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Chief and Moineau discuss Stephanie Goerlich's book 'With Sprinkles on Top' and the importance of communication in bridging the gap between kinky and vanilla partners.
We compare mental fantasies with real-world practicality (including threesome and more-some discussions!), as well as negotiating and compromising in relationships.
We then try out two exercises from the book - a mad-lib style desire sharing exercise, and one to gauge our comfort levels with erotic language.
If you're a kinky person looking for ways to improve your relationship and get more comfortable sharing your desires with a partner then this podcast is for you!
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Stephanie Goerlich's website: https://www.stefanigoerlich.com
The PDF of exercises: https://www.stefanigoerlich.com/negotiationwkshts.html
Our website: https://kinkyevents.co.uk
Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction
00:58 Kinky Statistics
02:28 Introducing the Book: With Sprinkles on Top
04:39 Exploring Kink and Communication
06:50 Personal Kink Experiences and Fantasies
10:01 Discussing Threesomes and Boundaries
24:06 Fantasy Worksheet Exercise
33:42 Exploring Desires and Fantasies
34:19 Power Dynamics and Control
35:24 Communication and Connection
37:05 Erotic Vocabulary Exercise--------------
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Chief presents 30 varied exercises designed to improve communication skills within BDSM and D/s relationships. These activities aim to deepen the connection, enhance understanding, and ultimately lead to a better sex life. Ranging from joint journaling and desire mapping to more elaborate setups like role-reversal games and fantasy sharing, each exercise builds upon the previous ones.
Each exercise is discussed briefly, including instructions and several resources for each activity, emphasising the flexibility of the exercises to suit individual dynamics.
The episode encourages couples to actively practice these exercises to foster trust, empathy, and a more satisfying relationship.
00:00 Introduction to 30 Communication Exercises
00:30 Why Communication Matters in D/s Relationships
01:28 How to Approach These Exercises
02:03 Week 1: Foundation of Communication
02:08 Day 1: Joint Journaling
02:28 Day 2: Desire Mapping
03:22 Day 3: Create Safe Words
03:44 Day 4: Daily Check-Ins
04:02 Day 5: Feedback Session
04:40 Day 6: Communication Games
06:11 Day 7: Weekly Reflection
06:30 Week 2: Exploration and Education
06:50 Day 8: Research Assignment
07:19 Day 9: Sensation Play Experiment
08:06 Day 10: Role Reversal
08:29 Day 11: Boundary Testing
09:35 Day 12: Kink Workshop or Webinar
10:38 Day 13: Fantasy Sharing
11:12 Day 14: Weekly Reflection
11:40 Week 3: Deepening Trust and Connection
11:47 Day 15: Trust Exercises
12:08 Day 16: Gratitude Lists
12:24 Day 17: Surprise Day
12:43 Day 18: Vulnerability Night
13:10 Day 19: D/s Day Out
13:46 Day 20: Aftercare Focus
14:06 Day 21: Weekly Reflection
14:41 Week 4: Integration and Future Planning
14:48 Day 22: Dynamic Goal Setting
15:18 Day 23: Contract Review/Creation
15:58 Day 24: Creative Play
16:31 Day 25: Self Care Day
16:47 Day 26: Community Engagement
17:15 Day 27: Legacy Letter
17:45 Day 28: Celebration Session
18:27 Day 29-30: Reflection and Relaxation
18:53 Conclusion and Final Thoughts--------------
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Chief and Moineau share a candid conversation about their recent intimate and sensual experience. They discuss reading explicit sexting exchanges, the buildup of sexual tension, and the psychological and physical aspects of their BDSM and DS relationship. The conversation covers themes of edging, teasing, and the importance of understanding and meeting each other's needs. They also highlight the roles of communication and consent in their dynamic, delving into a detailed recount of a night filled with massages, dirty talk, and slow, anticipatory teasing, culminating in deep emotional and physical connection.
00:00 Introduction and Naughty Sexting01:51 Dreams and Desires04:56 Consent and Boundaries07:25 Anticipation and Preparation16:36 Unexpected Massage25:07 Teasing and Restraints30:39 Building Anticipation: The Art of Teasing31:19 Exploring Sensitivity: Techniques and Reactions33:30 Roleplay Dynamics: Daddy's Not Supposed to Touch34:09 Graphic Details: Fingering and Feedback35:58 The Fantasy and the Reality: Toys and Tools36:54 Psychological Elements in BDSM39:17 The Importance of Relaxation and Comfort43:23 Edging and Penetration: The Balancing Act46:21 The Climax: Achieving Multiple Orgasms51:55 Aftercare and Reflection52:27 Final Thoughts and Resources--------------
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Chief and Moineau revisit their Sex Menus from March 2020, and chat through what's changed and what hasn't. This episode highlights why a Sex Menu is such a fantastic tool for open communication in relationships. They showcase how such candid discussions can significantly enhance intimacy and satisfaction, foster a deeper understanding between partners, encourage exploration, and ultimately improve your sex life. Whether you're deeply embedded in the BDSM community or just curious about enhancing communication and desire in your relationship, this episode provides a real-world example of how embracing change and being open about your sexual wants can lead to more fulfilling experiences.
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Chief and Moineau spill the beans on finding BDSM events and making kinky friends. It’s a no-holds-barred chat filled with personal anecdotes, laughter, and a heap of useful tips for anyone curious about or already exploring the world of BDSM.
[00:01:16] Finding BDSM Events: The hosts discuss starting with FetLife and the significance of attending munches to meet the community.[00:03:03] Challenges for Women on FetLife: Moineau shares her experiences with the platform, highlighting the importance of safety and privacy.[00:04:11] Utilizing FetLife for Events, Not Dating: Chief elaborates on how FetLife serves best for finding events rather than forming personal connections.[00:09:30] Word of Mouth: Emphasizing the value of personal recommendations in discovering events and making kinky friends.[00:10:06] Collaborative Events: The hosts discuss how event newsletters from groups like Fox Den can introduce attendees to broader networks.[00:14:00] Finding BDSM-friendly Events on Vanilla Platforms: Suggestions for locating events with a BDSM twist on sites like Eventbrite.[00:16:48] Gender Dynamics at Munches: An observation on the male-dominated attendance and strategies for women to find more inclusive spaces.[00:18:00] Alternative Social Gatherings: Exploring book clubs and erotic poetry readings as unconventional avenues to meet kinky individuals.[00:22:31] Sex-positive Charities as Networking Hubs: Highlighting the role of charities in connecting people with the BDSM community.[00:24:11] Different Types of BDSM Events: Distinguishing between social, educational, and play-focused events to align with personal interests.[00:26:53] The Challenge of Finding the Right Events: Acknowledging the effort required to find fitting BDSM events and the r
They tackle everything from the ins and outs of FetLife to the unique charm of munches, all while keeping it real about the ups and downs of connecting in the community.
Whether you're navigating the scene in a buzzing city or a quiet town, this episode packs everything you need to broaden your kinky social circle and step up your BDSM game, served with a side of cheeky humour and warmth.--------------
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Chief and Moineau sit down with Liz who recently introduced D/s into an existing long-term relationship. With humour and candidness, Liz shares their initial steps, challenges, and the profound impact of BDSM on their connection and communication.
From confronting fears and preconceptions to utilising practical tools like the sex menu for negotiating desires, this episode is a testament to the transformative power of open dialogue and trust in rekindling intimacy.
Join us for an enlightening discussion that demystifies the transition into a D/s lifestyle, offering insights and encouragement for those curious about the path of sexual exploration and deepened partnership.Key Points & Timestamps:
[00:00:26] Liz discusses beginning their D/s journey and overcoming challenges related to depression and medication.[00:03:21] Chief and Liz reflect on how D/s dynamics can revive intimacy in long-term relationships.[00:04:30] Introduction of the sex menu as a transformative tool for couples.[00:06:02] Liz shares the initial conversation with Tom about exploring a D/s relationship, highlighting the importance of communication.[00:07:59] Transitioning from minimal communication about sex to frequent, open dialogues.[00:12:34] Liz describes the liberating aspect of submission in her otherwise dominant life roles.[00:14:17] Discussion on the gradual introduction and evolution of D/s dynamics in a relationship.[00:15:22] Homework assignments as a method for exploring and expressing desires within the D/s context.[00:18:40] Overcoming a hiccup in a scene and the importance of safe words and aftercare.[00:23:20] Liz shares the positive changes and deeper connection in her relationship since embracing D/s, encouraging open discussions about sex and desires.[00:29:14] Surprises and adjustments made after filling out the sex menu.[00:32:39] Liz emphasizes the importance of overcoming fear and engaging in open communication with partners.[00:38:14] Looking forward to the future of their D/s dynamic and exploring new activities together.[00:41:48] Final thoughts: The significance of c--------------
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In this episode Chief clears up misconceptions about the BDSM and Dom/sub lifestyle. With a wealth of experience and knowledge, Chief discusses and debunks eight prevalent myths. Whether you're new to the scene or looking for clarity on certain aspects of BDSM, this episode is packed with insights, advice, and a call for open-mindedness and consent above all.
Join us as we explore the true nature of power play and empower you with the knowledge to engage in healthy, consensual BDSM dynamics.--------------
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What’s it REALLY like to visit a professional Dominatrix? In this episode of Conversations wtih a Dom Chief, Moineau, and their guest Tom, discuss his experiences of visiting a professional Domme. It's an honest and educational look at personal growth and exploration in BDSM, tailored for those curious about or involved in the lifestyle. You’ll hear:
Tom's journey: How personal circumstances led him to explore BDSM and seek professional Dominatrices.How to find the right Dominatrix for you: Where to find them, the process of choosing a Dominatrix, and tips for initiating contact.What really happens in a session: Examples of what Dominatrices do and don’t do, and how you should communicate with them.Why fantasy and reality aren’t the same: Insights into the expectations versus the realities of BDSM play, emphasising consent, communication, and safety.How Tom’s experiences have impacted him personally: Tom's reflections on how these experiences have facilitated personal discovery and emotional growth.Tune in for an authentic conversation that demystifies the world of professional domination.
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In this episode, we dive deep into the world of pup play, and neurodivergence. Joining us as our guest is Puppy Ripley (aka Sir Kris), to talk about their personal experiences with autism, pup play, and their kink journey. They share their story about how they got into Pup play, their transition from Alpha pup to Dom, and their involvement in Puppy Ireland and charity work. Plus, we explore how pup play has been a supportive tool for them in relation to their autism and discuss ways the BDSM community can become more inclusive for individuals with autism and neurodivergence. Many thanks to Puppy Ripley, and we hope you love the episode.
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Do you overthink your BDSM scenes or D/s dynamic? In this episode, Chief shares his thoughts on why overthinking the details can kill the mood in the bedroom and make your D/s dynamic trickier. He also discusses areas you SHOULD be thinking about instead, and ways to ensure your Dom/sub relationship is on the right track.
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Chief and Moineau chat with Miss Mae Ling, a professional Dominatrix living in Los Angeles. How did she come to be a pro Domme? What excites her most about her job? What tips does she have to help women feel more dominant? And what advice can she offer to couples who want to introduce dominance and submission into their relationship? Find out in this episode of Conversations with a Dom.
Warning: This episode contains a brief discussion of sexual assault at 3:53.
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In this BDSM podcast episode, Chief and Moineau discuss a Reddit thread titled 'Wives of Reddit, what is a sexual fantasy you could never tell to your husband?'. The episode includes tips on taking about kinks with your partner, how Chief and Moineau's limits have changed over time, forced orgams, and getting kicked out of a club for having sex in the toilets!
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Get ready for a sizzling rollercoaster of emotions in this electrifying episode! Join us as we delve into the uncharted territory of our first-ever BDSM performance at Mistress Jane's Divine Darkness event. Feel the adrenaline rush as we spill the beans on our pre-event jitters, the nerve-wracking process of figuring out the perfect moves, and the heart-pounding aftermath as we dissect how it all went down.
We delver into the world of Sensual Dominance, opening the door to BDSM for every couple daring enough to explore. We also share a cascade of top-notch ideas you can try out that will transform your bedroom into a playground of passion. So join us for an adventure into the wild side of sensual intimacy that you won't want to miss!
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Could you imagine showing up to a Shakespearean play in full gimp attire? Talk about a culture shock! In this episode, we delve into the controversial world of public kink and discuss what makes public displays of kink both intriguing and potentially inappropriate.
We also share 5 ways you can engage in powerplay and D/s in public, including sharing a personal story of a hilarious mishap with a cat and a remote-controlled toy. We discuss navigating the thrilling yet risky world of public play, emphasizing the importance of understanding the potential risks. As always, we end with a friendly reminder about the legalities of public sex because as much as we love a good gimp suit, it's best saved for the right environment.
So join us for an episode that's as enlightening as it is entertaining, and remember - keep it kinky, but keep it considerate!--------------
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Have you ever wondered about the intriguing world of Pleasure Domination, or how to optimize pleasure and communication within relationships? Prepare to have your curiosity satisfied, as we have an enlightening conversation with Chief and Moineau, exploring the fascinating dynamics of a Pleasure Dom and the importance of prioritizing the well-being of the submissive partner, even when they seek pain. We delve into the nuances of creating a safe, consensual environment, and how this contrasts dramatically with the typical perception of a Dom who focuses primarily on pain.
Navigating relationships where one partner has a kink that the other doesn't may seem like a challenge, but don't fret. We offer insights on how the Pleasure Dom approach can bridge this gap. We venture into the territory of effective communication and language, discussing how to express your desires, avoid feeling resentment and ensure both partners feel valued. Get ready to discover how a Pleasure Dom's focus on giving pleasure can lead to a satisfying experience for both the Dom and their submissive partner.
Lastly, we describe techniques that maximize pleasure. We touch on the need to be responsive to your partner's reactions during a scene and how to hone in on their kinks.
While Pleasure Domination might seem like a niche topic, the conversation highlights the universal importance of understanding and satisfying your partner's needs, effective communication, and maintaining a consensual environment in any relationship. Tune in for a captivating exploration of Pleasure Domination and its potential to enrich your relationship dynamics.--------------
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Moineau discusses her experiences with anxiety and how it impacts her BDSM, sex and dating life.
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Which wand vibrator is best? Chief pits two Le Wand massagers against his trusty Lovehoney mains powered magic wand vibrator to see which one triumphs. Moineau kindly volunteers her body for science.
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Chief and Moineau posed the question 'What does D/s mean to you?' to our Discord community members to see how they felt about it. The results we got back were inspiring, moving, deep, and generally wonderful. In this episode, we share what they wrote and reflect on our own thoughts about power play and being in a relationship revolving around dominance and submission.
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In this intriguing episode of the BDSM podcast, Chief and Moineau dive into a fascinating 2014 research paper titled 'What exactly is an unusual sexual fantasy?'. Their lively discussion revolves around exploring their own kinky inclinations. They explore interesting topics, like the differences in fantasies between genders, and discover what percentage of men and women have fantasized about:
Having sex with multiple menEngaging in intimate encounters in unconventional placesSwinging with both known and unknown couplesExploring the act of urinating on a partnerThe goal of this latest episode is to entertain and normalize the wide range of sexual fantasies. It reminds us that it's perfectly okay to fantasize about almost anything. So, kick back, enjoy, and let your imagination run wild!
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Discovering the BDSM world as a beginner submissive can be incredibly exciting, but it can also lead to repeated mistakes and take its emotional toll on you. In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, we discuss beginner subs' common mistakes and how to avoid them. Our conversation involves everything you need to know about BDSM, including creating a sex menu, understanding terminology, finding a dominant, and avoiding people who might take advantage of you.
The discussion emphasizes the importance of taking time and sense-checking your journey to avoid sub-frenzy. We look at how communication, negotiations, and defining core desires are crucial in creating a successful dynamic. We discuss the importance of developing a support community and attending kinky events to connect with like-minded people and learn new skills.
Join us as we celebrate progress and growth on the kinky journey while being kind to ourselves.
Mistakes beginner submissives make repeatedly.How to avoid sub-frenzy and take things slow and steady.Developing communication skills and the importance of negotiations between the sub and Dominant.Identifying red flags and looking out for your safety.How to define core desires, create a sex menu and develop a supportive community.The importance of community and interacting with like-minded people.Society's changing views on normal sexual behaviour.The Art of Submission course designed for beginner submissives.
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