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  • 215. “He wants a house, I don’t want to go bankrupt.”

    215. “He wants a house, I don’t want to go bankrupt.”

    · Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

    Athena (31) and Arie (30) are newly married and dreaming of buying a home, starting a family, and traveling the world. But their finances—and philosophies—don’t align. Athena’s upbringing was defined by instability and strict religious messaging around money; Arie’s was middle-class and frugal. Now, they're realizing that love alone isn’t enough—they need a shared plan. Can Ramit help them define their values, shift their dynamic, and start building a future as true partners?In this episode we uncover:• The subtle financial tension that’s been building—and how it’s showing up in everything from gift-giving to debt.• Why Arie is laser-focused on buying a home, while Athena worries about losing her freedom.• The real reason Athena keeps her finances separate—and how her upbringing shaped that decision.• How Arie’s savings mindset clashes with Athena’s more flexible approach to money.• A surprising admission about holiday spending.• What it really means to feel “safe” with money.• The power struggle hiding beneath their shared bank account.• How financial shame from childhood still influences their present-day relationship.• Their unspoken fears—and how Ramit pushes them to define their shared Rich Life.Chapters:(00:00:00) “It’s a dream”—but what if your partner doesn’t share it?(00:08:30) They don’t fight—but is that actually the problem?(00:21:19) “I don’t know if I can say yes if I have debt”(00:24:44) Ramit breaks down their numbers(00:37:36) Dreaming big while avoiding the details(00:45:32) “What kind of person doesn’t own a house?”(00:55:33) The moral script keeping Athena stuck(01:14:39) “If you want something for yourself, you’re greedy”(01:22:57) Getting honest about a future they can’t afford(01:33:15) Where are they now? Athena and Arie’s follow-upsThis episode is brought to you by:DeleteMe | If you want to get your personal information removed from the web, go to https://joindeleteme.com/ramit for 20% off.Leesa | During Leesa's 4th of July Sale, get 30% off plus an extra $50 off at https://leesa.com with promo code RAMIT.Factor | Get 50% off plus free shipping on your first box at https://factormeals.com/RAMIT50OFF with code RAMIT50OFF.Rocket Money | Cancel unwanted subscriptions and manage your expenses the easy way at https://rocketmoney.com/ramitTrust & Will | Protect what matters most in minutes at https://trustandwill.com/ramit and get 10% off plus free shipping.Links mentioned in this episode• Get Ramit’s 3 Step Guide to Buying a HouseConnect with Ramit• Get my new book, Money For Couples• Get Money Coaching with Ramit • Download the Conscious Spending Plan• Listen to my book—now on Audible• Get my New York Times best-selling book• Get my no-numbers journal• Other episodes• Instagram• Twitter• YouTubeIf you and your partner have a money issue and you want my help, I occasionally select a couple to work with, free of charge. Apply for my help here.

  • 214. “I’m 45 but my parents still control my money”

    214. “I’m 45 but my parents still control my money”

    · Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

    Kate and Keith have spent years afraid to spend—until now. In Part 2 of this conversation, Ramit investigates the $5 million missing from Kate’s trust fund and uncovers decades of poor returns, excessive fees, and emotional avoidance.

    As the truth comes out, Ramit challenges them to rewrite the money scripts that have shaped their lives: Kate’s shame around wealth, Keith’s fear of being seen as dependent, and the confusing messages they’ve inherited about what money should mean.

    They imagine a future with travel, community, and purpose, if they can confront this question: What’s the point of having money if you never use it?

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  • 213. “We have a $1M trust - but a $30k budget” (Part 1)

    213. “We have a $1M trust - but a $30k budget” (Part 1)

    · Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

    Kate (45) and Keith (53) split their time between Maine and Hawaii, living what looks like a dream life.

    They’ve inherited wealth, run two small businesses, and have nearly $2 million in net worth. But with only $30,000 in annual income, they live in fear of spending—and cover their shortfall by dipping into savings.

    Kate, recovering from long COVID, handles the finances but feels unworthy of her money. Keith, who once filed for bankruptcy, avoids money conversations entirely and worries he’ll be seen as a freeloader. Their roles are clear—one over-responsible, one disengaged—and their financial anxiety keeps them stuck.

    They say they want to travel, be generous, and enjoy their Rich Life. But, how do you build a Rich Life when you’ve been taught to feel ashamed of the money you have?

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  • 212.

    212. "He's terrified of losing it all—so she's losing him"

    · Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

    Vanessa (48) and George (59) have been married for five years and run two businesses together, but still keep their finances separate, leading to recurring tension, resentment, and financial instability.

    Vanessa is a risk-tolerant entrepreneur who sees money as a tool for growth. George is nearing retirement, risk-averse, and clings to financial security. They split everything 50/50, even when Vanessa stopped drawing a paycheck from their business. Now, with $482K in debt and $28K in savings, George’s retirement is looming, making their financial foundation feel unstable. His fear-based money spirals derail productive conversations, while Vanessa feels alone, unsupported, and afraid their misalignment could threaten their future.

    Can they learn to trust each other, merge their financial lives, and build a shared vision before retirement kicks in?

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  • 211. Ramit and Cassandra open up: “Our real money fights (and what we learned)”

    211. Ramit and Cassandra open up: “Our real money fights (and what we learned)”

    · Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

    In this rare and intimate episode, Ramit takes the hot seat alongside his wife, Cassandra, as they’re interviewed by their close friend Julie Nguyen.

    Together, Ramit and Cass pull back the curtain on how they navigate money behind the scenes—from prenup negotiations and separate finances to the regular money meetings that keep them aligned. They open up about the challenges they've faced as a couple and reveal how, despite Ramit's career, they’re just as susceptible to money issues as any other couple on this podcast.

    This conversation is an honest look at what it really takes to build a true financial partnership—and a marriage that lasts.

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  • 210. “We make $170k—but spend like we make $450k”

    210. “We make $170k—but spend like we make $450k”

    · Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

    Clara (29) and Devin (34) are married with three young kids, trying to build a future while juggling debt, stress, and wildly different approaches to money.

    Clara racked up $20,000 in credit card debt, while Devin chooses to gamble instead of investing for retirement. They earn well and own two properties, but with zero savings, 75% in fixed costs, and no shared goals, their financial foundation is crumbling. Underneath the spreadsheets and the spending is a toxic parent-child dynamic, causing Clara to feel disempowered and ashamed, while Devin’s “dreamer” mindset leads him to believe the next big win will fix everything.

    Can they dismantle these roles, get honest about their spending, and rebuild as true partners before it’s too late?

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  • 209. “We bought a house we can’t afford, now what?”

    209. “We bought a house we can’t afford, now what?”

    · Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

    Sunnie (29) and Jazmyne (30) are a queer couple trying to build their life together—buy a house, bring a child into their family, and create long-term financial security. But with just one primary income and a major surgery planned for next year, every decision feels high stakes.They earn a combined $180,000 and just bought their first home; but between rising costs, paycheck-to-paycheck living, and intense pressure on Sunnie as the breadwinner, their financial conversations often swing from optimistic to explosive.With no shared plan, no savings for a wedding, and looming fears about safety and stability, can they align on a vision for their future—and build a financial plan that supports it?This episode is brought to you by:Gelt | If you’re ready for a more premium, proactive tax strategy to optimize and file your taxes, check out Gelt at https://joingelt.com/ramit. As a member of my community, you can skip the waitlist.DeleteMe | If you want to get your personal information removed from the web, go to https://joindeleteme.com/ramit for 20% off.Trust & Will | Protect what matters most in minutes at https://trustandwill.com/ramit and get 20% off plus free shipping.ZocDoc | Download the ZocDoc app for FREE at https://zocdoc.com/ramit then find and book a top-rated doctor today.Leesa | Go to https://leesa.com for 30% off mattresses + Free Sleep Bundle (2 Free Pillows and Microfiber Sheet Set), PLUS get an extra $50 off with promo code ramit, exclusive for my listeners.If you're enjoying the Money for Couples podcast, I'd love to hear more about you and what you think of the podcast. Take this five-minute survey at iwt.com/podcastsurvey.Links mentioned in this episode• Fill out my listener survey • Order my new book: Money for CouplesConnect with Ramit• Get Money Coaching with Ramit • Download the Conscious Spending Plan• Listen to my book—now on Audible• Get my New York Times best-selling book• Get my no-numbers journal• Other episodes• Instagram• Twitter• YouTubeIf you and your partner have a money issue and you want my help, I occasionally select a couple to work with, free of charge. Apply for my help here.Produced by Crate Media.

  • 208. “We make $157K at 22, but we’re afraid to spend money”

    208. “We make $157K at 22, but we’re afraid to spend money”

    · Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

    Javier (22) and Marco (22) are young, ambitious, and financially disciplined—but the future they dream about together is being challenged by how they handle money today.

    They earn a combined income of $157,000, already have more than $60k invested, and live in New York City with shockingly low fixed costs. But despite their impressive financial habits, they’re stuck in a cycle of miscommunication. Javier wants to be cautious now to make big moves later, while Marco wants to split everything 50/50, even if it slows down their long-term progress.

    With their income gap and no shared plan for spending, saving, or investing, can they plan for a wedding and build their future together?

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  • 207. “I’m 40, burned out, and don’t know what’s next in my life”

    207. “I’m 40, burned out, and don’t know what’s next in my life”

    · Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

    Courtney (40) and Ray (41) have spent their entire adult lives in the structure of military life—but with retirement on the horizon, they’re about to face a future filled with choices for the first time.

    For Ray, that means walking away from the rank, routine, and pension he’s built for over 20 years and entering a civilian job market he knows little about. For Courtney, it means finishing grad school, becoming a therapist, and finally stepping into her own career after 12 years as a stay-at-home mom.

    With three kids, a cross-country move coming soon, and dreams of settling down for good, can they stop optimizing for retirement and start asking better questions on building their Rich Life?

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  • 206. “I quit my job to care for our son, but can we afford it?”

    206. “I quit my job to care for our son, but can we afford it?”

    · Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

    Anna (33) and Will (37) are married with two kids, including a young son who was born with a serious heart condition. Between unexpected medical expenses, emotional stress, and inconsistent financial planning, their savings have steadily drained—and now, they're spending more than they earn just to keep up. Will brushes off concerns, saying “We’re fine,” while Anna feels like she’s the only one confronting reality. Now, they want to build a home and create long-term security for their family—but until they can get aligned, that dream may be out of reach.

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  • 205. “I've been homeless before…I'm terrified to spend money”

    205. “I've been homeless before…I'm terrified to spend money”

    · Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

    Jennifer (37) and Steve (41) have been dating for over five years, but they’ve never spent more than $100 on a shared purchase.

    Jennifer is a self-made business owner with a clear vision for the future, while Steve is cautious, financially conservative, and still haunted by a turbulent past that included losing both parents and living out of his car. Despite a solid income and nearly $200,000 in savings, Steve can’t shake the fear of financial collapse. Jennifer, meanwhile, is growing resentful. She wants a partner who dreams big and makes bold moves with her—not someone who second-guesses a $10 purchase.

    Can they confront the past, align on a shared vision for their future, and finally start acting like teammates?

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  • 204. “We make $226K—but our kids think we’re broke”

    204. “We make $226K—but our kids think we’re broke”

    · Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

    Lisa (37) and Marcus (38) have been married for 14 years, raising four kids and building a life together—but when it comes to money, they couldn’t be further apart.
    Lisa homeschools their kids and dreams of more family travel time full of Rich Life experiences. Marcus shuts down in financial conversations, overwhelmed by anxiety and self-doubt—even though he’s a professional accountant. In today’s episode, live from Washington, D.C., they uncover a painful dynamic: Lisa is left holding the financial burden alone, while Marcus avoids it entirely.
    Can they change their money story and finally start acting as a team?
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  • 203. “He makes 3x more, but wants to split everything 50/50”

    203. “He makes 3x more, but wants to split everything 50/50”

    · Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

    Katie (28) and Robin (35) live together in Tennessee and are planning a wedding. They earn a combined $386K, but don't split bills proportionally—even though he makes three times more. She feels judged, lies about spending, and recently racked up credit card debt after secretly booking a ski trip for his birthday. He’s investing $8K/month while she’s barely breaking even.
    As they discuss a prenup and her plan to quit her job for grad school, deep questions arise: Can they truly combine finances? Can she stop people-pleasing? Can he be more generous? Ramit helps them untangle power dynamics, rebalance the split, and build a shared vision for money—before resentment derails their future.
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  • 202. “She racked up $50K in debt — why should I trust her with money?”

    202. “She racked up $50K in debt — why should I trust her with money?”

    · Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

    Emma (39) and Dave (39) make $258,000 a year—but they’re stuck in a toxic money dynamic. She built a financial plan during maternity leave. He didn’t believe her. Now, they’re battling over trust, $50K in debt, and whether they can afford a $700K house.
    With conflicting money roles—she’s the anxious planner, he’s the passive skeptic—they can’t move forward. In this episode, Ramit breaks down their “chaser/avoider” dynamic, the emotional cost of skepticism, and how to finally create a shared vision.
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  • 201. “I make $40k… but I own 100+ suits”

    201. “I make $40k… but I own 100+ suits”

    · Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

    Today’s episode takes us to New York City, where I sit down with not two, but three couples live on stage at my Money for Couples event.
    First, meet Antonio (23) and Devonta (23), a young couple who in their 20s are already ahead of the game—earning money while finishing their degrees, having real conversations about finances, and even purchasing a home together.
    Next, we meet Pam (38) and Nic (40), who are struggling with a classic money dynamic: one partner earns significantly more and wants to “rescue” the other from financial stress. But as they discover, money alone can’t solve deeper issues of self-worth and financial confidence.
    And finally, for the first time ever on this show, a very special surprise guest joins me on stage. You don’t want to miss this!
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  • 200. “Should we pay off our massive debt? Or invest more?”

    200. “Should we pay off our massive debt? Or invest more?”

    · Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

    Wilson (46) and Shannon (35) have built a strong financial foundation—owning a vacation rental, maxing out Roth IRAs, and earning solid incomes. But when it comes to their next move, they’re at odds.

    Wilson wants to tap into their home equity to invest in stocks, believing they’re too heavily weighted in real estate. Shannon, more risk-averse, worries about adding debt when they already owe $129K on their home, plus tax and student loans.

    Can they align on a strategy that balances security with growth?

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  • 199. “I struggle w/ cc debt but insisted on a Cartier wedding ring”

    199. “I struggle w/ cc debt but insisted on a Cartier wedding ring”

    · Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

    On today’s episode, we’re live from Boston for my recent Money For Couples book tour.
    First, I talk with Robert (28) and Giselle (28) who appear to have it all together, but behind the scenes, they’re struggling to make intentional financial decisions. Instead of planning ahead, they make impulsive decisions like committing $7,500 of earnest money to a new home that they can’t afford. Now, they’re questioning if they can still plan the wedding they want.
    Then we’ll meet Sara (28) and Jay (28) who are newly married and learning how to navigate finances together. Sara is a disciplined saver who avoids debt, while Jay is a big-picture dreamer—planning elaborate vacations without considering the cost. Sara has graciously agreed to help Jay pay off his debt, but was blindsided when Jay revealed the full amount post-honeymoon. Now, as they plan for homeownership and parenthood, trust and transparency are more important than ever.
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  • 198. “I work 7 jobs but can’t get ahead. Are we doomed?”

    198. “I work 7 jobs but can’t get ahead. Are we doomed?”

    · Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

    Juan (43) and Amber (40) feel behind on their retirement plans after years of prioritizing travel and expensive hobbies over investing.
    Juan, who grew up poor, struggles with a scarcity mindset—undercharging for his work and financially supporting his family. Amber, now earning less, believes they should be doing better.
    With financial pressure mounting, they’re considering merging finances but need to align on their money mindset first. Can they change their spending habits, boost their income, and get on track for their Rich Life?
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  • 197. “I thought he was the problem… but it’s me?!”

    197. “I thought he was the problem… but it’s me?!”

    · Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

    Live from the House of Blues in Chicago, Ramit coaches Evelyn and Mike (41).
    Despite their successful careers, money is a constant source of tension. Evelyn scrutinizes every purchase, while Mike feels frustrated by the endless debates over small expenses. Can Evelyn let go of her scarcity mindset and start trusting their financial future?
    Plus, stay tuned for a surprise visit from one of the past guests of Netflix’s How To Get Rich.
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  • 196. “He used to help me with debt…Now he’s making it worse”

    196. “He used to help me with debt…Now he’s making it worse”

    · Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

    Frank (29) and Jill (33) are parents of two young kids and are trapped in a vicious cycle of overspending and debt.

    With fixed costs eating up 107% of their income and $25,000 in credit card debt, they’ve been repeatedly digging themselves into a hole—and scrambling to climb back out. Frank solves panic with credit card balance transfers. Jill struggles with emotional spending rooted in childhood. Their lack of communication and alignment has created a wedge in their marriage, making it hard to face their financial reality together.

    Can Frank and Jill cut spending, break old habits, and build a stable financial future for their family—or will they let the weight of their debt pull them down?

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