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What if we reimagined death not as a battle to fight, but as a sacred part of our life's journey?
Join me, Suzanne O'Brien, as I share insights from my work as a hospice and oncology nurse, guiding you through the shock phase that follows a terminal diagnosis. This episode challenges the fears that often surround death, urging us to engage in honest conversations about end-of-life care. Discover practical tools to help you navigate this difficult terrain, ensuring that you and your loved ones are prepared for what lies ahead.
In our conversation, we explore the transformative power of presence, compassion, and active listening. We highlight how choosing love and kindness can help distinguish between merely being alive and truly living. By focusing on what truly matters, from simple comforts like a favorite song to important decisions about care, we can help return a sense of control to those facing their final days. With an emphasis on safety and respect for personal wishes, we explore how to support loved ones with dignity and care.
Finally, witness a touching story of a family's journey with their beloved grandmother that underscores the importance of trust and emotional presence. This episode not only illustrates how education and compassion can create positive end-of-life experiences but also introduces the Good Death Seminar Series. This unique opportunity offers guidance in facilitating a compassionate and memorable journey for your loved ones. Together, let's ensure everyone can experience a meaningful and dignified end-of-life journey.
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We dive into:
(00:02) Understanding the Shock Phase of End-of-Life(11:46) Empowering End-of-Life Conversations(17:32) Navigating End-of-Life Shock Phase(28:06) Creating Positive End-of-Life Experiences
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Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:
Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!
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Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!
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Unlock the secrets to becoming a confident caregiver and transform your approach to end-of-life planning.
Today, we promise to equip you with the knowledge and insight necessary to navigate the intricate journey of supporting your aging loved ones. Through real-life stories and expert advice, we tackle the emotional and logistical challenges head-on, emphasizing the importance of planning ahead and making informed decisions. With an aging population that demands our attention, understanding the nuances of caregiving, including the pivotal role of death doulas, is more crucial than ever.
Reflect on the myriad of options available for end-of-life care, from maintaining urban independence to exploring shared housing arrangements. We share personal anecdotes about the nature of family discussions surrounding future care preferences and the importance of facing these often difficult conversations with honesty and empathy. Join us as we contemplate living arrangementsâwhether itâs independent city living, family-supported granny pods, or reputable care facilitiesâhighlighting the importance of tailoring decisions to match individual needs and values.
Explore the realm of eco-friendly body disposition methods such as natural burials, water cremation, and human composting, and the positive impact these choices can have on the environment. We discuss the historical context and current implications of traditional burial practices, urging listeners to consider sustainable alternatives. By embracing these options, you can align your end-of-life plans with your personal and environmental values, ultimately fostering a respectful and meaningful farewell. Don't miss the opportunity to redefine your relationship with death, making it a sacred and natural part of lifeâs journey.
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(00:03) Planning Ahead for End-of-Life Care(10:04) End-of-Life Care Planning and Options(20:32) Compassionate End-of-Life Care Planning(27:02) Expanding Options for End-of-Life Care(32:44) Green End-of-Life Options and Rituals(44:27) Free Confident Caregiver Course Offer
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We want to hear from you!!!If you found this podcast helpful,Please Rate, Review, & Follow so we can reach more people.Links mentioned in this episode:
Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:
Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!
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Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!
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What if our modern approach to hospice care is missing the mark on its original compassionate intent?
Join us on this eye-opening journey through the rich history and transformative evolution of hospice care, from its heartfelt beginnings in the 1960s with Dame Cicely Saunders to its present-day challenges in the United States. We unover the pivotal moment when the Medicare hospice benefit of 1982 shifted the focus from non-profit, holistic care to the for-profit model, often compromising the essential values of time and empathy. As we navigate these changes, we shed light on the pressing need to restore the core principles of hospice to truly honor end-of-life experiences.
Throughout this episode, we tackle the critical issue of the "hospice gap," highlighting the overwhelming burden on family caregivers and the systemic hurdles that contribute to inadequate end-of-life care. We explore how fear, delayed hospice engagement, and limited professional interaction leave families unsupported. To empower you, we share vital questions you should ask when selecting a hospice, emphasizing the importance of understanding the holistic nature of care and the role of family support. With resources from the Doula Givers Institute, we aim to equip you with the knowledge needed to revive the sacredness of life's final chapter.
We dive into:
(00:02) The Evolution of Hospice Care(08:16) Closing the Hospice Care Gap(17:14) Important Questions to Ask a Hospice
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Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:
Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!
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Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!
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Why is our modern society so terrified of death, and how can this fear be transformed into a meaningful part of life?
Join me, Suzanne O'Brien, as we unpack the deep-seated anxieties surrounding death and explore how these fears can lead to poor decisions and missed opportunities for those at the end of life. Drawing from my experiences as a hospice and oncology nurse, I reflect on how historical reverence for death contrasts sharply with our current culture of avoidance, urging a shift in perspective to embrace death as a natural milestone.
Discover the profound lessons that death imparts and the importance of living each day to the fullest in the face of life's uncertainty. We discuss the complexities of extending human life and the significant challenges the medical community faces in end-of-life care. Through touching narratives, including poignant personal stories, I highlight the need for honest conversations about Do Not Resuscitate (DNR) orders and advocate for a cultural shift to see death as a human experience rather than merely a medical issue. These discussions underscore the urgency for compassionate and innovative solutions in end-of-life care.
In our final segment, we reflect on the universal themes of connection, love, and the preciousness of time, illustrated through the emotional journey of Maureen, a 44-year-old woman with gallbladder cancer. Her story underscores the critical importance of human connections in the final moments and the power of compassionate care. I emphasize the necessity of open conversations and education to ensure positive end-of-life experiences, inviting you to join our Good Death Seminar Series to transform our collective approach to death with kindness and support. Your questions and comments are welcome for future episodes as we continue this vital dialogue.
We dive into:
(00:02) The Fear of Death(10:18) Reframing the Narrative of Death(19:17) Embracing the Transition of End(26:27) Reframing the End of LifeWe want to hear from you!!!If you found this podcast helpful,Please Rate, Review, & Follow so we can reach more people.Links mentioned in this episode:
Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:
Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!
Access them Below!
Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!
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What if you could ensure a dignified, compassionate end-of-life experience for a loved one?
Join us in this transformative episode of Ask a Deaf Doula as Suzanne O'Brien, former hospice and oncology nurse, introduces the groundbreaking Good Death Seminar Series. This six-month, entirely free program is designed to bridge critical gaps in hospice care by equipping families with essential knowledge and skills. Suzanne passionately discusses the current state of hospice care, stressing the urgent need for better family preparation and support. From historical perspectives on death to practical caregiving skills, this series promises to be an invaluable resource.
Mark your calendars for key sessions that will reshape your approach to end-of-life care. Tune in on December 4th to explore defining quality of life and making informed medical choices, and on December 18th for nine must-answer questions to ensure a good death experience. Discover the importance of family conversations about end-of-life wishes on January 1st, and gain tools for navigating family disagreements on January 15th. Finally, on January 29th, we will discuss three common end-of-life phenomena reported globally. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to navigate the end-of-life journey with dignity and grace.
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(00:02) Good Death Seminar Series Announcement(14:17) End-of-Life Seminar Series Information
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Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:
Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!
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Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!
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Imagine facing the end of your life with a sense of peace and support.
In this episode, Suzanne O'Brien shares her insights on creating an impactful and authentic death doula website that reflects your passion for end-of-life care. We explore user-friendly platforms like Squarespace and Wix, offering practical advice on presenting your services with clarity and genuineness. Discover how to use colors and images to resonate with your unique approach and learn about the necessity of proper training and resources to provide the highest level of service to patients and their families.
Ever wondered about the crucial role of death doulas? Suzanne delves into the non-medical support they provide, encompassing emotional, physical, spiritual, and informational care. Reflect on your preparedness for end-of-life situations and listen to personal stories that highlight the importance of building trust through sharing credentials. We also discuss the comprehensive services offered by death doulas, from facilitating vital end-of-life conversations to creating vigil plans and offering spiritual support, demonstrating how they ensure a positive and comfortable end-of-life experience for everyone involved.
Death doulas fill significant gaps left by traditional hospice care, providing extended, personalized support before, during, and after a loved one's death. Suzanne discusses the acceptance of doulas by the National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization and the rigorous training they undergo. Learn about the affordability and availability of doula services, including teledoula support, and the importance of creating accessible end-of-life resources. Whether you're considering becoming a death doula or seeking support for a loved one, this episode offers valuable insights into the profound work of death doulas.
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(00:00) Build Death Doula Website(08:35) Benefits and Importance of Death Doulas(13:46) Comprehensive Services of Death Doulas(26:57) Creating Free End-of-Life Resources(33:03) End-of-Life Doula Services and Support
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Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar Unsplash - Beautiful Free Images & PicturesWix - Website builderSquarespace - Build your website80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:
Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!
Access them Below!
Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!
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What if you could transform the end-of-life experience into a holistic, human journey rather than a purely medical one?
Join us as we explore the profound and often overlooked aspects of end-of-life care on this episode of "Ask a Death Doula." Weâre breaking down the three phases of end-of-life, from initial comfort measures to the body's natural decline, and highlighting the critical role of proactive planning. Discover how you can enrich these final moments for your loved ones and yourself by embracing new, progressive choices that celebrate life and honor the environment.
Understanding legal preparations is crucial, and this episode sheds light on the importance of advanced directives and POLST forms. Learn why these documents are vital for ensuring your wishes are respected by medical professionals and how they can prevent common pitfalls. We share real-life stories to illustrate the necessity of awareness and education about these forms, empowering you to make informed decisions. This chapter is a must-listen for anyone looking to navigate end-of-life care with confidence and clarity.
We also take a heartfelt look at sustainable end-of-life options that go beyond traditional practices. Imagine the intimacy of home wakes, the eco-friendliness of natural burials, or the innovative choices of water cremation and human composting. These alternatives not only honor the deceased but also tread lightly on the planet and are often more financially viable. Host Suzanne O'Brien expresses her gratitude for your participation and encourages you to explore the free resources available at doulagivers.com. Prepare to transform your perspective on end-of-life care and make it a deeply meaningful experience.
We dive into:
(00:02) Navigating End of Life Care(06:49) End of Life Care Essentials(12:50) Understanding Advanced Directives and PULST Forms(17:48) Exploring Sustainable End-of-Life Options(27:02) Improving End of Life Care
We want to hear from you!!!If you found this podcast helpful,Please Rate, Review, & Follow so we can reach more people.Links mentioned in this episode:
Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:
Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!
Access them Below!
Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!
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What if a life-threatening health crisis could transform not just your body, but your spirit as well?
Join us for an inspiring conversation with Peggy Lindsay, heart transplant survivor and author of "My Beat Goes On," as she recounts her extraordinary journey. Peggy opens up about her family's history of heart disease and the unexpected health scare at age 51 that led her to seek a second opinion, ultimately revealing the urgent need for a heart transplant. Her story underscores the power of proactive medical care and the compelling need for firsthand patient narratives, a gap she aims to fill through her book.
Listen to Peggy's gripping account of her medical journey, where her healthcare surrogate battled to get her the advanced care she needed, leading to a timely diagnosis of cardiogenic shock. She shares the emotional crossroads between opting for hospice care and choosing the rigorous path to a heart transplantâa choice she made thanks to her daughter's unwavering support and the exceptional team at Tampa General. From navigating the trials of surgery and recovery to discussing the intriguing phenomena of cellular memory and heightened intuition, Peggy's story is a testament to resilience and the transformative power of modern medicine.
We dive into:
(12:34 - 13:31) The Importance of Having an Advocate(18:50 - 20:11) Life-Saving Transplant Journey(22:24 - 24:43) Life-Changing Organ Donation Offer(29:53 - 30:49) Visions of Deceased Loved Ones(32:42 - 33:48) Heart Transplant Connection and Donors(37:14 - 38:41) Seeking Health Opinions
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Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar Buy Peggy Lindsay's book - My Beat Goes On: Chronicles of a Heart Transplant Patient80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:
Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!
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Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!
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Death Doula Global Summit Speaker Spotlight: Adrian Allotey, Founder of You Are Not Alone Elder Care
Ever wondered how we can transform the final stages of life into a sacred and beautiful experience?
Join us as we sit down with Adrian Allotey, an empathetic end-of-life doula and elder companion, who shares her heartfelt journey of turning end-of-life care into a deeply human and spiritual endeavor. Adrian opens up about her personal regrets and the lack of support she felt during her grandmother's final moments, shedding light on the importance of emotional and spiritual care. She introduces her innovative methods, like "dress rehearsals" for families, aimed at making the last days less fearful and more comforting.
As we navigate through the conversation, Adrian's insights reveal the transformative power of love, presence, and intuition in end-of-life care. From the challenges of raising awareness about the role of death doulas to the profound impact of COVID-19 on our collective understanding of life and death, this episode is a powerful reminder of our shared humanity. Adrian's touching stories, including the comfort found in physical closeness, music, and involving distant family members, underscore the holistic and compassionate approach that can help us rebuild a more united and empathetic world. Tune in for an episode filled with wisdom, kindness, and a hopeful vision for the future of end-of-life care.
We dive into:
(06:29 - 07:25) Dress Rehearsals in End-of-Life Care(12:45 - 14:31) Reflections on COVID and Self-Awareness(19:28 - 20:28) End of Life Comfort and Communication(28:17 - 29:15) Embracing Life Through Death
We want to hear from you!!!If you found this podcast helpful,Please Rate, Review, & Follow so we can reach more people.Links mentioned in this episode:
Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar You Are Not Alone Elder Care LLC80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:
Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!
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Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!
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Death Doula Global Summit Speaker Spotlight: Felicity Warner, Founder of Soul Midwives UK
Can the final days of life be filled with dignity and grace?
Join us for an enlightening journey into the heart of end-of-life care as we welcome Felicity Warner, the pioneering founder of Soul Midwives. Felicity shares her deeply personal story of how her grandmother's painful hospital experience ignited her mission to transform end-of-life care into a compassionate, holistic practice. Her efforts have since blossomed into a widely respected organization, embraced by the NHS, and she has received multiple prestigious awards for her groundbreaking work. Listen in as Felicity's story emphasizes the profound impact of human connection and holistic support, inspiring us all to envision a world where people can die with dignity and grace.
In this episode, we also explore the transformative power of holistic approaches in hospice care, through the experiences of a journalist who transitioned into working with terminally ill young women. By highlighting the distinction between clinical interventions and the inherently human experience of dying, we underscore the significance of a 'good death' for both individuals and their loved ones. Additionally, we celebrate the growing global awareness of death through the success of the Soul Midwives conference, advocating for the integration of compassionate, non-medical care into mainstream healthcare. This conversation is a powerful reminder of how acknowledging our mortality can enrich our daily lives and the care we provide to those at the end of theirs.
We dive into:
(01:26 - 02:27) Creating Global Community Through Soul Connection(05:55 - 07:04) Inspiring Journey From Tragedy to Triumph(13:48 - 15:17) The Teachings of Dying Patients(17:33 - 18:31) The Beauty of End of Life(25:11 - 26:24) Embracing Life Through Awareness(29:28 - 30:41) Power of Compassion and Love
We want to hear from you!!!If you found this podcast helpful,Please Rate, Review, & Follow so we can reach more people.Links mentioned in this episode:
Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar The Soul Midwives Portal80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:
Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!
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Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!
More about Felicity and her work - Click here!
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Death Doula Global Summit Speaker Spotlight: Brad Wolfe, Founder of Reimagine EOL
What if confronting mortality could be the key to living a more meaningful life?
Join us as we host Brad Wolf, the visionary founder and executive director of Reimagine End of Life, who shares his deeply personal journey and the pivotal experiences that led him to break down the taboos surrounding death through arts, spirituality, healthcare, and design. Brad recounts early inspirations, like his grandmother's wisdom and the impactful loss of his friend Sarah, demonstrating how mortality can serve as a powerful catalyst for living more fully.
Through our conversation with Brad, we uncover the profound wisdom shared by those facing the end of life, including valuable teachings from thought leaders Frank Ostaseski and Ira Byock. We touch on the transformative power of forgiveness, gratitude, and the importance of meaningful relationships. Hear touching stories, such as that of young volunteer Grace, and learn how the pandemic has reshaped our approach to these essential conversations. Additionally, Brad gives us a glimpse into an upcoming festival dedicated to creating space for vital end-of-life discussions.
Explore the transformative practices of writing legacy letters and love letters to oneself, and the importance of rituals and mindfulness in healing. Brad talks about Reimagine's remarkable initiatives, like the "Creating Space" festival and the "Mourning into Unity" initiative, which bring people together to support each other through grief and healing. Finally, Suzanne O'Brien wraps up the Death Doula Global Summit interview with heartfelt gratitude and anticipation for future discussions, leaving us inspired to integrate the wisdom of elders and face life and death with courage and compassion.
We dive into:
(04:01 - 04:52) Rediscovering the Value of Aging(09:39 - 11:47) Universal Laws and Common Humanity(14:11 - 15:52) Innovative Human-Centered Design Approach(21:45 - 23:42) Zoom Challenges and Opportunities(34:01 - 35:33) Path to Hospice and Consciousness(43:51 - 44:59) Sharing Wisdom in End-of-Life Care
We want to hear from you!!!If you found this podcast helpful,Please Rate, Review, & Follow so we can reach more people.Links mentioned in this episode:
Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar Reimagine Organization80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:
Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!
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Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!
More about Brad Wolfe and his music - Click here!
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Death Doula Global Summit Speaker Spotlight: Ken Ross President of the Elisabeth Kubler Ross Foundation.
Honoring Dr. Elizabeth Kubler-Ross: A Legacy of Compassion and End-of-Life Care
In 2020, Doulagivers Institute sponsored The Death Doula Global Summit and had interviews with the most impactful pioneers in the Death Doula and Death Positive Movement.
The wisdom and interviews are breathtaking. If you were not able to be part of that live summit, here is your chance as we will be spotlighting some of the great interviews that will not only heal your heart- but inspire you about what is yet to come.
In this episode of Ask a Death Doula, Join us as Ken Ross, son of the legendary Dr. Elizabeth Kubler-Ross, shares his extraordinary journey and what it was like growing up with a mother who revolutionized how we understand death and dying?
Youâll uncover intimate stories about his mother, from her early days as a humble Swiss woman to becoming a global pioneer in end-of-life care. Ken gives us an insiderâs view into her remarkable life, revealing the profound impact she had on both him and the world.
We also honor Dr. Kubler-Rossâs relentless advocacy for marginalized communities. From aiding bullied classmates and animals in her youth to providing compassionate care for AIDS patients during a time of widespread stigma, her dedication knew no bounds. Despite facing severe backlash and professional ostracization, her mission to ensure dignified end-of-life care never wavered. Her pioneering contributions to holistic patient care have paved the way for modern advancements in palliative care, inspiring countless medical professionals, including registered nurse Suzanne O'Brien, who reflects on Dr. Kubler-Ross's influence on her own work.
Looking to the future, Ken shares exciting developments aimed at preserving and expanding his motherâs legacy. Discover how the Elizabeth Kubler-Ross Foundation is growing its global reach, from launching online education series in multiple languages to digitizing her archives at Stanford. As we navigate the challenges of COVID-19, this episode is a poignant reminder of the transformative power of adversity. Embrace life fully, learn from your fears, and carry forward the compassion that Dr. Kubler-Ross championed throughout her life.
We dive into:
(04:23 - 05:44) Growing Up With an Incredible Mother(08:46 - 09:36) Maintaining Humanity During Crisis(12:14 - 13:41) Importance of Holistic End-of-Life Care(20:06 - 21:16) Global Online Education Collaboration Efforts(24:29 - 25:49) Global Expansion for Death Cafes(30:33 - 32:48) Life-Changing Journeys and Cultural Connections(35:42 - 36:41) Death as Universal Teacher
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Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar Elizabeth KĂŒbler-Ross Foundation80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:
Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!
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Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!
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Understanding Death: Finding Peace and Healing in Grief
Can understanding death truly transform your experience of grief?
In this deeply moving episode of Ask a Death Doula, we explore powerful insights shared by hospice nurses and end-of-life care professionals. These stories reveal comforting phenomena such as seeing deceased loved ones and experiencing a surge of energy, offering a profound sense of peace. We also demystify the nature of grief, highlighting that it is a natural response to any significant loss, not just death, helping listeners navigate their own healing journeys.
We honor the remarkable life and legacy of Stacey White, a dedicated doula giver whose impact transcended her untimely passing. Stacey's resilience through severe health challenges and her peaceful acceptance of the end of her life left an indelible mark on all who knew her. Join us as we reflect on the unpredictable yet soothing nature of grief, comparing it to the ocean's ever-changing tides, and find solace in the knowledge that Stacey is no longer in pain.
Lastly, we delve into the profound connection between grief and love, emphasizing gratitude for the love shared with those who have passed. Practical advice is offered on allowing emotions to flow naturally and reframing death as a celebratory transition. We also highlight a free webinar that has provided immense support to caregivers and those processing loss. This episode is a heartfelt tribute to Stacey White, fostering a sense of global community and inspiring each of us to continue her legacy of positivity and mentorship. Join us and share this message of healing and hope with your loved ones.
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(02:14 - 03:54) Healing Grief With Truth(06:36 - 07:46) Belief in Afterlife and Shared Experiences(10:57 - 12:12) Journey Between Worlds(15:47 - 17:29) Remembering the Amazing Stacey White(19:38 - 20:48) Navigating Emotions Through Grief(27:13 - 28:18) Finding Meaning in the Spiritual Journey
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Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:
Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!
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Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!
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The Vital Role of End-of-Life Doulas
Join us for a profound exploration of the pioneering work of Barbara Karnes in the American Hospice movement. In this episode, Barbara shares her inspiring journey from initial disillusionment with nursing to finding her true calling in hospice care, influenced by legends like Cicely Saunders and Elizabeth Kubler-Ross. Beginning her career at the onset of the AIDS epidemic, Barbara recounts her early days volunteering and working at Kansas' first hospice. Through personal anecdotes and professional insights, she highlights the unique approach of hospice care, which prioritizes a sacred and meaningful end-of-life experience over the traditional medical model that often views death as a failure.
Listen in as we discuss the critical importance of human connection and trust-building in end-of-life care. We explore how simple acts like sharing a cup of coffee with primary caregivers can provide emotional, mental, and spiritual healing that complements the physical care of the patient. The conversation sheds light on the shortcomings of the current hospice system, which often prioritizes physical aspects over emotional support and suffers from frequent nurse rotations. Barbara emphasizes the need for time and presence to build genuine bonds, pointing out the gaps in the mainstream medical system that hinder compassionate care. We also touch on the transformative power of education in end-of-life care, recognizing the impact of well-crafted educational resources.
Finally, we explore the evolving role of end-of-life doulas and the importance of creating sacred, meaningful experiences for those in their final stages of life. Barbara addresses common misconceptions about the dying process and the need for more holistic, personalized approaches that contrast sharply with the mainstream medical focus. We share touching stories, including Oprah Winfrey's use of Barbara's hospice book during her mother's final days, underscoring the universal need for compassionate end-of-life support. Join us as we conclude with insights and blessings for the work being done by death doulas worldwide, celebrating their crucial role in providing comfort and care during such pivotal times.
We dive into:
(02:09 - 03:51) Transition to Hospice Care(06:46 - 08:41) Evolution of Hospice Care in US(13:48 - 15:30) Hospice Care Training(24:32 - 26:02) Hospice and Patient Relationship Bonds(29:28 - 30:08) End of Life Education Program Importance(36:57 - 39:08) Improving End-of-Life Support Services(44:44 - 45:50) Non-Medical Holistic Care for Elders(48:31 - 52:04) End-of-Life Doula Support and Guidance
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Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar More About Barbara Karnes Here80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:
Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!
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Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!
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Transform Your Health and Happiness with Forest Bathing: A Journey Through Nature Therapy
Have you ever felt the healing power of nature wash over you during a simple walk in the park?
Join me, Suzanne O'Brien, on "Ask a Death Doula" as I recount my transformative experiences in Central Park and share the ancient wisdom behind the practice of forest bathing. Discover how immersing yourself in nature can rejuvenate your mind and body, with benefits like reduced cortisol levels, lowered blood pressure, and a boosted immune system. This episode delves into the holistic health benefits of reconnecting with natural elements and how such simple, cost-free practices can significantly enhance our quality of life.
Weâll explore the remarkable impact of forest bathing on mental well-being, from mitigating stress and inflammation to improving happiness and creativity. Learn about the spiritual benefits that come from moments of silence and meditation in nature, and hear why doctors are increasingly prescribing nature therapy as a holistic approach to health. Plus, join me on a 30-day forest bathing journey designed to foster growth, healing, and joy. Tune in for an episode filled with practical advice, personal stories, and an invitation to transform your life through the simple act of stepping into nature.
We dive into:
(00:02) Benefits of Forest Bathing and Wellness(08:48) Benefits of Forest Bathing(23:32) Healing Through Forest Bathing
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Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:
Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!
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Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!
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Two hospice nurses sit down and have a heart to heart discussion about the end of life and dying experience. Sharing the TRUTH about this sacred experience, and what people need to know to have the "Good Death".
Get ready to be inspired and to look at life and death through an entirely new lens!
Enter Julie McFadden, a hospice nurse whose journey from the fast-paced intensity of the ICU to the soulful realm of end-of-life care has shaped her into a poignant storyteller and advocate. She joins us to share the transitions and insights that have colored her career, offering a glimpse into the sacred moments that accompany someone's final days. Her upcoming book, "Nothing to Fear," emerges as a testament to her mission to educate and alleviate the fears surrounding deathâa subject often shrouded in misconception and dread.
The conversation spirals into the heart of hospice care, where Julie and I illuminate the oft-misunderstood dying experience. We're reminded of the natural progression of death, a path trodden by all but recognized by few. Reflecting on the language that doctors and nurses use, we question how reframing our perspective on death can not only be more honest but also more comforting. It's about embracing the full cycle of life rather than viewing its conclusion as a battle lost. Julie's insights challenge us to find beauty in the inevitability of death, and to see it as a part of our shared human experience, especially in times of great division.
In the delicate dance between life and the after, there are moments that seem to defy time itselfâthese are the sacred encounters at the threshold of mortality that Julie and I explore. Through personal stories and heart-centered conversations, we pay homage to the spiritual growth that often accompanies physical decline. We ponder the profound love and energy felt at the bedside of those passing, moments that hint at something far greater than what we understand. As our episode draws to a close, we share a sense of gratitude for the connective tissue of humanity that caring for the dying reveals and invite listeners to carry this episode's message into their own lives and conversations.
We dive into:
(01:29 - 02:49) Becoming a Nurse(04:48 - 06:48) From ICU to Hospice(08:16 - 09:20) The Importance of Honest End-of-Life Conversations(13:18 - 14:35) Patterns of the Body's Natural Shutdown(22:18 - 23:15) Impact of True Connection in Healthcare(29:39 - 30:31) Bedside Visitations and Grief(32:39 - 33:31) End-of-Life Experiences and Awareness(37:57 - 38:39) Educating About the Dying Process
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Doulagivers InstituteGET THE BOOK "Nothing To Fear"hereThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:
Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!
Access them Below!
Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!
Learn more about Hospice Nurse Julie - Click here!
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Steps to Safeguard Your Pet's Well-being
What would happen to your beloved pet if something were to happen to you?
Join us for a heartwarming and crucial conversation with Ingrid Harrison, a passionate advocate for animal welfare, as we delve into the world of pet trusts. Ingrid's touching journey, originating from her childhood on a dairy farm, offers a unique perspective on the profound emotional bonds between humans and their pets. Together, we explore the importance of setting up pet trusts, especially for animals with long lifespans such as birds, horses, and reptiles, ensuring they are cared for if their owners become incapacitated or pass away.
In this episode, we outline the essential steps in planning a pet trust, from selecting potential caregivers to compiling detailed information about your pet's needs. Learn why it's important to have emergency contacts and care plans readily accessible, particularly for those who live alone. Ingrid shares her decades of dedication to animal advocacy, offering valuable resources and inspiration for all pet owners. Wrap up with Suzanne's heartfelt gratitude towards Ingrid's work and her own plans to secure her pet's future, inspiring listeners to take immediate action. Don't miss this enlightening discussion that underscores the responsibility and love we owe to our animal companions.
We dive into:
(02:52 - 04:15) Love for Animals From Childhood(04:17 - 06:26) Learning From Animal Connections(11:50 - 13:30) Importance of Pet Care Awareness(16:16 - 17:16) Importance of Having Conversations About Inheritance(28:03 - 29:01) Navigating Pet Trusts and Obituaries
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Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar Ingrid Harrison - Elder Care Advocate & End-of-Life DoulaAffordable Personal Services and Pet Care LLCTreasured Pets Obituary FB Page80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:
Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!
Access them Below!
Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!
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Learn how to be a "Tele" Death Doula and work with people from the comfort of your own home!
Covid-19 changed our lives forever. It also changed many different ways that we provide care. Join me, Suzanne O'Brien, as we explore the fascinating world of death doulas and how they provide essential support to individuals and families now through the use of technology.
Drawing from my background as a hospice and oncology nurse, we discuss the holistic, non-medical care that death doulas offer. By reframing death as a human experience, rather than just a medical event, we uncover how death doulas fill a critical gap, ensuring every moment is met with compassion and understanding.
As the COVID-19 pandemic reshaped healthcare, we delve into the rise of Teledoulasâdeath doulas who provide their essential services through technology. This innovative approach has not only increased accessibility but also reduced stress for families by removing geographical barriers. We highlight the invaluable role Teledoulas played during the crisis, offering remote guidance and reassurance at a time when physical presence was limited. By utilizing platforms like Zoom, FaceTime, and Skype, Teledoulas have redefined end-of-life care, showcasing the enduring potential of telehealth.
Thinking about becoming a Teledoula? We break down the practical steps to start this fulfilling career, emphasizing the importance of education and training through the Doula Givers Institute. From offering a free 30-minute consultation to creating a structured and compassionate business model, we provide actionable insights to build trust and establish professional boundaries. Whether you're looking to enter the field or simply curious about the profound impact of death doulas, this episode offers a comprehensive guide to navigating and excelling in this vital profession.
We dive into:
(01:25 - 02:52) The Teledoula Movement(05:11 - 06:20) The Importance of Teledoulas(11:14 - 11:45) Understanding the Importance of Teledoulas(18:09 - 19:06) Importance of Free Consultations for Doulas(28:58 - 30:38) End-of-Life Doula Care Planning
We want to hear from you!!!If you found this podcast helpful,Please Rate, Review, & Follow so we can reach more people.Links mentioned in this episode:
Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:
Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!
Access them Below!
Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!
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Chalk Marks and Heart Strings: A Journey of Authenticity
Discover the transformative power of love and art with Justin Lucci.
Justin is the founder and CEO of the Global Love Project, who joins us to share his heartrending yet inspirational journey. After a personal tragedy reshaped his world, Justin traded his corporate suit for sidewalk chalk, starting a movement that encourages us to connect with our most authentic selves. Throughout our conversation, he opens up about the pivotal moments that led him from loss to a life abundant with purpose, spreading messages of love that resonate in the hearts of those who encounter his chalk art.
Justin's story is a testament to the undeniable impact of community and personal growth. I reveal the profound sense of unity and reflection fostered by a weekly chalk art event I host, demonstrating how such gatherings can serve as the bedrock for cultivating authentic happiness and deeper human connections. We delve into the concept that life's most harrowing challenges can indeed be the catalyst for our most significant evolution, and how a collective effort in intentions and actions can magnify the beauty of our shared human experience.
Closing this episode, we reflect on purpose and creativity as forces that shape our existence. Chalk art emerges not just as a medium of expression but as a poignant metaphor for life's transient nature and our innate yearning to express freely and fearlessly. Join us in celebrating the simplicity and power of purpose that lies in the energy we infuse into our daily lives. Justin's journey inspires us to find our creative outlets and to come together in elevating love and growth within our communities, marking the pavementâand our livesâwith vibrant hues of hope and connection.
We dive into:
(02:16 - 03:32) Healing and Intentions Through Loss(06:40 - 07:41) Healing Through Chalk Artivism(11:30 - 14:32) Sunday Chalk Art Community Event(16:31 - 17:10) Finding Purpose Through Human Experience(23:11 - 25:14) Elevating Consciousness Through Global Love
We want to hear from you!!!If you found this podcast helpful,Please Rate, Review, & Follow so we can reach more people.Links mentioned in this episode:
Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:
Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!
Access them Below!
Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!
Learn more about The Global Love Project - Click here!
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Fostering a Network for Impactful Doula Services at Life's End
Have you ever considered how the knowledge of death might deepen your appreciation for life?
Suzanne shares her expertise on creating a vital network resource list, a toolkit that arms you with connections ranging from estate planning lawyers to eco-friendly burial options, ensuring that your doula practice is not only a beacon of support for grieving families but also a thriving business.
Step into the realm of ethical end-of-life guidance and learn how to seamlessly integrate these services into your community through our discussion on building a robust death doula resource network. Suzanne illuminates the path to crafting stress-free end-of-life plans, emphasizing the transformative impact meticulous preparation has on the experience of the dying and their loved ones. This episode is an invitation to harness the power of death doula resources, enriching your practice and profoundly altering the landscape of end-of-life care. Join us as we honor life's final transition and the remarkable difference a well-prepared doula can make.
We dive into:
(00:02) Network Resource List for Deaf Doula(10:01) Building Death Doula Resource Network(20:08) Building a Deaf Doula Resource List
We want to hear from you!!!If you found this podcast helpful,Please Rate, Review, & Follow so we can reach more people.Links mentioned in this episode:
Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:
Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!
Access them Below!
Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!
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