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  • In honor of National Pride Month, I explore how toxic homoerotica shows up in heterosexual female friendships. Women who develop a romantic attraction towards their friend, become obsessed with their friend's life. They are jealous of their friend's romantic interest, and other friends. They want to keep their friend all to themselves, and will lash out towards their friend if there is a threat of anyone else becoming the priority. A good movie for reference is Single White Female.

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  • I share some of my general thoughts about Dr. Sherrie Campbell's book. If you are healing from toxic parents (emotionally abusive or narcissistic), I recommend adding this book to your library.

    It is a quick read, very user friendly, uses layman terms, and is relatable to anyone who grew up in a toxic or abusive family!

    Purchase the Adult Survivors of Emotionally Abusive Parents

    *Be sure to check out page 1 for a note from yours truly!

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  • In this podcast, I discuss the difference between no-contact, low-contact, and grey rocking with a narcissist. I take a deep dive into when it's appropriate for you to go no-contact versus low-contact. I also discuss the parameters around grey rocking and why it shouldn't be used long-term unless absolutely necessary. None of these methods should be used to punish the abuser or to get them to contact you more.

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  • On today's podcast, Dr. Joy Harden-Bradford, PhD., and I discuss what a true sisterhood is and how you can create a sisterhood for yourself if you have trouble making connections. Dr. Joy and I explore what it means to heal through sisterhood.

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  • When narcissistic parents are fighting, their children are often caught in the middle and used as pawns. In this discussion, I explore what children experience when caught in the middle of their narcissistic parents and how the parents take their anger out on their children.

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  • A bonus episode where I discuss some of the things that I have learned in my career.

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  • In today's episode, I discuss men who center women. Men who center women devalue them and has a troubling relationship with his mother. He may put his partner in competition with his mother, however he doesn't have a good relationship with either woman.

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  • In this episode of A Date With Darkness Podcast, I discussed what a male-centered woman is and the impact that she can have on family, friends, and in the workplace.

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  • In this episode I discuss some things that we can do to improve the quality of our relationships with ourselves and with other people.

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  • Just a few reminders on things that you can do to protect your mental health if you deal with toxic family members or loved ones during the holidays. There are things that you can do to keep your peace, and keep the toxicity at a minimum.

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  • Dr Sherrie Campbell, PhD joins us to discuss her book "Adult Survivors of Emotionally Abused Parents". She and I discuss how the golden child and the scapegoat experience abuse in the family.

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    To preorder Dr. Sherri Campbell's book, please click here: Adult Survivors of Emotionally Abused Parents

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  • In this episode of the podcast, I discuss ways that you can take control of your life to start loving yourself after experiencing narcissistic abuse or toxic relationships. This includes:
    1) Stop allowing disrespect, and increase self-respect
    2) You don't need to visually see yourself getting hurt to have evidence
    3) Be prepared to enforce consequences and walk away from the relationship
    4) Stop making space for things that do not matter
    5) Manage your emotions, manage your impulses
    6) Be discerning in the information you absorb
    7) Consider taking a break from friends and family members stuck in toxic cycles

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  • There are certain destructive intimacy habits that occur with narcissists. These behaviors are manipulative, deceptive, and coercive. They are meant to groom their victims for the pleasure and degradation of a narcissist.

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  • In part 2 of the podcast with @ Dr. Virgil Zeilgler-Hill, PhD. we discuss a previous study done on rates of narcissism. He discussed possible higher rates of narcissism in the Black community, and also discussed the limitations of cultural norms on the assessment measure and the study. The implications of the study suggest the need for further studies, diversity in the panel of researchers, and further development of cultural norms on the assessment.

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  • I discuss manipulation tactics that kind narcissists use to obtain sex. I also discuss how they treat you when you are being fetishized for your body. Lastly, we discuss challenges that the narcissist may have with sexuality and sexual deviancy.

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  • In this episode, I respond to a listener question who is concerned about how a narcissist will respond to no-contact upon being released from prison.

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  • In this episode, I will explore traits/actions of a kind narcissist and how they create the ultimate cloud of confusion.

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  • In this podcast, I explore unhealthy reasons that people have children. I explore having children as a means to appease your partner, save the relationship, sabotaging your partner's future, reproductive abuse, or using your children as a way to secure your financial future.

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  • In this episode, I discuss how to discern whether the narcissist in your life ever "cared" for you.

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  • In this podcast, I discuss why you should never consider "getting revenge" against a narcissist, and what you should do instead.

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