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Have you been feeling your mother-in-law's behaviour has a negative impact on you and your family life, but can't quite put the finger on it?
Does she intrude in your life constantly disregarding the boundaries you set?
Does everyone tell you how lucky you are with such a m0ther-in-law and you feel like the only one to see her true face?
If your answer is yes, you might be dealing with a narcissistic mother-in-law, or one with strong narcissistic traits. She here are 17 signs to recognise a narcissistic mother-in-law and 7 tips to make your life a lot easier in dealing with her.
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Are you no contact with your narcissistic mother and finding it challenging to maintain it?
Are you constantly getting sucked back in?
Are you battling with wanting to know how your mother is reacting to your decision but not wanting to break the no contact?
And if you are thinking of going no contact, then you need to hear this now.
In this episode I share the number 1 reason why no contact fails and what to do to about it.
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Does your mother ever ring you at crazy times to ask for things you know she could easily get done without you?
Does she require you to do errands with her you know she could easily do by herself?
Does she ever require you to sort and fix things for her, when you have no idea how to, and calling a professional was the only thing to do from the start?
Is this constant stream of demands leaving you feeling:
šø frustrated because her demands are getting more absurd,
šø confused about her behaviour,
šø bad about feeling she is an inconvenience to you,
šø exhausted because you are running everywhere to satisfy her needs and demands, šø guilty when you canāt,
šø exasperated by her not respecting your boundariesā¦ ???
Of course, it is not universal that a mother who needs help with things is being a problem. Itās ok to need help and ask for support.
But with a narcissistic mother, this can be weaponize and transform into a whole different thing.
It can in fact be a manipulation tactic.
In this episode we explore how to tell the difference between a genuine need for support and a manipulation tactic by a narcissistic mother. And I also share 5 tips to protect yourself from it!
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āAre you in the middle of planning your wedding and your mother is driving you crazy?
āAre you in a committed relationship but afraid to take the next step as you donāt know how you could possibly handle a wedding with your mother being involved?
āWas planning your wedding with your mother such a nightmare that you are terrified about planning anything else?
āOr are you wishing more than anything that your mother would get involved, but she is dismissing your wedding as if it was just another day?
There are so many expectations and social pressure and conditioning going on around weddings that it is an intense thing to navigate at best of times.
But with a narcissistic mother in the picture, it gets even more intense!
In this episode we talked about how & why a narcissistic mother will interfere with your wedding planning and what you can do to protect yourself!
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Does your mother still treat you like a child?
Does she regularly interfere with your life because she knows better?
Has she resisted any signs that you were growing up, like moving out, going to college, going out with your friends, getting married etc?
Do you ever have to tell her āIām an adult now, I know what Iām doing!ā only to be met with incredulity?
If your answer is yes, you may have experienced a manipulation tactic called infantilization.
In this episode you'll get clarity:
- on what this is,
- why a narcissistic mother does it and how,
- the impact it has
- how to protect yourself from it.
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Motherās day is coming up and it is a challenging time for daughters of narcissistic mothers, so I decided to do a special episode to address this topic before the date.
At this time...
Demands are going to be at unusual high.
Expectations are going to be loaded.
Guilt tripping will reach a new level.
Social pressure is going to be as intense as ever.
Bottom line is, this one day of the year has the potential of being the worst ever and the days approaching it can be a true nightmare.
So, how can we go about it?
In this episode I share 5 steps to survive Mother's Day.
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Have you ever been confused by the fact that your mother fits in with a narcissistic mother description and yet she seems to have empathy?
Have you ever felt her empathy manifests somewhat out of place when directed at you?
If you felt that way, I get it! I've been confused over this for a while once finding out my mother was a narcissist, as she seemed to have some empathy at times.
In this episode we get to dive into what empathy is and, most of all, answer the question, can a narcissistic mother have empathy? Is it real empathy or something else??
And how can you tell?
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Is your cycle painful and difficult each month?
Did your mother tell you not to talk about your cycle, and to just get on with it?
Do you feel overwhelmed by emotions during your cycle?
If your answer is yes, I truly feel you.
And I want you to know that it doesn't have to be that way!
Reason why I invited our special guest, Antoinette Mc Weeney to share her expertise on the topic, and to explain how Homeopathy can help with so much when it comes to our menstrual cycle, the trauma that can go with it, and all the emotions that can emerge too.
Antoinette Mc Weeney is an Homeopath specialising in women's hormonal health, menstrual educator, lecturer at the Helsinki School of homeopathy and facilitator of online and in person courses since 2010.
Mum of 3 healthy, wild children who've never had or needed antibiotics, steroids or Calpol/Tylenol.
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Do you constantly second guess yourself?
Do you go back and forth on your decisions, unsure if you are making the right ones?
Is there a voice in your head constantly telling you how not good enough you are?
Do you often feel like the least interesting person in the room, needing to work the hardest to be accepted?
If your answer is yes, then you know how big an impact self doubt has on your life. And I get it! It used to control my life completely, and I still deal with self doubt every day.
In this episode I share where self doubt comes from for daughters of narcissistic mothers and what is the number 1 antidote to it, so that it won't control your life anymore!
Here is the episode on procrastination I mention in this episodeā¬
https://audioboom.com/posts/8377695-8-steps-to-overcome-procrastination-as-a-result-of-maternal-narcissism
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Has your mother told you she is coming to visit and you don't know how you are going to handle it?
Does your mother visit often leaving you feeling drained and miserable each time?
Does she demand your complete attention, making you feeling guilty if you don't give it to her?
Here are 8 steps to navigate a visit from your vulnerable narcissistic mother. Step number 8 is especially important!!
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Do your emotions feel too strong and intense to deal with?
Do you feel crushed by waves of anxiety, anger, jealousy, sadness...?
If yes...
Have you ever wondered if there's something wrong with you? If you are broken and unfixable??
I've been there and I truly get it! And as daughters of narcissistic mothers, many of us feel this way often if not all the time!
Let me start with the most important part: you are not broken! And you don't need fixing!
And your beautiful and sensitive heart has been through a lot and has not being modelled how to navigate these emotions.
In this episode we go in depth into how to do so, and also how to open up to trust yourself and others while in this process of healing from maternal narcissism.
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Here are the links to the episodes mentioned within this episode:
Episode 32
https://audioboom.com/posts/8415099-unpacking-the-challenge-of-intense-emotions-when-healing-from-maternal-narcissism
Episode 3
https://audioboom.com/posts/8311942-this-healing-doesn-t-work-am-i-broken
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Does your narcissistic mother ever use love-bombing to make you feel guilty or to get you to do what she needs of you?
What is love-bombing in the context of maternal narcissism?
How does it look like and how can you tell the difference between love-bombing and true motherly love?
When a narcissistic mother uses love-bombing, this can leave you feeling confused, crushed by guilt, alone, frustrated because you fell for it again, anxious because you don't know when the put-downs will come next...
In this episode we get to have a closer look to love-bombing as a manipulation tactic within the context of maternal narcissism.
I'm offering some clarity as to how to tell the difference between love-bombing and real mother love, and also on how you can protect yourself from it.
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How is your narcissistic mother behaving when around your children?
Have you noticed her toxic behaviour now being projected at her grandchildren?
Do you feel conflicted between bringing your children to their grandmother and protecting them from her narcissism?
How can you even tell if your mother has become a narcissistic grandmother?
In this episode I share 14 signs to identify a narcissistic grandmother and some clarity as to how to deal with her.
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As promised, here is the birthday episode for those still In Contact.
In this episode we go through all the main challenges that come up when it is your mother's birthday approaching and also when it's your birthday coming up, and also offer some clarity as to how to deal with it all while still being in contact with your mother.
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How does mother energy feel?
How can you recognise it if you've never been modelled it by your mother?
How can you be a second mother figure for someone else?
A very important part in the journey of healing from mother wounds is to learn to mother yourself, accessing the mother energy that is indeed within you. But not ever having received this energy from our mothers, that's easier said than done.
In this episode I offer clarity as to what mother energy is, how you can find examples of it in your life and also how you can be of support to kids in your life who you can recognise have a narcissistic mother.
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Whether it's your mother's birthday coming up, or your own, both these situation can be extremely challenging when you are no contact.
Strong intense emotions can be triggered, like guilt, anxiety, grief, sadness, loneliness, all causing you pain and to run into the risk of breaking the no contact.
Birthdays are also a time when flying monkeys can come to the attack, and use your moment of vulnerability to get you back in the loop of narcissistic manipulation.
How can you deal with all this? How can you protect yourself while navigating the emotions emerging?
In this episode we go in depth into how to deal with both your mother's and your birthday while keeping a successful no contact.
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Have you ever asked yourself:
"Why is my mother nice at times and abusive other times?"
"Why is she always nicer around others and then gets abusive behind closed doors?"
"Why some visits/phone calls go ok and others feel terrible?"
You may have noticed ups and downs and inconsistency in your mother's behaviour towards you, causing you confusion, conflicting emotions, guilt, feeling like the crazy one for seeing things...
But why is she like that???
The key word in the narcissistic game is manipulation. In this episode we go in depth on this topic, offering some clarity on how maternal narcissistic manipulation works and how you can protect yourself from it.
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Do you need days to recover after every call with your mother and yet you still feel the impulse to call?
Do you feel the need to contact your mother when something challenging happens to you?
Do you need to consult her every time you have a decision to make?
Do you feel guilty if you decide something about your life, without talking to her first?
If you answered yes to any of the above, I totally get it! I've been no contact for over 2 years and sometimes that impulse to call gets in strong! But why does that happen? Is it natural for us to want to contact our mother despite knowing that it won't be helpful at all?? Listen to this episode to find out!
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Have you ever asked yourself:
"Why am I not normal??"
"Why do I not fit in??"
"Why do I have to go through all of this when other seem so normal??"
If you have, I get it. I've been there many times and I've cried a lot over the feeling of not fitting in. I truly feel you. And my mother was no help with that... All she said to me has made it worse.
But what is "normal"? Is there such a thing? In this episode I want to share with you why "normal" is an illusion and an unhelpful one at that... And there's good news too!
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Have you ever made arrangements to get help, to then pull back?
If you were to book a call with me, would you feel nervous, anxious or even in a panic right before?
Does a lot come up in your life that feel outside of your control and hold you back?
If you answered yes, and if you have noticed this kind of a pattern in your life, this could be a sign of an avoidance pattern being active, coming from a protective strategies to keep you from feeling the same pain you felt growing up with a narcissistic mother.
This was a very effective strategy growing up, and has kept you safe in key moments and surviving. But it may be holding you back now.
In this episode we explore a few of the mechanism within which this protective strategy can show up and how to shift it.
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