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  • Have you ever wondered how the legal system adapts to the ever-changing dynamics of modern families? Family law expert Jackie Harounian from Wisselman, Harounian & Associates Law Firm joins us to unpack the complexities of custody arrangements, child support, and the nuances of New York's surrogacy law. With over two decades of experience, Jackie highlights the transition from 'matrimonial law' to 'family law,' reflecting the diverse forms of contemporary family structures. She passionately discusses the rewarding process of facilitating adoptions and the significant impact lawyers can have during times of family distress.Navigating the delicate balance of co-parenting post-divorce can be like walking a tightrope, but it's a journey that parents and courts are increasingly undertaking with more amicability and legal recognition of fathers' rights. Jackie and I delve into this transformation, emphasizing the importance of clear communication and proper legal guidance. The chapter on mental health's role in divorce proceedings sheds light on the importance of recognizing abuse and the critical intervention necessary for those in relationships with a partner exhibiting personality disorders.Finally, if you're facing the prospect of relocation or simply have an interest in family law, Jackie's insights are indispensable. We discuss how to connect with a family law attorney and the intricacies of moving with children in the mix. Listeners are encouraged to engage with us in the comments to continue this important conversation. In recognition of the depth of this dialogue, we're already planning a follow-up episode to further explore these vital family law issues. Jackie's knowledge is a treasure trove for anyone navigating the legal landscape of family dynamics.(00:01) Family LawFamily law attorney Jackie Harounian shares her experience in handling diverse family structures, including custody, support, adoption, and surrogacy.(12:51) Co-Parenting and Legal RightsJoint custody and co-parenting provide balance for parents, but legal rights and safety must be considered.(15:58) Co-Parenting and Mental Health in DivorceNature's evolving custody landscape, 50-50 arrangements, co-parenting, and children's preferences impact custody decisions.(23:13) Understanding Personality Disorders in RelationshipsPersonality disorders, domestic violence, mental health issues, and the role of family law attorneys in relationships and divorce.(30:54) Connecting With a Family Law AttorneyFamily law attorney Jackie shares insights on relocation complexities and valuable resources for listeners to learn more.https://lawjaw.com/attorneys/jacqueline-harounian/https://www.linkedin.com/in/jacquelineharounianhttps://usattorneys.com/lawyer/ms-jacqueline-harounian/https://www.instagram.com/jackie_harounian/?hl=enhttps://www.usa500clubs.com/members/?id=75122172https://jewishlawyers.net/jacqueline-harounian-3868

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  • Witnessing the unraveling of my own parents' marriage as a child left me with a suitcase of unanswered questions and emotions. Fast forward to today, and we're joined by Billie, a family attorney from Gilbert, Arizona, who not only lived a similar story but also dedicated her career to guiding others through the choppy seas of family law. In this heart-to-heart talk, she shares valuable insights on how the echoes of divorce resonate with children and young adults, emphasizing that the conflict level is the true culprit of long-lasting scars, not the divorce itself. Billy marries her personal narrative with her legal acumen to offer strategies that protect the emotional well-being of those caught in the middle.The echoes of lockdown still reverberate in many homes, where the pandemic's pressure-cooker environment escalated underlying domestic tensions, sometimes shattering relationships beyond repair. On the flip side, some families found a silver lining, with strengthened bonds forged in the crucible of shared adversity. Billy walks us through these contrasting tales while unraveling the knotted threads of parental alienation—a term that's as complex legally as it is emotionally. Her advice to those navigating these treacherous waters is both a lighthouse and a lifeboat, as she emphasizes the importance of mental health and clear communication in weathering the storm.We close our episode with a compass for the journey of co-parenting and divorce, illuminating the path through the dense fog of legalities and emotional turmoil. Billy speaks to the importance of knowing your rights and when to seek legal counsel, advocating for mediation as a beacon of hope for maintaining peace and ensuring the welfare of the children involved. Whether you're at the beginning of this voyage or navigating the aftermath, this episode is charted to offer support, resources, and guidance to help you find your way to calmer waters.

    (00:01) The Impact of Divorce on Children

    Divorce's impact on children, strategies for protection, and addressing common concerns from a family attorney's personal experience.

    (09:28) Effects of Pandemic on Families

    Lockdowns brought relationship issues to forefront, leading to domestic conflicts and divorces, while also addressing parental alienation.

    (17:27) Understanding Parental Alienation Dynamics

    Parental alienation, misconceptions, therapist recommendations, different parenting styles, navigating parental rights, and imperfect parenting.

    (20:51) Co-Parenting and Divorce Advice

    Family court's approach to parenting time, the importance of understanding rights during divorce, benefits of mediation, and long-term perspective.

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  • Having walked the tightrope between justice and legal misapprehensions, Asia Scarlett-Jones joins us to unravel the complexities of family law. Her transition from a public defender to championing her own practice in downstate New York showcases a relentless pursuit to mend the chasms within the legal framework, especially when it comes to representing children and marginalized voices. Together, we dissect the often erroneous beliefs that cloud the issues of custody and equitable division of assets post-divorce, reinforcing the notion that all is fair in love and law until the gavel falls.The convoluted web of custodial battles often ensnares fathers in outdated stereotypes, but in this candid exchange, we lay bare the systemic biases that can sideline their parental rights. As we recount tales from the trenches, our shared experiences underscore the paramountcy of the children's welfare over the parents' emotional strife. In the end, it's not just about who wins but ensuring that the child's life remains as harmonious as possible through the collective effort of both parents.Our journey through the legal labyrinth wouldn't be complete without touching on the thorny issue of narcissism in the courtroom. Peeling back the layers of this contentious term, we strive to differentiate between authentic personality disorders and the emotional flares that divorce can ignite. Technology's role in smoothing the co-parenting path also makes an appearance, highlighting how proper communication tools can defuse potentially explosive situations. In closing, we invite you to follow Asia Scarlett-Jones and her mission, because this isn't just another episode; it's a beacon for anyone navigating the stormy seas of family law.(00:01) Navigating Family Law MisconceptionsAttorney Asia Scarlett-Jones shares her journey from public defender to starting her own practice, advocating for underrepresented groups in family law.(12:39) Navigating Custodial Challenges in Family LawNavigating family law as an attorney, emphasizing balance and reality in custody disputes, and advocating for fathers' rights and involvement in their children's lives.(19:24) Navigating Narcissism in Divorce CourtEmpowering male clients in custody battles, recognizing legal abuse, and promoting co-parenting communication for the sake of children.(29:48) Promotion and Call to ActionNature's interconnectedness with language, perception, and environment is discussed, with a call to action for community engagement and support for featured guest Asia from ASJ Law.https://www.linkedin.com/in/asiascarlettjonesesqhttps://asjlawoffice.com/https://www.linkedin.com/company/asj-law-officehttps://www.lawyer.com/i-asia-scarlett-jones.htmlFamily Law, Custody, Divorce, Legal Misconceptions, Parental Rights, Children's Welfare, Narcissism, Co-Parenting, Legal System, Underrepresented Groups, Advocacy, Marriage, Partnership, Asset Division, Court Order, Control Struggle, Emotional Battles, Stereotypes, Systemic Biases, Fair Parenting Time, Empowerment, Personality Disorders, Emotional Pain, Legal Abuse, Technology, Communication, Community Interaction, ASJ Law, Matthew Phifer

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  • Have you ever considered the path less taken in the world of divorce? Scott Levin, an esteemed mediator and family law attorney, joins me for a profound conversation on the transformative power of mediation over litigation. Throughout our discussion, Scott, with his extensive knowledge in both finance and law, offers a fresh lens to view divorce resolution. He highlights the ability of mediation to foster a more personalized and less adversarial solution for all involved. We tackle the myths around transparency and the fear of undisclosed assets, reassuring listeners that a fair process is paramount in mediation, with litigation as a backup.The journey of mediation is paved with communication and understanding, and Scott delves into what it takes to navigate these often choppy waters. We uncover the emotional barriers and the stumbling blocks of differing parenting philosophies that can capsize the mediation process. Yet, it's the willingness to engage, the commitment to finding mutual resolutions, and the active participation of both parties that steer the ship towards a successful outcome. This episode peels back the layers on why these elements not only save time and money but also preserve emotional health, as opposed to the adversarial tides of courtroom battles.As we wrap up our session, Scott and I venture into the waters of prenuptial agreements and their role in mediation. We consider how these agreements might need to be reset to reflect the true consensus of both parties. Moreover, Scott impressively articulates the importance of choosing mediators who specialize in their craft rather than oscillating between litigation and mediation mindsets. I extend a heartfelt invitation to our listeners to engage with the content, share their experiences, and seek out Scott's expertise, especially those navigating the complexities of California's legal system. Our dialogue is a beacon for those seeking to find peace and resolution in the midst of difficult conversations.

    (00:02) Mediation vs. Litigation in Divorce

    Mediation in divorce can provide a less stressful and cost-effective alternative, uncovering common ground and promoting amicable solutions.

    (09:02) Successful Mediation and Communicating Effectively

    Mediation in conflict resolution involves active listening, understanding, and finding solutions, with potential benefits over litigation.

    (17:51) Pre-Nups and Mediation Dynamics

    Nature's mediation process often requires a reset, leads to fewer modifications, and can be affected by prenuptial agreements.

    (27:48) Engage Audience, Create Call to Action

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  • This chapter welcomes Maya Shulman of the Shulman Family Law Group to share her journey into family law, a field she never planned to pursue but now navigates with expertise. We explore why attorneys often find themselves in family law by chance and the importance of specialized knowledge in this area, given the long-term impact it has on clients' lives. Maya emphasizes the dangers of inexperienced legal representation and the pitfalls of underestimating family law complexities, such as drafting documents without proper legal advice. She offers insights into the first case she handled, the learning curve involved, and the value of seeking mentorship. Highlighting the significance of getting things right the first time, Maya also discusses the challenge of rectifying poorly handled cases and the misconception that family law is simply about checking boxes(00:02) Navigating Family LawMaya Shulman shares her journey into family law, emphasizing the importance of specialized knowledge and mentorship in handling cases.(16:12) Surrogacy, Family Law, and PrenupsNature's intersection with surrogacy and family law, including decisions on unused embryos, prenuptial agreements, and cohabitation agreements.(26:00) Promoting Maya's Legal ServicesThank you for tuning in and engaging with our guest's content. Consider Maya for legal representation in California. https://shulmanfamilylawgroup.us/maya-shulman-esq/https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayashulmanhttps://www.instagram.com/cafamilylaw/The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.http://betterhelp.com/mattphiferBetterHelp - Get Started & Sign-Up TodayBetterHelp offers private, affordable online counseling when you need it from licensed, board-accredited therapists. Get help, you deserve to be happy!Family Law, Surrogacy, Prenuptial Agreements, Cohabitation Contracts, Legalities, Familial Relationships, Legal Matters, Mentorship, Unused Embryos, Marital Planning, Cohabitation Agreements, Legal Representation, Specialized Knowledge, Long-term Impact, Inexperienced, Legal Advice, Learning Curve, Checking Boxes, Intersection, Independent Legal Counsel, Common-law Marriage, Protection, California, Legal Services, Engagement, Social Media Channels, Instagram, Exciting Content

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  • Ever wondered how empathy can be a powerful tool in the courtroom? Join me, Matthew Pfeiffer, as I sit down with Megan L. Drury from GRGB Law, a family law attorney with a heart. With a journey that took her from the world of mental health to the legal landscape of family law, Megan offers us a unique insight into the complexities of navigating clients' emotions during some of the most challenging periods of their lives. Discover how her empathetic approach, coupled with a fierce determination, defies the stereotypes of both lawyers and therapists, providing a distinct advantage in her practice.During our conversation, Megan shares her personal evolution and how her skills as a therapist seamlessly integrate into her role as an attorney. We explore the strategic edge she gains from understanding psychological evaluations and the importance of setting strong boundaries—traits that serve her well in both sensitive negotiations and courtroom battles. This episode is not just about the intersection of law and therapy; it's a testament to the power of listening and empathy as legal tools. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion that may just reshape your perception of the legal profession.

    (03:51 - 05:41) Navigating Family Law and Mental Health

    (08:29 - 10:48) Navigating Domestic Violence Allegations in Court

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  • This chapter addresses the intricacies of attorney billing, emphasizing the importance of understanding the scope of representation and when fees are considered earned, especially in flat fee arrangements. We examine ethical considerations in billing and the need for clear communication regarding the extent of services covered.

    Additionally, I touch on the necessity of litigation versus mediation, outlining the attorney's role in guiding clients through this decision based on their unique circumstances. The conversation also highlights the emotional toll of legal disputes, advocating for a strong support system and the potential benefits of therapy to help clients navigate the emotional aspects of their case as they prepare for possible litigation.

    Chapter 1 Family Law and Social Media Challenges 00:01

    Family law attorney Gabrielle Best Husband shares insights on advocacy, understanding clients' needs, and the impact of social media.

    Chapter 2 Navigating Divorce Costs and Social Media 07:20

    Social media's impact on legal proceedings, including custody disputes and financial implications in divorce cases.

    Chapter 3 Understanding Attorney Billing and Litigation Preparation 16:25

    billing, ethical considerations, litigation versus mediation, emotional toll, support system, and therapy for clients.

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  • This chapter examines the complex issue of false domestic violence claims and the misuse of restraining orders, as relayed by my detective friend with 21 years of experience, who has found that about half of such calls may be unfounded. I discuss the motives behind these actions, which can range from custody battles to immigration benefits, and underscore the term 'toxicity' as a catch-all for the damaging behaviors that drive such scenarios. We also touch on the red flags that may signal a person's propensity to fabricate allegations, emphasizing the importance of honesty and the potential consequences of staying in relationships with individuals who habitually lie or exhibit abusive tendencies. Furthermore, I share insights on how I've learned to discern genuine cases from those that may be leveraging the legal system for ulterior motives when it comes to restraining orders, and the ethical stance taken in our practice to decline involvement in questionable claims.

    (00:01) Criminal Defense and Justice Reform

    Passionate criminal defense attorney Zeno Sobo discusses false allegations, the presumption of innocence, and advocating for fairness in the justice system.

    (11:56) False Claims and Toxic Relationships

    Detective shares insights on false domestic violence claims and restraining order misuse, emphasizing toxicity and red flags.

    (22:24) Grace in Legal Defense

    False accusations have a lasting impact on the accused's life, reputation, relationships, and the justice system's approach to offenders.

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  • This chapter we explore the complexities of handling debt in divorce within a community property state, with a particular focus on Texas law. We discuss the importance of the date of separation in distinguishing between communal and individual debt, the role of income and the concept of temporary spousal maintenance versus the challenges of obtaining spousal maintenance post-divorce. We also touch on the distribution of assets and how one's financial contribution during the marriage can impact the outcome. Additionally, I share insights on the value of prenuptial agreements and the significance of financial transparency and preparation for the eventual end of a marriage, whether by divorce or death. Lastly, I emphasize the importance of understanding all aspects of marital responsibilities, from bill payments to child-rearing, to better equip oneself for potential life after divorce.

    Chapter 1 COVID-19's Impact on Divorce Cases 00:00

    Attorney Trisha Morales-Padia discusses COVID-19's impact on divorce rates and legal processes, virtual court proceedings, and her transition to divorce and estate planning.

    Chapter 2 Divorce Debt and Past Actions Navigation 06:43

    Prior knowledge of spouse's actions and handling of debt in divorce, including financial abuse and intentional harm.

    Chapter 3 Divorce, Debt, and Protecting Yourself 12:03

    Community property state divorce in Texas: date of separation, income, spousal maintenance, asset distribution, prenuptial agreements, financial preparation.

    Chapter 4 Working With Clients in Various Locations 22:23

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  • Learn how to grow and monetize on social media: https://beacons.ai/signup?c=mattphifercoachingTherapy: http://betterhelp.com/mattphiferLet's Connect: https://beacons.ai/mattphifercoachingTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mattphifercoachingGrow on Youtube! https://vidiq.com/phifermediaTry audible for free: https://amzn.to/3PE1MpqTry Prime Video For Free: https://amzn.to/3F8lpBiRecord your podcast on riverside like me: https://riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_1&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=matthew-phifer#truecrime #crimecases #unmaskingdarkness #shockingcases #truecrimecommunity #youtubevideo #unravelingcases #crimeinvestigation #mysterycrew #unmaskingthetruth #crimelovers #documentary #crimeobsessed #crimesolution #criminalminds #crimefiles #criminalinvestigation #truecrimestories #unsolvedcases #darksecret #murdercases

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  • The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.

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  • Navigating the complexities of relationships and the emotional whirlwind of divorce requires a certain finesse and understanding that few possess. Enter Brian Blitz, a seasoned family law attorney from Chicago, who joins me, Matthew Phifer, on an insightful episode of the Matt Phifer Experience. Together, we peel back the layers of matrimonial law, revealing Brian's personal embarking into the legal realm and how his approach to client relationships defies the typical lawyer stereotypes. Through our candid conversation, we unearth the empathy often missing in family law and reflect on Brian's 19-year marriage, drawing parallels between personal commitment and professional dedication.This episode is far from a legal lecture; it's a heart-to-heart on the secret ingredients of enduring partnerships and the essential nature of maintaining an optimistic outlook post-separation. We scrutinize the early warning signs in relationships and the importance of being on the same page with life goals. Brian and I also weigh in on the intriguing dynamics of high-net-worth divorces, sharing our experiences and the nuanced considerations that accompany the dissolution of such unions.Wrapping up, our dialogue shifts towards the delicate issue of privacy in the digital era we inhabit. We dissect the challenges faced by those in the public eye, discussing how to handle the spotlight with grace and discretion during personal upheavals. Emphasizing the importance of ethical legal representation, Brian and I also address the ramifications of social media conduct during divorce proceedings and the credibility pitfalls of labeling ex-partners without a professional diagnosis. This episode is a treasure trove of pragmatic wisdom for anyone looking to emerge from the trials of divorce with their dignity intact and eyes fixed on a positive horizon.

    (00:02) Interview With Family Law Attorney

    Brian Blitz shares his journey as a family lawyer, emphasizing authenticity and personal connection with clients, and the value of successful marriages.

    (05:38) Key Factors in Successful Relationships

    Fostering optimism and self-confidence after divorce, recognizing red flags in relationships, and unique aspects of high-profile divorces.

    (12:17) Managing Celebrity Cases and Privacy

    High-profile individuals face unique challenges during personal crises, including financial complexities and risks of the digital age.

    (15:36) Navigating Divorce and Post-Divorce Relationships

    Discretion on social media during divorce, avoiding airing grievances, and not labeling ex-partner without a diagnosis.

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  • In this video we will talk about considering and having an honest and open conversation with your friend about the financial strain and the challenges you've faced in the past when her husband attends. Express that it's not about excluding him personally, but rather about managing the budget for the dinner. You can suggest alternative solutions, such as a potluck or having everyone contribute a small amount to cover the expenses. #aita #cashcowmakers #talkinghead #talkingheads #friends #frienship #husbandwife #eating #dinner #eatingdinner #girlsnight Learn how to grow and monetize on social media: https://beacons.ai/signup?c=mattphifercoachingTherapy: http://betterhelp.com/mattphiferLet's Connect: https://beacons.ai/mattphifercoachingTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mattphifercoachingGrow on Youtube! https://vidiq.com/phifermediaTry audible for free: https://amzn.to/3PE1MpqTry Prime Video For Free: https://amzn.to/3F8lpBiRecord your podcast on riverside like me: https://riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_1&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=matthew-phifer#truecrime #crimecases #unmaskingdarkness #shockingcases #truecrimecommunity #youtubevideo #unravelingcases #crimeinvestigation #mysterycrew #unmaskingthetruth #crimelovers #documentary #crimeobsessed #crimesolution #criminalminds #crimefiles #criminalinvestigation #truecrimestories #unsolvedcases #darksecret #murdercases

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  • This chapter focuses on the challenges of mediating cases that involve narcissistic individuals, particularly in the context of legal disputes. I share insights on the nature of narcissism, emphasizing the difficulty in getting narcissists to agree or see alternative viewpoints. I discuss strategies used to manage and settle disputes involving narcissists, such as valuing their contributions and giving them a sense of power through choices. The use of praise and strategic options is highlighted as effective in dealing with their black-and-white thinking. Additionally, I touch upon the logistics of mediation in my practice, including conducting sessions virtually via Zoom and in separate rooms to facilitate the process.(00:02) Mediation in Divorce Cases

    Natalie Baird King discusses the benefits of mediation over litigation in family law cases, emphasizing individual empowerment and tailored solutions.

    (11:13) Navigating Narcissism in Mediation

    - Managing disputes with narcissistic individuals in legal mediation, using strategies like valuing their contributions and giving them choices.

    (18:09) Gender Differences and Mediator Qualification

    Female narcissists use caretaking roles manipulatively in legal disputes, leveraging gender biases to their advantage.

    (21:59) Key Factors in Choosing a Mediator

    Select a competent family law mediator with deep understanding and experience, who actively engages parties and addresses emotional barriers.

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  • In this video, It's evident that you're going through a challenging situation, dealing with your sister's health issues and the impact it has on your life events. It's understandable that you feel frustrated and want to ensure that your important moments are not overshadowed. Additionally, we would like to emphasize the significance of mental health awareness and support systems. Mental health challenges can sometimes lead to unimaginable acts of despair. By fostering an open dialogue about mental health and cultivating supportive environments, we can work towards preventing such devastating events from occurring. Our intention is never to exploit or sensationalize tragedy, but rather to promote empathy, education, and compassion. We hope this video encourages meaningful discussions and actions that contribute to creating a safer and more compassionate world.#truestory #truetolifestory #storytelling #story #storyteller #cashcowmakers #situational #wedding #sisters #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #aita

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  • This chapter welcomes Raymond Heckmat, a mediating divorce attorney from Beverly Hills, who shares insights on the complexities of litigation versus mediation in divorce proceedings. I emphasize the importance of prenuptial agreements, advocating for their near-mandatory status given the inevitability of a marriage ending in death or divorce. Raymond outlines his shift from contentious litigation to a more peaceful mediation and consulting practice, highlighting the benefits for clients navigating divorce. He stresses the role of mediation as a facilitative process rather than one that offers legal advice, explaining how he guides clients through understanding their rights and obligations to achieve fair outcomes. Additionally, we discuss the importance of maintaining a cooperative relationship between divorcing parents for the benefit of their children and setting a positive example by successfully managing their separation.

    (00:00) Mediating Divorce for a Successful Outcome

    Raymond Heckmat shares insights on mediation in divorce, emphasizing prenuptial agreements and cooperative parenting for children's benefit.

    (09:42) Mediation and Prenups

    Mediation in divorce allows control, but may not work with extreme contention, unreasonable demands, or domestic violence.

    (17:36) Importance of Discussing Prenups Before Marriage

    Understanding state laws, discussing prenups, and communicating about money are crucial for successful marriages.

    (29:55) Dating and Relationships in California

    Self-protection in California dating, advice for vulnerable loved ones, and insights from guest Raymond Heckmatt.

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  • The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.

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    Will Guilford is with the Guilford Law Group in New York State. Will is someone who deals with high-conflict cases, high-conflict divorces, and divorces of all kinds.

    So yeah, no, everybody can find me on my, I have Instagram at Guilford Law Group. Same on LinkedIn, Guilford Law Group as well. Facebook, Guilford Law Group is there. You can look me up. I do post content. And I do post informational articles.

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  • Chapter 1 Common Mistakes in Divorce Proceedings 00:01

    This chapter explores the impact of divorce on individuals and families. Host Matthew Phifer welcomes guest Michael Panella, a criminal and family law attorney, to discuss the long-term effects of divorce and the importance of avoiding common mistakes during the process. Pinnell shares his personal experience as a child of divorce and how it influenced his career path. The consequences of poorly written divorce decrees and the challenges of modifying them years later are highlighted. The conversation emphasizes the need for clear decision-making, especially when children are involved. Listeners gain valuable insights into the complexities of divorce and the importance of seeking professional guidance during this traumatic experience.

    Chapter 2 The Importance of Communication in Relationships 12:13

    This chapter explores the impact of communication in relationships and its role in the outcome of a divorce. The host engages in a conversation with a divorce attorney who shares insights on successful and unsuccessful couples in reaching agreements. Emphasizing the importance of communication and self-awareness in a marriage, they discuss how these factors can lead to a smoother divorce process. Early indicators of good communication, such as discussing difficult topics like children, money, and religion, are also highlighted. The host and guest stress the significance of being a good listener and actively working on communication skills in a relationship.

    Chapter 3 Navigating Allegations and Legal Tactics 25:36

    This chapter explores the impact of false accusations on individuals and their legal cases. We discuss situations where false allegations are used as leverage or to set up a partner, as well as the serious issue of domestic violence being weaponized in divorce cases. We caution against using the police as a therapist and advise listeners to be careful when making accusations or seeking restraining orders. Additionally, we highlight how false accusations of domestic violence can affect custody arrangements and the best interests of the child factors in divorce cases. Overall, this chapter sheds light on the complexities and potential consequences of false accusations in the legal system.

    Chapter 4Navigating Domestic Violence and Legal Obligations 35:55

    This chapter explores the topic of domestic violence and the difficult decisions individuals may face when dealing with it. We discuss the importance of seeking help and not letting fear of perception hold someone back from taking necessary actions. We also share personal experiences and insights from our time as a public defender and attorneys, highlighting the complexities of representing clients in cases of domestic violence. We emphasize the significance of attorney-client privilege and the ethical responsibilities of attorneys in these situations. Overall, this chapter sheds light on the sensitive and challenging nature of domestic violence and the importance of seeking support and guidance.

    Chapter 5 Talking About Criminal Defense and Representation 40:57

    This chapter explores the intersection of criminal law and family law with guest Michael Penella, a criminal defense and family law attorney. We discuss how criminal charges can impact divorce and relationships, and the ethical considerations that come with representing clients in these cases. Michael shares his experience with a difficult case where he had to balance advocating for his clients while also considering their safety. He also emphasizes the importance of communication and setting realistic expectations with clients. To connect with Michael and his firm, visit Penella Law Firm on social media or their website.

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  • Let's embark on a deeply compelling journey with Lauren, an attorney, mediator, and a beacon of hope for those ensnared in high-conflict divorces and custody battles. Coming from Upstate New York, Lauren brings a unique perspective, imbued with years of experience working with domestic violence victims, guiding us through the legal maze of divorces and custody situations. She offers wisdom on how to rise above immediate desires and aim for what the future holds. A future that might seem distant or hazy, but with her advice, is achievable.The second part of the discussion takes us through the tricky terrain of co-parenting relationships. We'll learn to navigate these often-challenging situations, focusing on what's within our control and keeping potential conflicts at bay with the Biff communication method. Lauren emphasizes on adopting independent strategies like communication coaching, and mediation, and only resorting to legal action when all else fails. We also address the all-too-real issue of 'abuse by litigation', discussing when it might be necessary to involve family courts. Prepare for a wealth of knowledge and practical insights in this episode.Chapter 1 Understanding High Conflict Divorces, Building Future00:01

    This chapter of the Matt Phifer Experience podcast features host Matthew Phifer interviewing guest Lauren Hunt, an attorney and mediator from Upstate New York. They discuss Lauren's background and experience working with victims of domestic violence, as well as her approach to helping clients navigate high-conflict divorces and custody situations. Lauren emphasizes the importance of considering long-term goals and envisioning what one's life will look like in five or ten years, rather than just focusing on immediate desires. She also shares her advice for helping clients who may struggle with seeing a future for themselves due to past trauma. Overall, this chapter provides valuable insights into the legal and emotional aspects of divorce and custody battles.

    Chapter 2Navigating Difficult Relationships and Co-Parenting 13:24

    This chapter explores the topic of navigating difficult co-parenting relationships. We discuss the importance of recognizing that the relationship will not be perfect and the need to focus on what one can control on their side. We emphasize the value of using the Biff communication method to avoid sparking conflicts. Setting realistic expectations and being flexible in communication and decision-making is also highlighted. We touch on the issue of abuse by litigation and when it may be necessary to involve the family court. We encourage trying independent strategies such as communication coaching and mediation before resorting to legal action. Overall, this chapter provides valuable insights and advice for those dealing with contentious co-parenting situations.

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  • Ready to gain insights into estate planning? Get set for a one-on-one with Lindsay Wheeler, a wizard in the field, as we navigate the intricate world of estate planning, powers of attorney and revocable living trusts. With Lindsay's expertise, we'll make the complex simple and show you why it's crucial to have a comprehensive plan for your assets and loved ones.As we venture deeper into the realm of estate planning, we'll spotlight the importance of a revocable living trust. Uncover the benefits of having a trust, from skirting the potentially messy probate process to ensuring your assets are divided according to your wishes. We'll also delve into the role of a successor trustee, the necessity of tailoring your trust to your unique situation, and how to pick the right trustee.Estate Planning for Financial Protection 00:00

    This chapter of the podcast explores the topic of estate planning with guest Lindsay Wheeler. We discuss the importance of estate planning and how it goes beyond just creating a will. We explore the concept of a revocable living trust and how it can help avoid the messy and lengthy probate process. The conversation also touches on the inclusion of powers of attorney in an estate plan, which can help make decisions in case of incapacitation. We emphasize the importance of being prepared for the inevitable and how estate planning can provide peace of mind for loved ones after one's passing.

    Chapter 2 Revocable Living Trust Importance and Benefits 12:05

    This chapter emphasizes the importance of estate planning and creating a revocable living trust. We discuss the benefits of having a trust, such as avoiding probate and ensuring your assets are distributed according to your wishes. We also touch on the role of a successor trustee and how they manage the trust. Personalizing your trust to fit your specific situation, including adding parameters for underage children and life insurance, is crucial. We advise listeners to educate themselves on estate planning and provide a workbook to help with decision-making. We also discuss the process of choosing a trustee and having backup options in case something happens to the primary trustee. Overall, this chapter stresses the importance of having a well-thought-out estate plan to protect your assets and loved ones.

    Chapter 3 Importance of Prenups and Estate Planning 24:54

    This chapter emphasizes the importance of prenuptial agreements and estate planning in marriages. Our guest, Lindsey, a family law attorney, highlights the need for transparency and communication in financial matters within a marriage. She discusses the significance of prenups in protecting separate assets and avoiding bitterness in case of divorce. We explore the benefits of having a clear roadmap for the distribution of assets and the role of estate planning in ensuring a smooth process. Lindsey also shares her mission to make estate planning affordable for everyone through her online platform. Listeners are encouraged to consider these important aspects of marriage and seek professional help for their estate planning needs.

    Chapter 4 Promoting Lindsay's Estate Planning Knowledge 31:06

    This chapter explores the importance of estate planning with guest speaker Lindsay. We discuss the significance of having a plan in place for your assets and loved ones, as well as how to navigate the complexities of estate planning. Lindsay shares her expertise and insights on common misconceptions, the role of a lawyer in the process, and the different types of documents involved. We also address the emotional aspect of estate planning and provide guidance on approaching difficult conversations with family members. Don't miss this informative and valuable discussion on estate planning.

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