Episodes
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Episode #6 Show Notes
Hosts: Jinda Reinig and Kimberly Willess
Special Guest: Warren Lamb
Summary
In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Jinda, Kimmy, and Warren Lamb delve into the complexities of marriage from a biblical historically Christian perspective. They explore the concept of marriage as a stewardship rather than a possession, emphasizing the importance of self-reflection for both singles and couples. The discussion highlights the dynamics of sanctification in marriage, the impact of expectations, and the necessity of effective communication. Listeners are encouraged to seek God's guidance in their relationships and to approach marriage with a heart of service and love.
Takeaways
Marriage is a stewardship, not a possession.Unsurrendered expectations can lead to disappointment and resentment.Self-reflection is crucial for both singles and couples.Sanctification occurs through the challenges of marriage.Communication ought to be gentle and understanding.God must be at the center of every marriage.The heart motive behind marriage decisions matters.Couples ought to focus on one-anothering each other biblically.It's important to change our language about expectations.Finding God as an ally can help navigate marital challenges.Relevant Links
Intimate Allies: Rediscovering God's Design for Marriage and Becoming Soul Mates for LifeTruth in Love Biblical CounselingUnbound: Growing Ever-Freer in ChristWarrenism of the Week: "Marriage is a sacred trust from God that we are in, not something we have."
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Episode #5 Show Notes
Host: Kimberly Willess and Dr. warren Lamb
Guest: Dave Peterson
Summary
In this conversation, Dave Peterson shares his unique journey from a non-believer in the Navy to becoming a Navy chaplain and then Operations Director for the Biblical Counseling Coalition. He discusses the essence of biblical soul-care, the role of a chaplain, and the challenges faced in the field of biblical counseling today. Dave emphasizes the importance of community and collaboration among counselors and highlights emerging trends in biblical soul-care that focus on holistic approaches to mental and spiritual health.
Takeaways
Dave Peterson's journey into biblical counseling began after his conversion in the Navy.Biblical counseling is rooted in a biblical worldview and aims to provide hope and healing.The essence of soul-care includes confronting sin and encouraging the weak.Community is vital for counselors to share burdens and find support.There is a growing tension in defining biblical counseling within the biblical counseling community.Emerging trends in counseling focus on holistic approaches that integrate physical and spiritual health.The church is beginning to acknowledge past shortcomings in addressing issues like domestic violence.Collaboration among different counseling organizations is essential for growth and understanding.Additional Resources
Contact Dave Peterson [email protected],Coastal Church (https://www.gocoastal.org/)Biblical Counseling Coalition (https://biblicalcc.org)Truth in Love Biblical Counseling (https://tilbcc.com)Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb – pastorlamb.com) -
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Episode #4 Show Notes
Host: Jinda Reinig, Dr. Warren Lamb
Guest: Pastor Iljin Cho
Summary
In this conversation, Pastor Iljin Cho discusses the importance of hermeneutics in biblical counseling and soul-care. He shares his journey from traditional psychological counseling to a reliance on Scripture, emphasizing the sufficiency and clarity of the Bible in addressing mental health issues. The discussion highlights the challenges contemporary churches face in applying biblical principles effectively and the need to properly interpret Scripture to avoid poor hermeneutics that can lead to misunderstanding and spiritual harm. The role of the Holy Spirit in guiding understanding and application of Scripture is also emphasized, along with the importance of equipping church members for effective soul-care.
Takeaways
Proper hermeneutics is essential for understanding Scripture correctly.The sufficiency of Scripture is often questioned in modern counseling.Clarity of Scripture allows everyone to understand God's Word.Poor hermeneutics often leads to spiritual and emotional issues.The Holy Spirit aids in interpreting and applying Scripture.Understanding context is crucial for proper interpretation.Churches need to reclaim the role of Scripture in counseling.Training in hermeneutics boosts confidence in interpreting and applying Scripture.Pastors must be equipped to address mental health issues biblically.Additional Resources
Faith Bible Church Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ Words Matter: Refining the Conversation -
Episode #3 Show Notes
Hosts: Jinda Reinig and Kimberly Willess
Special Guest: Warren Lamb
Summary
In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Kimberly, Jinda, and Warren discuss the Whole-Person Ministry approach to biblical counseling, emphasizing a focus on the combination of physical, emotional, and spiritual health. They explore how foundational beliefs impact counseling practices, the importance of nutrition and gut health, and the need for counselors to consider the whole person in their approach. The conversation highlights the significance of rest, the theology of food, and the role of lifestyle choices in mental, emotional, and spiritual health, ultimately advocating for a holistic view of well-being in counseling.
Takeaways
Key takeaways from the discussion include:
The Whole-Person Ministry approach blends theology, philosophy, and practical anthropology.Understanding human identity and purpose is crucial for healing.Physical health significantly impacts emotional and spiritual well-being.Counselors need to consider diet, rest, and activity in their practice.Gut health is foundational to overall health.A biblical “theology of food” connects spiritual and physical nourishment.Rest is a command, not a suggestion, in Scripture.Counseling ought to address the whole person, not just parts.Healthy habits need to be instilled from a young age.Awareness of nutritional needs can lead to better health outcomes, including counseling outcomes.Relevant Links
Truth in Love Biblical CounselingWhole-Person Ministry TrainingUnbound: Growing Ever-Freer in ChristWarrenism of the Week: "Being content in our circumstances is not the same as being content with our circumstances. The first is driven by our trust in God. The latter is driven by our focus on our own desires."
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Episode #2 Show Notes
Hosts: Jinda Reinig and Dr. Warren Lamb
Special Guest: Denise Shick
Summary
In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Denise Shick shares her personal journey and the founding of Help4Families Ministry, which supports families impacted by transgenderism. Denise discusses the profound effects of her father's transition on her childhood and the spiritual warfare surrounding gender identity issues. She highlights the importance of community support, faith-based counseling, and the misconceptions surrounding gender identity. Denise also emphasizes the need for churches to educate themselves on these matters and offers advice for faith leaders. The conversation concludes with Denise's insights on writing children's books to address gender issues from a biblical perspective and her future endeavors.
Takeaways
Key takeaways from the discussion include:
Denise's journey began with her father's desire to transition.The impact of a parent's transition can be profound on children.Help4Families Ministry was founded out of the needs of families seeking God’s help with transgender issues.There has been a significant increase in young girls transitioning in recent years.Spiritual warfare plays a crucial role in gender identity conflicts.Community support is essential for healing and recovery.Misconceptions about gender identity can lead to harmful decisions for the struggler.Faith leaders need to approach these issues with compassion and understanding.Denise emphasizes the importance of trusting God in difficult times.Writing children's books helps address gender issues with children from a biblical perspective.Bibliography: Adults
Moving Forward in Community: A Bible Study Companion for Moving Forward in Hope: A Devotional for Families of LGBTQ+ Loved Ones
(Independently Published, August 2023)
It is Well with My Soul: Finding God's Peace in the Transgender Storm (Workbook)
(Denise Shick, January 2022)
Moving Forward in Hope: A Devotional for Families of LGBTQ Loved Ones
(Denise Shick, September 2021)
Your True Identity: How Freedom in Christ Brings Healing, Hope, and Wholeness (Denise Shick, April 2021)
Transgender Confusion: A Biblical Based Q& A For Families
(Independently Published, March 2016)
Dangerous Affirmations: “Should I Have Been Daddy’s Little Girl?”
(Kindle)
(Independently Published, February 2016)
My Daddy's Secret
(Independently Published, October 2015)
When Hope Seems Lost: How to Deal with Transgenderism in the Christian Community
(Independently Published, March 2015)
A Wife's Perspective: A resource for wives who are dealing with their husband’s marital unfaithfulness and sexual compulsions
(Independently Published, June 2014)
Bibliography: Children
I Want My Sister Back
(Denise Shick, April 2023)
AMAZING Amanda
(Independently Published, April 2022)
The Boy Who Liked Tea Parties
(Denise Shick, November 2021)
Do SUPERHEROES Play the Piano?
(Independently Published, November 2021)
What's Up with Cousin Stacy?
(Independently Published, October 2020)
I'm Glad God Made Me a Girl
(Independently Published, May 2020)
When Daddy Leaves to Be a Girl
(Independently Published, July 2018
Websites
Help4Families
Living Stones Ministries
Blog
Help4Families Blog
Podcast:
The Transcending Hope Podcast
Warrenism of the Week: “Jesus invites us to love Him in response to His love; He does not grab us by the front of the shirt and demand it of us.”
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Episode #1 Show Notes
Hosts: Jinda Reinig and Dr. Warren Lamb
Special Guest: Christine Chappell
Summary
In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, hosts Jinda Reinig and Warren Lamb welcome back Christine Chappell to discuss her new mini-book on postpartum depression. They explore the importance of sharing personal experiences, the challenges of motherhood, and the need for grace and understanding in the face of struggles. Christine emphasizes the significance of acknowledging both physical and spiritual aspects of mental health, the impact of societal expectations, and the necessity of lamenting and grieving. The conversation highlights the importance of community support and the hope found in God's Word during difficult seasons.
Takeaways
Key takeaways from the discussion include:
Christine's writing is deeply rooted in her personal experiences.Postpartum depression is a common struggle that needs to be normalized.Self-talk and societal expectations can heavily influence a mother's mental health.It's essential to recognize the interplay between physical and spiritual challenges.Living in the gray area of life is a reality that many face.Shoulding ourselves leads to toxic shame and unrealistic expectations.Accepting God's grace and mercy is crucial for healing.Lamenting and grieving are important aspects of processing pain.Community support is vital for mothers experiencing postpartum struggles.Bibliography:
Postpartum Depression: Hope for a Hard Season
(New Growth Press, August 2024)
Misericordia En La Oscuridad: Caminando Con Dios a Través de la Depresión En La
Maternidad
(P&R Publishing, 2024)
Midnight Mercies: Walking with God Through Depression in Motherhood
(P&R Publishing, 2023)
Help! I’ve Been Diagnosed with a Mental Disorder
(Shepherd Press, 2021)
Help! My Teen is Depressed
(Shepherd Press, 2020)
Clean Home, Messy Heart: Promises of Renewal, Hope, and
Change for Overwhelmed Moms
(WestBow Press, 2016)
Social Media:
facebook.com/cleanhomemessheart
twitter.com/chappellwrites
instagram.com/christinemchappell
Hope + Help Podcast:
christinemchappell.com/podcast
Navigating Depression On-Demand Video Workshops:
christinemchappell.com/workshops
Warrenism of the Week: “Stop shoulding yourself; shoulding equals shaming.”
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Summer Shorts #11 Show Notes
Host: Jinda Reinig
Guest: Pastor Iljin Cho
Summary
In this episode of the Soul Care Podcast, Pastor Iljin Cho discusses his experience with Truth in Love Biblical Counseling. He shares how his wife's positive transformation through biblical counseling drew him to explore it further. Pastor Cho highlights the hope and freedom that Truth in Love offers, emphasizing its trust in the sufficiency of Scripture. He also praises Warren, the founder of Truth in Love, for his mentorship and the positive impact he has had on his life. Overall, Pastor Cho emphasizes the importance of biblical counseling in the church and the need for discipleship.
Takeaways
Biblical counseling can bring healing and change, offering hope to those who have struggled with trauma and mental health issues.Truth in Love trusts in the sufficiency of Scripture and offers a different perspective from traditional counseling organizations.The belief in freedom in Christ and the power of the Holy Spirit to renew minds is a key aspect of Truth in Love's approach.Mentorship and guidance from experienced counselors like Warren can have a profound impact on personal growth and ministry.Biblical counseling challenges the belief that certain sin conditions or effects of sin are permanent, offering the possibility of change and healing.Warren, the founder of Truth in Love, provides mentorship and guidance that can lead to positive life transformations.Biblical counseling is essential for discipleship and the development of strong leaders in the church.Sound Bites
"Truth in Love reminds people that it's the role of the Holy Spirit who renews our minds.""Truth in Love believes that people can be healed. Their sinful desires can change. And they can be free."Additional Resources
Faith Bible Church (Sacramento, CA – fbcsacramento.org)Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Training Center (tilbcc.com)Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in ChristWords Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb – pastorlamb.com) -
Summer Shorts #10 Show Notes
Host: Kimberly Willess
Guest: Team Member Colleen Meyer
Summary: Ellen Castillo, a TILBCC Certified Biblical Counselor, shares her journey and experience with Truth in Love Biblical Counseling. She also discusses how she found her passion for counseling and the different seasons of life she has served in. Ellen highlights the benefits of being a part of Truth in Love, such as the support and unity of the team, the ability to accept as many cases as she chooses, and the opportunity to serve people from various locations. She also emphasizes the importance of being willing to serve outside the box and shares her personal ministry verse from 1 Peter 3:15. TakeawaysFind a counseling ministry that fits with your current season of life.Being part of a team provides support and unity in ministry.Online counseling is a valuable and effective way to serve others.Being willing to serve outside the box can lead to unexpected blessings.Stay connected to like-minded people, and be prepared to share the hope that is in you.Additional Resources
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Training Center (tilbcc.com)Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (TILBCC Discipling Curriculum)Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb – pastorlamb.com) -
Summer Shorts #9 Show Notes
Host: Kimberly Willess
Guest: Colleen Meyer
Summary
Colleen Meyer shares her experience with Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Center and how it has changed her life. She talks about her journey of faith, the impact of Truth in Love on her understanding of Scripture, and the tools she has gained to walk in the truth. Colleen emphasizes the commitment of the Truth in Love family to the truth of God's Word and the support and guidance she has received from them. She also expresses gratitude for the technology that allows her to be part of this community and learn from people around the world.
Takeaways
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Center has had a life-changing impact on Colleen Meyer.Through Truth in Love, Colleen has gained a deeper understanding of Scripture and a desire for more of the Word.The tools and resources provided by Truth in Love, such as Unbound, have helped Colleen in her walk with the Lord and in applying biblical truths to her life.Colleen appreciates the commitment of the Truth in Love family to the truth of God's Word and the support and guidance she has received from them.Technology has allowed Colleen to be part of the Truth in Love community and learn from people around the world.Sound Bites
"Here I am, almost two years now, still loving it and absolutely has changed my life."
"What I have really, I gained so much there, but learning to... saturate on the Scriptures."
"The people at Truth in Love have committed their lives to the truth of God's Word, no matter the cost."
Additional Resources
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Training Center (tilbcc.com)Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (TILBCC Discipling Curriculum)Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb – pastorlamb.com) -
Summer Shorts #8 Show Notes
Host: Kimberly Willess
Guest: Kesha Griffin
Summary
In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Kimberly interviews Kesha Griffin, a pastor's wife and sexual abuse survivor, who shares her experience with Truth in Love and how it has helped her in her healing journey. She was introduced to the organization through a Facebook group and was seeking biblical resources for sexual abuse survivors. Kesha found the training center and enrolled in the program, which has given her more confidence in the sufficiency of Scripture for healing and transformation.
She emphasizes the importance of addressing abuse and trauma within the Christian community and praises Truth in Love for their specialization in this area. Kesha encourages listeners to explore biblical counseling to be equipped to help others. She encourages listeners to explore biblical counseling and consider Truth in Love.
Takeaways
The Bible contains everything necessary for life and godliness, including healing from trauma and abuse.Truth in Love provides specialized training in abuse and trauma counseling, setting them apart from other organizations.The sufficiency of Scripture is confirmed through personal experience and the material learned in the program.Biblical counseling equips Christians to come alongside those in crisis and point them to the wonderful counselor.Sound Bites
"I am gaining more confidence in the sufficiency of Scripture."
"Truth in Love has a passion and a desire to actually help abuse survivors."
"I have never come across any other biblical counseling program that has a specialization in abuse and trauma."
"I've never heard of any other biblical counseling program that offers a scholarship for survivors to go through the certification program with all of the costs covered."
Additional Resources
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Training Center (tilbcc.com)Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (TILBCC Discipling Curriculum)Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb – pastorlamb.com) -
Summer Shorts #7 Show Notes
Host: Jinda Reinig
Guest: Team Member Pastor Paul Hoeks
Summary
In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Jinda interviews Pastor Paul Hoeks, a Biblical counselor and program mentor at Truth in Love Biblical Counseling.
Paul shares his journey of how he was drawn to Truth in Love and the benefits he has experienced from being a part of the organization. He emphasizes that Truth in Love is different from other counseling ministries and training programs because it is accessible to the average person and focuses on the sufficiency of Scripture for counseling.
Paul also highlights the transformative power of biblical counseling and the importance of addressing the true problems of the heart and soul.
Takeaways
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling is accessible to the average person and focuses on the sufficiency of Scripture for counseling.Biblical counseling addresses the true problems of the heart and soul, leading to permanent transformation and freedom.The program at Truth in Love provides comprehensive and extensive training, with flexible online options.Biblical counseling is a ministry that requires a love for the Lord, compassion, and training in using the Scriptures as the primary resource.Sound Bites
"The Scriptures are sufficient for counseling.""This is permanent transformation that God has for us.""Biblical counseling is helping people become what God intended them to become."Additional Resources
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Training Center (tilbcc.com)Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (TILBCC Discipling Curriculum)Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb – pastorlamb.com)) -
Summer Shorts #5 Show Notes
Host: Kimberly Willess
Guests: Don & Jennifer Cooper
Summary
Don and Jennifer Cooper, a couple from Vancouver, Washington, share their experience with Truth in Love and how it has benefited them personally and professionally. They discuss their background in pro-life ministry and homeschooling, and how they found Truth in Love in the midst of leaving their church.
They highlight the emphasis on Scripture and the non-integration of psychology in the counseling program.
Don and Jennifer talk about how they have used their training to help others at their Jiu-Jitsu gym, including teaching self-defense to women who have experienced abuse and working with children in their martial arts gym. They express gratitude for the knowledge and resources they have gained from Truth in Love and encourage others to enroll in the program.
(Emerge Jiu Jitsu is a "Ministry Ally" of Truth in Love Biblical Counseling.)
Takeaways
Truth in Love emphasizes the importance of Scripture and its application in counseling.The program focuses on biblical principles to provide a holistic approach to counseling.Don and Jennifer have used their training to help others, including teaching self-defense to women who have experienced abuse and working with children in their martial arts gym.They are grateful for the knowledge and resources they have gained from Truth in Love and encourage others to enroll in the program.Sound Bites
"Your feelings can have a seat on the bus, just not the driver's seat.""We can disciple each other and come along each other.""There isn't a day that goes by for me here at the gym that I'm not pulling on the knowledge and experience that we gained through Truth in Love."Additional Resources
Emerge Jiu Jitsu (Vancouver, WA – emergebjj.com)Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Training Center (tilbcc.com)Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (TILBCC Discipling Curriculum)Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb – pastorlamb.com) -
Summer Shorts #4 Show Notes
Host: Warren Lamb
Guest: Isabella Ruiz
Summary
Isabella Ruiz, an elementary school counselor living in Kazakhstan, shares her experience with Truth in Love. She also serves as the Social Media Manager for Truth in Love. She was drawn to the organization through being recommended she find a mentor when she was at Calvary Chapel University and was impressed by the resources and community it offered.
Being part of Truth in Love has provided her with valuable resources and a richer understanding of biblical counseling. She appreciates how Truth in Love is deeply rooted in biblical principles and emphasizes speaking the truth in love.
The community aspect of Truth in Love, with monthly meetings and “Team connects”, sets it apart from other organizations. Isabella is grateful for the impact Truth in Love has had on her life and the international community.
Takeaways
Truth in Love provides valuable resources and a deeper understanding of biblical counseling.The organization is deeply rooted in biblical principles and emphasizes speaking the truth in love.The community aspect of Truth in Love, with monthly meetings and team connects, sets it apart from other organizations.Isabella is grateful for the impact Truth in Love has had on her life and the international community.Sound Bites
"How can my life be transformed? Only by God's strength.""Community is another thing that I haven't seen in a lot of organizations.""Truth in Love has resources as a counselor, but also someone that needs discipleship."Additional Resources
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Training Center (tilbcc.com)Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (TILBCC Discipling Curriculum)Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb – pastorlamb.com) -
Summer Shorts #3 Show Notes
Host: Jinda Reinig
Guest: Pastor Rick Amaro
Summary
In this podcast episode, Rick Amaro, a pastor and counselor, discusses his journey with Truth in Love, a fellowship dedicated to providing comprehensive training and support for those in the biblical counseling field. Pastor Rick was initially attracted to the organization due to its extensive educational program and the opportunity for continued mentorship, which he felt was essential for his development as a counselor.
Through his involvement with Truth in Love, Pastor Rick has found a tight-knit community that offers ongoing guidance and support, significantly contributing to his personal and professional growth. He highlights the fellowship's distinct characteristics, including its unwavering dedication to the completeness of biblical teachings, the focus on fostering strong interpersonal relationships, and the demanding curriculum that equips counselors to handle challenging situations effectively.
Rick Amaro encourages fellow believers who feel a calling to support others to consider joining Truth in Love and receiving training in counseling techniques firmly rooted in the Bible and biblical principles.
Additional Resources
Relevant Links
Calvary Chapel Fayetteville (Pastor Rick Amaro)Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Training CenterUnbound: Growing Ever-freer in ChristWords Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb) -
Summer Shorts #2 Show Notes
Guest: Dr. Warren Lamb
Topic: Finding Hope in Suffering
Summary
People often come to us from a place of suffering, seeking help and support. The God of all grace, as mentioned in 1 Peter 5:10-11, promises to restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish us after we have suffered for a little while. Our God is intimately acquainted with our pain and sorrow, having experienced suffering himself through Jesus Christ. Suffering becomes a crucible that tempers and strengthens us, transforming our pain into purpose and weakness into strength. God's grace knows no bounds and transcends our understanding, restoring and transforming us. We are called to God's eternal glory in Christ, which far surpasses any temporal trial. We are not alone in our suffering; God walks alongside us, sustains us, and leads us through to our ultimate destination.
Takeaways
People often come to us from a place of suffering, seeking help and support.God promises to restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish us after we have suffered for a little while.Suffering becomes a crucible that tempers and strengthens us, transforming our pain into purpose and weakness into strength.God's grace knows no bounds and transcends our understanding, restoring and transforming us.We are called to God's eternal glory in Christ, which far surpasses any temporal trial.We are not alone in our suffering; God walks alongside us, sustains us, and leads us through to our ultimate destination.Scripture Mentioned
1 Peter 5:10-11
Ephesians 1:18-20
2 Corinthians 12:9
Warrenism
“The suffering that you're enduring is temporary. In the grand scheme of eternity, it is just a little while."
Relevant Links
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Training CenterUnbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (TILBCC)Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb) -
Summer Shorts #1 Show Notes
Guest: Dr. Warren Lamb
Topic: Scripture Saturation
Summary
This episode is the first in our “Summer Shorts” series. Today we explore the concept of neuroplasticity and its connection to renewing the mind with God's Word. We emphasize the importance of saturating our minds with the truth and replacing wrong beliefs and unhealthy behaviors with Christ-centered patterns. The discussion highlights the power of Scripture in transforming lives and breaking free from bondage. It also addresses the role of emotions and the need to align them with the truth. The conversation concludes with the reminder that what we focus on, saturate on, believe, and live determines the trajectory of our lives.
Takeaways
Neuroplasticity is the brain's ability to reorganize and restructure itself throughout life.Saturating our minds with God's Word is a powerful tool for transformation and breaking free from negative beliefs and behaviors.What we focus on, saturate on, believe, and live determines the trajectory of our lives.Emotions should not be in the driver's seat of our lives; we need to align them with the truth.Renewing the mind with Scripture is a partnership between our intentional effort and the transformative work of the Holy Spirit.Saturating our minds with the truth replaces negative patterns with Christ-centered patterns.The truth sets us free and brings life and peace.Feeding the soul with Scripture should be as second-nature as feeding our bodies.Scripture saturation can lead to transformation and the restoration of hope and healthy relationships.Scripture Mentioned
Romans 12:2
Psalm 1
John 15:3
Ephesians 5:26
Matthew 11:28-30
John 8:31-32; 36
Mark 7:20-23
Romans 8:6
Warrenism
“To be a lover and pursuer of Christ is to be a lover and pursuer of the truth no matter where it leads and no matter the cost.”
Additional Resources
Relevant Links
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Training CenterUnbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (TILBCC)Dane Ortlund’s “Gentle and Lowly: The Heart of Christ for Sinners and Sufferers”Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb) -
Episode #13 Show Notes
Hosts: Jinda Reinig and Kimberly Willess
Guest: Dr. Warren Lamb
Topic: Domestic Oppression, Part 2
Summary
In the second part of the podcast series on domestic oppression, Warren Lamb shares his personal story of growing up in a home filled with domestic oppression and abuse. He opens up about the profound impact this experience had on his life and the ongoing journey of healing and transformation.
Through his book, "Behind the Veil," Dr. Lamb aims to give a voice to the voiceless, provide a framework for understanding and addressing domestic oppression, and equip caregivers with the tools to help the wounded and broken.
Dr. Lamb emphasizes the crucial role of key character traits, such as a contrite heart, humility, teachability, purposefulness, and honesty, in the process of redemption and healing. He also sheds light on the challenges faced by the biblical counseling community in addressing domestic oppression and the pressing need for education and awareness within the church.
This powerful podcast closes out Season 1 of The Soul Care Podcast and serves as a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the transformative power of healing and redemption through authentic biblical soul care.
Takeaways
Domestic oppressors operate systematically, using tactics similar to sexual predators.The oppressor camouflages their true self and meets the deep emotional needs of their target.Recognizing the signs of deception is crucial in preventing and addressing domestic oppression.Changing the heart of an oppressor is rare, but counseling can help oppressed individuals find healing and restoration. Growing up in a home filled with domestic oppression and abuse can have a profound impact on a person's life.Key character traits such as contrite heart, humility, teachability, purposefulness, and honesty are essential for genuine transformation and healing.The biblical counseling community faces challenges in addressing domestic oppression, and there is a need for education and awareness within the church.Warren Lamb's book, 'Behind the Veil,' aims to give voice to the voiceless, provide a framework for understanding and addressing domestic oppression, and equip caregivers to help the wounded and broken.Scripture Mentioned
Galatians 6:1
Ezekiel 34:1-10
1 Corinthians 5:11
Warrenism
“Regarding oppression and abuse: There is no Switzerland; no neutral territory.”
Additional Resources
RELEVANT BOOKS
Behind the Veil: Exposing the Evil of Domestic Oppression and Providing Hope (Dr. Warren Lamb)A Cry for Justice: How the Evil of Domestic Abuse Hides in Your Church (Jeff Crippen and Anna Wood)The Heart of Domestic Abuse: Gospel Solutions for men who use control and violence in the home (Pastor Chris Moles)When Home Hurts: A Guide for Responding Wisely to Domestic Abuse in Your Church (Jeremy Pierre and Greg Wilson)37 WAYS TO BE TAKEN CAPTIVE: Warning Signs and Prevention for Destructive Relationships (Sydney Millage)A Biblical Counselor's Approach to Marital Abuse: Roadmap to Reunification (Dr. Julie Ganschow and Bill Schlacks)Caring for Families Caught in Domestic Abuse: A Guide toward Protection, Refuge, and Hope (Chris Moles, editor)MINISTRIES
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling (Biblical counseling ministry team of Dr. Warren Lamb)Reigning Grace Biblical Counseling (Biblical counseling ministry team of Dr. Julie Ganschow)Called to Peace (Hope and healing for victims of domestic abuse)Clarity in Action Ministries (Equipping churches for ministering to abuse survivors)Men of Peace (Ministry of Pastor Chris Moles to help abusers repent and be transformed)BLOGS
Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb))Biblical Counseling for Women (Dr. Julie Ganschow et al.) -
Episode #12 Show Notes
Host: Jinda Reinig and Kimberly Willess
Guest: Dr. Warren Lamb
Topic: Domestic Oppression, Part 1
Summary
Domestic oppression is the "seedbed that all other forms of abuse grow out of," according to Dr. Lamb. In this episode, he discusses his book, "Behind the Veil: Exposing the Evil of Domestic Oppression and Providing Hope." In it, he draws from his extensive experience in providing biblical counseling and soul care to thousands of survivors of domestic oppression and violence.
Takeaways
Domestic oppression is a form of abuse that underlies and creates an environment for domestic abuse and other forms of abuse to occur.The church often fails to recognize and address domestic oppression, leading to the protection of the oppressor.The prevalence of domestic oppression within the church is staggering, with statistics showing that a majority of churchgoers have either experienced or witnessed it during their lifetime.Proper theology and understanding of biblical principles are crucial in addressing domestic oppression and providing hope for those affected.Creating a safe and open environment within the church is essential for individuals to come forward and seek help. There is hope for individuals and families dealing with domestic oppression as more pastors, elders, and biblical counselors are addressing this issue and providing specialized counseling and guidance.True repentance involves taking full responsibility for one's actions without seeking anything in return, including forgiveness.There are resources, counseling ministries, and organizations available for individuals and families seeking help.Scripture Mentioned
John 13:34-35
Luke 4:18
Ezekiel 34:1-10
Ephesians 4:32
Warrenism
“Apology making is not forgiveness seeking.”
Additional Resources
RELEVANT BOOKS
Behind the Veil: Exposing the Evil of Domestic Oppression and Providing Hope (Dr. Warren Lamb)A Cry for Justice: How the Evil of Domestic Abuse Hides in Your Church (Jeff Crippen and Anna Wood)The Heart of Domestic Abuse: Gospel Solutions for men who use control and violence in the home (Pastor Chris Moles)When Home Hurts: A Guide for Responding Wisely to Domestic Abuse in Your Church (Jeremy Pierre and Greg Wilson)37 WAYS TO BE TAKEN CAPTIVE: Warning Signs and Prevention for Destructive Relationships (Sydney Millage)A Biblical Counselor's Approach to Marital Abuse: Roadmap to Reunification (Dr. Julie Ganschow and Bill Schlacks)Caring for Families Caught in Domestic Abuse: A Guide toward Protection, Refuge, and Hope (Chris Moles, editor)MINISTRIES
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling (Biblical counseling ministry team of Dr. Warren Lamb)Reigning Grace Biblical Counseling (Biblical counseling ministry team of Dr. Julie Ganschow)Called to Peace (Hope and healing for victims of domestic abuse)Clarity in Action Ministries (Equipping churches for ministering to abuse survivors)Men of Peace (Ministry of Pastor Chris Moles to help abusers repent and be transformed)BLOGS
Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb))Biblical Counseling for Women (Dr. Julie Ganschow et al.) -
Episode #11 Show Notes
Host: Kimberly Willess and Warren Lamb
Guest: Shannon McCoy
Topic: In the Aftermath of Divorce
Summary
In an engaging and introspective episode, Shannon McCoy shares her journey from a science-based career to a life dedicated to biblical counseling. Inviting listeners into her world, McCoy unravels the intersections between science, faith, and emotional healing through her personal experiences and professional counsel. The episode delves deep into the vulnerabilities of struggling with food addiction and managing the spiritual complications of a marital breakdown.
Takeaways
Divorce is a devastating experience that affects individuals physically, emotionally, and spiritually.The church needs to do a better job of supporting those going through divorce and broken marriages.Effective, biblical pre-marriage counseling is essential in preparing couples for the challenges of marriage.Single parents need practical support and resources from the church.It is important to acknowledge and express emotions, including anger towards God, in the healing process.There is hope and a purpose for those who have experienced divorce.Scripture Mentioned
John 16:33
Revelation 2:4
2 Corinthians 1:3-4
Romans 5:13
Warrenism
“Transformation is a process, not an event.”
Additional Resources
RELEVANT BOOKS
Help! I’m a Slave to Food (Shannon McCoy)Women Counseling Women (Elyze Fitzpatrick, Editor, Shannon McCoy, Contributing Author)BLOG POST
Two Truths and A Lie for The Divorced (IBCD Blog)Biblical Counseling Coalition Blog (Articles by Shannon McCoy)TRAINING COURSE MENTIONED
“Whole-Person Ministry” (TILBC – Truth in Love Biblical Counseling)
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Episode #10 Show Notes
Hosts: Jinda Reinig and Kimberly Willess
Guest: Dr. Warren Lamb
Topic: Bipolar Diagnosis
Summary:
In this episode of the Soul Care podcast, hosts Kimberly Willis and Jinda Reinig are joined by Dr. Warren Lamb to dissect the complexities of what is known as bipolar diagnosis and disorder. The dialogue weaves through the clinical landscape, contrasting conventional treatment methods against the healing prism of biblical counseling. Here, listeners can expect to uncover insights into managing what is often perceived as an incurable condition.
The conversation delves into the criteria outlined by the DSM for diagnosing bipolar disorder and the subsequent treatments, raising questions about the effectiveness of a solely medication-based approach. Warren Lamb, offering his expertise, challenges the notion of bipolar disorder as an intrinsic part of one's identity, steering the narrative toward the power of individual belief systems and their capacity to reshape personal realities. Listeners are led on a path from clinical diagnostics to spiritual actualization, presenting a fresh perspective on managing psychological disorders.
Key Takeaways:
Bipolar diagnosis often originates from self-reported symptoms without solid scientific testing, leading to medication being prescribed based on clinical interpretation.The DSM classification of bipolar disorder and its variations are discussed, with an emphasis on the disorder's impact on mood and behavior.Dr. Lamb argues the significance of addressing core relational trauma and beliefs to manage and potentially overcome bipolar symptoms.There's a discussion surrounding the potential long-term damage caused by bipolar medications, which are often used as a lifelong treatment without resolving the underlying issues.The episode highlights biblical counseling as a hopeful and transformative alternative to traditional psychiatric methods, focusing on identity in Christ rather than diagnoses.Notable Quotes:
"It's the pianist that determines what music the piano plays." - Warren Lamb on the relationship between the mind and the brain."The medical conditions are the effect, not the cause." - Warren on focusing on environmental factors in psychosis and bipolar symptoms."You are priceless to God. He only made one of you." - Warren Lamb stressing individual worth in the face of disorders."Our goal together is to deal with the underlying brokenness" - Recognizing the importance of addressing foundational issues in bipolar disorder treatment.Scripture Mentioned
2 Corinthians 5:17
Isaiah 53:5/1 Peter 2:24
Warrenism
“We do healing at the speed of life.”
Additional Resources
Ministry Website: Truth in Love Biblical CounselingRECOMMENDED BOOKS
Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Warren Lamb)The Chemical Imbalance Delusion (Dr. Daniel Berger)BLOG
Words Matter: Refining the Conversation
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