Episodes
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This week, we’re joined by Michael and Bruno—two Disney-loving soulmates who, like us, are an American-Brazilian couple building a life across cultures.
We talk about the magic of their relationship, from surprising each other early on to proudly owning the title Disney gays. They share stories of pin collecting (with boundaries!), dating rituals, and finding joy in the little things.
Bruno opens up about immigrating to the U.S. and feeling self-conscious about grammar and accents, while Michael reflects on his Cuban-Croatian roots and childhood dreams of visiting Brazil.
We also dive into growing up closeted in the '90s, queer joy, and the powerful moment of seeing yourself in another couple.
It’s sweet, nostalgic, and full of love—internationally speaking.
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Today, we’re joined by Jordan—a longtime friend of Tyler and a total beam of light.
Born in Spiro, Oklahoma, Jordan opens up about growing up Black and biracial in a small town where he never quite fit in—not Black enough for the Black kids, not white enough for the white ones. The youngest of six, he shares how he used humor and heart to survive.
We talk about his journey from Oklahoma to Madrid—his first big city—where he felt free for the first time, fell in love (more than once), and began to truly discover himself. From college cheerleading to being bullied into moving back to the U.S., Jordan’s story is one of resilience, reinvention, and healing.
He shares intimate thoughts on identity, trauma, and dating as a Black man in the gay community. Plus: self-help books, becoming a dad, Dave & Buster’s, car accidents, and why sometimes… you just have to pick a fight in a relationship.
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It’s a double date! In this episode, Patty and Leo join us to talk love, pop culture, Catholic school trauma, and the very serious theory that drinking milk turns kids gay.
Leo grew up in Mexico, dated a girl for three years, and came out after moving to L.A. to pursue acting. Patty, from Chicago, found his voice on TikTok during the pandemic—spilling celeb gossip like they’re close personal friends (because in his world, they are).
We talk about their first date, how they handle hate online, the pressure queer people feel to overachieve, and why Leo’s the spicy one and Patty keeps it chill.
It’s funny, honest, and full of Gen Z energy.
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This week, we sit down with Michael Pezzullo—a licensed therapist and mental health advocate specializing in LGBTQ+ affirming care.
Born and raised in NYC, now living in West Hollywood, Michael opens up about growing up in Hell’s Kitchen, why he still feels like a New Yorker, and the long road (literally—he failed his driving test six times) to becoming a therapist.
We talk masculinity, internalized homophobia, and the personas gay men build to survive—only to end up feeling alone. Michael unpacks the myth of perfection, the power of boundaries, and how to recognize when you're just building walls.
Also: Who are the mean gays of WeHo? Who’s the king and queen? And is masculinity always toxic?
This episode is raw, insightful, and full of heart—for anyone exploring identity, community, and healing.
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You might know her as Naysha Lopez, but to us, Fabian is a star in and out of drag.
In this episode, he opens up about his journey from dreaming of the crown to winning Miss Continental—and later competing in Mister Continental, the male counterpart to the iconic pageant. We talk about the difference between pageants and Drag Race, finding confidence outside of drag, and inspiring others to embrace their full selves.
Fabian also shares how he handles critique, blurs the lines between masculine and feminine, and hosts Roscoe’s legendary viewing parties with equal parts grace and shade.
The beauty is here.
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Pasquale Guiducci joins us this week—a yoga teacher and all-around ray of sunshine.
We talk about growing up in an Italian family, living in D.C., and what led him to move to L.A. He shares how yoga became a joyful part of his life, how it keeps him grounded, and what he's looking for in love and community.
It’s a sweet, open conversation about breath, balance, queerness, and being present.
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This time, we sit down with Payam about healing, identity, and finding peace in our bodies.
He shares his experience immigrating from Iran, coming out, and living through the AIDS crisis. We also explore how somatic therapy can help us move through trauma, regulate our nervous system, and reconnect with ourselves.
We talk activism, queer joy, and what decades as a therapist have taught him about resilience and community.
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This week, we chat with Antony Ware—a charismatic performer currently lighting up the stage in Las Vegas. He opens up about his coming out story, how he landed the role, his passion for fitness, and what it’s like dating and making friends as an adult. We also talk Janet Jackson (of course), queer identity, and Drag Race favorites. It’s heartfelt, fun, and full of energy—don’t miss it!
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In this episode, we chat with queer matchmaker Daniel Cooley about coming out, growing up in Victorville, being homeschooled, and ending up on Millionaire Matchmaker. We also dive into the dating struggles of the app era—and how he helps people find real connection.
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In this heartfelt debut, we turn the mic toward co-host Gabriel Drumond to explore his personal story—growing up gay in a small town in Brazil, moving to the U.S. alone in his twenties, and navigating identity, love, and belonging along the way.
We also open up about why we created this podcast: to connect with our LGBTQ+ community, make new friends, and hold space for honest, healing, and inspiring conversations.
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Dr. Tyler & Gabriel unwind and discuss their recent road trip to the West Coast.
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Dr. Tyler and Gabriel (attempt to) catch you up, and oh - they're moving!
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Dr. Tyler and Gabriel explore the importance of setting and maintaining boundaries in relationships with friends and family, both during upbringing and later in life, highlighting how these boundaries can lead to greater personal relief and healthier connections, especially within the LGBTQ+ community.Follow us on Instagram:@ tylerjh@ gabrieldrummnd@ relationspod
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Dr. Tyler and Gabriel discuss the significance of proactive planning for the future, especially within the LGBTQ+ community, while maintaining hope and optimism for the best outcomes.Follow us on Instagram:@ tylerjh@ gabrieldrummnd@ relationspod
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Dr. Tyler and Gabriel explore the stereotypes and expectations of traditional gender roles in marriage, and how these notions apply to and differ in gay relationships, challenging the straight narrative of being the 'husband' or 'wife.'
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Dr. Tyler & Gabriel discuss the impact of missing 'puppy love' during gay adolescence and how this affects building relationships in adulthood.Follow us on Instagram:@ tylerjh@ gabrieldrummnd@ relationspod
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Dr. Tyler and Gabriel discuss their personal experiences with intimacy and explore how these attachments can vary from person to person.
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Dr. Tyler and Gabriel discuss the forced label of being a "rebel" when embracing queerness, and the challenges and pitfalls that come with this perception.
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Dr. Tyler and Gabriel discuss their experiences growing up gay and the impact of music on finding strength, hope, and inspiration.
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Dr. Tyler & Gabriel discuss their experiences making friends & building relationships after coming out.
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