Episodes
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My advice on how to game without relying on alcohol.
00:00 - Intro and Listener's Question
02:00 - The impact of alcohol on both self-improvement and dating
06:00 - Personal experiences and strategies without alcohol
10:00 - Navigating bars and social dynamics without drinking
14:00 - Final thoughts on balancing a healthy lifestyle and dating -
In this episode of The Todd V Show, Todd tackles the question of whether "game" is sexist, reinforces traditional gender stereotypes, or is appropriate in today's society. He explores the biological basis for gender differences, addresses common criticisms, and encourages listeners to form their opinions through real-world experiences rather than media narratives.
Chapters:
00:00 - Listener question
02:00 - Mother nature's thoughts on game...
07:30 - Does game work in today's world?
13:45 - My response to critics of game...
20:30 - Get real.
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In this episode of the Todd V Show, Todd explores the advantages of going out solo versus relying on a wingman. He shares his personal experiences and offers practical advice on how going out alone can build character, improve social skills, and accelerate learning in game.
Chapters:
00:00 - Introduction: Going Out Solo
00:26 - Learning Game Solo
01:40 - Preference for Solo Game
03:05 - Solo Game vs. Wingman
04:38 - Wingman Dependency Issues
06:12 - Wingman Limitations in Groups
08:25 - Solo Game: Character Building
10:18 - Approaching Girls Alone
12:05 - Group Dynamics in Night Game
14:45 - Cataloging Attractive Girls in Clubs
17:35 - Best Solo Approach Scenarios
19:55 - Handling Groups and Isolation
23:10 - Warm-Up Sets in Clubs
26:00 - Drinking in Game
28:50 - Dealing with Approach Anxiety
31:45 - Benefits of Night Game
35:30 - Conclusion: Going Solo Builds Character
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In this episode of the Todd V Show, Todd discusses the importance of asking the right questions to improve your game and avoid common pitfalls. He breaks down how to turn unhelpful, overly specific or broad questions into actionable insights that lead to real-world progress.
Chapters:
00:00 - Intro & Bootcamp Announcement
01:10 - Importance of Asking the Right Questions
03:00 - Learning Game as a Scientific Process
05:15 - Types of Bad Questions: Specific & Theoretical**
08:30 - The Problem with Overly Specific Questions
10:50 - The Issue with Overly General Questions
14:00 - Turning Bad Questions into Good Questions
16:15 - The Importance of Field Experience
18:40 - Learning Game Step by Step
21:00 - Self-Coaching & Owning Your Process
24:00 - Debriefing After Game Sessions
27:30 - Biggest Takeaway & Focus
29:30 - Game as a Journey
33:00 - Process Over Natural Talent
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Todays episode is about "pickup lines" -- exactly what to say to women. In particular, this is your chance to be a "fly on the wall" during a segment of one of my exclusive mentorship program calls. We do these kind of in-depth calls twice weekly, and if you were in the mentorship program during the call, you could ask your own follow up questions at any point.
0:00 – Introduction1:45 – Pickup Lines explained4:05 – The best way to tease6:15 – Subtlety…9:00 – The right frame in getting her to qualify9:50 – “You and I would not get along.”13:00 – Disqualifying sex?
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In this episode, Todd interviews his most experienced coach, James, who gives some unique insights on opening, getting solid numbers, and how to communicate as a high-value man.
0:00 – Introduction3:20 – A MASSIVE unlock for daygame…10:15 – Why you shouldn’t worry about bystanders in daygame13:45 – Qualifying Explained29:00 – Daygame Masterclass
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In this podcast, we mentioned a video featuring James on my main YouTube channel, Todd V Dating. Check it out here:
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In this episode of the Todd V show, Todd addresses a listener's challenges with online dating and offers insights into improving dating success by creating tension and value. He emphasizes the importance of pre-date preparation, managing physical escalation, and understanding rejection beyond superficial reasons.
Notes0:00 – Introduction0:51 – Introduction to Today’s Question1:22 – Sam’s Question Breakdown1:48 – Initial Analysis of Sam’s Issue2:22 – Possible Reasons for Dating Challenges3:26 – Game Skills and Online Dating4:23 – The Role of Value in Dating5:20 – Pre-Date Preparation and Its Importance5:53 – Handling the Date Itself6:41 – Improving Dating Interactions7:09 – Creating Tension in Interaction8:42 – Handling Physical Escalation10:16 – Key Concept: Tension and Value13:04 – Final Notes on Chemistry and Rejection14:04 – Additional Context for Sam’s Situation17:01 – Understanding Rejections and Rationalizations18:28 – Common Issues and Final Advice20:25 – Closing Thoughts21:18 – Outro and Call for QuestionsJoin me on a Bootcamp:
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In this episode of the Todd V Show, Todd shares insights from a recent coaching experience in Europe, discussing the importance of making the game fun, reducing outcome dependence, and techniques to handle frustration and approach anxiety. He also provides updates on his upcoming boot camps and practical strategies for improving game dynamics.
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00:00 - Intro00:30 - Motivation for Today's Episode01:00 - Private Coaching Experience in Europe02:00 - Client's Frustration and Pressure03:00 - Importance of Making Game Fun04:00 - Boot Camp Schedule Update05:30 - What is a Boot Camp?07:00 - Upcoming Cities for Boot Camps08:00 - How to Make Game Fun09:00 - The Irony of Making Game Fun10:00 - Dealing with Approach Anxiety11:00 - Handling Rejection and Blowouts12:30 - Ego and Self-Esteem in Game14:00 - The Upward and Downward Spiral15:00 - Taking Breaks and Resetting16:30 - Changing Your Focus to Reduce Frustration18:00 - Silly Openers to Reduce Outcome Dependence19:30 - Examples of Silly Openers21:00 - Using Cocky Openers22:30 - Examples of Cocky Openers24:00 - Advanced Techniques: Leaving Your Phone at Home25:30 - Changing Your Focus: Small Wins27:00 - Approach Anxiety and Small Wins28:30 - Using a Timer for Approaches30:00 - Gamifying the Approach Process31:30 - Pumping State to Improve Mood33:00 - Examples of Pumping State Techniques34:30 - Combining Pumping State and Reducing Outcome Dependence36:00 - Approach All: Talking to Everyone37:30 - Conclusion: Embrace the Game39:00 - Final Thoughts and Boot Camp InformationJoin me on a Bootcamp:
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In this episode, I chat with three Online Dating Fast Track students as well as their two coaches, Kaitlin and Atlas.
Notes00:00 - Intro01:50 - Coaches Background05:00 - Online archetype and narrative 16:30 - Being high-value online21:00 - Achieving abundance25:30 - Improving your messaging game27:00 - Paradigm shift31:30 - Todd's game insights40:00 - Physical escalation on dates46:50 - How to respond to every text50:20 - Answering deep questions over text51:30 - Maximize the lifespan of a casual relationship58:00 - "It just happened."1:01:00 - Nexting1:04:00 - Wrap upExperience the Online Dating Fast Track for yourself:
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In this episode, I break down the psychology of those who "score" in life versus those who don't, using soccer as an example.
Notes00:00 - Intro01:40 - The archetype of guys who do well with women04:45 - Playing to win Vs. Playing to look good11:55 - Being PREPARED to succeed.16:25 - Do not feel sorry for yourself.Check out my comprehensive online dating course:
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00:00 - What is Bootcamp?01:40 - Student's experience prior to studying game03:55 - His massive game improvement09:05 - Most challenging bootcamp moment11:50 - His post-bootcamp experience15:30 - How he met his girlfriend19:00 - His advice to others on their journey in game21:20 - Being INTENTIONAL about game
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00:00 - State transference04:45 - How to kiss her (at the right time)06:30 - Bootcamp story16:30 - How to transfer sexuality to the girl20:00 - AMOG situations
Check out Verbal Game Academy, my course containing two decades of secret communication techniques that make talking to women effortless, easy, and highly effective:
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Notes00:00 - How are hot girls different from others?02:50 - The biggest mistake guys make around hot girls04:20 - Irreverent.08:45 - Don't do this...13:30 - How hot girls live their lives16:40 - Show social proof20:40 - What type of dates should you bring hot girls on?26:30 - Don't put yourself in this frame...
Check out Verbal Game Academy, my course containing two decades of secret communication techniques that make talking to women effortless, easy and highly effective:
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In this episode, Todd discusses the challenges faced by Asian men in the Western dating scene. He touches on how to leverage stereotypes and overcome cultural biases to get the results you want in game.
Notes02:15 - Do Asian men have a harder time in the dating world?08:00 - What about results in game?13:50 - What about guys of other backgrounds?16:00 - Assimilation.We have a PACKED bootcamp schedule coming up in cities around the world. Click the link below to grow your game exponentially with me out in the field:
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In this episode, I discuss a shift in approach for non-sexual dates, emphasizing the importance of creating a dynamic where the woman is chasing the man.
I also address challenges such as avoiding over-validation, managing physical escalation, and navigating logistics to increase the likelihood of securing a second date.
Finally, I emphasize the need for a strategic mindset, particularly when dealing with more conservative or inexperienced women.
Notes02:30 - Balancing validation with avoiding flakiness. 15:10 - Navigating "non-sex dates"We have a PACKED bootcamp schedule coming up in cities around the world. Click the link below to grow your game exponentially with me out in the field.
https://toddvdating.com/coaching/
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In my 20+ years as a dating coach, I've seen a TON of mistakes made in online dating.
Notes00:00 - What are the 3 most common online dating mistakes?00:50 - Do looks matter?04:15 - Stop doing this in your bio.06:05 - Showing vs. Telling 08:00 - Messaging10:45 - Focus on THIS13:10 - Getting her from app to date18:10 - The most efficient online dating strategy
In this episode, I examine the 3 most common mistakes and how to fix them. Apply these chnages so you can get matches with girls you ACTUALLY want to date.Watch this video to learn how to optimize your fashion:
(https://youtu.be/KGG-qoi0w0s?si=LMS6LjqQNRqjxKfv)Check out my comprehensive online dating course:
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How did I, as an overweight 41-year-old, see more success in learning jiu-jitsu than I did as a super fit 21-year-old?
Notes00:00 - My path back to jiu-jitsu12:30 - My "why" (you NEED this!)20:00 - Trials and tribulations...29:20 - Massive improvement?35:00 - Your ego is not your amigo!42:00 - Mind, attitude, and coaching.48:00 - You might just get hooked...
The answers will surprise you, while also revealing powerful insights about improving your game.One of the biggest secrets of game is a simple one:
Learn game from someone massively better than you.
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Highlights
James' journey in game will inspire youThe best way to see results, FASTLearn what to AVOID DOING in gameNotes00:00 - Intro00:48 - How James discovered game and how it changed his life012:50 - When James REALLY started seeing PROGRESSION26:30 - How James became advanced35:00 - Major lessons James has learned in gameOne of the biggest secrets of game is a simple one:
Learn game from someone massively better than you.
https://toddvmentoring.com/Connect with Todd:
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VERBAL GAME ACADEMY IS LIVE! Everything you need to know about what to say, when to say it, and how to say it. www.verbalgameacademy.com.
HighlightsGaming girls who speak another languageHow to master your non-verbalsClosing despite the language barrierNotes00:00 - Intro00:18 - How should you alter your verbal game when the girl doesn’t speak your language fluently?01:00 - Think strategically02:00 - “The shoe is on the other foot”04:25 - Todd in Japan06:00 - A winning vibe07:20 - Non-verbal verbal game09:11 - Animal flirtation10:50 - Crush itConnect with Todd:
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VERBAL GAME ACADEMY IS LIVE! Everything you need to know about what to say, when to say it, and how to say it. www.verbalgameacademy.com.
HighlightsStorytelling: A crucial game skillDisplaying value subtlyBelieving your own storyNotes00:00 - Intro00:25 - DHV without being tryhard?01:26 - What specific values?02:15 - Stop bragging.04:50 - You need to believe07:30 - Setting, interruption, change10:33 - Weave these inConnect with Todd:
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