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Farewelling founder Karen Bussen asks licensed therapist Grace Lin why a bucket list is important, what it means, and how we should create one that combines big goals and daily dreams with our true values as people and members of a community. Should a couple have their own individual bucket lists? How often should we review our list? And how can we use bucket list thinking to be more connected to the people in our lives?
Karen shares details from her own bucket list (hint: Benicio del Toro!), heads out to the streets of New York City to ask strangers about their lists, and takes Grace Lin through a delightful lightning round of âAbso-bucket-lutely or No-bucket-wayâ...
Do you have a bucket list? Is it purely made up of places you want to see, or does it have other elements--such as running a marathon or learning a new skill? Please tell us all about it on social media and use the hashtag #livingmybucket and tag us @myfarewelling. You may just inspire others!
To read more, visit us at MyFarewelling.com.
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Farewelling co-founders Karen Bussen and Elizabeth Karansky sit down with Adam Rabinovitch, Executive Director of COPE Foundation, a non-profit grief and healing organization dedicated to helping parents and families living with the loss of a child.
Adam offers advice on navigating loss, finding community, and why he thinks of grief not in stages, but in waves. He shares a personal story, and tells us how we can be supportive if we know someone who has lost a child or sibling. Liz opens up about her experiences as a funeral director working with families to plan for a child who has died.
The COPE Foundation offers a variety of services and resources to families whoâve lost a child, including Camp Erin, a summer camp and regular schedule of events that bring families together to share, heal, and even celebrate.
To read more, visit us at MyFarewelling.com. If youâd like to speak to someone from the COPE Foundation, you can email [email protected] or call 516-832-2673.
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What is like to lose a spouse? How have attitudes around death changed over the past decades? In this upbeat but heartfelt episode, Karen and Liz host Lizâs mom and her best friend (both of whom are named Trish!) for a conversation filled with laughter, wisdom, and real talk about end of life attitudes. Lizâs mom explains why she doesnât fear death and how she feels about her daughter being a funeral director. The other Trish talks about moving on after a loss and wonders what sheâll look like in the next world. Both women tell us what they want for their own farewellings, and what three items theyâd pack for the afterlife (hint: shoes and handbags!). A lighting round reveals their feelings about everything from open caskets to telling jokes at funerals and whether itâs cool to play rock and roll music at a farewelling. They share the lesson that life has taught them--to treat yourself well and enjoy the ride!
During the conversation, Lizâs mom touches on how she felt when she first learned her daughter wanted to become a funeral director. If youâd like to listen to Lizâs whole story, check out this episode that features her journey toward finding her passion in life...helping others through death.
The two Trishes really arenât into making jewelry out of your loved oneâs ashes, but if youâd like to know more about that, visit us at MyFarewelling.com. If youâre inspired to make your own plan, download our free Farewelling Worksheets here.
Weâd really love it if youâd join our community. Farewelling is a movement to celebrate a beautiful life, beautifully, and itâs all happening! Click the icons above to follow us on Instagram and Facebook.
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If you had a choice, would you want to specify what youâd wear for all eternity? Have you ever had to choose funeral clothing for a loved one? Tradition often dictates how a person who has died is dressed or shrouded for their funeral. But more and more, we may want to take charge of what reflects our style, and even our values. Liz and Karen talk eco-friendly options, interesting accessories, how funeral professionals often double as fashion stylists, and why itâs important to leave clear instructions for your loved ones.
Like what you hear? Weâd be mighty grateful if youâd review us on Apple podcasts and maybe send a link to someone you think might find the show helpful or interesting. If youâd like to know more about final fashion and choosing funeral clothing (including eco-friendly options), visit us at MyFarewelling.com. And hey, f youâre inspired to make your own plan, download our free Farewelling Worksheets here.
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Farewelling founder Karen Bussen and Erica Cantley, educator, writer, and New York food industry insider, talk about celebrating the life of each individual in a personal and beautiful way, and why a potluck farewelling just isnât right for either of them (hint: itâs a control thing). Erica tells us how she came to write her upcoming book, Teaching Hamlet as My Father Died, and explains what sheâd do if she only had three weeks left to live. They touch on themes of legacy and remembrance, and what it means to be immortal.
To find out more and see some extra content, visit us at MyFarewelling.com. If youâre inspired to make your own plan, download our free Farewelling Worksheets here. Erica, who works as a maitre dâ in a fancy New York restaurant, would love to answer any questions you may have for her, so feel free to write us at [email protected] and weâll get them to her!
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Farewelling founder Karen Bussen and Sallie Tisdale, palliative care nurse, Buddhist, and author of the revolutionary guidebook, âAdvice for Future Corpses and Those Who Love Themâ speak frankly about how planning for end of life and funeral details is a gift. Sallie gets real about the idea of dying at home, why she doesnât like the term âdeath with dignityâ and why she thinks itâs crazy that at one of the most singular moments of our human experience, we are so reluctant to give instructions that would help us and our loved ones. Note: this conversation includes suicide, assisted death, and other topics that may be sensitive, so please use discretion if you or someone youâre listening with might find them difficult.
If youâd like to hear more from Sallie Tisdale, check out Part 1 of her conversation with Karen here.
Sallie Tisdale is an award-winning author of nine books, including âAdvice for Future Corpses and Those Who Love Them,â.
To read more, visit us at MyFarewelling.com. If youâre inspired to make your own plan, download our free Farewelling Worksheets here.
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Everything we do in life down to the smallest detail is affected by design. But our end of life experience has been largely overlooked, leaving most of us confused, disappointed, and even upset by what we donât know and what we canât control. Farewelling founder Karen Bussen sits down with two innovators in the space--Shoshana Berger and Dr. BJ Miller--co-authors of A Beginnerâs Guide to the End: Practical Advice for Living Life and Facing Death, to talk about how we might think about, and share, our wishes for a more personal approach. Along the way, they look at how to honor our senses and how some of the simplest things are what make life worth living. They each share the one thing theyâd change about our attitudes toward death. As a bonus, Karen asks them some personal questions about what they imagine for their own farewellings.
For more behind the scenes photos and info, visit our show page at MyFarewelling.com. Check out their book here.
Please talk to us! Weâd love to see you @myfarewelling on Instagram and Facebook. Share part of your Farewelling Worksheet or ask us a question using #myfarewelling. Come on over and join the movement and the community!
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What do you get when you invite an ensemble of fabulous women to toast and talk about a topic that touches us all: death and dying? Well, thatâs exactly what we did. Youâll find the delightful results in your ears: Lively conversation and fascinating insights--from moms, wives, daughters, and working women--about all things end-of-life (and living well in this moment!).
At this first-ever Farewelling FĂȘte, our own Funeral Guru Elizabeth Karansky gifted each woman with a personalizable Farewelling Worksheet, and Karen invited them into a portable podcast room to chat about broaching end-of-life planning discussions with aging parents (âWhat? You think Iâm dying? Is that why weâre having this conversation?â); why even responsible grown-ups (some of whom are actually lawyers) donât have wills; and the challenges of navigating age-old and changing cultural practices around funerals and grief. How can you personalize when your tradition doesnât encourage that?
If youâd like to read more about talking to parents about death and dying, weâve got a helpful article here. And if youâd like to start a Farewelling Worksheet for them or for yourself, right hereâs where to get them (theyâre free!).
Please talk to us! Weâd love to see you @myfarewelling on Instagram and Facebook. Share part of your Farewelling Worksheet or ask us a question using #myfarewelling. Com on over and join the movement and the community!
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We welcome Hysteria Radioâs Joseph Fusaro for a funny--and frank--conversation about his experience with mental illness, drugs and a post-breakup suicide attempt, and how coming through it all has shifted his perspective on living (ummm, heâs obsessed with it!). They chat âmushroom suitâ burials, the FBI body farm, and the difficulty of saying farewell to a pet. Joe encourages us all to remember good times with loved ones while they are still here and to do what you love, not necessarily what others would love for you to do.
Joe is a musician and a poet, too. To read more about Joe and his work, and to check out his rockinâ Farewelling Playlist come on over to the Farewelling site.
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If you think itâs uncomfortable dealing with death among humans, itâs even more awkward sharing the grief we feel when we lose a dog, cat, bunny, or other cherished pet. Karen and funeral director Elizabeth Karansky talk to an expert on the topic--therapist and animal activist Jamie Gleicher, who herself is the mother to âfive fur babies,â four of whom are rescue animals and three of whom are âtri-pawed.â
Gleicher teaches us about the liberating power of radical acceptance, and tells the harrowing story of losing her first pet, Sam, and who she called first when it happened. We talk how to create loving memories of our pets (pawprint tattoos are one option!), and learn about one amazing pet cemetery. Liz gives us some solid advice for how to help a friend who is grieving a pet. Karen goes on the street to talk to some young people about losing a pet, and they talk about a beautiful, helpful poem that is meant to comfort those who are hurting from the loss of a dear animal companion.
To learn more about Pet Farewelling and what to do when a pet dies, check out this article. To see photos of Karen, Liz, and Jamie in studio, visit us here If you have a question or a comment for Jamie Gleicher about Pet Farewelling or grieving a pet, write us an email at info@myfarewelling, or catch up with us on social media @myfarewelling. If youâd like, include a photo of your sweet pet with their name and how you remember them. We might share it with the world and keep their story flourishing!
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Guests at the Farewelling Launch Party in Manhattan become guests on Farewelling: The Podcast! The team at editaud.io opens a special recording session right in the middle of the celebration, and the conversation is fascinating. Regular folks from all walks of life grab the mic and talk about how they view death and dying, whether their families were open (or not!) about the topic, and how theyâve dealt with grief in their own lives. Is it okay to have a dress code (or a costume party!) at a funeral? Whatâs the right thing to say to someone who is grieving? What do you do if a child asks you about death? And what makes a good life, anyway?
This Bonus Mini is Part 2 from The Farewelling Launch Party. Check out Part 1 if you havenât already! If youâd like to give a listen to the booty-shaking Farewelling Launch Party Playlist, itâs right here! Join us on the website to learn more about the party or to start your own Farewelling Worksheet. If you like the podcast, please leave a review to help others find us!
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Dierdre Wolownick is just one of those remarkable people who decided to do something seemingly impossible (you know, learn to speak eight languages, create an actual orchestra, start running marathons at age 55, climb Yosemiteâs El Capitan at age 66), and then they just do it, no matter what it takes. Why sheâs not in a Nike ad, weâre not sure. We talk to Dierdre about the adventure that has been her life, how she raised two fearless children (one of whom, Alex Honnold, happens to climb the worldâs most imposing rock faces without safety gear!), and why she thinks making a will is something every parent should do right now. She shares her adventures and her philosophy for living a life without limits, and inspires us to take the next step toward our dreams, no matter where we are on our own journey. As we begin the new year, and the new decade, we can all use her brand of resilience, moxy and downright awesomeness.
To see photos of Karen and Dierdre (and the strawberry cake) in California, and to learn more about Dierdreâs paintings and her book, âThe Sharp End of Life: A Motherâs Story,â visit us at myfarewelling.com. If you have a question or a comment for Dierdre, write us an email at info@myfarewelling, or catch up with us on social media @myfarewelling. Weâd love to hear from you, especially if youâre living your own bucket list! #livingmybucket
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When Farewelling host Karen Bussen finds herself face-to-face in New York City with one of her heroes, tech business journalist and all-around dynamo Kara Swisher, Karen is delighted to find out that she shares something very specific in common with the legendary media maven--their Farewelling vision is strikingly similar (although Karaâs involves a bit more Marie Kondo)! After you listen to Karaâs description of the spectacular sendoff she imagines (and has budgeted for), including flaming arrows and a huge disco party, you can go back and listen to Episode 5 of Farewelling: The Podcast (at about 12:20 into the show) where Karen asks Farewellingâs funeral guru about whether her own Viking farewelling plan is legal or not.
To learn more about Kara Swisherâs work as one of Americaâs pre-eminent tech journalists, check out the Recode site on Vox.com. If you liked this featured clip, please rate and subscribe, and check out our other episodes wherever you get your podcasts. While weâre making wishes, we wish youâd follow us on social media @myfarewelling! Weâre trying to build a community of cool people who know that thinking just a bit about planning for end of life is part of living now with intention and joy. Tell us whether youâd want a Viking funeral--or if not, what you do want for yourself! Once you figure it out, share your wishes with your loved ones in your Farewelling Worksheet--itâs easy and free to download!
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Farewelling founder Karen Bussen has a lively conversation with the brilliant Sallie Tisdale, palliative care nurse, Buddhist, and author of the revolutionary guidebook, âAdvice for Future Corpses and Those Who Love Them.â Sallie offers her special brand of uplifting straight talkâhow to practice accepting help when you need it, how to choose a healthcare proxy badass, leaving emotional baggage behind when a loved one is dying, and whatâs on her own surprisingly delightful death-bed playlist (hint: thereâs comedy).
Sallie Tisdale is an award-winning author of nine books, including Advice for Future Corpses and Those Who Love Them.
To read more, visit the Farewelling site.
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Farewelling founder Karen Bussen talks to Farewellingâs own Funeral Guru, Elizabeth Meyer Karansky. Liz, the author of a heartfelt memoir about her journey titled âGood Mourning,â shares how her Upper East Side family reacted when she told them she wanted to be a funeral director, and tells the story of her fatherâs unique funeral/farewelling (hint: there was dancing and she might have met her husband there). Liz tackles questions like âIs a Viking Funeral legal?â She tells us what itâs like to hang out with embalmers, and she answers Karenâs queries about what type of farewelling Liz wants for herself.
To read more about Lizâs inspiring story, check out her memoir, ''Good Mourning''.
Yes, Liz is a funeral director and an author. But sheâs also a Thanatology Fellow, which means sheâs an expert in grief studies as well. If youâd like to read some of her tips for dealing with grief, come on over to MyFarewelling.com.
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On the first night of the 2019 NFDA conference in Chicago, the organizers throw a huge Blues Brothers-themed bash with Chicago-style hot dogs and pizza, a cash bar, and a 14-piece dance band, plus a replica of the police car from the movie. Farewelling CEO Karen Busen and Funeral Guru Elizabeth Karansky greet funeral directors, industry pros, and mortuary science students as they come to party, network and let loose on the dance floor! Karen learns what a âcemetarianâ is and Liz asks an embalmer what she wants for her own farewelling. They talk personalization, how long grief lasts, and why rituals to celebrate a life are important.
Come on over here if you want to see more from the festivities, including Liz and Karen wearing sunglasses in a dark ballroom! If you like the podcast, please share with a friend or leave a review to help others find us!
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On a chilly night in November, Farewelling: The Podcast sets up shop in the middle of the launch party in Manhattanâs Financial District. In Part 1 of this minisode, guests line up for a chance to head into the recording booth, put on headphones, and dive into podcasting...about death and dying! They answer questions about everything related to farewelling, and how they imagine it for themselves. The surprising answers involve dog statues and mashed potato bars, eco-friendly funerals, plus tips on how to leave clues for folks to find later, and whatâs scary about dying.
This Bonus Mini is Part 1 from The Farewelling Launch Party. Keep an eye out for Part 2 soon! Join us at the Farewelling site to learn more or to fill out your own Farewelling Worksheet.
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Farewelling founder Karen Bussen asks New York Times Obituary Writer (and three-time Moth Storytelling Champion) Neil Genzlinger about how writing stories recapping other peopleâs lives has changed his own perspective on mortality, how he feels about âirreverentâ personal tributes, and what the similarities between a great obit and a successful Moth story are (hint: there are quite a few!). Neil encourages us all to do a mind-blowing thought exercise in self-reflection...using just the facts.
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Farewelling founder Karen Bussen invites therapist Grace Y. Lin to tell us why we should make a little room in our lives for a conversation about death and dying. Turns out, itâs a gift to your family and it helps you live more mindfully right now. Grace gives us strategies for taking control of our own narrative (at least the parts we can control!). She helps us make a mantra to remind us of whatâs most important in life, and how weâd live if we knew for certain our time was limited.
Grace Y. Lin is a Licensed Behavorial Therapist practicing in New York. To read more of her inspiring work or to start your own Farewelling Worksheet, visit us at the Farewelling site.
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Multi-talented CBS Sunday Morning correspondent, humorist, author and podcast host Mo Rocca joins Farewelling Founder Karen Bussen in the studio for a delightful chat about his latest book, âMobituaries: Great Lives Worth Reliving,â and the new season of the podcast that inspired the book, also titled âMobituaries.â They talk about facing death beautifully, why Marlene Dietrich was such a patriot, and whatâs on Moâs own bucket list (hint: it involves gymnastics).
Mo Rocca is an award-winning writer, humorist, correspondent, podcast host, public radio superstar, and author of âMobituaries: Great Lives Worth Reliving. To find out more, visit the Farewelling site.
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