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  • How do you handle rejection?
    Worse yet, how do you handle rejection from people you hoped to be able to trust?
    How do you recover from feeling unwanted or unneeded? How do you keep it from becoming part of your beliefs and identity?
    This week on the podcast I have a powerful on-air session with Alexandra Hoover, and we start putting together the pieces of the puzzle of what caused her to have a vulnerability towards rejection.
    I help her identify where this came from, and how it might be impacting other parts of her life and ministry. It’s a powerful and emotional conversation, and I believe it will really challenge and bless you in your personal life as well as in your ministry.


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    DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, bestselling author, relationship expert, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She’s written six books including Choosing Marriage,True Love Dates, Love In Every Season,Are You Really OK?, Married Sex, and RESET. She’s also the host of Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast (formerly the Love + Relationships Podcast) where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her or someone from her team today!
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  • What do you do when you feel like you don’t fit in?
    What do you do when you don’t even feel like you belong in your own family?
    How can you take that feeling that you don’t belong, and turn it into something good… Something healthy… Something purposeful and meaningful?
    This is exactly the subject we dive into today in this on-air counseling session with Brian Tome. He felt out of place in his own life— and for good reason.
    We talk about some of his hurts from the past, and how they impacted & informed his calling in the present.
    Let me just tell you, this man is a character… And it was a joy to chat with him and process some of these things out loud.
    Let me know what you think of this conversation!!



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  • How do you date after the deep loss of a marriage? Is it possible to love again?
    Today I talk with Diane who is a widow that is trying to heal her heart after the death of her husband. She’s having a hard time navigating the dating world now that she’s single in her 60s, yet hasn’t dated since her 20s!!
    We talk about her grief, how to heal, and when to know you’re ready to date!

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  • Today on the podcast, I have a couples counseling session with two of my favorite people… Dave and Ann Wilson!
    I met them when I was invited to be on their program, family life today, and I immediately fell in love with their authenticity. I knew they would be a perfect fit for couples counseling session to dig into some of the hard things from their past and how their past has impacted their marriage relationship over the years.
    Their relationship didn’t start healthy, in fact — it was rather dysfunctional— and they really had to learn the hard way.
    You are going to love this open, honest conversation with them about their marriage… and where they are today.


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  • Are you good at sharing your needs with others? Most people aren’t.
    Today on the podcast, Erin from Texas called in to talk to me about the fact that she has a really hard time opening up with others and being vulnerable about what she really needs and how she feels.
    She’s seen patterns in her life of putting others first and staying silent about her own needs…until it’s become problematic.
    We unpack some of the relationships where she struggles the most, and then I ask her some questions to help her get to the root of WHY — so she can begin making changes! If you have a hard time sharing your needs, listening to this conversation will get you processing your own story and give you some steps you can take to begin making changes in this really important area of your life!!


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  • Today on the podcast, I have a favorite friend back on for a SECOND on-air session, JP Pokluda!!
    In our initial conversation, JP and I talk through some of his challenges with having too much on his plate and moving into a season of burnout (listen to the conversation here).
    In that conversation, I asked if he had ever dug into his past history— and how it might be impacting what he does in the present.
    Today on the podcast, we jump into part two of the conversation and I ask him a few questions to consider from his past, and specifically his relationship with his dad and how that may have shaped his beliefs.
    Does he have father wounds that he needs to deal with? What could that look like? How may have his relationship with his father shaped his beliefs and motivations?
    No matter what type of past we come from, it’s important for us to look back and assess exactly how our past has influenced & shaped our beliefs and our identity.
    Tune in to my conversation with JP Pokluda!


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  • Today on the podcast, I chat with Rebecca from Tennessee! She’s wanting to know how to deal with past trauma, and especially how to keep it from spilling into present relationships!
    Relationships are like a mirror to our wounds and weaknesses…. And as much as they reveal past woundings, they also invite us to heal!
    When people get close enough, we can start to feel some of that relationship trauma coming back up — but that is also the best opportunity to begin the work of healing. We talk through what that looks like and exactly how to do it in today’s episode!

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  • Today on the podcast, I am talking to the amazing Katherine Wolf.
    In her 20s, after the birth of her first child, Katherine experienced a devastating massive stroke that left her paralyzed and turned her life completely upside down.

    In this on-air counseling session, we talk through this horrific season in her life and what it means to look for hope when there seems to be no hope. We talk about medical trauma, and how she has processed these things moving forward. We talk about her childhood, and how God was preparing her for suffering, even from a young age.
    It is one of the most encouraging episodes, so go give it a listen!



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  • Today on the podcast, I talk with Faith from Georgia!
    She’s 37 and single so she really wants to know how to know when you are trusting God with your dating life — versus when you are taking control of the situation yourself.
    Do you have to sit back and wait for things to happen, or can you take initiative?
    And what if you are a woman, where does that leave you in the equation of making a dating relationship happen – considering some people think it’s wrong for a woman to take an initiative.
    We talked about what waiting on God actually means and what it doesn’t mean… And how to be proactive with your love life in the meantime!!
    It’s an episode every single who is wanting to date should listen to!!!!

    Connect with Faith on Instagram: @ugafaith09
    Tune in now!


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  • In honor of my good friend – Mandisa, and to honor her life and legacy, I am re-airing this powerful episode on singleness.
    Do you feel like you’re struggling with singleness? Struggling with singleness does not make you strange, or crazy, or lacking in faith. It makes you human. 
    If you are struggling with singleness, this episode is for you.
    Tune in now!

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  • Today on the podcast, I talk with Lauryn, who is struggling with navigating friendships in this season of singleness.
    She’s single, but all her friends are married… and she can sometimes feel a bit out of place. She feels as though some of her relationships are becoming unbalanced and she called in looking for some advice.

    We dug a little deeper into her relationship history, and found out that unbalanced relationships aren’t as new as she thought they were … they are just a little more prominent in this season.
    I encouraged her to take ownership of her role in relationships, addressing and communicating her needs… and learning to bring balance to her relationships. The most interesting thing about our conversation is what it revealed about her (tune in to find out!)
    I think this is an important conversation for everyone to listen to, especially if you’ve ever felt the lack of balance in your closest friendships.
    Tune in now!


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  • Today on Talk To Me, I am joined by Alexis. Her question is, “why do some traumas take longer to heal than others?”
    Whether you are a trauma survivor, a mental health professional, or someone who is interested in learning more about this important topic, this podcast is for you!
    Are you ready to talk to me?

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  • Today on Talk To Me hotline, I talk to Andrew from Texas! His question is, “How do you know you are healed after a past relationship?”
    After a 16 year marriage ended in divorce, he’s wondering how to know when he has healed…
    And even more specifically, when is it time to consider dating again after divorce?
    I answer him by explaining that it’s a complicated question, because everyone’s situation is so different… But if I narrow it down to one thing that I believe differentiates those who are healed from those who are unhealed.
    What’s that one thing you ask? That’s why you’ve got to tune into this podcast episode, I think it will help you change your perspective no matter what type of relationship you are trying to heal from in your past. We are talking about healing from past relationships today on Talk To Me!

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  • Today I talk to Ann from Maryland, who struggles with emotionally overreacting.




    Due to some prior hurts and past relationships, she finds herself triggered by situations that probably have more to do with her past than they do with her present. She’s having a hard time not overreacting in situations of conflict, and wants to figure out why as well as how to react and respond appropriately.




    She is afraid to push people away due to her emotional reactions, and she called into the hotline to get some help!




    I help her navigate some of these triggers, and learn to react in emotionally healthy ways instead… It’s a really insightful conversation! If you’ve ever felt triggered in conflict, you need to listen to this episode!












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  • Today on the podcast I talk with Benjamin from Washington. Benjamin is navigating his life post divorce… wanting to find an emotionally safe environment for himself moving forward and wondering how to do that.




    We spend a lot of time talking about the fact that emotional safety isn’t something that you necessarily “find” as much as it is something you have to create with intentionality. I help him get to the root of some of his emotional needs, and why it took him so long to identify those needs.




    We chat about our own role in cultivating emotional safety, and what that looks like in a practical way in our relationships.




    If you want to create an emotionally healthy relationship, this episode will encourage you!




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  • Today on Talk To Me, I have a conversation with a woman who is struggling with some underlying anxiety about dating!




    She’s having a hard time figuring out if the fears she’s having are legitimate or not!




    Do I have anxiety because this dating relationship isn’t the right fit or do I have anxiety because I’m just scared?




    And how do you know the difference? Today we talk about facing your fears, recognizing false alarms, important mindset shifts, and dealing with underlying anxiety in dating!




    Tune in to this powerful conversation today!












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  • Am I over my divorce? Today on Talk To Me, I have a conversation with Jerrod who is wondering if he’s actually moved on from the pain of his divorce. He’s battling feelings of regret from the decisions he’s made in his past, and feeling unable to move forward.




    In this emotional conversation, we unpack some of the things that he did to contribute to his marriage falling apart…including his personal sexual struggles— and then I give him steps that he can begin to take to move forward into healing.




    Tune in to this powerful conversation today!












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  • Today I chat with Rebekah from Florida about how to navigate an unhealthy marriage, especially when you have children, who you are trying to raise in a healthy way!




    The most interesting part about my conversation with Rebekah is that by the time I was able to get to her question, things had already began to shift in her life!!!




    She started consuming my podcast and my books, and realized that a huge portion to creating a healthy marriage was learning how to get healthy standing alone… And she got started on her own journey of healing!!




    Honestly, I was so inspired and encouraged by my conversation with her… And it’s a testament to the fact that when you begin to do the personal work in your life, things begin to shift in your life!!! You are not going to believe her story!! It brought tears to my eyes.




    For anyone who is in the middle of an unhealthy or difficult marriage, I believe this conversation will give you hope and the perspective you need to take the next steps — even if your spouse is not willing to do the same.




    Tune in today!












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  • What happens when mental health struggles impact your relationship?




    On this final of couples therapy, I’m joined by Amanda and Tim. Tim has found himself struggling with trust issues, because of the difficult journey they have been on over the past few years.




    Amanda has struggled with infidelity in their relationship, but underneath the surface of it all she had been battling bipolar disorder.




    The ups and downs of their relationship have correlated to her mental health, and they have found themselves struggling to know how to move forward.




    this conversation is so important, because too many people failed to address the underlying mental health issues that may be having a significant impact on a relationship!!




    In order for the marriage to heal, the mental illness has to be healed and addressed. Today we talked through what that looks like… and steps for them moving forward.




    Tune into this important couples therapy session!!!












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  • On today’s episode of couples therapy, I talk with Tim and Kathy Bush! This couple has been through so many hard things yet has come out the other side….




    From addiction to affairs to control and trauma, and everything in between, it’s truly a miracle that they are together today and have a message to share.




    It’s amazing how little we often know about marriage going into it. But like I always say, marriage is a mirror to our wounds and weaknesses… It exposes everything. But it also invites us into healing!!




    This couple has definitely proved that to be true. So sit back and listen to their unbelievable story!! And then ask yourself, what needs to be healed in your life and in your relationships?




    Tune in now!












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    DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, bestselling author, relationship expert, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She’s written six books including Choosing Marriage,True Love Dates, Love In Every Season,Are You Really OK?, Married Sex, and RESET. She’s also the host of Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast (formerly the Love + Relationships Podcast) where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her or someone from her team today!

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