnancy" and a mom of seven, whose journey through adoption, IVF, and surrogacy has deeply influenced her practices and teachings. You can listen to Josephine's Podcast Responding to Life on Apple and follow her on IG @josephineratluri


    Genie Dawkins, co-host at The Parenting Cipher, is a passionate advocate for children’s rights and a vocal proponent for parental involvement in education and personal development. Through her work, she aims to empower parents with the tools needed to advocate effectively for their children. 

    Delve into this insightful discussion on "Embracing Mindfulness in Parenting" and discover how small, mindful moments can lead to significant changes in your parenting and personal well-being.

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  • Are you feeling overwhelmed about understanding how assistive technology can support your child’s learning? In this episode of The Parenting Cipher, Genie Dawkins clarifies the often misunderstood world of assistive technology, sharing her own experiences and insights to shed light on how this resource can be tapped to unlock your child's full academic potential.

    In This Episode:

    - Genie delves into what assistive technology is and how it can level the playing field for children with disabilities.

    - Discover the range of assistive technology, from low-tech solutions like pencil grips to high-tech software for speech-to-text functionality.

    - Learn the significance of ensuring your child not only receives these technologies but is also adept at using them.

    - Understand the institutional hesitancy around acknowledging and providing assistive technology, and prepare for the forthcoming discussion on challenging schools to check the assistive technology box on IEPs.

    Key Takeaways:

    - The Definition: Assistive technology includes any item, equipment, or system that enhances the functional capabilities of children with disabilities.

    - Importance of Early Implementation: Assistive technology can be introduced as early as pre-K or kindergarten to support a child's educational journey.

    - Low to High-Tech: Ranging from pencil grips and planners to sophisticated computer programs, assistive tech is varied and adaptable to each child’s needs.

    - Empowering Learning: The proper use of assistive technology, coupled with quality instruction, can significantly impact a student’s independence and academic achievement.

    - Next Steps: Genie will continue the conversation on assistive technology, discussing how parents can advocate for its inclusion in their child’s education plan and hold schools accountable for their child’s success.

    Links and Resources:

    - Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA)

    - Learning Ally

    - Sora Reading App

    - Read and Write

    - Article: [Benefits of Assistive Technology in Special Education](#)


    Stay tuned for part two of our conversation on assistive technology in a future episode of The Parenting Cipher, where Genie will dive deeper into advocating for your child's needs in the realm of educational technology. 

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  • In This Episode Summary:


    In an enlightening conversation, Kiva Schuler and Genie Dawkins delve deep into the tenets of peaceful parenting, reflecting on the pivotal role of trust, the detrimental impacts of shame, and the power of patience and empathy in the parent-child dynamic. They share personal stories, one being Genie's heartening tale of her son with autism and anxiety, and discuss how recognizing a child's emotions and fostering self-advocacy shapes a healthier family relationship. From challenging the status quo to mindful discipline, this episode is a thought-provoking dialogue on breaking generational cycles and embracing the authenticity of parenting.


    Key Takeaways:

    1. Building Trust: Creating a safe environment where children feel comfortable coming to adults with their problems.

    2. Avoiding Shame and Punishment: Recognizing that punitive measures can erode trust and lead to children hiding their issues.

    3. Empathy and Understanding: The importance of listening to children's worries and validating their emotions without downplaying them.

    4. Self-Patience and Growth: Encouraging parents to be patient with themselves and their children, acknowledging the journey of personal growth for both.

    5. Cultural Consideration in Parenting Advice: Kiva Schuler's introspection on the authoritative voice in the parenting space.

    6. Promotion of Children's Autonomy: Celebrating milestones that recognize growing independence in children.

    7. Embracing Failure and Learning: Allowing children to face the natural consequences of their decisions as a fundamental learning process.

    8. Legacy and Healing: Overcoming ancestral traumas and acknowledging inherited parenting styles that may be limiting.

    9. Role of the Inner Child in Parenthood:*Understanding and healing one's own childhood experiences to better serve as a parent.

    10. Peaceful Parenting Defined: Understanding peaceful parenting as non-permissive, non-punitive, and rooted in connection and guidance.


    Links and Resources:

    - Giant Institute Parent Coaching http://jaiinstitute.forparenting.com/

    - The Peaceful Parenting Revolution, by Kiva Schuler https://www.amazon.com/The-Peaceful-Parenting-Revolution/


    Powerful Quotes:

    - "It's critical that we build an environment where our children run to us, not away from us when trouble arises." — Kiva Schuler

    - "We must learn to sit with the discomfort of our children's failures, as it is through them that they will learn the most." — Genie Dawkins

    - "Parenting is not about perfecting our children, it's about guiding them through the unique journey of becoming who they are meant to be." — Kiva Schuler

    - "In parenting, we not only raise our children but also the child within us." — Genie Dawkins

    - "Peaceful parenting is about leading with empathy, compassion, and the understanding that teaching trumps any form of coercion." — Kiva Schuler


    Guest:


    Kiva Schuler is a devoted advocate for children's rights and a maven of growth through mindful parenting. Nestled in the heart of Kiva's philosophy is the conviction that to foster capable, wise, and independent children, adults must first embark on their own journeys of maturity and self-improvement. For Kiva, parenting transcends the traditional boundaries of rearing young ones; it becomes a transformative process where adults and children evolve together.

    Connect: IG Kiva_schuler Website:https://www.jaiinstituteforparenting.com/

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  • In This Episode:


    In today's enlightening episode of The Parenting Cipher, our passionate host, Genie Dawkins, dives deep into the world of autism acceptance. As a parent of children with autism spectrum disorder (ASD), Genie draws from her personal journey to demystify autism, emphasizing the value of early intervention and specialized therapies in fostering development and confidence in children with unique needs. She candidly shares the challenges and triumphs of addressing speech issues and sensory sensitivities, advocating for supportive environments that celebrate neurodiversity.


    Key Takeaways:


    1. Early intervention is key for addressing developmental issues before bones harden, impacting overall growth.

    2. Specialized therapies such as speech therapy, play therapy, and integrative listening systems can significantly support children with mental and behavioral challenges.

    3. Tailoring educational programs aids children with exceptional needs in discovering and honing their strengths.

    4. Community connections offer valuable guidance for families navigating the complexities of treatment and therapy options.

    5. Environmental adjustments, like sensory-friendly settings, encourage inclusion and participation for individuals with sensory sensitivities.

    6. Social communication styles vary—promoting understanding and mindfulness facilitates better interaction and supports for those on the autism spectrum.

    7. Spreading accurate information and fostering understanding within communities, especially the black community, is vital.

    8. Recognizing and appreciating neurodiversity as well as the unique strengths of individuals with ASD can transform perspectives and support systems.


    Links and Resources:

    Early Intervention Programs https://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/actearly/index.htmlHow Important Is Speech Therapy In Your Child's World TPC Episode 206Sensory-Friendly Activities and Locations https://www.sensoryfriendly.net/Integrative Listening Systems https://integratedlistening.com/Play Therapy Resources https://www.a4pt.org/Autism Support Networks](https://www.autismspeaks.org/resource-guide)Understanding Neurodiversity https://neurodiversity2.blogspot.com/

    Quotes:


    - "Every child's journey on the autism spectrum is their own unique story, deserving of a tailor-made narrative of love, support, and acceptance." - Genie Dawkins

    - "Don't let anyone else's words define what your child is capable of. You know their limitless potential better than anyone." - Genie Dawkins

    - "In a world full of expectations, let us be the voice of compassion, understanding, and inclusion for all." - Genie Dawkins


    Remember that these shownotes provide a gateway to the deeper discussions and insightful experiences Genie Dawkins brings during the episode. For even more resources and engaging conversations, make sure to tune in to 'The Parenting Cipher' podcast.

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  • In today's episode Genie Dawkins delves into the importance of introducing your child to their new teacher. With the school year in full swing, Genie shares her own routine for creating a strong foundation between parents, teachers, and students. She emphasizes the need for a parent's letter of introduction, outlining key aspects such as a child's strengths, interests, challenges, and support requirements. Genie also explores the significance of setting expectations for the upcoming year and advocating for equitable education for children in special education, especially children of color. Stay tuned as Genie provides a template for crafting your own parent's letter of introduction, empowering both parents and children to have a voice in their.


    Insight from this episode:

    Writing a letter of introduction for your child is a helpful tool in conveying their strengths, interests, challenges, and the support they need. It also allows you to share your hopes and aspirations for the upcoming school year.Mentioning specific triggers, such as test anxiety or sensitivity to noise, and suggesting support strategies can help teachers understand and better support your child.Collaboration and communication with the school team, especially during the IEP process, is crucial in advocating for your child's needs and ensuring their progress.Addressing the systemic and educational inequities faced by children, particularly children of color, is important. By setting high expectations and providing the necessary support, parents can help their child succeed despite these challenges.

    Quotes from the show:

    "When crafting the parent's letter of introduction, include your child's interests, triggers/challenges, support needed, hobbies/activities outside of school, and your hopes/aspirations for the upcoming year. Setting expectations and advocating for your child is vital, especially for children in special education." - Genie Dawkins"Creating a letter with your child gives them a voice and helps them get used to introducing themselves. It promotes self-advocacy and collaboration between the child, the teacher, and the IEP team." -Genie Dawkins

    Resources Mentioned

    Parent-Teacher Collaboration for Child Success Kit


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  • On this episode of The Parenting Cipher, join our host Genie Dawkins as she delves into the exciting topic of summer adventures. In this episode, Genie shares her love for connecting with people and imparting valuable information.


    Get ready to pack your bags, because Genie is taking her family on a thrilling trip to Disney this summer! But this episode isn't just about the fun and excitement; it's about ensuring that all families, including those with disabilities, can have an unforgettable experience at amusement parks.


    Genie takes a deep dive into the accessibility options available for families with disabilities at amusement parks, with a special focus on Disney and Universal parks. She explains in detail the disability access service, fast pass/express pass, ride reservation systems, and rider switch pass. Genie also highlights the benefits of early entry and late hours for guests staying on-site, ensuring that families can optimize their time and enjoy the attractions to the fullest.


    But that's not all – Genie stresses the importance of park maps and apps, especially for families with physical disabilities who may need to plan their routes accordingly. By utilizing these resources, families can navigate the parks more efficiently, making the most of their visit.


    Tune in to this episode of The Parenting Cipher for an insightful and practical guide to summer adventures at amusement parks. Join Genie Dawkins as she tackles the topic of accessibility with compassion and enthusiasm, ensuring that all families can create lasting memories this summer."


    Genie Dawkins

    Host of The Parenting Cipher, Genie Dawkins is a single mother of four and has over 25 years of being a parent advocate of special needs children. In addition to obtaining her Certification in Integrative Health Coaching, Lateefa holds an M.S. in Non-Profit Management and a B.S. in Social Sciences. Genie is the best-selling author of two books “Not My Child: Navigating Your Child’s Learning Difficulties with IEP’s and Education Resources” and a recent release “The Joyful Family Planner”. As an educational advocacy specialist, her mission is to help parents achieve a balanced life and overcome inevitable challenges both at school and home in a way that empowers parents and children.


    Insights from this episode

    How to plan a stress-free amusement park vacation                Available accessibility options for special needs familiesPlanning routes for families with physical disabilities

    Resources and Links

    Disney Disability Access System

    Universal Studios Accessibility System


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  • In this special episode of The Parenting Cipher, Tiffany Hamilton from Victor Wear shares her experiences and insights as a mother raising a son with Autism and preparing him for the workforce. Join us during Autism Awareness Month to learn about the challenges faced by differently abled children, as well as practical tips and strategies for preparing them for the workplace. Don't miss this opportunity to gain valuable knowledge and support for your own parenting journey.


    About our guest:

    Tiffany Hamilton has nearly 20 years of experience working as a marketer for some of the world's biggest brands. And now, she has decided to create a brand of her own - Victor Wear - an inspirational casual wear brand that celebrates victors and amplifies their stories of resilience. Victor Wear's mission is to inspire triumph over obstacles and empower underserved communities to be victorious. . Their ultimate goal is to grow the brand to become a major employer of people with disabilities.


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    Instagram: @victorwearco

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  • In the latest episode of The Parenting Cipher, explore valuable tools and knowledge to enhance your parenting journey. Gain insights on resources that can support your child's growth and well-being. Discover strategies for navigating discipline, advocating for children with learning disabilities, and managing stress. Education is highlighted as a key factor for personal development and success. Don't miss out on this informative episode! Tune in now to improve your parenting skills.


    Genie Dawkins

    Host of The Parenting Cipher, Genie Dawkins is a single mother of four and has over 25 years of being a parent advocate of special needs children. In addition to obtaining her Certification in Integrative Health Coaching, Lateefa holds an M.S. in Nonprofit Management and a B.S. in Social Sciences. Genie is the best-selling author of two books “Not My Child: Navigating Your Child’s Learning Difficulties with IEP’s and Education Resources” and a recent release “The Joyful Family Planner”. As a Special Education & Family Lifestyle consultant, her mission is to help parents achieve a balanced life and overcome inevitable challenges both at school and home in a way that empowers parents and children.


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  • In this episode of The Parenting Cipher, Genie delved into navigating the holiday season with a child who has different diagnoses that may cause social, auditory or sensory challenges. Genie talks about her own experience of dealing with relatives who don't understand her children's challenges and how she handles expectations of well-behaved children. Genie emphasizes the importance of having conversations with immediate family members and explains how they can help. Genie also shares a personal story of her child's struggle with pivoting plans and social interactions during a visit to his grandmother. Tune in to learn valuable tips for navigating family and friends during the holiday season, especially coming out of COVID, and supporting children with different diagnoses.


    Genie Dawkins

    Host of The Parenting Cipher, Genie Dawkins is a single mother of four and has over 25 years of being a parent advocate of special needs children. In addition to obtaining her Certification in Integrative Health Coaching, Lateefa holds an M.S. in Nonprofit Management and a B.S. in Social Sciences. Genie is the best-selling author of two books “Not My Child: Navigating Your Child’s Learning Difficulties with IEP’s and Education Resources” and a recent release “The Joyful Family Planner”. As a Special Education & Family Lifestyle consultant, her mission is to help parents achieve a balanced life and overcome inevitable challenges both at school and home in a way that empowers parents and children.


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