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Breanna and Brandon Vales are Directors and Founders of Red Light Rebellion, which exists to educate young people about the dangers of child sex trafficking.
In this episode, they cover how their experiences influence their work and how they aim to empower youth to recognize the red flags of grooming and exploitation. They also share about Brandon's recovery journey from porn addiction, the impact of pornography on relationships, and how unresolved childhood trauma often leads to addiction.
Episode Resources
Article: How You Can Spot, Report, and Prevent Human Trafficking
Red Light Rebellion
Red Flag Cards: Text REDFLAGS to 602-922-1040
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*Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions of sexual violence. Listener discretion is advised.
Episode Description
Shelby’s early exposure to pornography impacted her understanding of sex, leading to misconceptions about consent and contributing to feelings of hypersexuality during her teenage years. In this episode, she shares about a past relationship where her partner's use of pornography had a detrimental effect on her emotionally and physically, and how sharing her experience over the past year has helped in healing and finding connection.
Episode Resources
Article: Does Porn Normalize Sexual Violence in Teen Relationships?
Article: National Study Finds Porn Linked to Sexual Aggression and Coercion in Relationships
Article: 5 Ways Porn Has Lied to You About Consent
Article: Is My Partner’s Porn Habit Harming Our Relationship, or Am I Just Insecure?
Podcast: Consider Before Consuming Ep. 111: Bailey
Victim Resources
Resource for Partners of Porn Users: Bloom
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Justin Euteneier is the Program Director at Epik Project, an organization that works to disrupt the demand for commercial sexual exploitation.
In this Consider Before Consuming podcast episode, Justin shares the efforts the Epik project is using, including engaging with sex buyers to talk about the choices they're making, collaborating with law enforcement, educational initiatives for youth, and efforts to engage men in the fight against trafficking.
Episode Resources
FTND Resource: Porn and Sex Trafficking
Podcast: Consider Before Consuming Ep. 96: Valiant Richey
Epik Project
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Trigger Warning
*The following episode contains descriptions of disturbing porn themes, discussions of child sexual abuse and sex trafficking. Listener discretion is advised
Laila Mickelwait is an anti-trafficking activist, Founder and CEO of the Justice Defense Fund, Founder of the Traffickinghub movement, and author of "Take Down: Inside the Fight to Shut Down PornHub for Child Abuse, Rape, and Sex Trafficking,”
In this Consider Before Consuming podcast episode, Laila continues to share about her efforts to expose and combat illegal content on Pornhub, including the fight to hold credit card companies accountable.
Fight the New Drug is a non-religious and non-legislative awareness and education organization. Some of the issues discussed in this episode may be legislatively-affiliated. Though our organization is non-legislative, we fully support the fights against already illegal forms of pornography and sexual exploitation and against sex trafficking.
Episode Resources
Laila's Book: Takedown
Traffickinghub Petition
Justice Defense Fund
Laila's Article: Why Are Visa And Mastercard Still Doing Business with Pornhub?
FTND Resource: Porn and Sex Trafficking
Podcast: Consider Before Consuming, Ep. 35: Nikolas Kristof
Article: What's Going on with Pornhub?
Nikolas Kristof's Article: The Children of Pornhub
Sheelah Kolhatkar's Article: The Fight to Hold Pornhub Accountable
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Trigger Warning
*The following episode contains descriptions of disturbing porn themes, discussions of child sexual abuse and sex trafficking. Listener discretion is advised.
Laila Mickelwait is an anti-trafficking activist, Founder and CEO of the Justice Defense Fund, Founder of the Traffickinghub movement, and author of "Take Down: Inside the Fight to Shut Down PornHub for Child Abuse, Rape, and Sex Trafficking,”
In this Consider Before Consuming podcast episode, Laila shares her journey in the anti-sex trafficking movement and her efforts to expose and combat illegal content on Pornhub.
Fight the New Drug is a non-religious and non-legislative awareness and education organization. Some of the issues discussed in this episode may be legislatively-affiliated. Though our organization is non-legislative, we fully support the fights against already illegal forms of pornography and sexual exploitation, and against sex trafficking.
Episode Resources
Laila's Book: Takedown
Traffickinghub Petition
Justice Defense Fund
Laila's Article: Time to Shut Pornhub Down
FTND Resource: Porn and Sex Trafficking
Podcast: Consider Before Consuming, Ep. 35: Nikolas Kristof
Article: What's Going on with Pornhub?
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*Trigger Warning: This episode contains brief discussions of sexual violence. Listener discretion is advised.
Miyo Strong is the director of The Elizabeth Smart Foundation's self-defense program, Smart Defense. As a mom of two daughters, Miyo began training in Brazilian jiu-jitsu and other martial arts. She joins us for this Consider Before Consuming Podcast episode to share about Smart Defense's unique, trauma-informed approach, combining physical techniques and breathwork with education on sexual violence, consent, and self-worth.
Episode Resources
Article: How Porn Can Promote Sexual Violence
Podcast: Consider Before Consuming Ep.89: Elizabeth Smart
Smart Defense
Utah Coalition Against Sexual Assault (UCASA)
Book: The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel VanDerKolk
Book: The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker.
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Chris McKenna is the Founder and CEO of Protect Young Eyes, which exists to help create safer digital environments. As a child, Chris was exposed to pornography, and as an adult, he realized how many problems there were with digital spaces and wanted to find a solution to that.
In this episode, Chris helps us understand the importance of both having relational connections and technical controls when parenting in the digital age. He underlines the importance of having open conversations about pornography with children to reduce shame and secrecy, stressing the significance of addressing these issues from a young age.
Episode Resources
Protect Young Eyes
Fight the New Drug's Parenting Resources
Conversation Blueprint
Article: Discover the 2024 “Dirty Dozen” Companies Profiting from Sexual Exploitation
Jonathan Haidt's Book: The Anxious Generation
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Trigger warning: The following podcast episode contains discussions of child sexual abuse, sex trafficking, and image-based sexual abuse. Listener discretion is advised.
Dawn Hawkins is the CEO of the National Center on Sexual Exploitation, which exists to build a world without sexual exploitation and abuse. She joins us for this Consider Before Consuming Podcast episode to shed light on the pervasive influence of pornography, the normalization of sexual harm, and the alarming risks posed by AI-generated content. The episode underscores the urgent need for reform to protect vulnerable individuals from exploitation.
Episode Resources
Join us: The Coalition to End Sexual Exploitation Global Summit
Visit: The 2024 Dirty Dozen List
Visit: Bark
Visit: Street Grace
Article: The Misuse of Artificial Intelligence in Producing Child Sexual Abuse Material
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In this Consider Before Consuming Podcast episode, we had the opportunity to sit down with a panel of young adults about their experiences and perspectives on sexual exploitation, social media's role, and dating culture. Participants include survivors of human trafficking and sexual assault, former porn consumers, and anti-trafficking advocates. They highlight generational differences in addressing sexual exploitation and the impact of internet culture. Additionally, they discuss the challenges in modern dating, emphasizing the shift toward online interactions and the need for safety measures.
Episode Resources
Video: Daniel's Story
Video: Emma's Story
Video: Jose's Story
Video: Bri Ray's Story
Article: How Porn Can Fuel and Normalize Teen Dating Violence
Article: How Sex Traffickers Use Social Media to Contact, Recruit, and Sell Children
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Victoria Sinis is the founder of Creating Gems, an organization created to help young women break free from harmful narratives about themselves. She is also a former OnlyFans recruiter and marketer. In this episode, she helps us understand what an OnlyFans agency is and the coercive and destructive realities faced by OnlyFans performers.
Episode Resources
Article: Why So Many Teen Girls Are Planning on Becoming OnlyFans Stars
Article: What Porn, Loneliness, and OnlyFans Have To Do with Men Buying Sex
Podcast: Consider Before Consuming, Ep. 109: You Asked, We Answered
Victoria's Website: https://creatinggems.com/
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Join us in this Consider Before Consuming episode as Rachel Denton shares her experience as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. Rachel talks about the complex layers of pornography addiction and the strong influence of shame. She'll also explain how self-compassion is essential in navigating the labyrinth of shame and breaking free from its grasp.
Rachel provides valuable insights into the process of seeking therapy, explaining different therapy modalities, and how each can be helpful in the journey to healing. She also shares some transformative practices outside of therapy, empowering individuals to reclaim their agency and cultivate resilience.
Episode Resources
Article: These 4 Studies Show How Recovering From a Porn Habit is Absolutely Possible
Podcast: Consider Before Consuming Ep. 110: Matthias J. Barker
Kristin Neff: Self-compassion.org
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Ralphie Jacobs is the founder of Simply on Purpose, a platform focused on positive parenting. She brings her expertise to this conversation, emphasizing the importance of connecting with children in today’s fast-paced digital age, offering tips for parents to ensure strong bonds with their kids, and encouraging parents to strike a balance between freedom and boundaries.
Episode Resources
Visit: Simply on Purpose
Article: Teens Who Have Good Relationships with Their Parents Tend to Avoid Porn and Sext Less
Podcast: Consider Before Consuming Ep. 99: Kristy McVee
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Robert’s porn consumption escalated into an addiction while he was in the military. In this episode, Robert shares how the culture of pornography in the military had a profound impact on his consumption habits. He also talks about how pornography affected his relationships and personal well-being. After realizing the negative effects of his addiction, Robert made the decision to quit pornography and is now well on the path to recovery. He emphasizes the importance of seeking help and support and encourages others to explore their own emotions as a starting point for overcoming addiction.
Episode Resources
Article: Your Answer Guide to “What Does Porn Kills Love Mean?” and Other Fighter Gear Questions
Article: Benefits of Quitting Porn According to 90 Real People
Podcast: Consider Before Consuming, Ep. 110: John Foubert
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*Trigger Warning: This episode contains brief discussions of sexual abuse. Listener discretion is advised.
Bailey was first exposed to porn in high school by her boyfriend, whose porn consumption fueled her abuse and led to her own porn addiction. Once Bailey started to realize the harmful effects of porn, she was able to understand the role porn played in her experience and now publicly shares her story to help others understand the negative impacts of porn. Bailey discusses the importance of having conversations in order to shift the conversation around porn and reject its normalization.
Fight the New Drug collaborates with a variety of qualified organizations and individuals with varying personal beliefs, affiliations, and political persuasions. As FTND is a non-religious and non-legislative organization, the personal beliefs, affiliations, and persuasions of any of our team members or of those we collaborate with do not reflect or impact the mission of Fight the New Drug.
Episode Resources
Article: Does Porn Normalize Sexual Violence in Teen Relationships?
Article: 3 Ways Porn Culture is Becoming Normalized in Every Day Society
Podcast: Consider Before Consuming Ep. 9: Rachel
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Dr. John Foubert is the Dean of the College of Education at Union University and the principal of Dr. John D. Foubert, LLC. Dr. Foubert worked for 20 years to apply research to rape prevention programs on college campuses, in communities, and in the military.
In this Consider Before Consuming Podcast interview, Dr. Foubert helps us understand the correlation between pornography and sexual violence, highlighting over 50 studies showcasing their connection and the ways this is impacting today’s youth. He also discusses his newest book, Protecting Your Children from Internet Pornography: Understanding the Science, Risks, and Ways to Protect Your Kids, which helps parents and caretakers understand the harms of porn and how to navigate conversations about this with children.
Fight the New Drug collaborates with a variety of qualified organizations and individuals with varying personal beliefs, affiliations, and political persuasions. As FTND is a non-religious and non-legislative organization, the personal beliefs, affiliations, and persuasions of any of our team members or of those we collaborate with do not reflect or impact the mission of Fight the New Drug.
Episode Resources
John's Books: Protecting Your Children from Internet Pornography and How Pornography Harms
Visit: John's Website
Article: Parents—If You Don’t Teach Your Kids About Sex, Porn Sites Will
Podcast: Consider Before Consuming Ep.4: John Foubert, Ph.D.
Resource: Get help with Fortify
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In our latest episode of Consider Before Consuming, we delved into the questions posed by our amazing Fighters on social media. The thoughtful inquiries ranged from the effects of partners' pornography consumption to the concept of "ethical porn" and beyond.
Throughout the episode, Natale and Parker navigate a wide array of topics, offering insights into pornography's harm on individuals, relationships, and society. Central to their discussion is the necessity of fostering open dialogue and the importance of removing shame. They also share helpful resources for support.
Episode Resources
Article: 1 in 4 Sextortion Victims Are 13 or Younger, Survey Finds
Article: If You’re Stressed, Bored, or Lonely, is Watching Porn a Healthy Escape?
Article: Watching Porn to Escape Negative Emotions like Stress Linked to Compulsive Use
Article: Can Internet Porn Fantasies Affect Your Sex Life In Reality?
Article: The Growing Popularity of AI Porn and Deepfakes
Article: Let’s Talk About “Ethical Porn”
Article: Your Partner Just Told You They Struggle with Porn. Now What?
Podcast: Consider Before Consuming Ep. 35: Nicholas Kristof
Video: Jane Doe Sex Trafficked by GirlsDoPorn
Live Presentation Program
Conversation Blueprint
FTND Resources
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Katie Bulmer started Truth For Your Twenties to be the person she needed when she was younger. She mentors young women, shares advice on her podcast, and speaks nationwide.
In today's Consider Before Consuming episode, Katie shares wisdom on navigating the dating world. She suggests setting realistic expectations and having constructive conversations about pornography. Additionally, she discusses different types of intimacy that can exist in relationships, romantic or otherwise, and stresses that porn should not be used as a substitute for genuine intimacy.
Fight the New Drug collaborates with a variety of qualified organizations and individuals with varying personal beliefs, affiliations, and political persuasions. As FTND is a non-religious and non-legislative organization, the personal beliefs, affiliations, and persuasions of any of our team members or of those we collaborate with do not reflect or impact the mission of Fight the New Drug.
Episode Resources
Article: Has Our Culture’s Obsession with Porn Changed Dating Expectations?
Article: What Are the Risks of Choking a Partner During Sex?
Visit: Truth for your Twenties
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The following podcast episode contains discussions of child sexual abuse, violence, and sex trafficking. Listener discretion is advised.
Matt and Sarah founded She Is Not Your Rehab and launched the concept in Matt’s 2019 TEDx talk.
In this Consider Before Consuming episode, Matt shares how his vulnerability around his personal history of abuse and porn consumption helped other men in his barbershop to open up about their experiences. And Sara shares how her work in the anti-trafficking space led her to establish strict boundaries around pornography consumption and fight to create homes free from violence.
Their work to combat domestic violence, through an invitation for men to acknowledge their own childhood trauma and take responsibility for their healing, has reached millions.
Episode Resources
Visit: She Is Not Your Rehab
Matt and Sarah's Book: She Is Not Your Rehab
Art Prints: Who Is She?
Watch: Matt's Ted Talk
Article: What Are the Risks of Choking a Partner During Sex?
Article: 10 Reasons Why You Should (Not) Be Cool With Your Partner Watching Porn
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Paul was exposed to pornography at a young age and realized in college that his porn consumption had escalated to the point that it was impacting his sleep, his relationships, and his mental health.
During this Consider Before Consuming Podcast episode, Paul shares how he was able to retrain his brain away from porn consumption through healthy practices. He also shares about his work as the Teams Coordinator for an organization in Mexico, which focuses on prevention, intervention, and restoration for survivors of trafficking. Paul encourages our listeners not to give up and reminds us that there is always hope.
Episode Resources
Article: 7 Reasons to Add Quitting Porn to Your Self-Improvement List
Article: Why Do Some People Fight Against Sex Trafficking and Also Support Porn?
Video: Paul's Story
Podcast: How the Porn Industry is Connected to Sex Trafficking
Visit: El Pozo De Vida
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Trigger warning: The following podcast episode contains discussions of abuse and sex trafficking. Listener discretion is advised.
Julie Whitehead is a survivor of many years of abuse and sex trafficking. As a survivor, Julie shares her story in her book Shadowed: How I Became the Sex Trafficked Mother Next Door. She also serves on a survivor advisory board for the Malouf Foundation.
This episode of Consider Before Consuming is part 1 of our 2-part interview. In it, Julie shares about leaving her abusive marriage, only to begin being sex-trafficked on the weekends by a man she thought would help her.
Julie bravely shares her story in the hopes that other trafficking victims see that there’s hope on the other side of their experiences.
Episode Resources
Podcast: Consider Before Consuming Ep. 104: Julie Whitehead, Pt. 1
Julie's Book: Shadowed: How I Became The Sex-Trafficked Mother Next Door
Visit: On Watch
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