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  • Remember when police responded to a false report of an active shooter situation at my home? Welp! I DO! The discussion delves into the emotional and psychological impact of the event, the inadequacies of police communication, and the broader implications of swatting as a dangerous prank. It's a doozy journey of coping with trauma, the importance of personal safety, and the lessons we learned from this experience



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  • PUT ON THOSE GLASSES AND OPEN UP THOSE PAGES! We're introducing the 'Emotionally Horny Book Club', where we discuss three books that explore themes of sexuality, dating, and emotional health! THE BIG THREE THAT MATTER! Kelsey dives into the narratives of 'Boy Slut' by Zachary Zane, 'How to Date Men When You Hate Men' by Blythe Robertson, and 'Open Deeply' by Kate Laurie, offering insights and saucy personal reflections on each.

    Chapters

    00:00 Welcome to the New Studio!

    03:27 Exciting Film Premiere in Miami

    06:46 Reflections on Art and Society

    10:09 The Journey of Moving and Unpacking

    16:51 Introducing the Emotionally Horny Book Club

    20:36 Exploring 'Boy Slut' by Zachary Zane

    34:22 Navigating Dating with 'How to Date Men When You Hate Men'

    40:24 Understanding Open Relationships with 'Open Deeply'



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  • don't look!!! or do....but don't be surprised when what you see is a pile of doggy doo doo on the screen aka KELSEY IN DEPRESH MODE!!!! aka moving, breaking up with your thrupple and trying to naavigate a good ole episode of depression <3 what are your hacks?



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  • KELSEY IS MOVING!! She's literally un-studioed aka it's all in boxes and being moved to a gorgeous, fresh new space!!! Pls enjoy this repost of the most popular episode of the year!

    Kelsey got an abortion and WE’RE TALKING ABOUT IT bc abortions are health care )and much more common than you may think) 😎 Find out all about Kelsey’s whole experience while Zach tries desperately to make the episode about him 🥰🥰



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  • SOUND THE ALARMS!! WE'RE GETTING INTO SOMETHING NEW TODAY, KIDS! Manga...it's always intrigued us but we never understood it...which is why we brought in THE expert herself - the hilarious, beautiful and manga-obsessed JOYCE LOUIS-JEAN. She's here to discuss her experience with the Try Guys, aspirations for reality TV, and the intriguing world of manga and anime! She helps us explore its diverse genres, particularly focusing on queer narratives like Yuri and Boys Love (BL). Trust me...you'll understand the hype SOON.

    Follow Joyce! https://www.instagram.com/atribecalledjoyce/?hl=en

    Chapters:

    00:00 Introduction and Daylight Saving Time

    03:00 The Evolution of Online Authenticity

    06:08 Building a Brand in a Changing Landscape

    08:54 The Try Guys and Personal Connections

    11:49 Reality TV Aspirations

    15:03 The Grapes of Risk

    18:47 Diving into Manga

    21:51 Joyce's Anime Journey

    25:13 Manga vs. Anime: The Fan Debate

    26:27 The Allure of Manga and Storytelling

    31:05 Exploring Queer Manga: Yuri and BL

    34:49 The Weird and Wonderful World of Manga

    42:45 Complex Relationships in Manga

    46:03 Recommendations for Manga Newbies



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  • CAN WE GET AN IWD REDO?! After realizing NO ONE in her life celebrated IWD this past weekend, Kelsey decides to revisit the best things women have done this past year INCLUDING her buying 25 bins off facebook marketplace from an absolute criminal.

    00:00

    Celebrating International Women's Day

    24:04

    The History and Significance of Women's Day

    39:02

    Modern Achievements and Ongoing Struggles for Women



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  • CAN WE GET AN IWD REDO?! After realizing NO ONE in her life celebrated IWD this past weekend, Kelsey decides to revisit the best things women have done this past year INCLUDING her buying 25 bins off facebook marketplace from an absolute criminal.

    00:00

    Celebrating International Women's Day

    24:04

    The History and Significance of Women's Day

    39:02

    Modern Achievements and Ongoing Struggles for Women



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  • LETS ANSWER ALL YOUR LISTENER QUESTIONS: jealousy, boundaries, HOW TO GET THERE IN THE FIRST PLACE!!

    "It's going to be messy. It's going to be beautiful."

    "Communication, baby, communication, communication, communication."

    "Jealousy doesn't equal bad."

    "Boundaries are things you decide you need."

    "Emotional check-ins are mandatory."

    "You can always go back to non-monogamy."

    "You can always go back to that why."

    "The greatest gifts are on the other side of fear."

    "You never want to force yourself into something that just isn't right."



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  • DON'T BE ASHAMED!! WE ALL HAVE THEM!!! Sexual fantasies have been around since the first person who had a BRAIN AND EYEBALLS...(maybe not even eyeballs??) from astrology and comedy to mental health and sexual fantasies. But before we dive straight into dream land...Our dear friend Kevin Sullivan (@TheKevinSullivan) discuss the challenges and triumphs of content creation, the impact of mental health, and the importance of comfort in exploring fantasies. hehehehehehe

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    www.tiktok.com/@thekevinsullivan

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-broke-gays/id1385761544



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  • What could go wrong on a family ski trip to Aspen filled with hot paramedics, the flu, and a bucket list filled with champagne? LISTEN IN TO FIND OUT JUST HOW INSANE THIS FAMILY SKI TRIP WAS!!!!!!

    00:00

    Introduction and Personal Updates

    02:48

    Valentine's Day Celebrations and Spa Experience

    08:48

    Family Ski Trip to Aspen

    15:03

    Skiing Adventures and Injuries

    21:53

    Post-Injury Reflections and Family Dynamics

    24:06

    The Ski Accident and Concussion

    30:06

    Family Dynamics and Adjustments

    36:12

    The Cloud9 Champagne Party

    40:42

    Mom's Ankle Injury and Hospital Visit

    46:24

    Reflections on the Trip and Future Plans



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  • RYAN'S BAAAAACK! Yall loved him so much you know I had to bring him back to help me decipher the art of a D*CK PIC!!! The details behind consensual and....what to say when you get them unsolicited! SO get our your thinkin' caps and lets chat the social dynamics surrounding the sharing of intimate images.

    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction and Connection

    03:12 Mental Health and ADHD Journey

    05:59 Stress and Tax Season Woes

    08:51 The Nature of Opinions and Misinformation

    11:49 The Importance of Acknowledging Ignorance

    15:00 Hot Takes vs. Medium Takes

    18:12 The Art of Dick Pics and Communication

    24:35 The Art of Dick Pics

    27:47 The Psychology Behind Sharing Intimate Photos

    31:23 Navigating Consent and Expectations

    34:57 The Legal Landscape of Unsolicited Images

    39:18 Exploring Sexuality and Representation

    43:43 The Impact of Pornography on Perception

    45:21 Creative Responses to Unsolicited Dick Pics



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  • Join me and expert cutie-patootie @BeatriceHazlehurst from @unconvergirlpodcast explore the intricacies of celebrity journalism, the challenges of forming adult friendships in Los Angeles, and the ethical dilemmas faced by journalists in the age of clickbait culture.

    Beatrice Hazlehurst | @beatricehazlehurst | https://www.instagram.com/beatricehazlehurst/?hl=en

    (UN)COVER GIRL | @uncovergirlpodcast | https://www.instagram.com/uncovergirlpodcast/

    Just in case!

    spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Je3KLQqvsfkzxPjFEQnLq

    Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/un-cover-girl/id1667326704

    00:00 Introduction to Celebrity Journalism and Friendship

    06:04 The Challenges of Male Friendships

    11:46 The Ethics of Celebrity Interviews

    18:07 The Impact of Clickbait Culture

    27:10 The Trump Effect: Media Influence on Politics

    32:12 Celebrity Gossip: The Drama Unfolds

    39:50 The Allegations: A Closer Look at the Lawsuit

    49:55 The Fallout: Careers on the Line



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  • SOUND THE ALARMS!!! Our first guest host of the year is the hilariously iconic RYANN GRAHAM (@gudguyryry) talkings politics and peen. what else could you want??



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  • We've LOVED having our bestie ZNT here for the last 2 years and we can't wait to see what he does next with Good Morning Sodomites!!! FOLLOW HIM ON ALL THE THINGS!!! P.S. we talk TIKTOK BAN, ZACHS NEW DATE, AND FIRES IN LA! but mostly we just love on zachy <3



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  • In this episode, we’re exposing the corporate monstrosity that is Nestlé, because if anyone’s profiting off baby formula, slavery, and water theft, it’s them. So grab a snack (preferably not from Nestlé) and get ready for a wild ride through corporate corruption, because we’re about to make sure you’ll never look at your coffee the same way again!!!!!!!!!!!



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  • HAPPY NEWW YEARRRRR CONFIDANNNTTTSSS - or are we that happy?!!? IDK!!! Kelsey discusses her feelings about New Year's resolutions, the importance of self-discovery, and the impact of relationships on her journey. Kelsey babbles about fashion choices, unexpected pregnancy, abortion, career challenges, relationship growth, and creative pursuits!!!! DID YOU HAVE ANY CASUAL PROFOUND GROWTH???!! LET US KNOW IN THE COMMENTS<3

    Chapters:

    New Year Reflections and Personal Growth

    03:02

    Career Milestones and Achievements

    05:54

    Challenges and Self-Discovery

    09:09

    Relationships and Personal Connections

    11:55

    Creative Ventures and New Experiences

    14:48

    Navigating Career Uncertainty

    18:04

    Therapy and Mental Health Journey

    21:14

    Embracing Change and Future Aspirations

    26:55

    Fashion and Self-Expression

    29:47

    Impact of Abortion on Career and Income

    31:09

    Reflections on Work and Self-Worth

    33:53

    Relationship Growth and Love

    35:47

    Revisiting Stand-Up Comedy

    37:31

    Solo Retreat and Creative Clarity

    38:56

    Navigating Birthdays and Self-Worth

    40:38

    New Projects and Political Engagement

    42:36

    Stand-Up Tour and Personal Growth

    44:32

    Pitching Projects and Career Accomplishments

    45:31

    Retreat Decisions and Future Directions

    48:24

    Year-End Reflections and Future Aspirations



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  • This week Kelsey and Zach talk the logistics of threesomes, getting h-word in an escape room, Zach’s BJ reviews 💦 AND what the Confident Bottom community REALLY thinks about Luigi 🥵❤️



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  • This week, K&Z tackle the topics of zach's newest grindr date not getting a word in, kelsey's new thrupple crush, and the UHC ..uh...situation??



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  • This week Kelsey and Zach recount their Friendsgiving movie extravaganza and discuss the best way to crush on potential lovers 🦃🎥🍿 PLUS Kelsey tells Zach all about the dangers of fast fashion and landfills over-flowing with the impulse decisions of those of us who like to BUY NOW 🫠🫠



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  • This week Zach gives the confident bottoms some ALTERNATIVES ways to celebrate turkey day and Kelsey leads us all through a game of GOBBLE, BURN or FIXIN’!! 🦃🔥🔨 PLUS Zach does something he can’t even talk about on the pod… yet 😏😏😏



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