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In this episode, the hosts discuss the growing concerns around screen time and social media use among young people with guest Kerry Cawte, a Parent Therapist. They explore the impact of excessive screen time on mental health, behavior, and social skills, while also addressing the challenges parents face in managing their children's technology use. The conversation emphasizes the importance of connection, understanding, and setting healthy boundaries around screen time, as well as the need for parents to model good habits themselves. Practical tips and strategies are shared to help families navigate this complex issue.
The hosts also discuss important themes that arise from the popular Netflix show 'Adolescence' and how we can support our younger family members with challenges that they may face.
Links:
https://www.embracefamilyservices.co.uk/
Kerry's Instagram: @embracefamilyservices
https://www.thetherapistsinthehotseat.co.uk/
Keywords
screen time, social media, mental health, parenting, adolescents, technology, youth behavior, family dynamics, digital wellbeing, emotional health, young people, therapy, Netflix, Adolescence
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In this episode of the Therapists in the Hot Seat podcast, hosts Tom Coates and Tom Holland-Pearse delve into the complexities of Relationship OCD (ROCD). They discuss the nature of intrusive thoughts, the importance of normalizing doubts in relationships, and how to distinguish between normal relationship concerns and those driven by OCD. The conversation emphasizes the significance of understanding one's relationship with intrusive thoughts and introduces strategies such as Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) to manage OCD symptoms effectively. The episode concludes with key takeaways and a commitment to ongoing self-reflection and growth in relationships.
Resources: Relationship OCD: A CBT-Based Guide to Move Beyond Obsessive Doubt, Anxiety, and Fear of Commitment in Romantic Relationships by Sheva Rajaee.
Takeaways
The podcast celebrates reaching 2000 streams and expresses gratitude to listeners.
Relationship OCD is often misunderstood and can be debilitating.
Normalizing doubts in relationships is crucial for mental health.
It's important to differentiate between normal relationship worries and OCD.
OCD thrives on uncertainty and can lead to compulsive behaviors.
Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) is a key strategy for managing OCD.
Building a healthy relationship involves understanding and addressing intrusive thoughts.
Self-reflection and awareness are essential in navigating relationship doubts.
Therapists should focus on the maintenance structure of OCD rather than the content of intrusive thoughts.
The importance of being willing to tolerate discomfort in order to grow.
Keywords
mental health, relationship OCD, cognitive behavioral therapy, intrusive thoughts, anxiety, self-help, therapy, emotional well-being, coping strategies, relationship advice
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In this episode of the Therapists in the Hot Seat podcast, Tom Coates, Tom Holland-Pearse, and guest Becky Crepsley-Fox delve into the complexities of sexual dysfunction and its connection to the nervous system. They explore how anxiety and societal expectations shape sexual experiences, the importance of communication in relationships, and practical interventions for overcoming sexual difficulties. The conversation emphasizes the need to redefine sex and intimacy beyond traditional norms, highlighting the impact of pornography on expectations and the necessity of normalizing discussions around sexual health. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of sexual health and relationships, particularly focusing on the impact of pornography, the dynamics of desire in long-term partnerships, and the importance of communication. They discuss how unrealistic portrayals in porn can lead to performance anxiety and desensitization, and explore the common issue of mismatched sexual desire in relationships. The conversation emphasizes the need for intentionality and open dialogue to foster intimacy and understanding between partners.
Keywords
sexual dysfunction, nervous system, intimacy, relationship therapy, sexology, anxiety, communication, erectile dysfunction, vaginismus, sexual health, pornography, sexual health, relationships, desire mismatch, communication, intimacy, sexual dysfunction, therapy, sexual desire, long-term relationships
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In this episode of the Therapists in the Hot Seat podcast, hosts Tom Coates and Tom Holland-Pearse are joined by Sara Whammond, a mental health nurse and trauma specialist. They discuss the heavy topic of childhood abuse and trauma, exploring Sara's personal experiences and professional insights. The conversation covers the impact of childhood trauma on mental health, the importance of therapy, and the challenges survivors face in navigating relationships with family members. Sara emphasizes the significance of believing survivors and provides valuable resources for those seeking help. The episode aims to raise awareness and support for individuals affected by childhood trauma, encouraging them to prioritize their mental health and seek the necessary support.
NAPAC: https://napac.org.uk/
Well Mind People: https://wellmindpeople.co.uk/
Therapists in the Hot Seat Website: https://www.thetherapistsinthehotseat.co.uk/
Trigger Warning:
This episode covers the challenging topic of Childhood Sexual Abuse. Please do keep yourself well with whatever you need before, during or after this episode. You may choose not to listen or to switch off, and that is fine too.
Keywords: childhood abuse, trauma, mental health, therapy, survivor support, emotional healing, CBT, EMDR, trauma recovery, mental health resources
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Episode Update!
Unfortunately, due to illness, we have to postpone our next episode on Relationship OCD until after our next release. We always try to avoid delays but we wouldn’t be able to do this important topic justice right now and you wouldn’t want me spluttering in your ears - we appreciate your understanding!
On a brighter note, we are very excited to be joined by the wonderful Sara Whammond from @wellmindpeople who will be joining us to discuss the difficult, but important, topic of childhood abuse and trauma - and how these experiences can shape our adult lives. It’s a conversation that you won’t want to miss!
Thankyou for your patience, understanding and compassion - we will be back next week❤️ -
Summary
In this episode of the Therapists in the Hot Seat podcast, hosts Tom Coates and Tom Holland-Pearse are joined by the @mentalhealthceo - Ron Yap - to discuss the critical topic of loneliness. They explore the definition of loneliness, its impact on mental health, and the importance of quality relationships over quantity. The conversation delves into the complexities of feeling lonely even in relationships, the role of social media, and practical strategies for fostering connections. Listener questions are addressed, providing insights into managing loneliness in various contexts, including chronic illness. The episode concludes with a homework task aimed at enhancing social connections through simple check-ins with others.
Keywords
mental health, loneliness, relationships, social anxiety, emotional well-being, therapy, connection, self-worth, community, mental health awareness
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In this episode of Therapists in the Hot Seat, hosts Tom Coates and Tom Holland-Pearse delve into the pervasive issue of low self-esteem. They discuss its relevance in mental health, the cultural factors influencing self-perception, and the importance of self-compassion. The conversation transitions into practical techniques for managing anxiety and panic attacks, emphasizing the significance of understanding physiological responses and employing strategies to cope with uncomfortable emotions. The episode concludes with a broad overview of low self-esteem, laying the groundwork for future discussions on its impact in various contexts. In this conversation, Tom Holland-Pearse and Tom Coates delve into the complexities of low self-esteem, exploring its definitions, origins, and the profound impact it has on individuals' lives. They discuss how low self-esteem intertwines with other mental health issues like depression and social anxiety, and emphasize the importance of understanding these connections for effective therapy. The conversation also highlights the day-to-day manifestations of low self-esteem and offers strategies for managing it, ultimately aiming to provide listeners with insights and tools for personal growth and emotional well-being. In this episode, Tom Holland-Pearse and Tom Coates explore the themes of anxiety, self-esteem, and assertiveness in both personal and professional contexts. They discuss their experiences with podcast anxiety and imposter syndrome, emphasizing the importance of preparation and self-reflection. The conversation transitions into practical strategies for managing low self-esteem, including cognitive behavioral techniques and behavioral experiments. The hosts also delve into the significance of setting boundaries and assertiveness in relationships, concluding with a commitment to revisit these topics in future episodes.
Keywords: low self-esteem, mental health, anxiety, panic attacks, self-compassion, CBT, emotional regulation, social anxiety, personal development, therapy, low self-esteem, mental health, therapy, cognitive model, depression, social anxiety, core beliefs, self-worth, personal development, emotional well-being, podcast anxiety, imposter syndrome, self-esteem, behavioral experiments, therapy strategies, assertiveness, mental health, boundaries, CBT, relationship OCD
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In this episode, Tom Coates and Tom Holland-Pearse discuss the challenges and opportunities that come with the New Year. They reflect on their personal resolutions, the difficulties of maintaining them, and the importance of focusing on values rather than rigid goals. The conversation emphasizes the significance of celebrating progress, overcoming barriers, and adopting a flexible approach to self-improvement as they prepare for 2025.
Keywords: New Year, Resolutions, Mental Health, Therapy, Goals, Values, Change, Self-Improvement, Challenges, Progress
Chapters
00:00 New Year Reflections and Mindfulness
10:16 Challenges of New Year's Resolutions
18:03 Shifting from Goals to Values
24:05 Practical Steps Towards Values
30:49 Navigating Setbacks and Learning
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In this episode, Tom Coates and Tom Holland-Pearse discuss the complexities of Christmas, acknowledging that while it is a joyful time for many, it can also bring challenges and hardships. They reflect on their personal experiences with the holiday, the impact of expectations versus reality, and the importance of seeking connection and setting boundaries. The conversation emphasizes coping strategies for managing mental health during the festive season, including self-care practices and the significance of engaging with one's values.
Keywords: Christmas, mental health, coping strategies, expectations, loneliness, self-care, boundaries, holiday season, emotional well-being, therapy
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In the inaugural episode of the 'Therapists in the Hot Seat' podcast, hosts Tom Coates and Tom Holland-Pearse introduce themselves as Cognitive Behavioural Therapists and outline the purpose of the podcast: to demystify therapy and provide insights into the therapeutic process. They discuss their understandings of CBT and how they may introduce this concept to others. The episode also addresses common myths about CBT, including misconceptions about positive thinking and the role of the past in therapy. The hosts emphasise the importance of compassion and understanding in therapy, and they conclude with reflections on their discussion and homework assignments for future exploration.
Instagram:
@tomcoatescbt
@holland_pearse_psychotherapy
Keywords: CBT, cognitive behavioural therapy, therapy podcast, mental health, therapist insights, therapy myths, anxiety, therapy process, self-disclosure, therapy techniques, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Positive Thinking, Therapist Rapport, Mental Health, CBT Myths, Compassionate Thinking, Emotional Well-being, Therapy Techniques, Psychological Flexibility, Past Experiences.
