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  • Forgiveness is so often weaponized against victims in the church. But what does the Bible really say about forgiveness, especially when trauma is involved? How can we value our own mental health but also follow Jesus? This is a fascinating and healing conversation with Susannah Griffith, author of Forgiveness After Trauma.

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    Links We Mentioned:

    Susannah Griffith’s book Forgiveness After TraumaFind Susannah at her website

    Future Speaking Events:
    Belleville, ON: St. Thomas Anglican Church in Belleville, Ontario is throwing a party for us to celebrate The Great Sex Rescue and She Deserves Better! March 23, 2:30-4:30 pm. Q&A, crafts with toxic books, and more.
    More information here.

    Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

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    The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

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    Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

  • Natalie Hoffman joins us today to talk about her INCREDIBLE memoir All the Scary Little Gods. Natalie escaped an abusive marriage, and now coaches other women in similar situations. In her memoir, she invites us to listen to the story from the point of view of Little Natalie, and using IFS (Internal Family Systems) to see it from all of her parts. And as we understand our stories, we make it so that we won't recreate the problems.

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    Links We Mentioned:

    Natalie Hoffman’s book All the Scary Little GodsNatalie’s website Flying Free, and her Flying Free podcastThe first podcast Natalie did with me–how Christian books made me stay in an abusive marriageNatalie joined us on our podcast about the book Lies Women BelieveRichard Schwartz' book No Bad PartsJenna Riemersma's book on IFS Altogether You


    Future Speaking Events:
    Belleville, ON: St. Thomas Anglican Church in Belleville, Ontario is throwing a party for us to celebrate The Great Sex Rescue and She Deserves Better! March 23, 2:30-4:30 pm. Q&A, crafts with toxic books, and more.
    More information here.

    Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

    Check out her books:

    The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

    And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

    Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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  • So many people resist admitting that they are actually egalitarians, because they think they have to be complementarian--even if they don't act like it. Today Sheila and her husband Keith dissect the arguments that are often used to say "we're really complementarian"--even when they're objectively not. And we invite people instead to preach what they practice.

    To Support Us:

    Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our workFor tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko FoundationAnd check out our Merch, or any of our courses!

    Things Mentioned in the Podcast:

    The Council for Biblical Manhood and Womanhood's statementOur podcast with Nancy Pearcey where we explain how complementarians act as egalitariansThe interview with Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth and Robert Wolgemuth The Great Sex Rescue, with our findings about decision-makingRebecca Groothuis' article about equalityJonathan Leeman's article (and video) about a husband's authority

    Resources about the Biblical Argument for Equality:

    Marg Mowczko's site--amazing short articles on virtually every bible passage about gender. Our podcast with Philip Payne, and his book The Bible vs. Biblical WomanhoodTerran Williams' book How God Sees WomenTerran Williams' series refuting Mike Winger's videosJulie Zine Coleman's book On Purpose

    Future Speaking Events:
    Grand Rapids, MI: Sheila and Rebecca will be at Calvin University on March 13 and 14 . March 13 at 4:30; March 13 at 7 pm for a panel discussion; and March 14 at 7 pm. More details here.

    Belleville, ON: St. Thomas Anglican Church in Belleville, Ontario is throwing a party for us to celebrate The Great Sex Rescue and She Deserves Better! March 23, 2:30-4:30 pm. Q&A, crafts with toxic books, and more.

    Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

    Check out her books:

    The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

    And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

    Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

  • The Great Sex Rescue turns 3 this week! And it's been a super eventful three years. So much has changed. So let's talk about the feedback we've had, what we've done since, what people are saying--and where we're going from here.

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    Things Mentioned in the Podcast:

    The Great Sex Rescue! Learn more, or get it right from Amazon.Our Healthy Sexuality Rubric where we scored the books we looked at for The Great Sex Rescue.The Great Sex Rescue Toolkit to tell others about our findingsOur podcast where we discussed how the authors we critiqued had responded to The Great Sex Rescue.The article on Julie Roys' site about Focus on the Family deleting comments on the Reel where Juli Slattery used our talking points. Juli Slattery's reel on Focus on the Family's Instagram pageThe Bodies Behind the Bus podcast where Joy tells her story about The Great Sex Rescue (we're near the end) (and here's part 2!)

    Future Speaking Events:
    Grand Rapids, MI: Sheila and Rebecca will be at Calvin University on March 13 and 14 . March 13 at 4:30; March 13 at 7 pm for a panel discussion; and March 14 at 7 pm. More details here.

    Belleville, ON: St. Thomas Anglican Church in Belleville, Ontario is throwing a party for us to celebrate The Great Sex Rescue and She Deserves Better! We'll have blackout poetry crafts and other paper crafts to do with toxic books (bring them along!), a silent auction, a Q&A, and more. March 23, 2:30 - 5:00 pm. All welcome.

    Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

    Check out her books:

    The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

    And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

    Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

  • Would our reaction to Christian marriage advice change if we realize how many people who write that advice are actually in abusive or destructive marriages? What if people in those marriages are more drawn to write marriage advice to process how they're feeling?

    Today we look at two different women that Focus on the Family have held up to be emulated. One is a woman who has written prolifically for them, and when you look at her articles and what she reveals about her relationship, a TON of red flags are present. The other is a woman whose husband was jailed for domestic violence, but then she prayed, he repented, and now they lead Love & Respect seminars together. And Focus on the Family thinks this is a positive message.

    Today Sheila Gregoire is joined by her husband Keith and by abuse educator Sarah McDugal.

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    Things Mentioned in the Podcast:

    The article in the Revealer about Elisabeth Elliot's marriageMy article detailing Focus on the Family's Facebook post praising the man who was jailed for domestic violence, as well as the letter I sent to Jim DalyMy article on TradWife influencers and my concern for themOur podcast on Power of a Praying WifeOur one sheet download on Love & RespectFocus on the Family's article "It's the Little Things"Our Open Letter to Focus on the Family

    Find Sarah McDugal:

    Follow Sarah on FacebookFind her at Wilderness to Wild

    Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

    Check out her books:

    The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

    And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

    Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

  • Lies Women Believe by Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth taught concerning things about shame, trauma, and even what God is like. On today's podcast, we're joined by Becky Castle Miller, a doctoral student looking at emotions in the Bible, and Helen Blake, a licensed counselor in Sydney, Australia, to discuss some of the damaging teachings--and point us to a Jesus who understands and sympathizes with our struggles.

    Things Mentioned in the Podcast:

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    Our Downloadable Onesheet:
    Download our One Sheet on Lies Women Believe, looking at the problems with the book

    Other Things We Talked About:

    Last week's podcast on Part 1 of Lies Women BelieveFind Becky Castle Miller on InstagramScot McKnight's book King Jesus Gospel

    Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

    Check out her books:

    The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

    And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

    Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

  • Lies Women Believe by Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth is one of the most popular women’s bible study books used in churches across North America. But what does the book actually teach about marriage? About sex? About divorce and abuse? It’s scary, and today Gretchen Baskerville and Natalie Hoffman join host Sheila Wray Gregoire to analyze the harmful messages in Lies Women Believe.

    Things Mentioned in the Podcast:

    To Support Us:
    Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
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    Our Downloadable Onesheet:
    Download our One Sheet on Lies Women Believe:

    Natalie Hoffman's Information:
    Natalie’s Podcast Flying Free, and her website
    Natalie Hoffman’s book Is It Me: Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage

    Gretchen Baskerville's Information:
    Gretchen Baskerville’s site The Lifesaving Divorce:
    Gretchen Baskerville’s YouTube channel:
    Gretchen’s book The Lifesaving Divorce

    Other Resources
    Our podcast on The Power of a Praying Wife (featuring Gretchen):
    Our podcast telling Natalie’s story:
    Our book She Deserves Better, which deals with Nancy Leigh DeMoss’ book Lies Young Women Believe:

    Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

    Check out her books:

    The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

    And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

    Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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    Our Resources
    Sign up for Rebecca’s Friday emails

    The Orgasm Course (there’s also an add-on for husbands)

    She Deserves Better book

    The Studies We Looked At:
    Time Use and Feelings of Love

    “Women Get Worse Sex: A Confound in the Explanation of Gender Differences in Sexuality

    “Popular Psychology Through a Scientific Lens: Evaluating Love Languages From a Relationship Science Perspective”

    “Gender Inequities in Household Labor Predict Lower Desire”,

    How to Understand Statistics Podcast (and how statistics can be misused):

    Want to be part of our research team?
    If you're a grad student, prof, or other academic, check out our job opportunities to help with peer reviewed research papers:


    Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

    Check out her books:

    The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

    And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

    Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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    Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work https://patreon.com/baremarriage

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    Check out our Merch–including our Love & Respect His & Her mugs: https://sheilawraygregoire.com/shop/his-hers-love-and-respect-ceramic-mugs/

    Sign up for Rebecca’s Friday emails: http://eepurl.com/z0VFn

    The Great Sex Rescue: https://baremarriage.com/great-sex-rescue/

    The Good Guy’s Guide to Great Sex: https://baremarriage.com/good-girls-guys-guide-great-sex/

    Gary’s article “Young Husband: It Might Not be Her; It Might be Her Situation” https://garythomas.com/2017/06/29/young-husband-might-not-might-situation/

    Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

    Check out her books:

    The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

    And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

    Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

  • Links to things mentioned:
    Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work https://patreon.com/baremarriage

    Or, for tax deductible donations in the U.S., support our Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation: https://secure.qgiv.com/for/goodfruits

    Check out our Merch–including our Love & Respect His & Her mugs: https://sheilawraygregoire.com/shop/his-hers-love-and-respect-ceramic-mugs/

    Emerson Eggerichs’ reel where he talks about relationships https://www.instagram.com/reel/CxL4Lm6pDo7/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

    Our summary of the issues with Love & Respect https://baremarriage.com/2023/01/summary-problems-love-and-respect-emerson-eggerichs/

    Our Open Letter to Focus on the Family about Love & Respect https://baremarriage.com/2020/01/open-letter-focus-on-the-family-love-respect-emerson-eggerichs/

    (All of our other posts are linked there)

    Our podcast looking at the way he downplayed abuse in a sermon series at Houston First Baptist Church https://baremarriage.com/2021/03/podcast-on-emerson-eggerichs-gaslighting-emotional-abuse-victims-and-stop-seeing-women-as-dangerous/

    Our look at how Emerson Eggerichs misuses Scripture in Love & Respect

    https://baremarriage.com/2023/01/emerson-eggerichs-twists-scripture-love-respect/

    The problems with hierarchy in marriage (Keith’s Danvers statement series) https://baremarriage.com/2023/06/danvers-statement-series-complementarian-problem-1-men-dominating-their-wives/

    Check out Andrew Bauman’s Christian Counseling Center for Sexual Health and Trauma: https://christiancc.org/

    Andrew J. Bauman’s website https://andrewjbauman.com, or follow him on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/AndrewJamesBauman

    Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

    Check out her books:

    The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

    And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

    Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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    Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month, and get access to our Facbook group, unfiltered podcasts, and more!Thanks to everyone who helped us reach our fundraising goal! You can give to our work and get tax deductible donations (within the United States) by donating to the Good Fruit Faith initiative of the Bosko Foundation. Check out our Merch at our store, including our biblical womanhood and biblical manhood merch, our new Jezebel merch, and more!Join our email list so you don't miss one of Rebecca's great Friday emails, or any chances to be in new surveys, etc.Mark Gungor's clip about preferring a dog to a wife who talks to youThe Halo 3 study about female voiced players

    Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

    Check out her books:

    The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

    And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

    Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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    Partner with us at Good Fruit Faith, an initiative of the Bosko Foundation, as we help impact future church leaders with our data and our message (tax receiptable within the U.S.): https://secure.qgiv.com/for/goodfruits

    Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month and get access to unfiltered podcasts! https://patreon.com/baremarriage

    Find Scot McKnight and Laura Barringer’s book Pivot: https://amzn.to/3ToOKiV, along with their first book together A Church Called Tov: https://amzn.to/41nRsrd

    Our first podcast together about their book A Church Called Tov: https://baremarriage.com/2021/04/podcast-a-church-called-tov-and-matthew-18/

    Find Scot McKnight’s New Testament bible study series: https://amzn.to/46Zc5uW

    Laura Barringer on Threads: https://www.threads.net/@lauraebarringer

    Scot McKnight on Threads: https://www.threads.net/@scotandkris

    Me on Threads! https://www.threads.net/@sheilagregoire

    Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

    Check out her books:

    The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

    And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

    Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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    Our marriage survey is still open! We’re looking for married couples to take it. https://baremarriage.com/grim

    Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month, and get access to our incredible Facebook group, unfiltered podcasts, and more! https://patreon.com/baremarriage

    Help us raise $52,000 by Christmas to expand our reach and make inroads into academic circles! BOSKO LINK HERE

    Laura Anderson’s book When Religion Hurts You https://amzn.to/3sB0Zhs

    Find Laura on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlauraeanderson/

    Our Merch: order before December 10 to use it as Christmas gifts! https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/merchandise/

    Our book She Deserves Better, outlining some of the trauma messages teen girls receive, and our book The Great Sex Rescue, outlining vaginismus as a potential trauma response

    Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

    Check out her books:

    The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

    And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

    Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

  • Things mentioned in this podcast:

    Our survey link! Couples are invited to take our marriage survey (you take it individually and it’s confidential): https://baremarriage.com/grim

    Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month and help support our research and our work! https://patreon.com/baremarriage

    Join our email list and get Rebecca’s awesome Friday emails as well as a roundup of our best posts and podcasts: http://eepurl.com/z0VFn

    Sarah’s Wilderness to Wild program: https://wildernesstowild.com

    No Eden Elsewhere blog talking about small group abuse at Watermark Church: https://noedenelsewhere.com/the-aftermath-stories-from-former-watermark-church-members/

    Dee Parsons from The Wartburg Watch on why you shouldn’t sign a membership covenant: https://thewartburgwatch.com/2023/09/11/smart-christians-need-to-think-carefully-before-joining-a-church-with-a-membership-covenant-which-is-a-legal-contract/ and how to resign from a membership covenant: https://thewartburgwatch.com/permpage-how-to-resign-from-a-church-whether-or-not-you-are-under-church-discipline/

    Our podcast with Naghmeh Panahi: https://baremarriage.com/2023/10/naghmeh-panahi-bullied-leaving-abusive-marriage-podcast/

    Biblical Counseling post on 98 ways you can sign against your husband: https://baremarriage.com/2019/06/sinning-against-husband/

    The consent form you sign for biblical counseling: https://baremarriage.com/2019/03/question-your-biblical-counsellor/

    John MacArthur Sermon Clip: https://www.gty.org/library/sermons-library/70-54/bible-questions-and-answers-part-77

    Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

    Check out her books:

    The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

    And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

    Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

  • Links to things mentioned:
    Take our marriage survey! We’re looking for couples to fill out our marriage survey: https://baremarriage.com/grim

    Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month and support our work, while getting access to our awesome Facebook community! https://patreon.com/baremarriage

    Our Merch makes great Christmas gifts! Order before December 11 to guarantee delivery by Christmas: https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/merchandise/

    Andrew Whitehead’s book American Idolatry: https://amzn.to/3SubmhI, and Andrew Whitehead’s book with Sam Perry, Taking Back America for God https://amzn.to/3FU84Ne

    Join Andrew’s substack! https://andrewwhitehead.substack.com/

    Follow Andrew on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ndrewwhitehead/

    Listen to Andrew’s 4 part series on Christian nationalism: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/american-idols/id1706355168

    Our book (co-authored with Joanan Sawatsky) The Great Sex Rescue https://baremarriage.com/great-sex-rescue/

    Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

    Check out her books:

    The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

    And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

    Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

  • Links to things mentioned:

    Our survey link! Couples are invited to take our marriage survey (you take it individually and it’s confidential):
    https://baremarriage.com/grim/

    Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month and help support our research and our work! https://patreon.com/baremarriage

    The article where you can find the Elisabeth Elliot quote on the essence of femininity: https://www.crossway.org/articles/the-essence-of-femininity/

    Holly Furtick’s reel on being grumpy: https://www.instagram.com/reel/CtnHKVJOOOI/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

    Holly Furtick’s reel on not fussing and just praying:

    https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cm1oSdNBGB3/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

    The study on why sweating the small stuff is important:

    https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/18361676/

    Get help for religious OCD at NOCD.com -- Licensed therapists using evidence-based techniques.
    https://nocd.com

    John Gottman’s book The 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work:

    https://amzn.to/3Mxzc8h

    Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

    Check out her books:

    The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

    And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

    Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

  • Links to things mentioned:

    Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month and help support our research and our work! https://patreon.com/baremarriage

    Lisa Weaver Swartz’ book Stained Glass Ceilings: https://amzn.to/3suzUfJ

    A write-up of the amicus brief submitted on behalf of the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary to deny victims the right to sue the organizations that failed to report and failed to protect: https://www.courier-journal.com/story/news/2023/10/27/southern-baptists-response-to-sex-abuse-in-kentucky/71343874007/

    Our book She Deserves Better: https://baremarriage.com/she-deserves-better/



    Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

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    Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

  • Links to things mentioned:

    Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month and support our work and research, while getting access to our Facebook group, unfiltered podcast, merch discounts, and more! https://patreon.com/baremarriage

    Sign up for our email list to hear about when our next study is out! http://eepurl.com/z0VFn

    The study that people say claim 75% of women divorce for lack of commitment (it doesn't really say that): https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4012696/

    The study on how men are six times more likely to leave when one spouse is diagnosed with a life-altering disease: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19645027/

    She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes in the Sink: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/she-divorced-me-i-left-dishes-by-the-sink_b_9055288 Plus Matthew Fray's book This Is How Your Marriage Ends: https://amzn.to/45PSM6w

    Caylee Cresta's Instagram channel about mental load and taking out the trash: https://www.instagram.com/reel/CrQx8-sMKL9/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

    Check out our Boost Your Libido Course https://baremarriage.com/boost-libido-course/ and our Orgasm course: https://baremarriage.com/the-orgasm-course/

    Check out our books The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex: https://baremarriage.com/good-girls-guys-guide-great-sex/

    Check out The Great Sex Rescue https://baremarriage.com/great-sex-rescue/

    The study that found that women do more housework the more they out-earn their husbands: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3028208/

    Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

    Check out her books:

    The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

    And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

    Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

  • Links to things mentioned:

    Join our Patreon and get access to the best place on the internet! https://patreon.com/baremarriageCheck out our Domestic Violence Awareness Merch and our Breast Cancer Awareness Merch--20% of profits go to support charities involved in fighting DV and breast cancer: https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/limited-edition/See Naghmeh's book I Didn't Survive: https://amzn.to/3MgUpmPListen to the audio of Franklin Graham confronting Naghmeh--and Naghmeh standing her ground on Scripture: (at the bottom of this post): https://julieroys.com/panahi-graham-bullied-salvage-savesaeed/Read a synopsis of Naghmeh's story on the Roys Report: https://julieroys.com/panahi-graham-bullied-salvage-savesaeed/ or the Washington Post: https://www.washingtonpost.com/religion/2022/06/20/franklin-graham-domestic-abuse-abedini/

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