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  • In this episode of the Money Magic podcast, Vangile Makwakwa sits down with Tebello Motshwane, an attorney specializing in family law with a focus on marriage. Tebello is also the founder of a platform called Sister-in-law, which is a platform dedicated to empowering women through legal education.

    Tebello emphasizes the importance of understanding marriage contracts and financial arrangements before marriage. She highlights the dangers of being married in community of property in South Africa, which can lead to shared liabilities and financial complications, advising instead to consider marriage out of community of property with or without accrual.

    She stresses the importance of having an anti-nuptial contract to protect individual financial assets and liabilities.

    Tebello also explains that couples should openly discuss finances, including debts, monthly commitments, and financial goals before marrying.

    She explains that In South Africa, customary marriages, even without registration at Home Affairs, are legally binding. Proper legal procedures should be followed to dissolve such marriages to avoid future complications.

    Tebello also advises being financially and emotionally prepared for the possibility of divorce, highlighting the importance of minimizing litigation costs and being aware of the emotional and financial impacts of transitioning from a dual-income to a single-income household.

    This is another insightful episode.

    Tune in!

    During this episode, you will learn about:

    [02:19] – Vangile welcomes listeners

    [03:42] - Introduction to Tebello Motshwane

    [05:02] – Tebello’s background and mission

    [07:30] – Tebello explains how she started Sister-in-law

    [10:21] - Discussion on financial aspects of marriage

    [14:00] - Questions to ask about finances before marriage

    [19:05] - Differences between marriage regimes

    [22:08] - Risks of being married in community of property

    [27:32] - Cultural perceptions of marriage contracts

    [33:02] - Legal implications of lobola

    [37:17] - Legal dissolution of customary marriage

    [41:06] - Clarification on unregistered customary marriages

    [43:37] - Deal breakers in marriage discussions

    [46:36] - Financial preparation for divorce

    [49:19] - Removing shame from divorce processes

    [51:07] - Insights on approaching marriage

    [52:13 – Final words from Tebello

    Contact Tebello:

    https://www.instagram.com/sister_in_law_/

    https://web.facebook.com/sisterinlawsa

    sisterinlaw.co.za

    Notable Quotes

    "It is so important to understand that who you marry is as important as how you get married because that affects your finances." "I want to educate Black women on the importance of understanding how the law exists to serve them." "When you're in a relationship, you should speak about money as often as possible because everything that you do as a couple requires money." "Some of the conversations that couples should be having, first and foremost, is what are your monthly commitments?" "If you're married in community of property, the bank is coming to take the house, they're not going to ask whose name it's in." "When women are financially and legally empowered, it's actually society that benefits as a whole."Additional money trauma resources:

    One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching

    Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic

    7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training

    Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

  • In this week’s episode of the Money Magic Podcast, Vangile sits down with Brooke Kekos, an expert in helping women heal from abusive relationships, including financial abuse.

    Brooke shares her personal journey of enduring abuse from childhood that continued into her adult life, discussing the patterns of control and manipulation she experienced, particularly in financial matters.

    In this podcast episode Brooke explains financial abuse as a form of control where one partner restricts access to financial resources, making the victim feel powerless. This can involve controlling spending, withholding money, or making financial decisions unilaterally.

    She also shares her story of growing up with a controlling father and later entering a similar dynamic in her marriage, highlighting how familiarity with such patterns can trap individuals.

    Brooke also discusses her experiences with religious trauma, having been raised in a cult. She details the impact of this on her sense of self and autonomy, drawing parallels to financial and emotional abuse.

    The conversation emphasizes the importance of reclaiming autonomy, both financially and personally. Brooke talks about reconnecting with one's body and intuition through practices like meditation and yoga to heal from abuse.

    Overall, the episode is a deep dive into the complexities of financial abuse and its intersection with other forms of trauma.

    This is another insightful podcast.

    Tune in!

    During this episode, you will learn about:

    [02:08] – Introduction to Brooke Kekos

    [04:36] - Brooke shares her personal story and background

    [08:44] - Brooke talks about the control dynamics in her family and her past relationship

    [11:33] - Examples of financial control and how it manifests in relationships

    [12:52] - How financial abuse is identified and the importance of autonomy in financial decisions

    [18:16] - Identifying happiness in relationships and advocating for oneself financially

    [21:00] - The value of leaving an abusive situation early for better opportunities in the future

    [27:26] - The journey from survival to thriving by connecting with the body and intuition

    [31:13] - The guilt and shame associated with religious trauma, especially around sexuality

    [36:43] - How disconnection from the body affects decision-making and financial autonomy

    [39:59] - Meditation and yoga as tools for reconnecting with the body and healing

    [46:10] - The importance of releasing trauma stored in the body through yoga

    [50:52] - The importance of curiosity and exploring new belief systems

    [56:17] - The importance of support and community for healing and achieving goals

    [01:02:22] – Contact Brooke:

    Website: https://www.lifecoachinggoddess.com/

    https://www.instagram.com/brookekekos

    https://web.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100075036248909&_rdc=1&_rdr

    Notable Quotes

    "Our nervous system will choose a familiar situation over something that is not known." "I think a lot of the times people come into relationships where they have this dynamic because of how patriarchy has happened." "The brain hates the unknown, the nervous system hates the unknown. It's going to keep us trapped where we're at." "When we're not connected to the body, I think that we're dissociated from life." “You get to be curious. Even if it's scary, take that leap. Trust that nudge that says, something doesn't feel good to me."Additional money trauma resources:

    One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching

    Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic

    7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training

    Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

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  • In this week’s episode of the Money Magic Podcast, Vangile sits down with Tshepang Ramoba, a musician, artist, and podcast editor.

    The conversation delves into Tshepang's journey with money, his experiences as a rock star, and his struggles with financial management. He shares insights into his upbringing, how he learned about money, and the impact of his family's financial habits on his own.

    Tshepang discusses how past struggles and trauma affected his ability to manage and hold onto money. He highlights the importance of addressing subconscious beliefs and behaviors related to money.

    He also emphasizes the significance of budgeting and how it has helped him manage his finances better, especially in his projects.

    The conversation touches on the importance of healing and self-care. Tshepang talks about the role of meditation, tapping, and other healing practices in improving his financial situation and overall well-being.

    Tshepang also shares his journey of learning to balance generosity with maintaining boundaries, ensuring that his relationships with others and money are healthy and sustainable.

    He discusses the importance of celebrating achievements, which helps to reinforce positive financial behaviors and attract more abundance.

    This is another insightful podcast.

    Tune in!

    During this episode, you will learn about:

    [02:20] - Introduction to Tshepang

    [05:14] – Tshepang discusses his purpose and work

    [07:00] -Discussion on music and podcast editing

    [10:04] – Tshepang’s experience with money and spending habits

    [14:00] - Life as a musician and financial struggles

    [21:19] - Band financial issues and resolution

    [23:22] - Building a relationship with money

    [27:31] – From struggling artist to recognition

    [29:04] - Early struggles and perseverance

    [37:21] - Transition to fame and visibility

    [44:57] - Impact of trauma on financial habits

    [51:21] - Discussing money in relationships

    [56:55] - Budgeting and financial planning

    [01:02:12] - Paying off debts and financial habits

    [01:11:58] - Lessons learned about money

    [01:18:47] - Celebrating financial success safely

    [01:20:26] - Importance of pleasure and balance

    [01:23:43] – Contact Tshepang:

    Website: postpost.co.za

    Instagram and Facebook: Tshepang Ramoba

    Notable Quotes

    "I really feel like... I know I've been searching for myself for a long time, so I know that I am sent. I was sent to this world to heal, basically." "When you help people with anything, I feel like that's healing, you know." "I've realized that when you don't have a good relationship with money, just using your money, however your relationships are also like shaky." "Meditation helps me with that. So that's my second lesson, by the way." "The biggest number one shift, the budgeting. Because, even if you have like a little bit of money, and you know that your money is not enough for everything that you have to pay for." "Sometimes when I do something really good, I do something for myself, you know, even if it's a small thing."Additional money trauma resources:

    One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching

    Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic

    7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training

    Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

  • In this week’s podcast of the Money Magic Podcast, Vangile shares the first of her seven-part What's Your Money Personality? Masterclasses.

    In the class she explores how financial behaviors and patterns are passed down through generations. This class focused on how ancestral money trauma influences our nervous systems, emotional responses, and attitudes toward money.

    She discusses how family dynamics, co-regulation, and inherited beliefs create unconscious patterns around spending, saving, and earning.

    She also looked at the impact of dysregulated nervous systems on financial behaviors and how trauma from previous generations manifests in the way we approach money today.

    Tune in.

    During this episode, you will learn about:

    [02:08] – Introduction to the masterclass

    [06:37] – Vangile shares personal financial experiences

    [09:34] - Discussion on family dynamics and financial habits

    [12:22] - Explanation of trauma and its impact

    [15:25] - Childhood trauma and financial behavior

    [18:24] - Introduction to ancestral trauma

    [21:24] - Trauma's intergenerational effects

    [27:19] - The impact of upbringing on financial decisions

    [36:58] - Importance of nervous system regulation

    [46:18] - Impact of sibling relationships on financial behavior

    [49:19] - Recognizing and understanding financial patterns

    [53:13] - Explanation of mirroring and rebelling against patterns

    [57:03] - Audience interaction and advice on financial behavior

    [01:00:07] – The impact of family structure on financial literacy

    [01:08:19] - Conclusion and final thoughts on family dynamics

    [01:11:02] - Information on purchasing the book and coaching services

    [01:12:27] - Audience questions and wrap-up

    Notable Quotes

    “Money affects not just us as individuals, but the people around us." "Trauma is also the small things that happen to us." "When we feel unsafe, when we have money, we feel anxious. Our nervous system becomes dysregulated." "How families communicate about money can significantly influence financial behaviour." "By understanding our family connections and why we behave the way we do, we can make better financial choices."Additional money trauma resources:

    One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching

    Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic

    7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training

    Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

  • In this week’s podcast of the Money Magic Podcast, Vangile sits down with Brittany Williams, who discusses her work in facilitating freedom, particularly as a sex doula focusing on lower chakras.

    Brittany highlights the importance of addressing trauma, which often hides in one's sexuality, and how this can manifest in various life aspects, including financial behaviors. She delves into unconventional paths, such as anal consciousness and placenta work, to explore the nuances of trauma and its impact on one's life.

    Brittany shares personal experiences of her health challenges and how understanding her lineage helped her navigate and transform those aspects of her life.

    Brittany also discusses the significance of understanding the placenta's role and how it connects generations, carrying ancestral experiences that shape one's current life. She advocates for accessing the energetics of the placenta to gain insights into one's lineage and personal history.

    The conversation also explores the importance of breaking systemic patterns, especially in marginalized communities, to create a better future for subsequent generations. Brittany emphasizes the need for individuals to develop the acumen to hold and grow wealth, rather than just having access to it.

    This is another insightful episode.

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    During this episode, you will learn about:

    [02:24] – Introduction to Brittany Williams

    [03:35] - Brittany discusses her soul's journey and roles in life.

    [05:14] - Trauma manifesting in money and sexuality.

    [09:49] - Brittany explains the significance of the placenta.

    [15:10] - Brittany talks about her family’s health patterns.

    [20:52] - Accessing the placenta energetically.

    [23:20] - Meditation practices related to the placenta.

    [28:36] - The connection between fibroids and ancestral behavior.

    [34:51] - Brittany shares her genealogy and its impact on her life.

    [41:38] – The difference between proximity and access.

    [48:20] - The acumen of understanding how to hold things.

    [53:51] - Shifts in relationships with money and time.

    [55:53] - Anal consciousness and its significance.

    [59:10] - Identity level release and sexual trauma.

    [01:03:08] - How anal consciousness affects vocal expression.

    [01:09:41] - Exploring pleasure and prosperity through release.

    [01:11:49] – Contact Brittany: https://www.instagram.com/thee_brittanyrwilliams/ or https://web.facebook.com/profile.php?id=23421550

    Notable Quotes

    "I noticed one thing is that money was where people's trauma went to manifest itself, but the sexuality was where people's trauma went to hide." "Your placenta is basically your motherboard for your humanity as you came into this Earth." "Our sacral space is holding so much of our personal history and our personal experiences." "The placenta is taking up the chemistry of the wound carrier as they move through life." "I think that the way that we accelerate that human experience is understanding the going past access and getting into the acumen and learning how to hold it." "Luxury is about a facilitation and a receiving. But pleasure happens when you have that both when you have the receiving and you have the release."Additional money trauma resources:

    One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching

    Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic

    7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training

    Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

  • In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile Makwakwa sits with Naomi Harris, an expert in sexual pleasure and empowerment, to discuss women's issues around sexual pleasure, orgasm, and healing ancestral trauma.

    Naomi shares her journey of self-discovery, highlighting her personal struggles with sexual pleasure and the transformative impact of addressing these issues. The conversation delves into the significance of exploring one's own body, understanding the importance of sexual pleasure, and the societal pressures that often limit women's experiences.

    Naomi emphasizes the need for women to reclaim their sexual power and embrace their bodies without shame.

    The discussion also explores the connection between sexual pleasure and financial well-being, suggesting that the ability to experience and embrace pleasure can positively influence other aspects of life, including financial abundance.

    Naomi shares insights on how societal norms and patriarchal structures shape women's perceptions of sexuality and pleasure, often leading to suppressed desires and unmet needs. The conversation encourages women to question these narratives and understand the profound impact of pleasure on overall quality of life.

    This is another insightful episode.

    Tune in.

    During this episode, you will learn about:

    [02:47] – Introduction to Naomi Harris

    [06:42] - Naomi's journey into understanding her sexuality

    [08:53] - Female sexuality research and societal issues

    [10:56] - Societal expectations and personal identity

    [16:59.9] - The importance of self-ownership in pleasure

    [18:21] - Explanation of female arousal and health

    [22:29] - How women can recognize full arousal

    [27:05] – The effect of trauma on sexuality

    [29:40] - How first sexual experiences shape expectations

    [33:57] - How pleasure relates to money and relationships

    [40:00] - Centering pleasure in life

    [45:55] - The effect of centering pleasure on finances

    [49:32] - The power of breathwork in healing

    [53:16] - Creating safe spaces for healing in relationships

    [57:09] - The importance of a regulated nervous system for creating safe spaces

    [01:01:05] – Contact Naomi: https://www.thepleasurenaturopath.com/ or https://www.instagram.com/_sensualfreedom_

    Notable Quotes

    "As a soul, I am an adventurer, a traveler, and a deep diver into life. I really, really, really want to explore life and find out about it." "I started healing and really looking at who I was and what my stories around sex were and what my body was doing." "We're constantly being told who we are in really subtle ways and also really just overt, you are this thing, ways and in relationships as well." "For most of us, I think sexuality is actually something a little bit more precious and a little bit more inside and a little bit more contained." "What does sex mean to you? What does pleasure mean to you? What does pleasure feel like? What does orgasm feel like?" "We need to have a regulated nervous system in order to feel full pleasure in the body."Additional money trauma resources:

    One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching

    Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic

    7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training

    Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

  • In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, sits down with Khanyi Makhaya who discusses her journey as an investor and student of the Money Magic course. She shares her background in banking and finance and her transition to teaching and property development.

    Khanyi emphasizes the importance of understanding one's soul and emotional patterns to improve financial outcomes. She highlights the significance of addressing emotional and spiritual aspects in financial matters, which she learned through her experiences in the corporate world and personal life.

    Khanyi reflects on her upbringing, experiences in the corporate world, and the impact of her educational background. She discusses the challenges of managing debt while working in the banking sector and the lack of discussions on generational wealth building.

    She also shares her insights on the importance of emotional intelligence and resilience in property development and the necessity of doing inner work to transform one's relationship with money.

    She also discusses the importance of building supportive communities and networks, especially for women and people of colour. Khanyi also talks about the tangible shifts she experienced after joining the Money Magic course, such as understanding her financial behaviours and breaking patterns of over-giving. She expresses gratitude for the course's community and resources, which helped her address her emotional and financial challenges.

    This is another insightful episode.

    Tune in.

    During this episode, you will learn about:

    [02:08] - Introduction to Khanyi Makhaya

    [07:37] - Khanyi’s passion for her work in property and training

    [10:46] - Reflection on personal values and money

    [12:08] - Discussion on the sweet one archetype and people-pleasing

    [18:32] - Lessons learned in corporate and personal management

    [23:03] - Generational wealth and leaving a legacy

    [28:38] - Reflections on school networks and their impact

    [33:43] - Gender dynamics and corporate environments

    [39:50] - How buying love affects financial decisions

    [44:11] - The God wound and its personal impact

    [52:52] - Tangible shifts and tools used in financial journey

    [56:42] - Meditations and ancestral trauma healing

    [59:09] - Importance of structured learning vs. free resources

    [01:03:20] - Importance of addressing subconscious issues

    [01:10:23] - Approach to money and relationships

    [01:15:58] - Boundaries and relationships

    [01:16:16] - Contact Khanyi: https://web.facebook.com/khanyi.makhaya

    Notable Quotes

    "I think when we rescue people too easily, we also rob them of an opportunity to grow."“The training that we really need in the beginning is how can we manage ourselves in the world? Not how can we manage the job."" I think we don't fully understand the cost of ignorance. It's easy to look and say, Well, it's a lot of money, but how much has ignorance cost us?”"What I can say is that there really is a great need to build the emotional stamina.""I wish I'd been told that I was enough, that I didn't have to perform for love."Additional money trauma resources:

    One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching

    Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic

    7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training

    Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

  • In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile shares a class she did with her clients in the Money Magic group where she talks about the Money Magic course and the power of listening to your own intuition.

    She delves into the concept of identity transformation and how it relates to financial growth and discusses the importance of aligning one's current identity with the desired future self, using personal experiences to illustrate how identities formed in childhood can impact financial behaviors as adults.

    She encourages listeners to actively work on integrating new identities by embracing new habits, mindsets, and even changes in personal style or environment that align with their financial goals.

    In addition to internal work, Vangile suggests practical exercises such as maintaining a journal to track daily proofs of financial success and personal growth. She highlights the power of recognizing small wins to shift mindsets and reinforce new identities.

    She emphasizes the importance of dreaming and planning for the future, using tools like Pinterest to visualize desired lifestyles and environments, ultimately encouraging listeners to creatively and intentionally craft their evolving identities.

    This is another insightful episode.

    Tune in.

    During this episode, you will learn about:

    [02:10]: Welcoming new Money Magic students

    [03:53]: Explanation of the course philosophy

    [08:07]: The power of collective support and sharing emotions

    [09:26]: Letting go of the need to be perfect

    [13:17]: Personal journey and mindset shifts

    [16:04]: Overcoming trauma and shifting identity

    [19:01]: Personal transformation and identity work

    [27:09]: Embracing new identities and expanding

    [31:26]: Practical steps for personal transformation

    [36:39]: Creating a new identity and vision board integrity

    [44:59]: Honoring new identities and letting go of old ones

    [48:22]: Daily practices to affirm new identities.

    [01:00:00]: Conclusion and invitation to free training.

    Notable Quotes

    "The important thing is not to get stuck in a particular emotion but to allow every emotion to rise and fall.""The power of the collective is that so many of us are at different points in the group."“It's about slowly allowing ourselves to share our old identities and catch up to the new version of us.""We get to create ourselves." "We get to choose the version of us that we want to step into, and we get to create her from this point."Additional money trauma resources:

    One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching

    Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic

    7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training

    Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

  • In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile sits down with Valerie Rubin, a trauma-informed coach, as a guest to discuss trauma and its impact on relationships and attachment styles.

    Valerie introduces herself as a passionate individual dedicated to helping people feel safe in their bodies and heal anxious attachment styles for healthier relationships. She explains that anxious attachment often results from inconsistent emotional support from caregivers during childhood, leading individuals to become hyper-vigilant and people-pleasing in relationships.

    Valerie emphasizes the importance of self-soothing and self-care to manage relationship anxiety and build more secure connections.

    The conversation delves into the characteristics of anxious attachment, such as chronic anxiety, codependency, and fear of abandonment. Valerie notes that people with anxious attachment lean on external validation and struggle with trust issues. She also explains that these behaviors are symptoms of deeper wounds rather than fixed identities, suggesting that healing is possible through recognizing and integrating these parts.

    Valerie elaborates on how these dynamics can lead to patterns like people-pleasing, which can attract emotionally unavailable partners. The discussion highlights the importance of acknowledging one's needs and setting boundaries to foster healthy relationships while addressing the fear of abandonment that often accompanies anxious attachment.

    Contact Valerie:https://www.instagram.com/healwithval/

    This is another insightful episode.

    Tune in.

    During this episode, you will learn about:

    [02:08]: Introduction to Valerie Rubin

    [03:04]: Valerie begins discussing trauma and attachment styles

    [05:19]: Symptoms of an anxious attachment style

    [07:05]: How attachment styles are formed in childhood

    [08:11]: The difference between anxious and avoidant attachment styles

    [10:01]: How childhood experiences influence attachment styles

    [13:12]: How attachment styles affect adult relationships

    [20:12]: Question about managing anxious attachment while dating

    [25:09]: Valerie provides a meditation exercise for healing abandonment anxiety.

    [27:43]: Avoidant attachment style and its formation.

    [37:13]: The link between attachment styles and financial behavior.

    [45:40]: Healing pelvic floor issues and their connection to attachment styles

    [47:45]: The connection between pelvic health and receiving

    [51:48]: Communication in intimate relationships

    [56:03]: Information on how to connect with Valerie Rubin

    Notable Quotes

    "If we don't learn how to self-soothe and take care of ourselves and feel safe in our own bodies, then it's going to be harder to maintain relationships and have healthy relationships." "We are wired to seek out what is familiar." "We aren't here to settle. We aren't here for emotionally unavailable hot and cold relationships." "If I don't reject myself, no one else can reject me." "Our mindset doesn't matter. Our nervous system does." "When you're connected to your body, you become unstoppable."Additional money trauma resources:

    One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching

    Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic

    7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training

    Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

  • In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile introduces her guest, Marcia Armstrong, a personal finance disruptor from Barbados, who shares her insights and experiences in personal finance.

    Marcia, worked at City Bank for a decade and recounts her journey from financial instability to becoming debt-free. She explains how she realized the importance of stewardship over money and adopted the snowball method to repay her debt.

    Marcia emphasizes the significance of acknowledging one's debt, selecting a repayment strategy, and finding ways to increase income. She also highlights the importance of automating payments and having a support system to stay motivated throughout the debt repayment process.

    Marcia delves into the emotional and mental shifts required to achieve financial freedom, discussing how she had to confront her money script and the trauma associated with it.

    She explains that financial literacy is a lifelong journey that requires daily habits such as checking bank accounts, understanding financial goals, and being intentional with money.

    She stresses the need for a mindset shift from scarcity to abundance and the importance of serving others to create generational wealth and legacy.

    In her work with clients, Marcia offers one-on-one coaching, group coaching programs, and a personal finance course. She aims to empower individuals to become financially confident and independent, capable of managing their finances without constant reliance on a coach.

    Contact Marcia:

    https://www.facebook.com/apurposelife

    https://www.instagram.com/a.purpose.life

    https://apurposelife246.com/

    This is another insightful episode.

    Tune in.

    During this episode, you will learn about:

    [03:17]: Introduction to Marcia Armstrong.

    [04:44]: Marcia talks about becoming a personal finance disruptor

    [06:59]: Marcia's debt-free journey and strategies.

    [08:23]: How to start paying off debt.

    [12:47]: Importance of automation and support system.

    [16:24]: Explanation of the snowball method.

    [24:25]: Importance of community and personal change during the financial journey.

    [31:50]: Addressing money trauma to prevent future setbacks.

    [34:14]: Challenges of limited resources and asking for help.

    [37:40]: Observations on wealth and scarcity mindset.

    [44:48]: Maintaining daily financial habits.

    [52:18]: Embracing the road less traveled and creating legacy.

    [58:04]: Final thoughts on financial literacy and empowerment.

    [58:47]: How to connect with Marcia Armstrong.

    Notable Quotes

    "When it comes to debt, money in itself can make people embarrassed, it can make people ashamed, it can make you feel guilty." "My money can only behave like the person who holds it." "You can have a lot of riches, but be thought poor. Then you are thought poor and have tangible riches." "Financial literacy is a lifelong journey. It is not a one-off something that you learn today and then you just put to decide tomorrow." "If you don't heal from your money trauma, you will reach a particular stage in life and that trauma can take you off your platform." "Because I would have sewed in one place, does not mean I will reap in that same place."Additional money trauma resources:

    One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching

    Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic

    7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training

    Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

  • In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile sits down with Hlulani Rikhotso, an industrial engineer and Money Magic student.

    Hlulani discusses her background and her interest in helping young adults with career coaching. She talks about her realization of the impact of ancestral trauma on financial behavior and how this awareness led her to join the Money Magic course.

    Hlulani also shares her initial fears about the intensity of the course but acknowledges how it has helped her understand and heal her financial trauma.

    She recounts her journey after joining the course, including being retrenched from her job and eventually finding better employment opportunities. She attributes her resilience and success to the inner work and tools provided by the Money Magic course. She also highlights the importance of having a supportive tribe to discuss money and expand financial possibilities.

    She also shares the benefits of the Money Magic course, emphasizing that the deep, experiential work goes beyond surface-level understanding.

    This is another insightful episode.

    Tune in!

    During this episode, you will learn about:

    [02:08]: Introduction of the guest, Hlulani Rikhotso

    [03:31]: Hlulani introduces herself and her work

    [06:43]: ulani's journey to understanding financial trauma

    [09:17]: Hlulani’s experience with being entrenched

    [10:34]: Importance of getting up and rebuilding after a fall

    [11:41]: Hlulani’s understanding of trauma and ancestral trauma

    [13:42]: Emotional relationship with money before the course

    [22:13]: Cushioning from the full impact of retrenchment

    [27:42]: Importance of a tribe in discussing money

    [29:29]: Impactful lessons: inner child, mother wound, and father wound meditations

    [36:04]: Importance of deep work and discovering root causes

    [39:06]: Taking breaks and following intuition

    [42:49]: Contact Hlulani

    [45:59]: Closing remarks and invitation to join the Money Magic course

    Notable Quotes

    "I am a daughter sister and everything in between." "Money is an energy. It is an exchange. It is a means to help you do things. It is Money is a medium of exchange. It helps you do things" "Since joining the course and going through the bank account and actually seeing where you spend your money and how you spend your money and then listening to your emotions, I've opened a different savings account." "Currently, I'm keeping a circle that I'm freer with to talk about money." "When you have a tribe that talks about money, that is not afraid of money, you start believing in bigger things because you transition from survival mode."Additional money trauma resources:

    One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching

    Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic

    7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training

    Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

  • In this episode of the Money Magic Podcast, Vangile discusses the concept of feeling unsafe with money and not having money. She explains that people who feel unsafe with money tend to avoid dealing with it, often by procrastinating on tasks like sending invoices or paying bills.

    This avoidance behavior stems from a deeper fear and results in financial instability. On the flip side, those who feel unsafe without money tend to hoard it and are afraid to spend, leading to missed opportunities for investment and growth.

    Vangile emphasizes the importance of achieving a regulated nervous system around money, where one feels calm and neutral regardless of their financial situation.

    This regulation allows for better financial decision-making and investment strategies. She also touches on the psychological aspects, such as vows of loyalty and rebellion, which can unconsciously influence financial behavior and create a yo-yo effect in managing money.

    This is another insightful episode.

    Tune in!

    During this episode, you will learn about:

    [02:08] : Introduction to the main topic

    [06:25]: Example and explanation of avoiding money

    [10:00]: Hiding from money and practical examples

    [11:13]: Freezing in Financial Situations

    [13:58]: Why we feel unsafe with not having enough money and with having money

    [18:06]: Money as a lover

    [19:32]: Practical impact of fear of spending money

    [22:34]: Financial regulation and emotional stability

    [27:46]: Vows of loyalty and vows of rebellion

    [30:00]: Impact of vows on financial behavior

    [35:17]: Closing remarks

    Notable Quotes

    "When we feel unsafe with money, we're going to run away from money." "You want to get to a point where you are calm and have a regulated nervous system regardless of how much is in your account." "If your business depends on you being sound of mind and your team is depending on you to keep it together, you need to know how to regulate your nervous system." "Most of us are behaving with money from a point of view of a four-year-old or a 16-year-old." "We all have a different root cause to our debt."Additional money trauma resources:

    One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching

    Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic

    7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training

    Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

  • In this episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile talks to Bishal Sarkar, the highest-paid public speaking coach in India.

    Bishal discussing how being the first millionaire in his family changed family dynamics and how he plans to pass on healthy financial habits to the next generation.

    Bishal shares his inspiring story of rising from a middle-class background to becoming the first millionaire in his family. He discusses the challenges he faced, including bullying and a lack of self-confidence, and how he overcame them.

    Bishal emphasizes the importance of changing one's mindset and surroundings, practicing gratitude, and gradually increasing financial aspirations to achieve success.

    Bishal outlines three key principles that helped him significantly increase his income: money loves speed, money loves to be circulated, and money loves mission.

    He also highlights the importance of being mission-led rather than solely money-focused to attract opportunities and achieve financial freedom. Bishal shares a personal anecdote about how a mentor's challenge pushed him to raise his financial goals and achieve greater success.

    Contact Bishal:

    https://www.bishalsarkar.com/

    https://m.youtube.com/@BishalSarkarTheExcellenceGuy

    This is another insightful episode.

    Tune in!

    During this episode, you will learn about:

    [02:08] - Introduction to Bishal Sarkar

    [03:42] - Bishal's background, his upbringing in a middle-class family, and the challenges he faced

    [09:48] - The importance of speaking and money, and how his mindset about money shifted

    [14:28] - The importance of gratitude and the impact it had on his life

    [18:36] - Three major practices that helped Bishal gain confidence and overcome self-doubt

    [23:06] - Bishal's experience with changing his surroundings and the impact of proximity to successful individuals

    [28:59] - The three principles that helped Bishal go from earning $40,000 a year to $40,000 a month.

    [36:29] - How achieving financial success impacted Bishal's family and how he dealt with their reactions

    [44:29] - Passing on financial wisdom and ensuring it benefits future generations.

    [56:22] - Contact Bishal

    Notable Quotes

    "Money loves speed. Money loves to be circulated. Money loves mission." "If money doesn't come in the hands of good people, it will reach the hands of bad people." "It's not what you leave for your children, it's what you leave in your children." "Be a millionaire, not for the million of dollars, but be a millionaire for what it will make of you." "Don't preach about being a great man, be an example of what a great man can be." "Whenever God wants to give you a gift, he will wrap it up in insult and challenges." Additional money trauma resources:

    One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching

    Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic

    7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training

    Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

  • In this episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast Vangile introduces Karen Bernetti, who shares her expertise on dealing with addiction and its impact on family dynamics and financial trauma. Karen's work focuses on helping families affected by addiction through yoga, meditation, and mindfulness.

    Karen's journey began with Al-Anon, a 12-step fellowship for families of those struggling with alcohol addiction. She explains how living with someone who has an addiction can lead to various psychological issues like anxiety, depression, and codependency.

    Karen emphasizes that families often become enablers or try to control the situation, which only exacerbates the problem. To break the cycle, she suggests mindfulness practices and seeking support through groups like Al-Anon.

    Karen also delves into the financial impact of addiction on families, sharing her personal experience of divorce and the ensuing custody battle.

    She describes how addiction can lead to financial instability, legal issues, and increased stress. Her story highlights the importance of addressing financial trauma and finding ways to heal and rebuild one's life after such experiences.

    To aid in healing, Karen recommends mindfulness practices such as yoga and meditation, which have been transformative in her own life.

    Contact Karen:

    https://mindfulfamilyrecovery.com/

    https://serenitycircle.co/

    This is another insightful episode.

    Tune in!

    During this episode, you will learn about:

    [02:08] - Introduction to today's guest, Karen Banetti

    [04:50] - Karen shares her work with addiction and family impact

    [05:11] - Karen's journey starting with Al-Anon

    [06:48] - Challenges with her husband's alcoholism

    [09:41] - Learning about generational alcoholism

    [11:06] - Discovering yoga and Nikki Myers' Yoga of 12-Step Recovery

    [13:20] - Psychological implications of living with addiction

    [17:18] - Long-term effects of living with addiction

    [20:11] - How addiction changes family dynamics

    [26:19] - Codependency and enabling behaviors

    [28:47] - Breaking the cycle of being the controlling one

    [31:10] - Finding individual paths to healing

    [34:18] - Financial trauma related to addiction

    [41:46] - Financial insecurity and money trauma

    [45:00] - Financial trauma from divorce and co-parenting challenges

    [50:48] - Personal emotional breakdown and healing journey

    [55:31] - Three ways mindfulness, yoga, and meditation helped

    [01:05:19] - Different forms of yoga and personal preferences

    [01:06:22] - How to reach out to Karen and work with her

    Notable Quotes

    "I'm someone who has been through hell and back in my life, and I'm very passionate about turning my pain into purpose." "We don't want to talk about addiction because we think addiction is a moral failing." "I travelled a rough road, and I know and I feel called to share what I've experienced so that hopefully people don't make many of the mistakes that I made." "Our mind can only be in two places, in the past or the future. If it's in the past, it's very often depressed." "The fastest way to come into the present moment is through the body. And the fastest way to come into the body is through the breath."Additional money trauma resources:

    One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching

    Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic

    7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training

    Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

  • In this week's episode of the Money Magic Podcast Vangile sits down with Nolitha Sinaba, a student from the Money Magic course, who shares her journey of financial transformation. Nolitha is a businesswoman managing a pig farm and in this episode she discusses how the course helped her understand the deeper, intergenerational aspects of money and trauma.

    She recounts her own struggles with budgeting and debt, and how she came to realize that her financial issues were rooted in more than just numbers—they were deeply tied to family dynamics and ancestral trauma. Nolitha's experience underscores the importance of addressing these underlying issues to achieve financial stability.

    Nolitha also talks about the importance of teaching her children about money management and generational wealth.

    She explains how she started having open conversations with her children about investments, savings, and financial planning, which has helped them become more financially savvy.

    Her story highlights the impact of breaking the cycle of financial ignorance and trauma, and the importance of modeling good financial habits for the next generation.

    This is another insightful episode.

    Tune in!

    During this episode, you will learn about:

    [02:08]: Introduction to Nolitha

    [03:17]: Nolitha as a soul

    [07:49]: How can you explain the concept of money to an alien?

    [10:38]: Starting to work at 22 and learning to budget

    [14:51]: Not talking about budgets in our networks

    [18:46]: The shame of not sticking to a budget

    [24:23]: Expectations when coming into the Money Magic course

    [26:55]: Talking to children about money

    [32:08]: Generational curses and generational blessings

    [35:39]: Nolitha’s experience of the Money Magic course

    [40:17]: Dealing with self sabotage

    [44:27]: Buying a farm and becoming a pig farmer

    [50:09]: Nolitha’s income ad savings shifts from the Money Magic course

    [55:03]: Three lessons that shifted things for Nolitha

    [01:01:09]: Contact Nolitha

    Notable Quotes

    “I'm a student of life. I seek to know deeper truths." “For me, I have an understanding that we are deeper than our Christian identification." "If you do not understand your lineage, you can never understand who you are and where you are going." "I think one of the things that slavery and Apartheid, and probably to some extent, religion did, was to disconnect us to our history." "The pie is big enough for all of us. I cannot have this information and say, I need it to work for me also, but I can help others to achieve even way better than what I've done."Additional money trauma resources:

    One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching

    Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic

    7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training

    Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

  • In this week's episode of the Money Magic Podcast Vangile shares a masterclass she did on understanding and breaking through money blocks. She discusses her work, including her books "Heart, Mind, and Money" and "What's Your Money Personality?" and her journal "Next Level, You, Woman, Money Journal."

    She explains how her journey towards financial freedom and emotional intelligence led her to deeper insights into how emotions and ancestral memories are stored in the body. Her work incorporates elements of Tantra yoga, which she studied in India, and focuses on understanding and healing emotional and ancestral traumas related to money.

    Throughout the class Vangile emphasizes the importance of understanding one's relationship with money and how it is influenced by family dynamics and inherited money stories. She explains how trauma can be passed down through generations and how it impacts financial behaviors. She shares examples of how her clients have benefited from her teachings, including paying off debts, increasing their savings, and making better financial decisions. She also highlights the significance of nervous system regulation and breaking free from family money stories to achieve financial freedom.

    This is another insightful episode.

    Tune in!

    During this episode, you will learn about:

    [03:13]: Journey to Becoming Debt-Free and Tantra Yoga Certification

    [06:05]: Understanding Ancestral Money Trauma

    [09:05]: Impact of Financial Education and Personal Finance Strategies

    [13:20]: Audience Testimonials and Experiences

    [16:26]: Celebrating Small Financial Wins

    [19:22]: The Concept of Money as a Lover

    [22:49]: Intergenerational Trauma and Nervous System Dysregulation

    [24:08]: Setting Financial Boundaries Within Families

    [30:05]: Black Tax and Family Financial Responsibilities

    [34:07]: Regulated and Unregulated Nervous Systems

    [39:35]: Money Archetypes and Family Money Stories

    [46:25]: Repeating Family Financial behaviors

    [50:25]: Fear of Losing Love and Setting Boundaries

    [58:57]: Loyalty to Family Financial Struggles

    [01:03:03]: Vow of Invisibility and Playing Small

    [01:07:43]: Impact of over giving on Financial Health

    [01:11:55]: Vow of Service in Business and Career

    [01:18:49]: Overview of the Money Magic Course

    [01:23:03]: Coaching and Support in the Money Magic Course

    [01:25:58]: How to Sign Up for the Money Magic Course

    [01:29:09]: Audience Questions and Comments

    [01:39:33]: Summary and Conclusion

    Notable Quotes

    “We actually carry a lot of our ancestors' memories within us, good and bad. We carry trauma and we carry wisdom.”“When you show up for money, money also shows up for you.""Our nervous system regulation is definitely impacted by how our caregivers reacted around money.""When we start to heal and we start to release the fear of losing love, we start to give ourselves permission to be seen.""We learn to protect ourselves by being unseen, by hiding ourselves. Our talents become the best kept secret."Additional money trauma resources:

    One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching

    Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic

    7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training

    Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

  • In this week's episode of the Money Magic Podcast Vangile sits down with Jo Ntsebeza to talk about sobriety and living life alcohol free and how we use alcohol to numb ourselves so we don’t feel anything. Jo shares her expertise on various subjects, including creativity, writing, healthy eating, and veganism.

    Jo recounts her struggle with alcohol, detailing how it affected her life and relationships. She explains that her drinking was linked to social anxiety and how quitting alcohol was not an instantaneous decision but a gradual realization spurred by several turning points. She emphasizes that while the decision to quit was hers, the support from her friends was crucial in her journey toward sobriety.

    The discussion delves into the practical steps she took to cope with the challenges of quitting alcohol, such as engaging in activities like karate, which helped her quit smoking and rebuild her self-esteem. Jo also highlights the importance of meditation, community support, and the concept of reverence for oneself and life. She shares her experience with the Fresh Start program, which she created to help others find new ways to feel alive and build a positive life without reliance on substances.

    Contact Jo at: https://voicetovisibility.com/ and https://web.facebook.com/jo.hazelhurst

    This is another insightful episode.

    Tune in!

    During this episode, you will learn about:

    [02:08]: Introduction to Jo

    [03:57]: Jo's Journey to Sobriety

    [10:10]: Challenges and Support in Sobriety

    [18:07]: Impact on Relationships and Self-Perception

    [24:43]: Coping Mechanisms and Fresh Start Programme

    [31:31]: Reflections on Meditation and Yoga

    [36:53]: Final Thoughts on Sobriety and Professional Life

    [49:10]: Advice for Someone Considering Quitting Alcohol

    [52:27]: How to Continue Evolving on the Sobriety Journey

    [55:21]: How to Reach Jo and About Voice to Visibility

    [59:46]: Closing Remarks and Outro

    Notable Quotes

    "What does it mean to be alive? What does it mean to want to be alive? And that feels like that journey has never ended.""I drank because it made me brave, because inside I didn't feel brave and I struggled to be in the world."“One of the reasons, it's not the only reason, but one of the reasons that my life was such a mess was because of the role that alcohol played in it.""Relationships are everything. The biggest triggers for using any substance is relationship." "I'm a pessimist. I tend to think of the worst, and I make an active thing to say, Think something else, don't think that. That has really helped me a lot."Additional money trauma resources:

    One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching

    Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic

    7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training

    Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

  • In this week's episode Vangile talks about the God Wound and her personal experiences and insights from her own journey, highlighting how she discovered her anger and resentment towards the Divine. She recounts how her intense efforts in spiritual practices, such as chanting and EFT tapping, were often driven by a subconscious desire to prove the unfairness of the Divine.

    This internal conflict created resistance to financial success and personal expansion. Through deep inner work and meditations, she uncovered vows she had made to highlight her suffering and prove the divine's unfairness, which were major blocks to her financial growth.

    She also discusses research that supports the impact of trauma on religious beliefs and practices, noting how external threats and communal sacrifices can strengthen religious bonds and resilience.

    She explores the idea that suffering is often seen as sacred and how this belief can hinder financial success and personal joy. She challenges the notion that divinity requires suffering and suggests that a relationship with the divine can be based on joy, expansion, and love instead.

    This is another insightful episode.

    Tune in!

    During this episode, you will learn about:

    [02:19]: Introduction to the podcast, host, and today's topic (The God Wound)

    [04:00]: Explanation of the God Wound, its relation to childhood and ancestral trauma

    [07:04]: Personal journey and insights from journal entries and meditations

    [10:03]: Experiences with income fluctuations and realizations about resistance to financial growth

    [11:23]: Description of EFT tapping and a breakthrough meditation experience

    [14:39]: Impact of trauma on perception of divinity and how it influences financial decisions

    [24:06]: How the God Wound affects finances, income, investments, and savings

    [32:48]: Readings from personal journal entries and reflections on the God Wound meditation

    [40:11]: Presentation of research studies on religion, trauma, and their interplay

    [50:32] Final reflections on healing the God Wound and its importance

    [59:23] Conclusion and invitation to share thoughts and experiences

    Notable Quotes

    “The God wound has to do with our own sense of divinity and how we relate to the divine.”“At the core of the God wound is the belief that no matter what I do, nothing will work out for me. I am not loved by the divine. I am not favoured by the divine.”“If we grew up believing we need to be something or do something to get love from our parents, this is how we will approach our relationship with the divine.”“You cannot tell another person how to worship, how to have faith, how to display faith, because you're not in someone's heart."“What if my relationship with the divine was shaped by how much expansion I could have, how much joy I could allow in, how much love I could allow in?Additional money trauma resources:

    One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching

    Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic

    7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training

    Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

  • In this episode of the Money Magic Podcast, Vangile sits down with Nontobeko Zwane, a student of the Money Magic course. Nontobeko shares her transformative money journey and highlights the significant impact the course has had on her life, particularly in helping her build a stronger relationship with her daughter. Through the course, she has realized the importance of rest, self-care, and understanding her true identity beyond her professional roles.

    Nontobeko also talks about her previous struggles with money and how she used to spend money to gain acceptance and constantly worried about running out of money. However, since starting the course, she has learned to enjoy her money and has implemented systems to secure a stable future for herself and her daughter. These changes have brought her peace of mind, allowing her to relax and enjoy life without the constant stress of financial worries.

    She also shares her experience of manifesting a new job that aligns with her desire for a better work-life balance. She describes how this opportunity has provided her with flexible hours, better pay, and more quality time to spend with her daughter.

    This new job allows her to rest, enjoy her life, and continue her personal growth journey. She encourages others to connect with her on social media for further discussions on topics like working abroad, raising a special needs child, and more.

    Contact Nontobeko on:

    Facebook: https://web.facebook.com/nontobeko.sihlwayi Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/motsotuoa/

    This is another insightful episode.

    Tune in!

    During this episode, you will learn about:

    [03:20] Introduction and background

    [05:32] Discussion on self-identity

    [07:08] Nontobeko’s professional background

    [08:18] Connection to nature and family background

    [10:11] Understanding money relationships

    [18:05] Discovery of the Money Magic course

    [22:58] Aha moments from the Money Magic course

    [24:27] Impact on family and healing ancestral trauma

    [27:12] Changes in relationship with money

    [31:14] Importance of having fun with money

    [35:15] Systems in place for financial security

    [37:47] Calmness around financial stability

    [42:39] Self-discipline vs. inner work

    [46:14] Manifesting an ideal job

    [54:37] - The ease of the new job and its benefits

    [01:00:17] - Closing remarks and how to contact Nontobeko

    Notable Quotes

    "I never knew that one has a relationship. There is a thing called a relationship, having a relationship with money." "I used money to buy acceptance.""Fun is foreign. I'm only learning now in my adulthood that it's okay to have fun.""I'm happy to say I've got a family trust for my child that I've done, thanks to your guidance.""I've got more time for myself, for my family, for my daughter. It's just easy."Additional money trauma resources:

    One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching

    Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic

    7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training

    Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

  • In this episode of the Money Magic Podcast, Vangile introduces the concept of the "God Wound," a term she coined to describe a deep-seated inability to trust and surrender to the divine, which affects financial growth and decision-making.

    She explains that this wound is not about religious trauma but rather about the relationship individuals have with their inner divinity and the broader concept of divinity, which can impact their financial set points.

    She shares her personal journey of uncovering and healing her God Wound, which included ancestral memories of loss and deep-seated beliefs that nothing would work out for her, affecting her ability to take risks and grow her business.

    This work led to significant financial breakthroughs, including an increase in her business income from $2,500 to $8,000 a month.

    Vangile describes how her healing process involved meditation, EFT tapping, and conversations with her ancestors to understand and release these limiting beliefs.

    She emphasizes that healing the God Wound allows individuals to open up to the universe's support and trust in their own divinity, leading to greater financial abundance and personal growth.

    This is another insightful episode.

    Tune in!

    During this episode, you will learn about:

    [02:08] Introduction to the topic: The God Wound

    [03:35] Defining the God Wound

    [06:28] Journey to developing the God Wound

    [11:52] Moving to Chiang Mai and focusing on increasing income

    [14:59] The ancestral belief system and its impact on financial growth

    [16:08] The relationship with the divine and its impact on personal beliefs

    [18:50] Energetic blocks and their relation to the God Wound

    [22:48] Personal childhood experiences and their impact on financial beliefs

    [24:21] The God Wound's effect on taking risks and innovation

    [26:51] Healing the relationship with the divine and oneself

    [29:30] The fear of making money and the belief that money is evil

    [34:01] The impact of the God Wound on business growth

    [37:11] Healing ancestral trauma and its impact on future generations

    [38:48] Invitation to explore the God Wound and the Money Magic course

    [42:00] Conclusion

    Notable Quotes

    “How we see ourselves, how we experience ourselves, that has sometimes been fractured through abuse, through betrayal, and we start to doubt ourselves and start to forget our own divinity.”"Who do you blame for the unfairness of life and how unfair things have been for you and your family?""My theory is that the God wound shows up as an inability to trust and surrender.""When we heal in this moment, we heal seven generations backward and we heal seven generations forward.""Understand the power of your own thoughts and understand the power of your own emotions, the power of taking accountability
”Additional money trauma resources:

    One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching

    Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic

    7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training

    Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/