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Welcome back to the kitchen table. When our children misstep or hurt someone, it’s more than just saying "sorry." We’re called to help them restore their relationships—not just with the person they hurt, but with God too. This restoration goes far beyond an outward apology. It's about heart transformation.
When Bethany talks about parenting through different ages and stages, she reminds us of the call in Philippians 1:6—the truth that God is working in each of us and that His work isn’t finished. This is the mindset we hold onto, especially in those tough moments with our children.
When their behavior pushes our patience, we resist discouragement. Instead, we believe in the promise that God is still molding them, shaping their hearts, and drawing them closer to his plan.
Rather than focusing on compliance or behavior, we point them to the grace, forgiveness, and love that God offers.
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Welcome back to the kitchen table. When it comes to guiding our children, it's easy to fall into guilt, lectures, and the desire for instant compliance. But instead of relying on our own words, we can turn to the truth of God's promises.
Today, Bethany is sharing three anchoring scriptures that help us pray for our children with intention and trust. We pray simple and powerful prayers—asking for forgiveness, trusting in God's kindness to lead them to repentance, and relying on his love to meet them in their weaknesses. Letting go of the desire to lecture can be tough, but there's beauty in handing the conversation back to the Holy Spirit.These scriptures remind us that God’s grace, patience, and transformative power are the true anchors in our children’s lives, far beyond anything we can say or do.
Anchoring Scriptures:
1 John 1:9
Romans 2:4
Romans 5: 6-11Connect with Bethany here
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Welcome back to the table. Today, Bethany is diving into one of the more delicate aspects of parenting—leading our kids in the process of repentance. It's something we all wrestle with at times. You may have asked yourself, What is my goal in a repentance conversation? or What am I really trying to accomplish?
It starts with asking good questions. When we create space for the Holy Spirit to speak, we allow our children to reflect on their actions, thoughts, and their relationship with God.
By asking these questions, you leave space for the Holy Spirit to speak to their hearts. You’re not forcing the conversation, but creating room for God to do what only he can do. Our job is to help them recognize it and understand the beauty of turning back to him.
Remember—it's less about the discipline itself and more about helping them connect with God.
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Welcome back to the kitchen table! Today, Bethany is walking us through a crucial topic: repentance. It’s a word we often hear and toss around, but what does it truly mean, and how can we guide our kids through it?
When introducing repentance to our children, it’s important to remember that it’s not just about saying sorry but about helping them understand a heart-level change. Luke 5:32 reminds us that Jesus came to call sinners to repentance, and Acts 3:19 encourages us to turn to God and receive forgiveness. It’s a challenge to teach our kids to think differently and recognize that none of us are perfect.
We can remind them that repentance is about their relationship with God—it’s not about guilt or shame. Instead, it’s about the freedom we have in Christ because Jesus came to save us.
Bethany highlights that repentance is one of the most beautiful parts of our faith. As we talk with our kids, we get to watch God work in their hearts, helping them understand the power of turning to Him. These gospel-centered conversations create opportunities for our children to experience God’s grace and grow in their walk with him.
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Welcome back to the kitchen table. Bethany offers practical strategies and scenarios for handling challenging moments, whether you're managing a toddler’s tantrum or a teenager’s disconnect.
What does inspection look like on those tough days? For toddlers, it means getting low and getting quiet. Ask gently, “What’s going on in your heart?” Use these moments to introduce the idea that Jesus came to rescue you, helping them connect their feelings with grace.
For teenagers, inspection involves modeling and discussing values even when they seem disconnected or resistant. Engage in conversations about their beliefs, and avoid shame. Focus on how Jesus brings salvation and heart change rather than condemnation.
Bethany’s insights provide practical advice for transforming difficult moments into opportunities for growth, keeping Jesus at the center.
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Welcome back to the kitchen table! Today, Bethany dives into what gospel-centered inspection conversations look like at different ages. You might be thinking, “I couldn’t have this conversation with my kids,” but remember—these talks take practice and repetition, and they may not go smoothly the first time.
With little ones, begin by asking hard questions like, “What was going on in your heart?” It’s about modeling and practicing these discussions. Engage with them and sometimes even guide them through the process. Lay out the concepts clearly and give them time to respond. The goal is not to make them feel bad but to introduce Jesus into their lives.
As your children grow into young adults, these conversations shift. They’ll start to take more ownership of their reflections, and you’ll transition from guiding them to partnering in their journey. The foundation you’ve built will help them navigate these discussions with greater independence, always keeping Jesus at the center.
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Welcome back to the kitchen table. As we walk through the inspection phase of gospel-centered conversations with our children, scripture provides us with truths that anchor our hearts and guide us in love and wisdom.
Proverbs 16:2 reminds us that while we can observe actions, God is the one who truly sees and weighs the heart. Our role as parents is to partner with him, seeking to understand what lies beneath our children’s behavior.
Hebrews 4:12 encourages us to let God’s word shape our discernment, bringing clarity as we navigate difficult conversations. When we are rooted in his truth, we are better equipped to handle their hearts with care.
1 Corinthians 13 reminds us that love must guide everything we do. This phase of inspection is an opportunity to reflect Christ's love—offering grace, understanding, and safety as we help our children grow in both wisdom and faith.
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Welcome back to the kitchen table. As parents, it's easy to get caught up in correcting behavior, but we are called to go deeper, to create a space where our children can unpack their hearts before God.
We want to be intentional about setting the stage for these meaningful conversations. Our goal is for our children to think, "She is here to learn about me" and "She is here to unpack my heart with me." This phase is not about issuing a verdict or layering on guilt and shame, but about helping them unwrap what's going on inside.
When we guide our children through the inspection phase, we are pointing them back to the gospel, showing them how to align their hearts with God’s truth. This is where real transformation happens—not just correcting behavior, but leading them to the One who truly knows and heals their hearts.
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Welcome back to the kitchen table. This week, Bethany is diving into the second part of our Jesus-centered discipline conversation: inspection.
Inspection is about looking deeper into our children’s hearts to understand the "why" behind their actions. It’s not enough to correct behavior—we have to ask the right questions to unpack it.
It's not just about correcting behavior but leading our children to understand what’s going on inside. We ask questions like, “What was happening in your heart when this occurred?”. By doing this, we teach them to examine their motives and align their hearts with God’s truth.
God doesn’t stop at correcting us—he invites us into deeper reflection and growth. In the same way, as we help our children unpack their hearts, we’re showing them how to grow in Christ and embrace his grace.
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Welcome back to the kitchen table. In John 20, the story of Thomas gives us a beautiful example of how God approaches correction. When Thomas doubted Jesus' resurrection, Jesus didn’t respond with frustration or rebuke. Instead, he led with a question.
Bethany encourages listeners that this method of leading correction with a question is something we can apply when guiding our children. At different ages, the approach may look different, but the heart of it remains the same.
For younger kids, it might look like asking simple questions: "What do you think Jesus would want you to do?" With older children, we can dive deeper, encouraging them to reflect on their actions and how their faith plays a role.
But the heart of the matter is this: God leads correction with a question, and we are called to do the same, guiding them with love and grace.
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Welcome back to the kitchen table. Bethany is frequently asked, “Can gospel-centered conversations be done with little ones, too?” In this episode, she invites listeners to join her in exploring how even with very young children, meaningful, faith-based discussions can take place.
With younger children, it is essential to lead the conversation, as they may not yet have the capacity to provide all the answers. Bethany emphasizes that the expectation is not for children to fully grasp everything at once but rather to help them reflect on their actions and experiences.
The purpose here is not solely to correct behavior, but to foster connection and understanding.Even with little ones, having these gospel-centered conversations can plant seeds of faith.
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Welcome back to the kitchen table. In moments of correction with our children, anchoring our conversations in prayer can bring clarity and peace. Bethany encourages us to bring everything before God and seek His wisdom through scripture.
Where can we anchor in the Bible during these moments? Jeremiah 33:3 reminds us to call to God, and he will answer us, revealing things we do not know. Luke 8:17 highlights that nothing is hidden from God, and Luke 12 urges us to remember that he sees all things. Psalm 139 emphasizes God's intimate knowledge of our hearts.
As we navigate correction, be active in praying these words over your conversations. Our role is to pray that God gives us the insight we cannot find on our own. Before stepping into correction, ask God to reveal what needs to be seen and give you the wisdom to guide your child with gentleness and understanding.
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Welcome back to the kitchen table. In gospel-centered conversations during correction, Bethany reminds us that the goal is to seek clarity—both for ourselves and our children. Rather than diving into a lecture, we should start by simply asking, “What happened? Why are you here with me?”
This approach helps ensure that we see all parts of the situation, just as God does. Instead of focusing on what we already know, we encourage our children to make their own connections by asking thoughtful questions.
When we connect with our kids and avoid accusing them, their hearts stay open. Rushing to judgment or assuming facts can quickly shut them down, but by asking good questions and truly listening, we gain clarity and understanding. Our role is to guide, not accuse, and in doing so, we reflect God's patience and wisdom.
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Welcome back to the kitchen table. As parents, navigating correction with a gospel-centered heart can feel challenging. In today's world, correction is often misunderstood as harsh or mean. However, Bethany reminds us that God’s model of correction throughout scripture, particularly in Genesis 3, shows a different approach—one rooted in love and understanding.
Bethany encourages us to take a similar approach when we need to correct our kids. It's not about being harsh but asking the right questions that guide them. She breaks it down into four key parts: correction, inspection, repentance, and blessing.
Using this approach allows us to guide our children with patience and love, reflecting God’s heart in our parenting.
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Welcome back to the kitchen table. Bethany, drawing from her own experiences raising daughters, knows how challenging the teenage years can be for both moms and their daughters. The transition from middle school to high school often brings a whirlwind of emotions, from excitement to apprehension. Understanding these dynamics, Sandra Stanley and her daughter, Allie, have created a resource to help mothers and daughters strengthen their connection, communication, and faith.
In today’s episode, Bethany sits down with Sandra and Allie to delve into their new book, Meet Me in the Middle. This book offers an approach by alternating chapters between Sandra and Allie, creating a dialogue that speaks directly to both moms and their teenage daughters. This format aims to facilitate meaningful conversations and address potential issues before they escalate, all from a faith-centered perspective.
Meet Me in the Middle explores themes of identity and the gospel, encouraging readers to build a strong personal and spiritual foundation. Sandra and Allie’s book is designed to foster deep connections and mutual understanding between mothers and daughters by engaging in conversations rooted in their shared faith.
Sandra and Allie’s heartfelt and practical advice can guide you through the complexities of the teenage years, offering valuable insights for building a supportive and open relationship. This book is a must-read for any mom or daughter navigating this pivotal stage of life.
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Welcome back to the kitchen table. Many moms carry a deep hope that if they raise their children in faith, those children will naturally follow God as they grow older. But when a child begins to reject that faith, it can lead to heartbreak and confusion.
In these moments, many turn to Proverbs 22:6: "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it."It’s easy to cling to this verse as a promise, believing that if we do everything right, our children will never stray from the Holy Spirit.
But Proverbs 22:6 is not a guarantee—it’s wisdom. It teaches us the importance of instilling faith and values in our children, but it doesn’t assure us that they will always choose to stay on that path. This scripture has given Bethany direction and wisdom during times of uncertainty. It reminded her that her role is to train and guide her children with love and faithfulness.
When we walk in wisdom, there is often fruit, but we must remember that each child is on their own journey.
Training up a child in the way they should go is about laying a foundation. While we may not see the results we hope for immediately, we can trust that the wisdom we impart and the example we set will remain with them.
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Welcome back to the kitchen table. As parents, it’s easy to fall into the routine of correction—pointing out what’s wrong and what needs to change.
1 Thessalonians 2:11-12 reminds us to come alongside our children with the heart of a loving parent, speaking the unique language of each child. It’s about seeing them as individuals, not just correcting their behavior, but offering the support they need in those moments.
Are we offering support and understanding, or are we merely passing judgment? Are we encouraging them to grow in their strengths and guiding them with a gentle hand, or are we focused on their shortcomings?
Take a moment today to ask God for guidance. Am I coming alongside my child in a way that honors their individuality? Am I speaking their language, offering not just correction, but also comfort and encouragement? Let this be the lens through which we view our role as parents, striving to reflect God’s love in every interaction.
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Welcome back to the kitchen table. Correcting our children is never easy, and it can be especially challenging to keep these moments centered on the gospel.
It’s easy to let frustration take over, but 1 Thessalonians 2:7 reminds us, "We were gentle among you." Spiritually, our children are still growing, we are called to be mindful of how we speak to them during times of discipline, ensuring our words are filled with grace and gentleness.
Being gentle doesn’t mean avoiding discipline, but it does mean being mindful of how we deliver it. Share your own struggles with your children. Admit your impatience, and acknowledge your imperfections. Let them see that you, too, are a sinner in need of grace.
Share with them how Jesus is working on your heart, even in moments of correction. When our children see that we, too, are being transformed by the gospel, they’re more likely to understand the importance of these conversations
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Welcome back to the kitchen table. As parents, we deeply desire for our children to follow Christ—not because it’s our family tradition, but because they genuinely understand their need for Him.
In 1 Corinthians 2:5, Paul reminds us that our faith should rest "not on human wisdom, but on God’s power." This is the foundation we want to lay for our children.
We pray for our children to know God personally, to experience his love and power in their lives, and to develop a faith that grows independently of us. Our role as mothers is to lead them to Christ and then step aside, allowing the Holy Spirit to work in their hearts, so their faith rests on his power alone.
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Welcome back to the kitchen table. This week, Bethany invites listeners into an important conversation: How do we have Jesus-centered conversations with our children effectively? And how do these conversations impact their understanding of who God is and how He sees them?
The truth is, the only way to make Jesus come alive in your children is if He is alive in you. Our kids don’t just need to hear about Jesus—they need to see Him in us. This means our conversations must be rooted in our connection with the Holy Spirit, allowing His wisdom to guide us in how we speak and relate to our children.
The first step is to recognize that our conversations about Jesus need to start with our own connection to him. 1 Corinthians 2:1-5 reminds us that it’s not our own wisdom or strength that will make a difference, but the power of the Holy Spirit working through us.
When we connect with the Holy Spirit, we invite his wisdom and love into our conversations, allowing Jesus to come alive in us—and by extension, in our children.
By making Jesus the center of our conversations and letting the Holy Spirit guide our words, we not only teach our children about God but also show them what it looks like to live in his love.
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